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By *RYBBW OP   Couple
over a year ago

Leeds.

Suddenly stop messaging when they find out we're both here or just Andy ?

If I (Jackie) am replying to messages I get the usual "fancy the best fuck you'll ever have" type messages with monotanous cock pics attatched and requests to meet alone. But if the male asks who's here and it's both of us or just Andy they suddenly vanish. Gone. No more. But they're still online.

We get the imession some males treat couples as if they are a single woman and are not interested in the whole package.

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By *oveSlutForUseCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

Oh day in day out we get emails that are clearly written by a single guy with one hand on his cock who has convinced himself he's writing to the female even when our profile states I, the male, pick up the emails.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are they breaking any rules?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I think a lot of members are chancers, and really just want to play with single women. The fact that this site is for swingers is a little beyond them, so they look to find any loop-hole that they can - such as trying to find the female from a couple, for a 1on1 meet etc.

There are the fantasists, cock in hand, as others have said above too.

If you find it's unverified users who do this, then block them, if you haven't already done so: my guess is that you've done this, but thought I'd add it, as others might not have.

For some, they're just looking for simple sex and they will try to mislead, about being interested in couples, socials, clubs etc, in order to get some titillation or shags. They'd - and we also - would be better off if they weren't here.

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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago

Currently Faraway


"Suddenly stop messaging when they find out we're both here or just Andy ?

If I (Jackie) am replying to messages I get the usual "fancy the best fuck you'll ever have" type messages with monotanous cock pics attatched and requests to meet alone. But if the male asks who's here and it's both of us or just Andy they suddenly vanish. Gone. No more. But they're still online.

We get the imession some males treat couples as if they are a single woman and are not interested in the whole package."

Some of us are nice though...you just gotta look a bit harder to find us

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By *RYBBW OP   Couple
over a year ago

Leeds.


"Are they breaking any rules?"

No, and that was not we infered. But they must be bloody lonely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We (on the couples profile) get messages from guys addressed to just Fox all the time!

Oh the hours (ok - maybe just minutes!) of fun I have replying, thanking them for complementing my boobs/arse etc but letting them down gently that they really wouldn't want their head in my crotch!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We (on the couples profile) get messages from guys addressed to just Fox all the time!

Oh the hours (ok - maybe just minutes!) of fun I have replying, thanking them for complementing my boobs/arse etc but letting them down gently that they really wouldn't want their head in my crotch! "

Had a message from a guy on couples profile saying he'd love to go down on 'you'...didn't state who 'you' was though, but assuming he meant me rather than the fb. Was tempted to reply with 'sorry but he's straight' but think the sarcasm may have been misinterpreted as a genuine response!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh day in day out we get emails that are clearly written by a single guy with one hand on his cock who has convinced himself he's writing to the female even when our profile states I, the male, pick up the emails."

fancy a shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lets look at it this way, all groups do it...as ever, it just so happens more single males are on site, so in that group its more common.

Now if u understood the barriers to communication some people have, they can easily be given better direction.Think about it for a second really:

they dont message the male have to say "can I fuck ur hot wife"- that would be disrespectful to the wife and the husband possibly accepting that would also be disrespecting his wife too

so they indeed do talk to the female half in msgs more than they would like to the male half...fucking obvious most of the time when its a straight male mailing isnt it?

my advice? try using a little bit of leeway to whoever msgs, as it happens some people come across shite in their messages at first, but are much better on the meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i always prefer to chat with both together as i,m looking for a couple not a single female i also state that i am married have heard from couples that most single men turn out to be married anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We (on the couples profile) get messages from guys addressed to just Fox all the time!

Oh the hours (ok - maybe just minutes!) of fun I have replying, thanking them for complementing my boobs/arse etc but letting them down gently that they really wouldn't want their head in my crotch! "

I occasionally venture in to chat on a night. One night a guy messaged me and was complimenting "my" arse (I guess he had seen the pictures of crystal's arse on our profile) and describing in great detail how he would love to rim it. I played along and after a few minutes asked whether he was imagining licking my balls. Judging by the abuse I got, I think it's safe to say I pu him off his stroke...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i always prefer to chat with both together as i,m looking for a couple not a single female i also state that i am married have heard from couples that most single men turn out to be married anyway "

couples that accept a guy who can visit for lets say limited time, are as idiotic as those that end up finding out theyve been dating a man who can only meet lunchtimes midweek...

proper single men get such a fucking tarring sometime lol

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes


"We (on the couples profile) get messages from guys addressed to just Fox all the time!

Oh the hours (ok - maybe just minutes!) of fun I have replying, thanking them for complementing my boobs/arse etc but letting them down gently that they really wouldn't want their head in my crotch!

I occasionally venture in to chat on a night. One night a guy messaged me and was complimenting "my" arse (I guess he had seen the pictures of crystal's arse on our profile) and describing in great detail how he would love to rim it. I played along and after a few minutes asked whether he was imagining licking my balls. Judging by the abuse I got, I think it's safe to say I pu him off his stroke... "

PMSL. That amused me immensely

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