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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

well its half four and i was sposed to be getting a play meet this eve.but,i havent heard from him all day.i have text twice,no reply.

do i still get myself all dolled up(in the hope he will deliver all those amazing sexy promises) or do i resign myself to another boring eve?

he seemed as keen as me.course, summit could of cropped up

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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago

Rockford

Get a new meet

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

he may be unable to reply to texts just now, go for it...

think positive and have fun

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By *ambo75Man
over a year ago

radcliffe

His loss!!! Keep your chin up x

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By *anatee175Couple
over a year ago

Sunderland

If you've not had any replies to message's or texts I would give this a miss for today. See what his excuse is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arrange a backup plan so you can still get dolled up and meet even if let down by the other chap.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get yourself another meet

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By *ambo75Man
over a year ago

radcliffe

"Get yourself another meet "
great advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forget him and find something else to do tonight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Forget him and find something else to do tonight "

Ive jumped in a bit quick here,did you have firm plans,times places ect? when was the last time you spoke to him? did you confirm times places then?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Forget him and find something else to do tonight

Ive jumped in a bit quick here,did you have firm plans,times places ect? when was the last time you spoke to him? did you confirm times places then? "

yes firm plans,tho i was messageing this morn to dbl check.was waiting for him to let me know wot time he was picking me up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say he isn't coming, sorry to say that. Move on to the next.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok if it was me id send one more text saying that if you hav'nt heard from him by a certain time you'll assume that hes lost interest and that the meet is off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This annoys the shit out of me. It tarnishes all us genuine guys when people arrange meets then don't go through with them.

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Ok if it was me id send one more text saying that if you hav'nt heard from him by a certain time you'll assume that hes lost interest and that the meet is off"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This annoys the shit out of me. It tarnishes all us genuine guys when people arrange meets then don't go through with them. "

chill yaself.....thats not the case at the moment

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By *ucy and CarlCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

Usual story. All the gob then add the date gets nearer you hear nothing. Yet another fantasist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Time to arrange a new meet I reckon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Usual story. All the gob then add the date gets nearer you hear nothing. Yet another fantasist."

That may be the usual story for you but its not my experience at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I don't hear from my meet/date by mid afternoon of the day of the meet I tend to take they aren't coming.

I always text just to confirm it is still on and frankly it takes 30 seconds to text back.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

thanks to all.

think i will give him till 6/6.30 pm.then if not heard will go sit and sulk in the corner.he made sum pretty gud promises tho.really wanted to try them out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't sulk....see what your other friends are doing you could salvage the evening and have a great time,see whos looking to meet in your area too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want to know whats happened im so nosey!

Id love it if the OP was out having a great time

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I want to know whats happened im so nosey!

Id love it if the OP was out having a great time

well its a no show.3rd text was sent by me and still no reply.

but on the bright side.it generated a lot of messages.and i am now happily chatting to a few guys.

will have to get hubby to do the honours i guess.lol

hope u all have a more productive eve.xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I hope you get lots of fun from your new contacts

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Well I hope you get lots of fun from your new contacts

looking gud

cheers lovie.xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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By *ucy and CarlCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

"Usual story. All the gob then add the date gets nearer you hear nothing. Yet another fantasist.

That may be the usual story for you but its not my experience at all"
I never said it was your experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Usual story. All the gob then add the date gets nearer you hear nothing. Yet another fantasist.

That may be the usual story for you but its not my experience at all I never said it was your experience. "

I never said you did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had this happen to me, messaging for weeks, finally arrange a meet, times etc. Goes quietthe day of the meet.

Luckily a lovely couple too me instead

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"well its half four and i was sposed to be getting a play meet this eve.but,i havent heard from him all day.i have text twice,no reply.

do i still get myself all dolled up(in the hope he will deliver all those amazing sexy promises) or do i resign myself to another boring eve?

he seemed as keen as me.course, summit could of cropped up

I wouldn't have bothered. I had a cancellation - said something had come up just 25 mins beforehand. I was already dressed. He is now blocked - so that's one less to mess me about.

It happens - so, hopefully you got a meet but don't worry if you didn't. There's plenty on here for another time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Usual story. All the gob then add the date gets nearer you hear nothing. Yet another fantasist."

Oh yep, ive experienced that many a time. Another drip wasting ppl's time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

WTF is it with some guys ! They get the chance to meet with some wonderful ladies , THEN FUCK IT UP !!!! they should think themselves lucky they ever get a message reply and the chance of a meet ! I struggle to get that ( green eyed monster out rant over lol ) maybe it didn't fit in with there wives or girlfriends plans lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not just blokes, I've had women pull out or not turn up, after lots of chats and phone calls, and been out of pocket with wasted hotel rooms

Have to use your instinct, if there genuine or not x

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By *ames blackMan
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

"well its half four and i was sposed to be getting a play meet this eve.but,i havent heard from him all day.i have text twice,no reply.

do i still get myself all dolled up(in the hope he will deliver all those amazing sexy promises) or do i resign myself to another boring eve?

he seemed as keen as me.course, summit could of cropped up

Cannot understand how someone would have the opportunity to meet you & then not turn up. You have had a narrow escape from a fool

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"WTF is it with some guys ! They get the chance to meet with some wonderful ladies , THEN FUCK IT UP !!!! they should think themselves lucky they ever get a message reply and the chance of a meet ! I struggle to get that ( green eyed monster out rant over lol ) maybe it didn't fit in with there wives or girlfriends plans lol"

Or maybe they went to the pub and then realised they couldn't drive to the meet. I've had that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Off this thread I got a very last minute meet lol and she asked me to msg the guy that stood her up saying. "Your loss is my gain" which I happily did. So thanks for posting this thread. I had a top night out of it

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"Off this thread I got a very last minute meet lol and she asked me to msg the guy that stood her up saying. "Your loss is my gain" which I happily did. So thanks for posting this thread. I had a top night out of it

Bit childish.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

he text this afternoon.family member had a car crash.so he was up hospital all night.xx

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"he text this afternoon.family member had a car crash.so he was up hospital all night.xx"

that is very sad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well only you know him well enough to decide if you want to make further plans with him in the future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok if it was me id send one more text saying that if you hav'nt heard from him by a certain time you'll assume that hes lost interest and that the meet is off"

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"he text this afternoon.family member had a car crash.so he was up hospital all night.xx"

Hm - being an old cynic I take things like that with a pinch of something you put on chips.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That is a good excuse but it still only takes to seconds to send a text saying 'really sorry, have to cancel... family emergency.'

Not swinging but I have had family bereavements and still managed to send a little text to cancel plans.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree, it does not take much to send a quick text to cancel if a Family/Friend Emergency crops ups. I would be inclined to think he's either very married or very much a time waster!!

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