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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

has anyone have to put there meets on hold due to financial reasons??

Drastic action but im seriously considering it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why are you paying for it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. lol not sure that meets cost much as a single lady lol.. to be honest night out at a club even paying totally for myself doesn't cost me more than 20quid that is including travel, drink and entry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. Sometimes I can't even afford £20.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yep. Sometimes I can't even afford £20. "

me neither. usually its the cost of fuel that i have to pay for as I dont meet locally.

And personal finances at the moment are terrible, and I wont accept offers of cash for fuel either just dont feel right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, we are loaded

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep. Sometimes I can't even afford £20.

me neither. usually its the cost of fuel that i have to pay for as I dont meet locally.

And personal finances at the moment are terrible, and I wont accept offers of cash for fuel either just dont feel right. "

Yeah I know accepting money for fuel can appear a bit sleezy.... take it for the sex instead, thats the better option

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yep. Sometimes I can't even afford £20.

me neither. usually its the cost of fuel that i have to pay for as I dont meet locally.

And personal finances at the moment are terrible, and I wont accept offers of cash for fuel either just dont feel right.

Yeah I know accepting money for fuel can appear a bit sleezy.... take it for the sex instead, thats the better option "

thats worse

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I'm not meeting as much at the mo due to not having enough spare cash, but I am just making sure to plan in advance to be able to afford the really good meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes fuel cost being main issue as i have couples see 140 mile round trip and even though they have offered half cost of fuel which is most appreciated but cant always afford to fill car up especially just for a one off journey.

Sign of the times unfortunately.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm not meeting as much at the mo due to not having enough spare cash, but I am just making sure to plan in advance to be able to afford the really good meets. "

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

seems sensible that money is being used for essentials

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Meeting costs me nothing but a cup of coffee so finances are unlikely to stop me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes fuel cost being main issue as i have couples see 140 mile round trip and even though they have offered half cost of fuel which is most appreciated but cant always afford to fill car up especially just for a one off journey.

Sign of the times unfortunately."

this is one of major factors of not attending a club because of this reason there all like 65 miles or more away and no one wants to go with me to share the fuel cost. so stick with nights in front of the television for a while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I could'nt afford to meet I would'nt make arrangents too

Its not very sexy discussing petrol costs hotel costs etc and how you can'f afford it.....in fact its a total turn off and id never discuss things like that with a potential playmate,id rather not meet at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is why I haven't been to a club in a while. I don't drive so the train and taxi fares would cost a bomb. Can't really justify it at this point in time.

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By *harliesteveCouple
over a year ago

selly oak

Is there not away you could make it cheaper. Maybe swap clubs so closer. Maybe meet out side of club. car share with friends from the club.

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By *inful_coupleCouple
over a year ago

Frimley

Money is never a reason for us to decide ... we're very well off financially now but only after hard work and years of struggling. Never once made us say yes or no to a meet. We found the money somewhere :P Our responsibilities end with us. We have no children etc so as long as our rent and basics were covered, we'd always happily meet one of our girls. Plus, they usually just came to us to stay over for a couple of days

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By *hong loverMan
over a year ago

stoke-on-trent


"Yes fuel cost being main issue as i have couples see 140 mile round trip and even though they have offered half cost of fuel which is most appreciated but cant always afford to fill car up especially just for a one off journey.

Sign of the times unfortunately.

this is one of major factors of not attending a club because of this reason there all like 65 miles or more away and no one wants to go with me to share the fuel cost. so stick with nights in front of the television for a while"

why not just stay in with your hubby and have sex with him ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If I could'nt afford to meet I would'nt make arrangents too

Its not very sexy discussing petrol costs hotel costs etc and how you can'f afford it.....in fact its a total turn off and id never discuss things like that with a potential playmate,id rather not meet at all"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Heard a story recently where a couple were holding a house party - one potential couple said they would attend only if the hosts gave them the petrol money to get to the hosts home

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes fuel cost being main issue as i have couples see 140 mile round trip and even though they have offered half cost of fuel which is most appreciated but cant always afford to fill car up especially just for a one off journey.

Sign of the times unfortunately.

this is one of major factors of not attending a club because of this reason there all like 65 miles or more away and no one wants to go with me to share the fuel cost. so stick with nights in front of the television for a while why not just stay in with your hubby and have sex with him ? "

i could but i have already said i would lol

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By *hong loverMan
over a year ago

stoke-on-trent


"Yes fuel cost being main issue as i have couples see 140 mile round trip and even though they have offered half cost of fuel which is most appreciated but cant always afford to fill car up especially just for a one off journey.

