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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I need some help. My man has asked me to shock him in the bedroom. We've had a threesome and a foursome. He's not into bondage and he's more into bras and panties than suspenders and corsets etc. Could do with some ideas here. I'm extremely open minded. How do i shock him? Thanks

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

Cattle prod? Taser?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

12" strap on?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has to be a strap on hun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cattle prod? Taser? "

Pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when I was with my ex she asked if there was anything she could do to shock me, I said yeah, stay off facebook, tidy the house up and have me tea on the table for once u lazy bitch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rip the wires out the bedside lamp, strap em to his balls and turn on the power!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"when I was with my ex she asked if there was anything she could do to shock me, I said yeah, stay off facebook, tidy the house up and have me tea on the table for once u lazy bitch "

lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sit him down after diner tonight, hold his hand, look in to his eyes and say sweety, I have some news, I am pregnant, it's twins....!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take a dump on his chest!...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do some nugget porn lol

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By *kmale421Man
over a year ago

wirral

Blindfold him when he comes home from work on a Friday night and guide him to the bedroom while telling him your thinking about stripping with him.

Removing the blindfold revealing decorating equipment with the message that he's redecorating the bedroom this weekend

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By *unfit2Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Strap on? I'm trying to shock him, not give him a heart attack. He's not a strap on kind ofguy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

get a VVVWE bloke to stand naked in the bedroom, then when he comes in and says 'oo, im gonna enjoy watching you with him' say

'he isnt for me, bend over honey'

can imagine he would be shocked

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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

Surely for shocking it should be a purple wand or electrostimulation.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think that might me a bit extreme!

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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

If your not into BDSM purple wands would definitely be to extreme.

E-stim done properly isn't really very extreme, think along the lines of TENS for pleasure. Done well it can feel similar to having lots of tiny vibrators working in the stimulated part(s). Just be very gradual with the power settings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Take a dump on his chest!... "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thats the second suggestion of a dump on his chest. I'll pass on that one!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I need to clarify. When i say shocking i'm not talking about electricity. I mean the alarming way!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Apart from threesome and foursomes what else have you done? What does he like, do you have an idea of any fantasies he might be thinking of but not talking about? What one person finds shocking another person will find full so we need a bit more information.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Dull I meant

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester

Put him in stocks and enjoy ourself with a lady. Orgasm deprivation

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester

*yourself

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think he'd be in to a gang bang. He says anything i'm turned on by turns him on. Thats a lot of pressure though. Like i'm in to light bondage but he's not. I know there is things i would do that he wouldnt be comfortable with. Of all the things we've done, its me with another woman is the ultimate thing that turns him on. Been there and done that so obviously that doesnt shock him. I hope i'm not sounding to vague. You can let me know if you think i am.

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By *ncutgemMan
over a year ago

Bath ish

let me tie you a rope bra

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I think he's asking a lot of you and you should take his assurance that whatever turns you on turns him on as fact. So why not combine your desire for bondage with his love if seeing you with a woman? Does he go for outdoor sex at all? Could you take him for a walk then surprise him by throwing your coat off to reveal that you're naked, kneel and beg to suck his cock and fuck him? Meet him during his lunch break and drag him off for a quickie? Or is that all too tame?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sit him in a chair then plug it in

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester

Light kink such as tie,tease,blindfold and candle fun is erotic whilst kissing,nibbling,licking is fun on one another as an apertif

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No I think that probably isnt too tame. I think i need to nail down what his fantasies are and then i'll take it from there. Thats really helpful. Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He wants to be cuckolded.lock him in a chastity device,tell him your going out, to meet another man. You could just pretend the first time to see how he reacts, just go the cinema or something. Come home and tell him all about how hard you got fucked! and how you loved it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kick him straight in the bollocks

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By *obnessMan
over a year ago

york

Curlers and a jar full of cold cream on your face, long thick dressing gown. Fluffy slippers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"when I was with my ex she asked if there was anything she could do to shock me, I said yeah, stay off facebook, tidy the house up and have me tea on the table for once u lazy bitch "
is that why shes the now ex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I need some help. My man has asked me to shock him in the bedroom. We've had a threesome and a foursome. He's not into bondage and he's more into bras and panties than suspenders and corsets etc. Could do with some ideas here. I'm extremely open minded. How do i shock him? Thanks "

I have just had loads of fun tonight with a neon wand, specifically with the power tripper attachment. That'll be exciting and shocking for you both...loads of fun!! better than expected!

