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"Curious to see how many other sapiophiles frequent Fab? Personally, I find nothing sexier than a smart, sharp, incisive, enquiring mind" | |||
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"Curious to see how many other sapiophiles frequent Fab? Personally, I find nothing sexier than a smart, sharp, incisive, enquiring mind" Yep - Dr Sheldon Cooper floats my boat | |||
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"Curious to see how many other sapiophiles frequent Fab? Personally, I find nothing sexier than a smart, sharp, incisive, enquiring mind" | |||
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"Just from a curiosity standpoint for ladies that do - what is it about intelligence that you find attractive?" I like to talk about stuff. Although I have been known to get so deeply into a conversation with a meet we've not got much time left for the sexy fun time! | |||
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"Just from a curiosity standpoint for ladies that do - what is it about intelligence that you find attractive? I like to talk about stuff. Although I have been known to get so deeply into a conversation with a meet we've not got much time left for the sexy fun time! " I suppose I should have specified 'that you find SEXUALLY attractive' - I'm sure there are plenty of people you could hold a good conversation with, but that doesn't mean they're going to turn you on in the bedroom. | |||
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"Just from a curiosity standpoint for ladies that do - what is it about intelligence that you find attractive? I like to talk about stuff. Although I have been known to get so deeply into a conversation with a meet we've not got much time left for the sexy fun time! I suppose I should have specified 'that you find SEXUALLY attractive' - I'm sure there are plenty of people you could hold a good conversation with, but that doesn't mean they're going to turn you on in the bedroom." I am more attracted to people with enquiring minds. He still has to fall within my (incredibly varied) type physically, but a repeat meet will be more likely if he has entertained my mind as well as my body (and feels the same way about me of course!) | |||
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"Just from a curiosity standpoint for ladies that do - what is it about intelligence that you find attractive?" "It's another whole area I can be stimulated and thrilled in - someone with a really sharp mind can stimulate mine!! Was talking about it with an eloquent friend once and he is happy for me to quote him: "You want the full package, headfuck and all Mind making the body do wonderful things Satisfied mentally too Swimming in a mutually nice headspace Well, it should be fluid - gets your neurons racing Nothing beats it Flesh is limited Needs to be a mix of sensuality And intellectual interest That makes you tingle from tip to toe" Hmmmm! | |||
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"... Although I have been known to get so deeply into a conversation with a meet we've not got much time left for the sexy fun time! " . Been there, done that too! | |||
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"... Although I have been known to get so deeply into a conversation with a meet we've not got much time left for the sexy fun time! . Been there, done that too! " Same, sometimes the depth of the conversations I have during meets sort of gets us side tracked from the possibility of actually having sex - I remember one time I got discussing with a woman the formation of the grand canyon | |||
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"Very much so, yes. I love to be surprised and stimulated by a quirky, inventive, inquisitive, playful, mind. I don't understand people who say, "I don't know what that means" on an online forum. You're ONLINE! Wiki it! " I didn't know what it meant until I googled it and now I do. | |||
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"Very much so, yes. I love to be surprised and stimulated by a quirky, inventive, inquisitive, playful, mind. I don't understand people who say, "I don't know what that means" on an online forum. You're ONLINE! Wiki it! I didn't know what it meant until I googled it and now I do. " And now you have a new word to woo women with. Its a winner all round. | |||
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"Just from a curiosity standpoint for ladies that do - what is it about intelligence that you find attractive?" because with intelligence comes sex appeal & if you can get inside a peron's mind then they can let go completely & the enjoyment is so much more. But it takes an intelligent person to realise that the mind/brain is the biggest & best sex organ. xx | |||
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"yep, id fuck a nerd " Shame I'm a geek And yup intelligence is very sexy.....if you can make an intellectual connection over drinks everything else just flows (and ignites from previous experience ) | |||
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"Curious to see how many other sapiophiles frequent Fab? Personally, I find nothing sexier than a smart, sharp, incisive, enquiring mind" I bet you have been dying to use that word in a forum! I prefer my men dumb and hung! | |||
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"Curious to see how many other sapiophiles frequent Fab? Personally, I find nothing sexier than a smart, sharp, incisive, enquiring mind Yep - Dr Sheldon Cooper floats my boat And I thought it was just me! Yes... Combine smarts and funny and I'm in 7th heaven!" How about smarts and funny looking?? | |||
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"I class imagination as intelligence too " Awesome!!! Dons glasses and opens a book | |||
