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By *ubberdollie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Stoke

Not to be confused with swinging 'wallabies ' that's an entirely different ball game!

Have to get this off my chest.... I have met some fantastic guys off here , and had great fun.. BUT..

I seem to get a lot guys who are just dreamers, we exchange messages and phone numbers , they text ' Hi horny' ( usual stuff) but when I ask them to ring I get endless excuses ...' I have no credit ' ( are you 12?). ' the dog's using the phone', 'I'm just going for a bath, I use asses milk so I maybe some time'.

I'm sure it's not just the single guys who are like this, but that is who I meet. And they have at least one veri, so what's that all about?

It makes me cross because there are so many decent fellas who can't get a meet cos we are busy wasting time on these idiots!

Rant over......

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By *.nottsbloke..Man
over a year ago

the vale

dont get why anyone would turn down a offer to meet you your lovely

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

............and let the bashing begin...

after all... it is thursday!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trust me if you were on the other end of the line I'd get a top up haha

That or unlimited minutes kinda helps...

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

If a male had posted that, there would have been a long line of "well change your selection process" or "maybe you should be more selective" or a miriad of other excuses. Instead it's a single female so she gets "oh you poor dear I'll come show you we aren't all wasters."

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"If a male had posted that, there would have been a long line of "well change your selection process" or "maybe you should be more selective" or a miriad of other excuses. Instead it's a single female so she gets "oh you poor dear I'll come show you we aren't all wasters." "

god bless the "white knights"......

they will come out early and often.... like greasing up a pole/ladder!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"If a male had posted that, there would have been a long line of "well change your selection process" or "maybe you should be more selective" or a miriad of other excuses. Instead it's a single female so she gets "oh you poor dear I'll come show you we aren't all wasters." "

That's because our brains don't change location and theirs do??

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

Woe is you.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

they will definately see the error of their ways now and change...

this was all that was needed.

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

Why don't you ring them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they're with family and or married

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a male had posted that, there would have been a long line of "well change your selection process" or "maybe you should be more selective" or a miriad of other excuses. Instead it's a single female so she gets "oh you poor dear I'll come show you we aren't all wasters." "

lol very very true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd answer my phone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe they're with family and or married "

oppss someone had to drop the married bomb lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wish I was taller ...... I,d be ringing you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe they're with family and or married "

That's a good point as well, I live at home with parents so would be a little awkward having a chat while they're around haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why don't you ring them?"

Too easy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe they're with family and or married

That's a good point as well, I live at home with parents so would be a little awkward having a chat while they're around haha "

So you WOULDN'T answer your phone then?

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston


"Why don't you ring them?

Too easy. "

No, I am NOT!!

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


"Why don't you ring them?

Too easy. "

You expect her to take initiative? Or to realise that some people have PAYG phones? Pffft please!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why don't you ring them?

Too easy.

No, I am NOT!! "

Won't give you my number then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe they're with family and or married

That's a good point as well, I live at home with parents so would be a little awkward having a chat while they're around haha

So you WOULDN'T answer your phone then?"

Depends who was around!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why don't you ring them?

Too easy.

You expect her to take initiative? Or to realise that some people have PAYG phones? Pffft please! "

Us single guys have to do all the jumping through hoops don't you know!

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston


"Why don't you ring them?

Too easy.

No, I am NOT!!

Won't give you my number then! "

You already did but my married dog ate my credit in the bath....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Though we did buy a swing phone we both hate talking on the phone we have no problem talking in chatrooms on cam but not on the phone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why don't you ring them?

Too easy.

No, I am NOT!!

Won't give you my number then!

You already did but my married dog ate my credit in the bath.... "

The bitch told me she was single!

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By *ubberdollie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Stoke


"............and let the bashing begin...

after all... it is thursday!!!"

As I said, I only meet single guys SO I can only comment on them, and I did also say it probably isn't just blokes who waste time.

