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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I signed up for this after a friend told me what great fun he had had on here, and that the community here (if it exists at all) was friendly and non judgemental. I have to say that after 6 months on here he was wrong.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

He's not wrong about having fun. I've had loads. But he is wrong about it being non-judgemental. Swingers aren't a new breed - they are people. And people judge.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I signed up for this after a friend told me what great fun he had had on here, and that the community here (if it exists at all) was friendly and non judgemental. I have to say that after 6 months on here he was wrong."

I am friendly, a little aloof but very judgemental.

I may have disappointed

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I signed up for this after a friend told me what great fun he had had on here, and that the community here (if it exists at all) was friendly and non judgemental. I have to say that after 6 months on here he was wrong.

I am friendly, a little aloof but very judgemental.

I may have disappointed "

I'll be keeping an eye on you at the social. Any judging and there will be....words!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Well, your profile isn't exactly selling itself is it?

Two lines and no pics, why would I want to contact you?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I signed up for this after a friend told me what great fun he had had on here, and that the community here (if it exists at all) was friendly and non judgemental. I have to say that after 6 months on here he was wrong.

I am friendly, a little aloof but very judgemental.

I may have disappointed

I'll be keeping an eye on you at the social. Any judging and there will be....words! "

I will try, I promise

but mismatched outfits brings out the worst in me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is your friend still here having fun?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I signed up for this after a friend told me what great fun he had had on here, and that the community here (if it exists at all) was friendly and non judgemental. I have to say that after 6 months on here he was wrong.

I am friendly, a little aloof but very judgemental.

I may have disappointed

I'll be keeping an eye on you at the social. Any judging and there will be....words!

I will try, I promise

but mismatched outfits brings out the worst in me.

"

Eeek!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I signed up for this after a friend told me what great fun he had had on here, and that the community here (if it exists at all) was friendly and non judgemental. I have to say that after 6 months on here he was wrong."

This website is not a community. Have you tried socials and/or clubs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I signed up for this after a friend told me what great fun he had had on here, and that the community here (if it exists at all) was friendly and non judgemental. I have to say that after 6 months on here he was wrong."

Can i ask what your expectations were when you joined?

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

Lots of people have lots of fun on here, you can usually tell these ones, they have a great profile, a couple of pics, and a few verifications.

A lot of people don't have any fun on here, you can usually tell these ones too, they have no pics, a 2 line profile, and no verifications.

As for the non-judgmental community, that just doesn't exist anywhere. Swingers, nudists, sadomasochists, priests, we all judge someone.

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


" ...

A lot of people don't have any fun on here, you can usually tell these ones too, they have no pics, a 2 line profile, and no verifications.

......"

Or those could be the ones who don't feel the need to publicise what they're up to.

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend


" ...

A lot of people don't have any fun on here, you can usually tell these ones too, they have no pics, a 2 line profile, and no verifications.

......

Or those could be the ones who don't feel the need to publicise what they're up to."

Very true.... however, I've yet to see someone with a nicely filled out profile and decent pics complaining they aren't getting any fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Very true.... however, I've yet to see someone with a nicely filled out profile and decent pics complaining they aren't getting any fun. "

Not sure I'm far off that criteria and I'm getting nowhere but I won't be giving up yet :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" ...

A lot of people don't have any fun on here, you can usually tell these ones too, they have no pics, a 2 line profile, and no verifications.

......

Or those could be the ones who don't feel the need to publicise what they're up to."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging is a community, this website isn't, swinging is more than a website.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"I signed up for this after a friend told me what great fun he had had on here, and that the community here (if it exists at all) was friendly and non judgemental. I have to say that after 6 months on here he was wrong."

the community is going to be a fair representation of what goes on in vanilla-land.... but you still have to make of it what you make of it....

the site gives you a chance to make it work... up to you if you want to use all of them, some of them, or none of them.....

you can immerse yourself as much or as little as you like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lots of people have lots of fun on here, you can usually tell these ones, they have a great profile, a couple of pics, and a few verifications.

A lot of people don't have any fun on here, you can usually tell these ones too, they have no pics, a 2 line profile, and no verifications.

As for the non-judgmental community, that just doesn't exist anywhere. Swingers, nudists, sadomasochists, priests, we all judge someone."

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I think, OP, you need to think about your lack of photos and minimal profile: perhaps your friend has pics and a good profile? Put more effort in, you might get results. Minimal effort = zilch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I signed up for this after a friend told me what great fun he had had on here, and that the community here (if it exists at all) was friendly and non judgemental. I have to say that after 6 months on here he was wrong."

Yes, not much different from anyone else.

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


" ...

A lot of people don't have any fun on here, you can usually tell these ones too, they have no pics, a 2 line profile, and no verifications.

......

Or those could be the ones who don't feel the need to publicise what they're up to.

Very true.... however, I've yet to see someone with a nicely filled out profile and decent pics complaining they aren't getting any fun. "

I think you might be wrong but, of course, they're not actually complaining about not getting any fun, they're saying 'look at me'.

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London

No pics, a two-liner profile, one line of which is totally negative. There is absolutely nothing that would make me want to meet someone that doesn't at least try and sell themself via their profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps the OP thought that good community equals instant sex.

You get out what you put in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My brother asked me if he should join Fab today - I know his impatient and sometimes rude manner if he doesn't get what he wants - so told him this lifestyle wasn't for him

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By *ibanditMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"My brother asked me if he should join Fab today - I know his impatient and sometimes rude manner if he doesn't get what he wants - so told him this lifestyle wasn't for him "

So of course he'll join, lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My brother asked me if he should join Fab today - I know his impatient and sometimes rude manner if he doesn't get what he wants - so told him this lifestyle wasn't for him

So of course he'll join, lol. "

I hope not lol I love h but he's a nutter !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No such thing as a swinger community, most are looking for cheap thrills and sexual gratification.

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