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"Very patronising of you to post a topic with a word,(Sapiophile),which many people in general don't know the meaning of!! This is a swinging/sex site, not Mastermind auditions!!!! " See, and that makes the difference. I will look up on new things, no matter where I encountered them. If it doesn't blow your frock up - skip the thread. Some folk enjoy being enlightened. | |||
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"Stimulating conversation serves well for stimulating other areas. " Oh yes!!! | |||
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"'ENLIGHTEND'!! Don't make me laugh, this isn't the Open University!!" Can't make her mind up whether this is irony or an oxymoron. Confuddled. Please assist. Sorry, Angel, you are not a Sapiophile. | |||
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"'ENLIGHTEND'!! Don't make me laugh, this isn't the Open University!!" Obviously not. Even quoting requires braincells. | |||
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"Very patronising of you to post a topic with a word,(Sapiophile),which many people in general don't know the meaning of!! This is a swinging/sex site, not Mastermind auditions!!!! " so you mean because you don't understand it, the OP is patronising? But still felt the need to read the thread and say that? Careful guys, if a word is too long, not used in everyday conversation and not in the Oxford children's dictionary, you will clearly be seen to patronise other users. Let's hope I never have any reason to use antidisestablishmentarianism | |||
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"'ENLIGHTEND'!! Don't make me laugh, this isn't the Open University!! Obviously not. Even quoting requires braincells. " Giggles | |||
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"Can you give me an example of a conversation beween 2 sapiophiles? " Well during this week alone, i was delightfully introduced to the Meaning of Liff by a lady on here. Amongst other subjects. Further along, we discussed the meaning and origins of names, specifically related to my country of origin. I've always enjoyed learning, so these were great moments for me. | |||
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"'ENLIGHTEND'!! Don't make me laugh, this isn't the Open University!! Obviously not. Even quoting requires braincells. " This tickled me | |||
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"Stimulating conversation serves well for stimulating other areas. " Mmmmmmm....I'll second that! | |||
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"We don't generally hang around with stupid people in 'real life', so why would we want to have sex with stupid people? The same goes for racists, misogynists and homophobes. Though they generally fall into the stupid category anyway." Exactly | |||
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"We don't generally hang around with stupid people in 'real life', so why would we want to have sex with stupid people? The same goes for racists, misogynists and homophobes. Though they generally fall into the stupid category anyway." now what have I said about keeping the words easy? Then you go and use misogynists? | |||
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"Perhaps now is the time to make the distinction between being turned on by intelligence (being a sapiophile) & actually being intelligent - the two concepts are not mutually exclusive ..." Now that WAS patronising | |||
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"We don't generally hang around with stupid people in 'real life', so why would we want to have sex with stupid people? The same goes for racists, misogynists and homophobes. Though they generally fall into the stupid category anyway. now what have I said about keeping the words easy? Then you go and use misogynists? " It just means people that don't like traditional Japanese seasonings... | |||
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"We don't generally hang around with stupid people in 'real life', so why would we want to have sex with stupid people? " Mind you, nothing wrong with meeting the odd 'animal' a girl might take a shine to... | |||
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"We don't generally hang around with stupid people in 'real life', so why would we want to have sex with stupid people? Mind you, nothing wrong with meeting the odd 'animal' a girl might take a shine to... " So it wouldn't matter if they didn't get the Genesis references? | |||
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"We don't generally hang around with stupid people in 'real life', so why would we want to have sex with stupid people? Mind you, nothing wrong with meeting the odd 'animal' a girl might take a shine to... So it wouldn't matter if they didn't get the Genesis references?" Haha, no, but you get EXTRA brownie points for knowing about lawnmowers!;-) | |||
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"Curious to see how many other sapiophiles frequent Fab? Personally, I find nothing sexier than a smart, sharp, incisive, enquiring mind Yep - Dr Sheldon Cooper floats my boat " He's mine...but not for sex obviously! | |||
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"We don't generally hang around with stupid people in 'real life', so why would we want to have sex with stupid people? Mind you, nothing wrong with meeting the odd 'animal' a girl might take a shine to... So it wouldn't matter if they didn't get the Genesis references? Haha, no, but you get EXTRA brownie points for knowing about lawnmowers!;-)" Know about lawnmowers? I AM a lawnmower, you can tell me by the way I walk... | |||
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"We don't generally hang around with stupid people in 'real life', so why would we want to have sex with stupid people? Mind you, nothing wrong with meeting the odd 'animal' a girl might take a shine to... So it wouldn't matter if they didn't get the Genesis references? Haha, no, but you get EXTRA brownie points for knowing about lawnmowers!;-) Know about lawnmowers? I AM a lawnmower, you can tell me by the way I walk..." | |||
