FabSwingers.com forum: almost instantaneous meets

By *ob55 OP Man
over a year ago

PE13

sometimes looking at peoples veris, I see that a guy has sent a first message then met within the hour. is that as rare as I suspect it is or do you have a similar experience?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have a couple of times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of our best meets have been done this way.

No waiting around for weeks or even days to meet.

A single bi guy or a couple have mailed us & we have been interested enough by the wording that we have met them the same day usually within a few hours.

Only twice (a couple mf & a single guy) in the past 6 yrs have we been disappointed & said no thanks after an initial drink.

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"i have a couple of times."

I have done it and been having fun within a minute of first meeting. I get the feeling Ena and I have a lot in common

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happened to me twice on my old profile. Long ball game works better.

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By *razykayakersCouple
over a year ago

Durham

We've sometimes done this at a Club, maybe been chatting to a couple, then not been able to find them after we've had a jacuzzi or something, then just hooked up with someone completely different.... on some occasions, without knowing their names

Definition of hedonism - right there!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Personally I'd think the man a nut who'd want to come to my home with my whips, chains, wall brackets, hooks et al and my penchant for wasabi lube without checking I'm not a (complete) psycho!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Maybe not instantaneous, but I find if I can't meet within a week the guy tends to lose interest. Of course, I am not always free that week so its a handy way of filtering out the men who actually want to meet me from the guys who just want a shag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a couple of spontaneous meets. Both good fun and very enjoyable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't all guys want to meet for a shag on Fab?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to get to know someone, but not wait weeks/months. There is a happy medium.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally I'd think the man a nut who'd want to come to my home with my whips, chains, wall brackets, hooks et al and my penchant for wasabi lube without checking I'm not a (complete) psycho!

Sounds horrific. Your place at 9 then? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never done it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"sometimes looking at peoples veris, I see that a guy has sent a first message then met within the hour. is that as rare as I suspect it is or do you have a similar experience?"

Its not that rare I have had a fair number of meets that way.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

It has happened once or twice but that was when I was on holiday and my time was more flexible. When working I usually have to plan a couple of days in advance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never done it

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me neither

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always meet socially first but the whole point of being sociable is to determine whether we want to meet for sex, not date

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had lots of "instantaneous Meets", with singles and couples, generally from just accidentally meeting in hotels when I'm on business, and also in other venues such as supermarkets and bookstores. I'm gregarious, so find it very easy in engaging with people, and can easily tell that we've clicked. I'm not shy, and just suggest that we take it further, and most of the time, thats what happens. I think that single guys should be less shy, and should be more confident ... and if they are, they'll have a far better time swinging. It works for me.

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I think my personal best was a woman, mid thirties very attractive will a lovely body who contacted me via here looking for a one off meet as soon as possible. After a couple of messages we exchanged numbers, a 5 minute conversation and I was on my way. 30 Minutes later I pulled up outside her house and walked in. As we'd agreed she was sat on the sofa wearing a black basque, stockings, suspenders and heels. As soon as I shut the front door I took my took my cock out and she opened her mouth, about 5 minutes later I came and she swallowed. We then went up stairs and fucked again. Afterwards I left and went to work, perks of self employment I'd rung the office and told them I was going to be late in. Before I left she told me she had another guy arriving in half a hour and hopefully more later during the day. I tried interesting her in me meeting with them or seeing her again but she was purely into one offs. She said she was determined to enjoy her half term holiday so I presume she worked in education. I wish she had been into more meets, but whatever floats your boat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First ever meet (on an other site) was with in an hour of chatting ... I had been let down by someone else ! And was in the mood ! Then I came on this site ... Got a message from a male and thought Umm I recognise him ! It was my first meet ! So met him within am hour again that time too !! Usually I chat for weeks !! Right place right time I guess !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had lots of "instantaneous Meets", with singles and couples, generally from just accidentally meeting in hotels when I'm on business, and also in other venues such as supermarkets and bookstores. I'm gregarious, so find it very easy in engaging with people, and can easily tell that we've clicked. I'm not shy, and just suggest that we take it further, and most of the time, thats what happens. I think that single guys should be less shy, and should be more confident ... and if they are, they'll have a far better time swinging. It works for me.

So do I

often catch someone looking ! But that's as far as it goes !!!

..... I'm to chicken ! But would be more than happy if I was approached !

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

So do I

often catch someone looking ! But that's as far as it goes !!!

..... I'm to chicken ! But would be more than happy if I was approached !

It can work that way, as was said, just approach someone, they can always say no. When I posted earlier about my personal best it was regarding online. Many years ago I got chatting to a woman in a launderette and within a hour we were fucking back at her place, other similar things. In bars if people are in the mood it can happen like that, sometimes in the loos even or out in the car park. In the Village it's been known to be a couple of glances then follow a Tgirl into the loo and without a word your in a cubicle and having your cock sucked or fucking them. It's all good fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"sometimes looking at peoples veris, I see that a guy has sent a first message then met within the hour. is that as rare as I suspect it is or do you have a similar experience?"

We've had very last-minute meets recently.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

The way we play isn't compatible with one off very quick meets so it wouldn't happen for us.

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

when I very 1st joined the site I did one instant meet. Never ever again tho. Worst meet ever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does happen, just not very often.

It's a real buzz when it does, though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm now really intrigued by this thread's responses. Swinging ... naturally attracts independent minded, highly sexed, confident people ... so why do so many of the respondents here seem so shy about initiating contacts with singles and couples for immediate meets? My approach is really simple. If I'm out, and am attracted to other people, I strike up a conversation with them. If the attraction is reciprocal ... ie we click socially (and its really easy to tell, smiles, flirts, interests in each other, etc), then I let them know that I'm a swinger and suggest that we meet. Its really really simple, very much like dating, but much more honest and direct. Try it ... it does work for me. Any other singles/couples like me out there? If so, how do you go about getting immediate meets too. Do you have a similar approach, or something different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its not something I do often but I have a few times

I met a guy once, I was in the chat room, asked if anyone was free to meet, he replied so I asked him to put his cam on, and a couple of hours later I was sat having a drink with him and we got a hotel, one of my best meets to be honest

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By *obb2upCouple
over a year ago

Bangor

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over a year ago

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By *obb2upCouple
over a year ago

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this is how we prefer to meet...short notice.....we dont have a lot of time to play....and dont know if i am going too be horny in two weeks

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By *irtydanMan
over a year ago

Blackpool

"Personally I'd think the man a nut who'd want to come to my home with my whips, chains, wall brackets, hooks et al and my penchant for wasabi lube without checking I'm not a (complete) psycho!

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i agree lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never done it

me neither

Different strokes for different folks! Personally my schedule sucks so if someone can stay around long enough to get to know me/us I know when we do me it'll be a blast!!

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

"Maybe not instantaneous, but I find if I can't meet within a week the guy tends to lose interest. Of course, I am not always free that week so its a handy way of filtering out the men who actually want to meet me from the guys who just want a shag."

I know exactly what you mean. I have a couple of guys who I was talking to and got on really well with and really did fancy meeting, but when I couldn't meet that week it turned into getting a message every so often saying 'so are you free now?' Not really got the urge to meet them by then!

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