I am talking about the guys who text and say they want to chat then you get endless excuses and once again I have given my number to a complete waste of space .

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

Something something get better at deciding who you choose to give your number out to something

The onus is on you. Always.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bloody sickofants (yes I do know how to spell sycophants but hey let's keep the forum light)...

Dollie is merely venting, she didn't ask for advice or sympathy. Her selection process may be absolutely fine and she's merely stating different excuses (with exaggerations) from people to get to the next stage, prior to meeting. Fakes are the scourge of all dating type sites whatever their purported gender.

Don't mix up a vent up with a whine!

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


"

Don't mix up a vent up with a whine!"

When they happen repeatedly in a short space of time, i tend to equate them to each other. On a public forum, those lines are blurred anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe they're with family and or married

That's a good point as well, I live at home with parents so would be a little awkward having a chat while they're around haha

So you WOULDN'T answer your phone then?

Depends who was around! "

Wouldn't it be easier and more fruitful to make or take the call in your own room?

Just a thought.

XXXX

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By *ubberdollie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Stoke


"Bloody sickofants (yes I do know how to spell sycophants but hey let's keep the forum light)...

Dollie is merely venting, she didn't ask for advice or sympathy. Her selection process may be absolutely fine and she's merely stating different excuses (with exaggerations) from people to get to the next stage, prior to meeting. Fakes are the scourge of all dating type sites whatever their purported gender.

Don't mix up a vent up with a whine!"

Mrs Cupcake, you really do get me, I may just have to swap sides and run away with you

Maybe I should take a breather from the site and come back all enthused and re newed !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bloody sickofants (yes I do know how to spell sycophants but hey let's keep the forum light)...

Dollie is merely venting, she didn't ask for advice or sympathy. Her selection process may be absolutely fine and she's merely stating different excuses (with exaggerations) from people to get to the next stage, prior to meeting. Fakes are the scourge of all dating type sites whatever their purported gender.

Don't mix up a vent up with a whine!"

isnt a sickofant either an ill paciderm, or one with a particularly disgusting kink?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bloody sickofants (yes I do know how to spell sycophants but hey let's keep the forum light)...

Dollie is merely venting, she didn't ask for advice or sympathy. Her selection process may be absolutely fine and she's merely stating different excuses (with exaggerations) from people to get to the next stage, prior to meeting. Fakes are the scourge of all dating type sites whatever their purported gender.

Don't mix up a vent up with a whine!

isnt a sickofant either an ill paciderm, or one with a particularly disgusting kink?"

Or an ill elephan...oh, wait!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, I tried, but I keep getting the message "You're outside the age range this user has chosen to receive contacts from"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bloody sickofants (yes I do know how to spell sycophants but hey let's keep the forum light)...

Dollie is merely venting, she didn't ask for advice or sympathy. Her selection process may be absolutely fine and she's merely stating different excuses (with exaggerations) from people to get to the next stage, prior to meeting. Fakes are the scourge of all dating type sites whatever their purported gender.

Don't mix up a vent up with a whine!

Mrs Cupcake, you really do get me, I may just have to swap sides and run away with you

Maybe I should take a breather from the site and come back all enthused and re newed !"

I have often thought about batting for the other side (my side) ... it cannot be any worse

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By *iss_BehavingWoman
over a year ago

manchester

hey, maybe, just maybe it was the wife pretending to be him and he was actually at work.............????

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

I'm in agreement with the why are you moaning camp.

These men are just making your selection process easier without wasting much time , imagine if they did call, you like them, you arrange a meet, you travel, they don't turn up , now that's annoying x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and some us send messages but are deleted without a second thought.......irrespective of how respectful and genuine we are......

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By *kin BohnerMan
over a year ago

derby


"Well, I tried, but I keep getting the message "You're outside the age range this user has chosen to receive contacts from" "
Dito! It was my birthday yesterday and it has taken me over your age limit Dollie so its up to you to find your way to my 'in box'.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"............and let the bashing begin...

after all... it is thursday!!!"