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"Perhaps now is the time to make the distinction between being turned on by intelligence (being a sapiophile) & actually being intelligent - the two concepts are not mutually exclusive ... Now that WAS patronising" No, it's simply logical, coherent and literate. | |||
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"Perhaps now is the time to make the distinction between being turned on by intelligence (being a sapiophile) & actually being intelligent - the two concepts are not mutually exclusive ... Now that WAS patronising" No it isn't. Read it again perhaps. ;) | |||
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"Perhaps now is the time to make the distinction between being turned on by intelligence (being a sapiophile) & actually being intelligent - the two concepts are not mutually exclusive ... Now that WAS patronising No, it's simply logical, coherent and literate. " | |||
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"I can get physically aroused by unexpected turns of phrases or surprising verbal injections into conversations. Very much so indeed If the utterer of such turn-ons happens to have the physical stimuli that appeal to me anyway, then Nirvana awaits just after the next turn-off. " And in laymens term.that lot means what | |||
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"I can get physically aroused by unexpected turns of phrases or surprising verbal injections into conversations. Very much so indeed If the utterer of such turn-ons happens to have the physical stimuli that appeal to me anyway, then Nirvana awaits just after the next turn-off. And in laymens term.that lot means what " Pearls - swine | |||
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"I can get physically aroused by unexpected turns of phrases or surprising verbal injections into conversations. Very much so indeed If the utterer of such turn-ons happens to have the physical stimuli that appeal to me anyway, then Nirvana awaits just after the next turn-off. And in laymens term.that lot means what Pearls - swine " Nope . Still none the wiser | |||
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"Perhaps now is the time to make the distinction between being turned on by intelligence (being a sapiophile) & actually being intelligent - the two concepts are not mutually exclusive ... Now that WAS patronising No it isn't. Read it again perhaps. ;)" Hence the original smiley face... | |||
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"See above " Fuck me, go spend some time in the Halal meat thread, it will at least knock a few names off your list of people to contact if intelligence turns you on... | |||
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"I can get physically aroused by unexpected turns of phrases or surprising verbal injections into conversations. Very much so indeed If the utterer of such turn-ons happens to have the physical stimuli that appeal to me anyway, then Nirvana awaits just after the next turn-off. " ------------------------------- OK - translation mode: Intelligent and surprising elements in a conversation turn me on. If the man I'm talking to has the face, body, voice, and tactile approach that would appeal to me anyway, then the next stop will be Heaven. Clearer now? | |||
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"I can get physically aroused by unexpected turns of phrases or surprising verbal injections into conversations. Very much so indeed If the utterer of such turn-ons happens to have the physical stimuli that appeal to me anyway, then Nirvana awaits just after the next turn-off. ------------------------------- OK - translation mode: Intelligent and surprising elements in a conversation turn me on. If the man I'm talking to has the face, body, voice, and tactile approach that would appeal to me anyway, then the next stop will be Heaven. Clearer now? " Aww thanks . Why did you not just say that in the first place | |||
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"See above Fuck me, go spend some time in the Halal meat thread, it will at least knock a few names off your list of people to contact if intelligence turns you on..." Calm down kids, just a bit of fun. | |||
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" Aww thanks . Why did you not just say that in the first place " To keep the boundaries clear | |||
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" Aww thanks . Why did you not just say that in the first place To keep the boundaries clear " Hee hee | |||
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" Aww thanks . Why did you not just say that in the first place To keep the boundaries clear " Dont worry i know my boundaries | |||
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"Strangely however.. (Finding clever folks sexy) my fil is extraordinarily clever, had one of the highest IQ's in the country. BUT he is as dull as dishwater...off to find me some thick types on the halal thread " From sapiophile to halalophile. . . . . . . what??? it could be a word!!!!!! | |||
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"Nah...I went there and I found it tasteless " I find people on that thread are being a bit cut throat! | |||
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"Nah...I went there and I found it tasteless I find people on that thread are being a bit cut throat! " I'm avoiding the thread altogether. I'm too poorly to deal with the xenophobia today. | |||
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"Nah...I went there and I found it tasteless I find people on that thread are being a bit cut throat! I'm avoiding the thread altogether. I'm too poorly to deal with the xenophobia today." It is for the best. I had a peek and facepalmed hard. | |||
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"Oh go go....I've planted two whole new convo topics " Is there a Kosher thread instead? | |||
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