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By *eddonistik OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Why hide your profile but look at others? Maybe I'm too easy going about fucking with strangers for fun? Possibly me at fault?

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Any number of reasons....

Free time fully booked, taking time out due to life in general blah blah blah.....you get the idea...

Saves people looking and messaging, only to be told....Sorry, you will just have to wait

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By *eddonistik OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"Any number of reasons....

Free time fully booked, taking time out due to life in general blah blah blah.....you get the idea...

Saves people looking and messaging, only to be told....Sorry, you will just have to wait

"

Follow that but why even bother looking? Either shit or get off the pot!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any number of reasons....

Free time fully booked, taking time out due to life in general blah blah blah.....you get the idea...

Saves people looking and messaging, only to be told....Sorry, you will just have to wait

Follow that but why even bother looking? Either shit or get off the pot!!!"

Why not , I'm not meeting but still like to look at profiles mainly those that use the forums. I like stealth mode though as it stops some people getting shirty cos I dare look at their public profile. Wanna know how many times I've looked at yours ?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Any number of reasons....

Free time fully booked, taking time out due to life in general blah blah blah.....you get the idea...

Saves people looking and messaging, only to be told....Sorry, you will just have to wait

Follow that but why even bother looking? Either shit or get off the pot!!!"

Charming!!

Do you buy everything you look at in a shop?

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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago

Rockford


"Any number of reasons....

Free time fully booked, taking time out due to life in general blah blah blah.....you get the idea...

Saves people looking and messaging, only to be told....Sorry, you will just have to wait

Follow that but why even bother looking? Either shit or get off the pot!!!

Why not , I'm not meeting but still like to look at profiles mainly those that use the forums. I like stealth mode though as it stops some people getting shirty cos I dare look at their public profile. Wanna know how many times I've looked at yours ? "

literally made me laugh out loud

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why hide your profile but look at others? Maybe I'm too easy going about fucking with strangers for fun? Possibly me at fault? "

We work on the principle that if something is being hidden it is being hidden for a reason so pass on by.

We also use the stealth mode, not sure it's truly in the spirit of openess which is what this is supposed to be all about but as its there we do use it.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"

Follow that but why even bother looking? Either shit or get off the pot!!!"

I prefer to look in the pot first before shitting....

I dont just do it anywhere!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We hid ours for a few months, a the wife was dealing with a sick friend, and didn't have the time or energy to play. I still enjoyed looking.

In retrospect, I suppose I could have just changed the text to reflect this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why hide your profile but look at others? Maybe I'm too easy going about fucking with strangers for fun? Possibly me at fault?

We work on the principle that if something is being hidden it is being hidden for a reason so pass on by.

We also use the stealth mode, not sure it's truly in the spirit of openess which is what this is supposed to be all about but as its there we do use it."

so, using your principal, people should avoid yourselves as you are being hidden also?

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford


" Either shit or get off the pot!!!

"

My new favourite saying

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

some people prefer to only contact those that they are interested in and to avoid loads of messages will hide their profile. But I think that if you want to look at others it really is only fair that they in their turn should be able to look at you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any number of reasons....

Free time fully booked, taking time out due to life in general blah blah blah.....you get the idea...

Saves people looking and messaging, only to be told....Sorry, you will just have to wait

Follow that but why even bother looking? Either shit or get off the pot!!!

Why not , I'm not meeting but still like to look at profiles mainly those that use the forums. I like stealth mode though as it stops some people getting shirty cos I dare look at their public profile. Wanna know how many times I've looked at yours ? "

Hehe luv you Ms Moody you make me smile on here every day please never leave xx

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

I think if someone looks at your profile and doesnt get in touch you should get over it and assume they didnt like what they saw...........

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By *eddonistik OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"Any number of reasons....

Free time fully booked, taking time out due to life in general blah blah blah.....you get the idea...

Saves people looking and messaging, only to be told....Sorry, you will just have to wait

Follow that but why even bother looking? Either shit or get off the pot!!!

Why not , I'm not meeting but still like to look at profiles mainly those that use the forums. I like stealth mode though as it stops some people getting shirty cos I dare look at their public profile. Wanna know how many times I've looked at yours ? "

Well I don't remember seeing you listed in 'looked at me.'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any number of reasons....

