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By *ayandess1 OP   Couple
over a year ago

bridgwater

We like to get to know our playmates and will always go for a social first.

How many other couples / singles also do this?

Could be be branded as time wasters?

Its just that we hate that "used" feeling you sometimes get with a quick "just get it done" meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mostly on the couple's profile we have not done so... Although we mostly meet at clubs..

We usually get names but have been known to just join in and realise after we haven't a clue.

In this world you do what suits you... And somewhere along the line you will meet others that think the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone wants different things From a meet. so if you meet for Socials then you will be meeting with Others who Also want to meet Socially first too. have you Thought of meeting at a Club socially then play if you get along!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we do and we dont.

we like to, though, and have had some lovely times after getting to know people over a drink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My socials usually involve a coffee or quick lunch at the hotel where we will be playing. Never had a bad social, luckily we've always clicked, then fucked lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We tend to socialise a lot more than have sex but when we do click with someone with patience we have a great time

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By *ORNY_DEVIL_SEEKERSCouple
over a year ago

Basildon Essex

We enjoy socials first as helps everyone relax and see if everyone gets on and then if we do we either play on first meet or we arrange another meet for another time

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By *hocksandmissusCouple
over a year ago

Chester-ish

we also much prefer to get to know the ppl we are about to sleep with atleast a little anyways.

saying that we have also been know to play on a first meet but do much prefer the social side first as said at the start we can find the used feeling not very good at all xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single I always meet for a social first. As a couple we sometimes do socials and sometimes not. Everyone is different- some people like them and some don't.

If you prefer a social meet, don't be pressurised into not having one or feel bad because someone says it's weird. As long as you're happy it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We hav'nt always had the opportunity to meet before with a social,we don't really meet people that are local so its not always possible to arrange,by the time we do get to meet people ive chatted extensively with them over some time so its never given us a cause for concern by the time we do meet up

Have to say though that even a meet thats meant for play is a social meet until its established that we all want to play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm meeting a single female I prefer tower in a bar or coffee shop so that she feels relaxed and safe. If it's a couple I'm meeting I really tend to go with the flow. If we meet at their house it doesn't mean I'm going to play if I don't fancy it. I just make sure they know that before hand and of course the same applies for them.

I can't say I have a social/no social rule.

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

Widnes

I always approach along the lines of having no expectations on the first meet. Yes, there is always a social element to that, but if nothing happens until a subsequent meeting then fine. but, also, if the chemistry is right and there is an opportunity to play on that first meeting, then as long as both are happy, there is nothing wrong with doing so.

There is no hard and fast rule for any aspect of this lifestyle or site for me, I simply react to the situation, good or bad.

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