Don't know what I'm doing right, in six years never been stood up, never suffered abuse, had a few I'd never see again but that was my lack of judgment.

If I kept attracting idiots I'd look at my selection process.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not to be confused with swinging 'wallabies ' that's an entirely different ball game!

Have to get this off my chest.... I have met some fantastic guys off here , and had great fun.. BUT..

I seem to get a lot guys who are just dreamers, we exchange messages and phone numbers , they text ' Hi horny' ( usual stuff) but when I ask them to ring I get endless excuses ...' I have no credit ' ( are you 12?). ' the dog's using the phone', 'I'm just going for a bath, I use asses milk so I maybe some time'.

I'm sure it's not just the single guys who are like this, but that is who I meet. And they have at least one veri, so what's that all about?

It makes me cross because there are so many decent fellas who can't get a meet cos we are busy wasting time on these idiots!

Rant over......"

A women getting messed around on the internet and god forbid a sex site to boot......

Who would have thought it ....!

I don't know....! What is the world coming to

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"If a male had posted that, there would have been a long line of "well change your selection process" or "maybe you should be more selective" or a miriad of other excuses. Instead it's a single female so she gets "oh you poor dear I'll come show you we aren't all wasters." "

Par for the course really: embarrassing to watch the fawning too.

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


"............and let the bashing begin...

after all... it is thursday!!!

Don't know what I'm doing right, in six years never been stood up, never suffered abuse, had a few I'd never see again but that was my lack of judgment.

If I kept attracting idiots I'd look at my selection process. "

Please....you are making FAR too much sense. Logic isn't accepted here

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I only give my number out once the meet is arranged. If they don't want to reply to texts after that then I assume the meet is off.

Oops, nearly forgot. All single men are annoying, unreliable, dreamers, timewasters, feckless idiots with more blood in their little brains etc etc. Think that's covered it.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


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Oops, nearly forgot. All single men are annoying, unreliable, dreamers, timewasters, feckless idiots with more blood in their little brains etc etc. Think that's covered it."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"............and let the bashing begin...

after all... it is thursday!!!

As I said, I only meet single guys SO I can only comment on them, and I did also say it probably isn't just blokes who waste time.

I am talking about the guys who text and say they want to chat then you get endless excuses and once again I have given my number to a complete waste of space ."

Maybe ring them as soon as get number instead endless texts, of don't answer, delete number move onto next guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only give my number out once the meet is arranged. If they don't want to reply to texts after that then I assume the meet is off.

Oops, nearly forgot. All single men are annoying, unreliable, dreamers, timewasters, feckless idiots with more blood in their little brains etc etc. Think that's covered it."

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By *bbandflowCouple
over a year ago

South Devon


"............and let the bashing begin...

after all... it is thursday!!!

Don't know what I'm doing right, in six years never been stood up, never suffered abuse, had a few I'd never see again but that was my lack of judgment.

If I kept attracting idiots I'd look at my selection process. "

Not sure any selection process could do much about abuse along the lines of, 'Thanks for the message, but this is a polite no thanks'....message back..'stuck up cunt'

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"............and let the bashing begin...

after all... it is thursday!!!

Don't know what I'm doing right, in six years never been stood up, never suffered abuse, had a few I'd never see again but that was my lack of judgment.

If I kept attracting idiots I'd look at my selection process.

Not sure any selection process could do much about abuse along the lines of, 'Thanks for the message, but this is a polite no thanks'....message back..'stuck up cunt'"

Report all abusive messages, and they'll get 'selected' to leave the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only give my number out once the meet is arranged. If they don't want to reply to texts after that then I assume the meet is off.

Oops, nearly forgot. All single men are annoying, unreliable, dreamers, timewasters, feckless idiots with more blood in their little brains etc etc. Think that's covered it."

you say the nicest things

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By *bbandflowCouple
over a year ago

South Devon


"............and let the bashing begin...

after all... it is thursday!!!