Free time fully booked, taking time out due to life in general blah blah blah.....you get the idea...

Saves people looking and messaging, only to be told....Sorry, you will just have to wait

Follow that but why even bother looking? Either shit or get off the pot!!!

Why not , I'm not meeting but still like to look at profiles mainly those that use the forums. I like stealth mode though as it stops some people getting shirty cos I dare look at their public profile. Wanna know how many times I've looked at yours ?

Well I don't remember seeing you listed in 'looked at me.'"

What part of "stealth mode" don't you get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why hide your profile but look at others? Maybe I'm too easy going about fucking with strangers for fun? Possibly me at fault?

We work on the principle that if something is being hidden it is being hidden for a reason so pass on by.

We also use the stealth mode, not sure it's truly in the spirit of openess which is what this is supposed to be all about but as its there we do use it.

so, using your principal, people should avoid yourselves as you are being hidden also?"

As no one could possibly know we use the 'don't show we looked function' we don't see it as a problem.

Experience has shown us that looking can court unwanted attention so we choose to use that facility.

In our defence we are not using any filters and we don't hide veri's, friends lists etc so we think we are being as open and honest as we can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any number of reasons....

Free time fully booked, taking time out due to life in general blah blah blah.....you get the idea...

Saves people looking and messaging, only to be told....Sorry, you will just have to wait

Follow that but why even bother looking? Either shit or get off the pot!!!

Why not , I'm not meeting but still like to look at profiles mainly those that use the forums. I like stealth mode though as it stops some people getting shirty cos I dare look at their public profile. Wanna know how many times I've looked at yours ?

Well I don't remember seeing you listed in 'looked at me.'

What part of "stealth mode" don't you get "

Maybe he is unaware of that handy little feature

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think if someone looks at your profile and doesnt get in touch you should get over it and assume they didnt like what they saw..........."

We found the opposite to occasionally be problematic, we look, they assume we like what we saw and they make the first contact.........

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"I think if someone looks at your profile and doesnt get in touch you should get over it and assume they didnt like what they saw...........

We found the opposite to occasionally be problematic, we look, they assume we like what we saw and they make the first contact......... "

That is the only reason I moved to stealth mode

Got sick of "Saw you looking" messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any number of reasons....

Free time fully booked, taking time out due to life in general blah blah blah.....you get the idea...

Saves people looking and messaging, only to be told....Sorry, you will just have to wait

Follow that but why even bother looking? Either shit or get off the pot!!!

Why not , I'm not meeting but still like to look at profiles mainly those that use the forums. I like stealth mode though as it stops some people getting shirty cos I dare look at their public profile. Wanna know how many times I've looked at yours ?

Well I don't remember seeing you listed in 'looked at me.'

What part of "stealth mode" don't you get

Maybe he is unaware of that handy little feature "

That's as maybe but I think the word stealth sort of speaks for its self.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think if someone looks at your profile and doesnt get in touch you should get over it and assume they didnt like what they saw...........

We found the opposite to occasionally be problematic, we look, they assume we like what we saw and they make the first contact.........

That is the only reason I moved to stealth mode

Got sick of "Saw you looking" messages "

That's why I did it as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any number of reasons....

Free time fully booked, taking time out due to life in general blah blah blah.....you get the idea...

Saves people looking and messaging, only to be told....Sorry, you will just have to wait

Follow that but why even bother looking? Either shit or get off the pot!!!"

I like to look at profiles of people who make crap threads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any number of reasons....

Free time fully booked, taking time out due to life in general blah blah blah.....you get the idea...

Saves people looking and messaging, only to be told....Sorry, you will just have to wait

Follow that but why even bother looking? Either shit or get off the pot!!!

Why not , I'm not meeting but still like to look at profiles mainly those that use the forums. I like stealth mode though as it stops some people getting shirty cos I dare look at their public profile. Wanna know how many times I've looked at yours ?

Well I don't remember seeing you listed in 'looked at me.'

What part of "stealth mode" don't you get

Maybe he is unaware of that handy little feature

That's as maybe but I think the word stealth sort of speaks for its self. "

In the context of totally hiding your profile or simply hiding the fact you have looked which seem to be quite different maybe it would best to ask

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By *eddonistik OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"Any number of reasons....