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By *ooneyCouple
over a year ago

Chester

shag him with a strap on and make him have it lol

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

get a horse head mask and call him up to the bedroom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"when I was with my ex she asked if there was anything she could do to shock me, I said yeah, stay off facebook, tidy the house up and have me tea on the table for once u lazy bitch "

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"when I was with my ex she asked if there was anything she could do to shock me, I said yeah, stay off facebook, tidy the house up and have me tea on the table for once u lazy bitch

is that why shes the now ex"

it was a joke, as id never go out with a lady if she couldn't cook, clean and iron in the first place oppsss did I just say that, better run and hide

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"when I was with my ex she asked if there was anything she could do to shock me, I said yeah, stay off facebook, tidy the house up and have me tea on the table for once u lazy bitch

is that why shes the now ex

it was a joke, as id never go out with a lady if she couldn't cook, clean and iron in the first place oppsss did I just say that, better run and hide "

You'll be single then lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try being nice, don't have a headache and don't moan about the dishes!

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By *-and-KCouple
over a year ago

Back of Beyond

Tie him to a chair then indulge in a lesbian three or foursome that involves lots of fisting. That should shock him and indulge your mild bdsm fantasies!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Show him your credit card bill!!!

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By *obandruthCouple
over a year ago

wolverhampton

leave him in the house run out side and call the police and tell them you have an intruder in your house , that should shock him .

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By *oddamnCouple
over a year ago

leicestershire

blindfold him. strip him naked and start to give him some head. Then hit play on the recording you made earlier asking him if he likes his cock being sucked while you watch?

Even indulge his threesome fantasy by telling him you are touching the girl while she sucks him?

When he hears your voice telling him to cum in her mouth at the same time you are sucking him he might just be shocked. It works better if he is gagged too, so he doesn't interupt the recording!

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

This may have been suggested or to tame, but whats wrong with the good old fashioned head, You need a glass of ice cubes and a mug of something warm.

Ideally he'd be blindfolded, but you lick/suck him, then get an ice cube and freeze him then take a warm drink and warm him up.

It's not e shocks or a massive dildo/man to do him up the ass but the change of temp on his intimate areas should keep him shocked for a little while, and which guy doesn't like head?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you have to ask a bunch of strangers whats going to shock someone they dont know, then you dont talk about your sex life together enough.

while lying in bed, stroking each others bits and pieces, preferably before sex, not after as we dont work after, try asking him his biggest thrills and fantasies, then you can work to the extremes of those.

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By *unwithus2.Couple
over a year ago

south kent

how about you looking for about 4 guys on this site you like, invite them round let them strip of in the bedroom then when hubby comes in blind fold him and hand cuff him take him upstairs and get him to seat on a chair next to the bed, with the four guys being quite,

then let the action begin,

when the first guy enters you pussey and the two other guys have there cocks in your mouth both sides kneeling on the bed facing him

then get the fourth guy to stand behind him and move his blind fold so he can be shocked at you having so many cocks in one go. with you telling him his got to seat there and watch all four guys fuck you to completion then get him to lick you clean lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A horses head in the bed usually gets a result !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how about you looking for about 4 guys on this site you like, invite them round let them strip of in the bedroom then when hubby comes in blind fold him and hand cuff him take him upstairs and get him to seat on a chair next to the bed, with the four guys being quite,

then let the action begin,

when the first guy enters you pussey and the two other guys have there cocks in your mouth both sides kneeling on the bed facing him

then get the fourth guy to stand behind him and move his blind fold so he can be shocked at you having so many cocks in one go. with you telling him his got to seat there and watch all four guys fuck you to completion then get him to lick you clean lol "

well, think we all know what you want for xmas lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dress up as hitler, that seems to be the most shocking thing of the day lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just tell him you will never fuck him ever again!

I'm sure that will shock the bugger!!

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By *arnayguyMan
over a year ago

Durham Tees

Rub his Jap's eye with a Scotch Bonnet chilli! That'll fucking shock him.

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

Widnes

If he likes the idea of a gang bang (or you with another man) and he also likes the idea of you with another woman....... why not blindfold him, invite a TV round, start playing with the TV then let him watch?

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By *porty.benMan
over a year ago

West Hampstead


"12" strap on? "

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

stick a hairclip down his japs eye didn't I see that one on here lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell him you have some good news and bad news....

Good news = I have won the lottery...

Bad news = Im of to Mexico with Juan the gardener

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