Don't know what I'm doing right, in six years never been stood up, never suffered abuse, had a few I'd never see again but that was my lack of judgment.

If I kept attracting idiots I'd look at my selection process.

Not sure any selection process could do much about abuse along the lines of, 'Thanks for the message, but this is a polite no thanks'....message back..'stuck up cunt'

Report all abusive messages, and they'll get 'selected' to leave the site. "

Did and was..my point being it was nothing to do with my selection process

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What can I say the need a cull them of the site I say. give us decent men a fighting chance.

I lot of men like the idea but have not got the balls to do it.

Pity you live so far from me _ubberdollie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Don't mix up a vent up with a whine!

When they happen repeatedly in a short space of time, i tend to equate them to each other. On a public forum, those lines are blurred anyway."

as a rough rule of thumb women are venting and deserve sympathy and re-assurance, single men are whining and need derision.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're giving out your number just arrange to speak on the phone that or the following evening.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"

Don't mix up a vent up with a whine!

When they happen repeatedly in a short space of time, i tend to equate them to each other. On a public forum, those lines are blurred anyway.

as a rough rule of thumb women are venting and deserve sympathy and re-assurance, single men are whining and need derision.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do people actually still talk on the phone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"............and let the bashing begin...

after all... it is thursday!!!

Don't know what I'm doing right, in six years never been stood up, never suffered abuse, had a few I'd never see again but that was my lack of judgment.

If I kept attracting idiots I'd look at my selection process. "

Priceless response, filled to the brim with logic that is almost certainly going to sail right over the heads of the average contributor in here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

These guys are not swingers but single guys coming on a site thinking they will get an easy lay and then moan when they don't x

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

What did i miss? xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel really sorry for you it must be a nightmare for you on here as a single woman!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel really sorry for you it must be a nightmare for you on here as a single woman!!!"

Not sure if you're being sarcastic but it's not all that bad on here as a single woman. You just have to use your common sense. It is easy to out the dreamers and find the blokes who actually want to meet.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Not sure any selection process could do much about abuse along the lines of, 'Thanks for the message, but this is a polite no thanks'....message back..'stuck up cunt'

Report all abusive messages, and they'll get 'selected' to leave the site.

Did and was..my point being it was nothing to do with my selection process"

In fact it verified your selection process was functioning well. You said no thanks and they went on to prove that your decision was 100% correct.

Other than having to hit the delete button and the block button, where's the problem? It's not like rude responses resulting from the sour grapes of rejection should mean anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take my turn phoning guys if we've had a couple of social meets. 2 way street

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was being very sarcastic haha

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I was being very sarcastic haha"

If you had the chance to be a single woman on here you might find it to be not quite as easy as you think.

We have different problems to guys, but we do have them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was being very sarcastic haha

If you had the chance to be a single woman on here you might find it to be not quite as easy as you think.

We have different problems to guys, but we do have them."

Its no picnic for a single women on any internet sex dating site .

You may ask how do I know this well my last special friend gave me a tour of her inbox .

To say a was ashamed and angry over the behavior of my own sex is a understatement in the extreme .

One thing all the nasty messages had in common that I read were two words whore and cunt .

Which some up the guys true inner thoughts about women who use these kinds of sites they hide these feeling well when sex maybe on the table but the minute my friend turned down there advances boy did they show there true feeling for women using internet sex sites.

Disgusting immature women haters does even begin to describe there behavior .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been lucky as I haven't had abusive messages if I've declined someone. I have been ignored myself when I sent a friendly message to a guy, so I know how it feels

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mate you can say what you want and pretend you understand woman if you want, cos your coming across like loads of lads on these forums that just say what they think woman want to hear all said is I don't think women have it tough on this site I honestly don't I know woman off this site the same as you and not one of them have said it's a nightmare if anything they have said how easy it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That should say " women off this site" my crap spelling sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been lucky as I haven't had abusive messages if I've declined someone. I have been ignored myself when I sent a friendly message to a guy, so I know how it feels"

I would say that's because on here if you report abusive behavior the guys profiles are removed as far as I no.

