FabSwingers.com forum: Don't look nothing like your picture

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why do people send you picks arrange a meet then when you meet them

They look nothing like their pictures they sent you

It's like guys that spend hours chatting then arrange a meet then don't turn up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do people send you picks arrange a meet then when you meet them

They look nothing like their pictures they sent you

It's like guys that spend hours chatting then arrange a meet then don't turn up"

I always send a just taken face pic before I arrange to meet someone. I don't send pussy pics or full naked but I give an accurate description of my body. Not put anyone off yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am afraid to put any of my real pics up, I am soo stunning my PC wouldn't be able to cope with all the messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I understand the chatting and getting off on being wanted !!!! But have never understood why someone would send a pic that was not as they are now !!! Maybe they think that in the heat of the moment the other person will think "oh wtf I'm her now" !!!! I'd rather they were pleasantly surprised rather than disappointed !! But haho takes all sorts !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of the reasons why I update my face pic often, people see the real me so no surprises in the flesh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only had one occasion where a single guy looked nothing like his pictures, at least 10 yrs old!

Mine/couple are all current and I have been told I look better in the flesh

People though on here or any site you have to trust your instinct and it seems to good to be true generally is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am afraid to put any of my real pics up, I am soo stunning my PC wouldn't be able to cope with all the messages

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Obviously it's not what one should do, but there have been plenty of forum posts from guys on here who have been in that situation and thought 'what the hell', and just gone for it. So it's worth the risk for some people, clearly.

Suspect that a woman in the same situation is far less likely to play anyway, but you never know.

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

John shoots lots of glamour & adult pics etc & as done quite a few profiles on Fab & LS for couples/singles, he makes the people look great but it is them still but with make up, lighting to create atmosphere.

I do agree don't use pics that are 10 years old but photo's done right can make a person look better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive never met anyone that has looked that different from their pics,most people look better as you have a real person in front of you and not just a flat image that has no personality

I don't know what people get from putting out of date pics on a profile,I would think its massive insecurities that cause them to do so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always have the most recent pics up.Please ignore the Duran Duran poster in the background and yes that it is a rubics cube I'm holding.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive never met anyone that has looked that different from their pics,most people look better as you have a real person in front of you and not just a flat image that has no personality

I don't know what people get from putting out of date pics on a profile,I would think its massive insecurities that cause them to do so "

And to entice people who perhaps wouldn't be interested in them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive never met anyone that has looked that different from their pics,most people look better as you have a real person in front of you and not just a flat image that has no personality

I don't know what people get from putting out of date pics on a profile,I would think its massive insecurities that cause them to do so

And to entice people who perhaps wouldn't be interested in them?"

I don't know whether its all born from malice,Maybe im naive,it just reminds me of the episode of gavin and stacy where that couple put a 15 yr old pic on a profile and the guy they were meeting walked off

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

"Why do people send you picks arrange a meet then when you meet them

They look nothing like their pictures they sent you

It's like guys that spend hours chatting then arrange a meet then don't turn up"

I cant help but ask...are you talking face pics? cock pics? pussy pics? Fully dressed I would probably not recognise you either OP!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its like the people (ladies in my case) who have a couple pics of a flash of thigh or a few inches of cleavage.

you msg them to trying to get more of an idea of what they resemble and they get all funny

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

"Why do people send you picks arrange a meet then when you meet them

They look nothing like their pictures they sent you

It's like guys that spend hours chatting then arrange a meet then don't turn up"

Leave, report and block... simples surely?

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

When I first met Obi he looked nothing like his photos - HE DIDN'T HAVE AN AFRO!!

Pfft!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have chatted to a lady on here went to her place at 1am

But from the moment I walked in we knew nothing was going to happen

There wasn't that spark

But we still chatted for hours

But it is even worst if you don't look like your pics

At least we exchanged pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thankfully I'm every bit as sexy as I look in my pics

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Face pics

After all we all know what a cock & pussy look like lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Face pics

After all we all know what a cock & pussy look like lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Face pics

After all we all know what a cock & pussy look like lol"

Well we all certainly know what your cock looks like ...unfortunately, from my male perspective lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have only met one guy who looked twenty years older than his pics! I did ask him if he had an extended paper round

Another one who's pics definitely looked better than the 3d version

Both thought I would still play, so I guess that's why they do it.