Sign of the times unfortunately.

this is one of major factors of not attending a club because of this reason there all like 65 miles or more away and no one wants to go with me to share the fuel cost. so stick with nights in front of the television for a while why not just stay in with your hubby and have sex with him ?

i could but i have already said i would lol"

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Meeting costs me nothing but a cup of coffee so finances are unlikely to stop me."

They don't even cost me that! Not meeting as simply can't be arsed at the moment!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes fuel cost being main issue as i have couples see 140 mile round trip and even though they have offered half cost of fuel which is most appreciated but cant always afford to fill car up especially just for a one off journey.

Sign of the times unfortunately.

this is one of major factors of not attending a club because of this reason there all like 65 miles or more away and no one wants to go with me to share the fuel cost. so stick with nights in front of the television for a while why not just stay in with your hubby and have sex with him ?

i could but i have already said i would lol ? "

stay at home with hubby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I preper to pay for hotel rooms myself and if I cannot afford to do so, I don't arrange to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep. Sometimes I can't even afford £20.

me neither. usually its the cost of fuel that i have to pay for as I dont meet locally.

And personal finances at the moment are terrible, and I wont accept offers of cash for fuel either just dont feel right. "

I've been offered the cash for petrol on occasions, didn't feel right but my problem was that I didn't have any money in my bank to put petrol in to travel to be reimbursed so couldn't go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did not meet or go to Chams after early Feb this year due to an unexpected car repair bill.

Thanks to a PPI rebate recently I can meet and go to Chams again.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

never fails to amaze me when people say they have no money for food, electric or gas, but will spend their last penny on a bit of cock or pussy.

but it is their last penny so all good

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"never fails to amaze me when people say they have no money for food, electric or gas, but will spend their last penny on a bit of cock or pussy.

but it is their last penny so all good "

thats true.

but personally id rather clothe feed and keep a roof over my kids head

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"never fails to amaze me when people say they have no money for food, electric or gas, but will spend their last penny on a bit of cock or pussy.

but it is their last penny so all good "

I'm surprised that people consider swinging at all if their skint: hardly a priority like your mortgage or council tax!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol we men alwais pay to get in, sex aint free anymore lol x.

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By *hong loverMan
over a year ago

stoke-on-trent


"Yes fuel cost being main issue as i have couples see 140 mile round trip and even though they have offered half cost of fuel which is most appreciated but cant always afford to fill car up especially just for a one off journey.

Sign of the times unfortunately.

this is one of major factors of not attending a club because of this reason there all like 65 miles or more away and no one wants to go with me to share the fuel cost. so stick with nights in front of the television for a while why not just stay in with your hubby and have sex with him ?

i could but i have already said i would lol ?

stay at home with hubby"

just spice things up so its like a meet drop to your knickers and say fuck me now or suck his cock at the back door

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm short of cash, no meets anyway as it was messed uo

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


"never fails to amaze me when people say they have no money for food, electric or gas, but will spend their last penny on a bit of cock or pussy.

but it is their last penny so all good "

Even more so that people are so free about their financial situations on an open forum. In that respect i suppose it works both ways, but is still jarring to me. Oh well.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thought if u blocked someone they were not allowed to post on your posts or have i got that wrong?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"thought if u blocked someone they were not allowed to post on your posts or have i got that wrong?"

anyone can post on a thread but people can't communicate to get around a block

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Being skint would stop me meeting!

IF im skint and worrid about money, the last thing on my mind would be a meet

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"thought if u blocked someone they were not allowed to post on your posts or have i got that wrong?"

They simply not allowed to mention anything about the block or try to communicate outwith the thread topic...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"thought if u blocked someone they were not allowed to post on your posts or have i got that wrong?

They simply not allowed to mention anything about the block or try to communicate outwith the thread topic..."

thank u was a bit unsure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"never fails to amaze me when people say they have no money for food, electric or gas, but will spend their last penny on a bit of cock or pussy.

but it is their last penny so all good "

You can get cock for a penny?? I'll have two please!!

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"never fails to amaze me when people say they have no money for food, electric or gas, but will spend their last penny on a bit of cock or pussy.

but it is their last penny so all good

You can get cock for a penny?? I'll have two please!! "

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