But on other paying sites they do not remove the guys profile as he has to pay for the use of the site ....don't remove a paying customer business one oh one.

which means you get some real nasty types because they know they can get away with it as long as they pay there subscription .

The women can block the guy but by then you have already been called every nasty name under the sun .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's tough on here sometimes

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I haven't had many abusive messages after I've declined someone, though the ones I have had have been precious. One, on another site, that basically said 'ok, well you're probably too fat for me anyway' was pretty typical of the mentality - just perfect and gorgeous and stunning right up to the point you say no. I take the beautiful, gorgeous and stunning comments with a handful of salt though so I'm certainly not going to let sour grapes from the same people bother me.

What can be a little annoying is the wanna fuck, how r u, or single word messages like hi or sexy. Guys who scour the who is online now thingy and pounce on any woman online wanting dirty chat, phone or cam, or if they're within a reasonable distance, an immediate meet can also be a nuisance. I had one once want me to drive 150 miles to his place at 3am, promising me the fuck of my life.

It's not worth getting het up about though. Delete and block are easy enough to use.

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By *hagfordMan
over a year ago

Torquay

Morning.

Again I have been fortunate and not suffered abusive messages. If I did then they would be reported straight away.

Like most I suspect I have messages ignored. Personally I reply to every message, even if it's a polite no, out of courtesy.

I can perhaps understand why messages are ignored if there are people on the site who are rude if the reply is not what they want to hear. ....

Really don't see the point in being rude, sign of immaturity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mate you can say what you want and pretend you understand woman if you want, cos your coming across like loads of lads on these forums that just say what they think woman want to hear all said is I don't think women have it tough on this site I honestly don't I know woman off this site the same as you and not one of them have said it's a nightmare if anything they have said how easy it is"

Did I name this site no ...on here it does not happen much unless its a newbie the guys no full well if they get reported they will be removed .

This site is by far one of the more civil sites on the net but its a swingers site so is policed very well by its users who on the whole are a respectful bunch .

But not every person is of the swinger mentality or sexual orientation so use different sites aimed more at one to one fun .

Trust me on them sites single married women are regularly sent a torrent of abuse by guys .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"............and let the bashing begin...

after all... it is thursday!!!

Don't know what I'm doing right, in six years never been stood up, never suffered abuse, had a few I'd never see again but that was my lack of judgment.

If I kept attracting idiots I'd look at my selection process. "

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


" I don't think women have it tough on this site I honestly don't I know woman off this site the same as you and not one of them have said it's a nightmare if anything they have said how easy it is"

It's easy if you can accommodate or don't mind outdoors/car/truck sex and if you have no/low standards.

Otherwise it's not easy.

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By *bbandflowCouple
over a year ago

South Devon


"Not sure any selection process could do much about abuse along the lines of, 'Thanks for the message, but this is a polite no thanks'....message back..'stuck up cunt'

Report all abusive messages, and they'll get 'selected' to leave the site.

Did and was..my point being it was nothing to do with my selection process

In fact it verified your selection process was functioning well. You said no thanks and they went on to prove that your decision was 100% correct.

Other than having to hit the delete button and the block button, where's the problem? It's not like rude responses resulting from the sour grapes of rejection should mean anything."

Sorry, but that's not the point I was making. I originally responded to a poster who ' must be doing something right' having been on the site for six years and had never been abused, never been stood up, and if they attracted idiots like that they would look at their own selection process.

Hate to labour this, but I have been on this site for five years, and have had abusive messages, usually because of rejection. Short of filtering out messages from single guys how do I modify my selection process in order for this not to occur?