Free time fully booked, taking time out due to life in general blah blah blah.....you get the idea...

Saves people looking and messaging, only to be told....Sorry, you will just have to wait

Follow that but why even bother looking? Either shit or get off the pot!!!

Why not , I'm not meeting but still like to look at profiles mainly those that use the forums. I like stealth mode though as it stops some people getting shirty cos I dare look at their public profile. Wanna know how many times I've looked at yours ?

Well I don't remember seeing you listed in 'looked at me.'

What part of "stealth mode" don't you get

Maybe he is unaware of that handy little feature

That's as maybe but I think the word stealth sort of speaks for its self. "

To be honest I didn't know there was such a feature, useful to know thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any number of reasons....

Free time fully booked, taking time out due to life in general blah blah blah.....you get the idea...

Saves people looking and messaging, only to be told....Sorry, you will just have to wait

Follow that but why even bother looking? Either shit or get off the pot!!!

Why not , I'm not meeting but still like to look at profiles mainly those that use the forums. I like stealth mode though as it stops some people getting shirty cos I dare look at their public profile. Wanna know how many times I've looked at yours ?

Well I don't remember seeing you listed in 'looked at me.'

What part of "stealth mode" don't you get

Maybe he is unaware of that handy little feature

That's as maybe but I think the word stealth sort of speaks for its self.

To be honest I didn't know there was such a feature, useful to know thanks"

Imagine my smile at this moment in time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some profiles are much sexier when they are hidden.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"some profiles are much sexier when they are hidden. "

That is a facility you also have available to you

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

We hide our profile sometimes if we are having a break...hidden profiles really dont bother me ..i just move onto another one that isnt hidden

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any number of reasons....

Free time fully booked, taking time out due to life in general blah blah blah.....you get the idea...

Saves people looking and messaging, only to be told....Sorry, you will just have to wait

Follow that but why even bother looking? Either shit or get off the pot!!!

Why not , I'm not meeting but still like to look at profiles mainly those that use the forums. I like stealth mode though as it stops some people getting shirty cos I dare look at their public profile. Wanna know how many times I've looked at yours ?

Well I don't remember seeing you listed in 'looked at me.'

What part of "stealth mode" don't you get

Maybe he is unaware of that handy little feature

That's as maybe but I think the word stealth sort of speaks for its self.

To be honest I didn't know there was such a feature, useful to know thanks"

Very welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any number of reasons....

Free time fully booked, taking time out due to life in general blah blah blah.....you get the idea...

Saves people looking and messaging, only to be told....Sorry, you will just have to wait

Follow that but why even bother looking? Either shit or get off the pot!!!

Why not , I'm not meeting but still like to look at profiles mainly those that use the forums. I like stealth mode though as it stops some people getting shirty cos I dare look at their public profile. Wanna know how many times I've looked at yours ?

Well I don't remember seeing you listed in 'looked at me.'

What part of "stealth mode" don't you get

Maybe he is unaware of that handy little feature

That's as maybe but I think the word stealth sort of speaks for its self.

To be honest I didn't know there was such a feature, useful to know thanks

Imagine my smile at this moment in time "

I'd rather not thank you all the same.

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By *eddonistik OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"Any number of reasons....

Free time fully booked, taking time out due to life in general blah blah blah.....you get the idea...

Saves people looking and messaging, only to be told....Sorry, you will just have to wait

Follow that but why even bother looking? Either shit or get off the pot!!!

Why not , I'm not meeting but still like to look at profiles mainly those that use the forums. I like stealth mode though as it stops some people getting shirty cos I dare look at their public profile. Wanna know how many times I've looked at yours ?

Well I don't remember seeing you listed in 'looked at me.'

What part of "stealth mode" don't you get

Maybe he is unaware of that handy little feature

That's as maybe but I think the word stealth sort of speaks for its self.

To be honest I didn't know there was such a feature, useful to know thanks

Imagine my smile at this moment in time "

Great to know I don't have to upset or disappoint anyone in future

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village


"Any number of reasons....

Free time fully booked, taking time out due to life in general blah blah blah.....you get the idea...

Saves people looking and messaging, only to be told....Sorry, you will just have to wait

"

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