I had a drink and a quick chat then left. The joys of fab

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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago

Rockford

I worry about this a lot. Rejection at the actual meet is not very nice and it happened to me from a dating site. I obviously choose what I think are Flattering pics for my profile but they are up to date and before a meet I send the not so flattering pics. Also I usually do a social meet first but it's not always feasible when they are travelling. Socials are good though for not hurting feelings if you don't fancy them

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"Face pics

After all we all know what a cock & pussy look like lol

Well we all certainly know what your cock looks like ...unfortunately, from my male perspective lol"

I shouldn't laugh but

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine are up to date and apart from body size and aging process, I look the same, have done for years

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Most of the people we have met have actually looked better in real life than their photos.

Never had anyone, not recognise us in person or complain that we haven't looked like our photos....yet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always have the most recent pics up.Please ignore the Duran Duran poster in the background and yes that it is a rubics cube I'm holding. "

I always send pics that aren't that great, in the hope that when they see me in real life they are nicely surprised/ relieved.

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By * n zCouple
over a year ago

leamington spa

I would imagine if this worried anyone a quick chat on cam would work, you can't look 10 years younger on cam.

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

I turned up for a meet once and found a completely different bloke there. He didn't see how this was a problem and thought we would still have fun! Scared me quite a bit. I was very glad that we met in a public place and I had a friend on standby

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

I need new pic of me as i decided to grow hair for a change and my beard looks totaly different and im not as fat as in my pic.

wiggles hair changes so often pics simply cant keep up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This happened to me last week x ive had loads of meets and all looked same or better as pics ( usually young guys ) but guy last week claimed to be 30 looked 40 and a lot bigger. I politely said no - When i immediately went to check his pics as he left - he had already blocked me beforehand ! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always add up to date pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm hoping to soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do people send you picks arrange a meet then when you meet them

They look nothing like their pictures they sent you

It's like guys that spend hours chatting then arrange a meet then don't turn up"

Getting chatting would be a start for me haha!

Yes I had someone totally different turn up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No idea and is rather annoying; pictures look like David Bailey took them so today's meet was a refreshing change

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive never met anyone that has looked that different from their pics,most people look better as you have a real person in front of you and not just a flat image that has no personality

I've been lucky in that respect, they have all looked better in the flesh.

Sadly I look like my pics

although been told I look better in person a couple of times

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

I time date some of my pics so anyone can see they up to date.

Met lots of people last weekend and they all looked like the photos I had seen. I have however seen people at Kestrels that look older / fatter than the pics they show.

Guess its human nature to use the best pics you have.

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

my pics are all recent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive got a face pic i look knackered,wet hair,devilish look,i send out so easy to spot in a hottub in a club

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It's true what some of you say about looking better in the flesh

People say that to me

But I always say don't worry about the looks it's the person in side that I like to get to know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I probably look 40 when I meet a guy, 45 (my age) the morning after a full on night, but 50+ the following day when the lack of sleep has caught up with me.

Fortunately I usually have a fortnight (due to work) to recuperate and start all over again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do people send you picks arrange a meet then when you meet them

They look nothing like their pictures they sent you

It's like guys that spend hours chatting then arrange a meet then don't turn up"

Ahh now thats the age old question but there area lot of women who use shall we say flattering or historic photos. Why is a good question I guess vanity and not looking in the mirror at the real person. Its how to deal with it and exit politely thats the real problem though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of my friends had a meet and the wrong sex turned up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I forgot to add that all my pics are recent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One of my friends had a meet and the wrong sex turned up"

Been there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do people send you picks arrange a meet then when you meet them

They look nothing like their pictures they sent you

It's like guys that spend hours chatting then arrange a meet then don't turn up"

Well because in a meat market like these sites the better the meat the more chance of a date .

Its a case of knowing you will be judge solely on your looks first so post a very flattering picture from good knows how long ago because before you can even talk sex you must pass the shallow look test .

In my experience sex dating is with out a doubt the most shallow of past times.....come on one look through profiles confirm that with there list of shallow look related demands

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have up to date face pics and body pics just saves wasting anyone's time lol would hate to think someone thought I was trying to pull a fast one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do people send you picks arrange a meet then when you meet them

They look nothing like their pictures they sent you

It's like guys that spend hours chatting then arrange a meet then don't turn up

Well because in a meat market like these sites the better the meat the more chance of a date .

In my experience sex dating is with out a doubt the most shallow of past times.....come on one look through profiles confirm that with there list of shallow look related demands

Twaddle.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I tend to put some new pics up after every meet and I've got more pics elsewhere on the web that are recent.

It may be a bit different for TG/CD/KGB as most people are more interested in how feminine we look if we are going to theirs

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics

I always cam faces before discussing a meet... I'm done with those kind of surprises.

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