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


"Hate to labour this, but I have been on this site for five years, and have had abusive messages, usually because of rejection. Short of filtering out messages from single guys how do I modify my selection process in order for this not to occur?

"

Very strict use of message filters and some good luck?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I don't think women have it tough on this site I honestly don't I know woman off this site the same as you and not one of them have said it's a nightmare if anything they have said how easy it is

It's easy if you can accommodate or don't mind outdoors/car/truck sex and if you have no/low standards.

Otherwise it's not easy."

You see that's another thing about some guys who use the internet for sex ......its all about the sex cheap easy sex .

Which is OK if that's what both parties are into but what if you want a little bit more than a knee tremble in the back of a car ...down a alley ...or in a bush .

What if you don't feel sexually satisfied by sex with more or less strangers at a club or round a couples house with its impersonal nature.

what if you need the true warmth of friendship with in the sexual relationship for it to feel worth while to you and to really enjoy the sex .

What then hay......its bloody hard work that's what for both sexes exspecialy for the women but equally for a guy wanting more

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Not sure any selection process could do much about abuse along the lines of, 'Thanks for the message, but this is a polite no thanks'....message back..'stuck up cunt'

Report all abusive messages, and they'll get 'selected' to leave the site.

Did and was..my point being it was nothing to do with my selection process

In fact it verified your selection process was functioning well. You said no thanks and they went on to prove that your decision was 100% correct.

Other than having to hit the delete button and the block button, where's the problem? It's not like rude responses resulting from the sour grapes of rejection should mean anything.

Sorry, but that's not the point I was making. I originally responded to a poster who ' must be doing something right' having been on the site for six years and had never been abused, never been stood up, and if they attracted idiots like that they would look at their own selection process.

Hate to labour this, but I have been on this site for five years, and have had abusive messages, usually because of rejection. Short of filtering out messages from single guys how do I modify my selection process in order for this not to occur?

"

Block 'em after you say no thanks.

You've said no, so there should be no need for further contact plus it removes the chance of them trying again (and again and again) in the future.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not to be confused with swinging 'wallabies ' that's an entirely different ball game!

Have to get this off my chest.... I have met some fantastic guys off here , and had great fun.. BUT..

I seem to get a lot guys who are just dreamers, we exchange messages and phone numbers , they text ' Hi horny' ( usual stuff) but when I ask them to ring I get endless excuses ...' I have no credit ' ( are you 12?). ' the dog's using the phone', 'I'm just going for a bath, I use asses milk so I maybe some time'.

I'm sure it's not just the single guys who are like this, but that is who I meet. And they have at least one veri, so what's that all about?

It makes me cross because there are so many decent fellas who can't get a meet cos we are busy wasting time on these idiots!

Rant over......"
what clown would turn you down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I don't think women have it tough on this site I honestly don't I know woman off this site the same as you and not one of them have said it's a nightmare if anything they have said how easy it is

It's easy if you can accommodate or don't mind outdoors/car/truck sex and if you have no/low standards.

Otherwise it's not easy."

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


" I don't think women have it tough on this site I honestly don't I know woman off this site the same as you and not one of them have said it's a nightmare if anything they have said how easy it is

It's easy if you can accommodate or don't mind outdoors/car/truck sex and if you have no/low standards.

Otherwise it's not easy.

"

Quite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I don't think women have it tough on this site I honestly don't I know woman off this site the same as you and not one of them have said it's a nightmare if anything they have said how easy it is

It's easy if you can accommodate or don't mind outdoors/car/truck sex and if you have no/low standards.

Otherwise it's not easy.

You see that's another thing about some guys who use the internet for sex ......its all about the sex cheap easy sex .

Which is OK if that's what both parties are into but what if you want a little bit more than a knee tremble in the back of a car ...down a alley ...or in a bush .

What if you don't feel sexually satisfied by sex with more or less strangers at a club or round a couples house with its impersonal nature.

what if you need the true warmth of friendship with in the sexual relationship for it to feel worth while to you and to really enjoy the sex .

