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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When a couple has one attractive and one not.

Just wondered other peoples opinions ,would you still swap?

Not talking from experience here, just wondered.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Turn the lights off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take one for the team

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Turn the lights off? "

Not an option for us, we're too visual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No we wouldn't but don't play with couples really but the point being never would take one for the team,

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No we wouldn't but don't play with couples really but the point being never would take one for the team, "

Lol,, not even sure what "take one for the team" means?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Have seen a few in a club situation say no way...

Few hours and a few sherbets later...

A different tale.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Take one for the team "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No we wouldn't but don't play with couples really but the point being never would take one for the team,

Lol,, not even sure what "take one for the team" means? "

A phrase used on here meaning play for the sake of it, no attraction just make do type thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have seen a few in a club situation say no way...

Few hours and a few sherbets later...

A different tale."

Typical man then eh ? Lol

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"Have seen a few in a club situation say no way...

Few hours and a few sherbets later...

A different tale.

Typical man then eh ? Lol"

No I was working behind the bar

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By *ureBadnessCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

This is not an option for us!!... It's all about quality for both of us... Just the thought of that scenario is a passion killer..

We have encountered the situation many times in clubs and at house parties where couples have one hottie but the partner is not so attractive which means no play... Which is why we find and enjoy threesomes so much more...

Even finding a hot guy can be troublesome but not as difficult as finding a couple who meet our preferences...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We need to have some attraction or its a no go for us x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you dont fancy someone... why would anyone shag them?

Surely some respect for yourself and the other person is needed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

opposites attract, short tall, fat thin, bright, dull etc etc, beauty is as close as the light switch

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

I will admit im going more for looks nowdays

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

It's all about how we all get on, beauty is more than skin deep.....pardon the cliche. But there has to be some attraction or it doesn't work. It just so happens just because someone is a "hottie" doesn't mean that they are attractive to us as looks are only half of the deal.

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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago

portsmouth


"When a couple has one attractive and one not.

Just wondered other peoples opinions ,would you still swap?

Not talking from experience here, just wondered.

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nope what would be the point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you dont fancy someone... why would anyone shag them?

Surely some respect for yourself and the other person is needed?"

I was once in a club and a woman said, during a conversation with another woman, "oh I just close my eyes, if I don't like the look of them, pretend I am somewhere else"...to say my gasp was flabbered, is a HUGE understatement....takes all sorts, thankfully we don't all do, all sorts

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By *RYBBWCouple
over a year ago

Leeds.

Yes, everyone must be just perfect.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is why I wont meet couples going in solo. If I want to meet them then it will be in a club setting. Its not the case of one is more attractive than the other but I find it hard to click with both parties if you know what I mean.

But when the magic happens between all parties then it is just electric and fabulous x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its the difference between pictures on a screen and finding out what the couple is like in person.

how they are can be a lot more sexy than what their face looks like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its the difference between pictures on a screen and finding out what the couple is like in person.

how they are can be a lot more sexy than what their face looks like."

Thank you.

I know i dont have the looks to be called hot and was recently told to my face that i was too unattractive to fuck but my mate was ok to come in.

That hurts, let me tell you.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"When a couple has one attractive and one not.

Just wondered other peoples opinions ,would you still swap?

Not talking from experience here, just wondered.

"

I'm sure many do: just look at the number of couples seeking couples with only the wife on show.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"its the difference between pictures on a screen and finding out what the couple is like in person.

how they are can be a lot more sexy than what their face looks like.

Thank you.

I know i dont have the looks to be called hot and was recently told to my face that i was too unattractive to fuck but my mate was ok to come in.

That hurts, let me tell you."

That's why I always meet socially first. It allows either party to leave with dignity in tact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its the difference between pictures on a screen and finding out what the couple is like in person.

how they are can be a lot more sexy than what their face looks like.

Thank you.

I know i dont have the looks to be called hot and was recently told to my face that i was too unattractive to fuck but my mate was ok to come in.

That hurts, let me tell you.

That's why I always meet socially first. It allows either party to leave with dignity in tact. "

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have seen it a lot on here and in clubs.usually a hot woman and a bloke ,let's say not so hot.we pass them by.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive had this situation with groups of guys Im working through at clubs - often there will be one that just doesnt do it for me x I leave till last and say I'm tired/sore and cant do anymore x I just couldn't tell one guy in front of his mates he was too ugly etc xxx

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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago

Rockford


"its the difference between pictures on a screen and finding out what the couple is like in person.

how they are can be a lot more sexy than what their face looks like.

Thank you.

I know i dont have the looks to be called hot and was recently told to my face that i was too unattractive to fuck but my mate was ok to come in.

That hurts, let me tell you.

That's why I always meet socially first. It allows either party to leave with dignity in tact. "

yes this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some don't wish to like as may run off with them , If like too much. lol... Rear to meet a couple you both like in this. I know a club the rooms are so dark they just all pile in have sex ... Never been for me but some just don't care its sex to them . I can't lay back and think of England makes me feel yukkkkk so no I have to like .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im in such a couple( me being older, fatter, uglier than my partner) the thing is though that it kinda evens out

with my flamboyant nature and i think its only happened once where the couple didnt fancy me but did him, and for me at least he always fancies me! xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When a couple has one attractive and one not.

Just wondered other peoples opinions ,would you still swap?

Not talking from experience here, just wondered.

"

yes so long as it was the woman who was unattractive as I don't have to play with her and you never know all because I found her unattractive that does not mean my partner (if I had one) does

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By *esperatewifeWoman
over a year ago

Spalding


"its the difference between pictures on a screen and finding out what the couple is like in person.

how they are can be a lot more sexy than what their face looks like.

Thank you.

I know i dont have the looks to be called hot and was recently told to my face that i was too unattractive to fuck but my mate was ok to come in.

That hurts, let me tell you.

That's why I always meet socially first. It allows either party to leave with dignity in tact.

yes this "

Why do people think that rejection in a social meet situation is any less hurtful? It is still for the same reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

D is very fussy as she has a right to be.

I would shag a rolling doughnut though lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well, im quite happy to be the one thats batting above their average.

but its strange, cuz im not th ebest lookin guy in the world, hardly brad pitt or tom cruise, but my ex was a good looking woman too, so i must have something going for me lol

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"its the difference between pictures on a screen and finding out what the couple is like in person.

how they are can be a lot more sexy than what their face looks like.

Thank you.

I know i dont have the looks to be called hot and was recently told to my face that i was too unattractive to fuck but my mate was ok to come in.

That hurts, let me tell you.

That's why I always meet socially first. It allows either party to leave with dignity in tact.

yes this

Why do people think that rejection in a social meet situation is any less hurtful? It is still for the same reason."

The difference being I'm meeting during my lunch hour so even if the man looks like Quasimodo or thinks I look like Grotbags a coffee, chat and I'll be in touch doesn't cause offense.

Rocking up to someones house for them to look at you head to toe, say "hell to the no!!!" slam the door in your face on the other hand...

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