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By *ixma OP   Man
over a year ago

Chester

I have played a few times with a lovely couple off here and occasionally text the hubby with a polite Hi how you doing etc. Anywhere on the latest occasion I was shocked to get a reply from him they they has split up and getting a divorce. I relayed my shock and sympathies. At the back of my mind however I wondered if she was still swinging, but didn't want to appear insensitive. I'm not that ruthless to ask him but is it even wrong of me to think it or even ask him?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not wrong to think it, but completely out of place to ask.

but then again, not suprising you are thinking it, tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally wrong to ask.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I have played a few times with a lovely couple off here and occasionally text the hubby with a polite Hi how you doing etc. Anywhere on the latest occasion I was shocked to get a reply from him they they has split up and getting a divorce. I relayed my shock and sympathies. At the back of my mind however I wondered if she was still swinging, but didn't want to appear insensitive. I'm not that ruthless to ask him but is it even wrong of me to think it or even ask him?"

Time and place: inappropriate to ask.

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By *wingerdelightCouple
over a year ago

eastliegh

Sounds like they were swinging for the wrong reasons. Don't go there

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


". I'm not that ruthless to ask him but is it even wrong of me to think it or even ask him?"

therein lies your answer

a clue: the start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From a blokes point of _iew I'd say stop being a gay and fire yourself in there! She's single now and you're interested! Do it!!!

From a standing pillar of the community's point of _iew I'd say look after your friend, console him, make sure he's ok and be that rock, that shoulder to cry on should he so wish to.

Which one are you going to have the most fun with?

Decisions, decisions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"From a blokes point of _iew I'd say stop being a gay and fire yourself in there! She's single now and you're interested! Do it!!!

From a standing pillar of the community's point of _iew I'd say look after your friend, console him, make sure he's ok and be that rock, that shoulder to cry on should he so wish to.

Which one are you going to have the most fun with?

Decisions, decisions "

not even as a bloke could i say .get yourself in there'.

its just wrong wrong wrong.

can see the husband looking at the OP in such a way as this was part of an overall plan to ensure whatever cracks were within their relationship, he helped open them up by jamming his cock right in there lol

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

just try to find her without hubby s help .. maybe she has lost interest in swinging .but ex hubby is the last person i d ask

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


" whatever cracks were within their relationship, he helped open them up by jamming his cock right in there lol"

Probably evil of me but this did make me laugh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"From a blokes point of _iew I'd say stop being a gay and fire yourself in there! She's single now and you're interested! Do it!!!

From a standing pillar of the community's point of _iew I'd say look after your friend, console him, make sure he's ok and be that rock, that shoulder to cry on should he so wish to.

Which one are you going to have the most fun with?

Decisions, decisions "

Curious .... What choice would you make ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have played a few times with a lovely couple off here and occasionally text the hubby with a polite Hi how you doing etc. Anywhere on the latest occasion I was shocked to get a reply from him they they has split up and getting a divorce. I relayed my shock and sympathies. At the back of my mind however I wondered if she was still swinging, but didn't want to appear insensitive. I'm not that ruthless to ask him but is it even wrong of me to think it or even ask him?"

I was in this position and was asked about my ex wife - just laughed it off with him. She wasn't playing at that time. No offence caused ... But depends why they've split though.

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By *ixma OP   Man
over a year ago

Chester


"not wrong to think it, but completely out of place to ask.

but then again, not suprising you are thinking it, tbh"

As I said I'm not that heartless plus I got on with them both very well so would never have asked but at least I was only being human thinking about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not wrong to think it, but completely out of place to ask.

but then again, not suprising you are thinking it, tbh

As I said I'm not that heartless plus I got on with them both very well so would never have asked but at least I was only being human thinking about it"

didnt say it was a human thing to have thought about it, just said i wasnt suprised lol

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