What then hay......its bloody hard work that's what for both sexes exspecialy for the women but equally for a guy wanting more "

There are a lot of single men who want and give this. I've been fortunate to meet them

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Not sure any selection process could do much about abuse along the lines of, 'Thanks for the message, but this is a polite no thanks'....message back..'stuck up cunt'

Report all abusive messages, and they'll get 'selected' to leave the site.

Did and was..my point being it was nothing to do with my selection process

In fact it verified your selection process was functioning well. You said no thanks and they went on to prove that your decision was 100% correct.

Other than having to hit the delete button and the block button, where's the problem? It's not like rude responses resulting from the sour grapes of rejection should mean anything.

Sorry, but that's not the point I was making. I originally responded to a poster who ' must be doing something right' having been on the site for six years and had never been abused, never been stood up, and if they attracted idiots like that they would look at their own selection process.

Hate to labour this, but I have been on this site for five years, and have had abusive messages, usually because of rejection. Short of filtering out messages from single guys how do I modify my selection process in order for this not to occur?

"

Block them as soon as you say no thank you.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Not sure any selection process could do much about abuse along the lines of, 'Thanks for the message, but this is a polite no thanks'....message back..'stuck up cunt'

Report all abusive messages, and they'll get 'selected' to leave the site.

Did and was..my point being it was nothing to do with my selection process

In fact it verified your selection process was functioning well. You said no thanks and they went on to prove that your decision was 100% correct.

Other than having to hit the delete button and the block button, where's the problem? It's not like rude responses resulting from the sour grapes of rejection should mean anything.

Sorry, but that's not the point I was making. I originally responded to a poster who ' must be doing something right' having been on the site for six years and had never been abused, never been stood up, and if they attracted idiots like that they would look at their own selection process.

Hate to labour this, but I have been on this site for five years, and have had abusive messages, usually because of rejection. Short of filtering out messages from single guys how do I modify my selection process in order for this not to occur?

"

I personally find that men are less likely to abuse you for turning them down if you don't actually reply to them.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Not sure any selection process could do much about abuse along the lines of, 'Thanks for the message, but this is a polite no thanks'....message back..'stuck up cunt'

Report all abusive messages, and they'll get 'selected' to leave the site.

Did and was..my point being it was nothing to do with my selection process

In fact it verified your selection process was functioning well. You said no thanks and they went on to prove that your decision was 100% correct.

Other than having to hit the delete button and the block button, where's the problem? It's not like rude responses resulting from the sour grapes of rejection should mean anything.

Sorry, but that's not the point I was making. I originally responded to a poster who ' must be doing something right' having been on the site for six years and had never been abused, never been stood up, and if they attracted idiots like that they would look at their own selection process.

Hate to labour this, but I have been on this site for five years, and have had abusive messages, usually because of rejection. Short of filtering out messages from single guys how do I modify my selection process in order for this not to occur?

I personally find that men are less likely to abuse you for turning them down if you don't actually reply to them. "

Yep, this is also true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I don't think women have it tough on this site I honestly don't I know woman off this site the same as you and not one of them have said it's a nightmare if anything they have said how easy it is

It's easy if you can accommodate or don't mind outdoors/car/truck sex and if you have no/low standards.

Otherwise it's not easy.

You see that's another thing about some guys who use the internet for sex ......its all about the sex cheap easy sex .

Which is OK if that's what both parties are into but what if you want a little bit more than a knee tremble in the back of a car ...down a alley ...or in a bush .

What if you don't feel sexually satisfied by sex with more or less strangers at a club or round a couples house with its impersonal nature.

what if you need the true warmth of friendship with in the sexual relationship for it to feel worth while to you and to really enjoy the sex .

What then hay......its bloody hard work that's what for both sexes exspecialy for the women but equally for a guy wanting more

There are a lot of single men who want and give this. I've been fortunate to meet them "

Ditto but they are very few and far between.

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