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did it take you guys a lot of persuasion for first mmf

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all , wondered from guys perspective ,how long it took to persuade your wife partner to do an mmf, and did she really enjoy it or does it for you saying she doesn't really like it but is happy to please you, womens view on this also be interesting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why on earth do you think women need to be persuaded to be lavished with attention from 2 men?

Some women are extremely proactive in what they want or don't want and should'nt need to be persuaded to anything they may not be happy with

What an odd thing to say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still waiting for an invite for my first mmf.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

hi, because it took me 12 yrs to get my lovely lady to agree to do this, I see her really enjoying it, but she says its an act for my pleasure, reason for asking,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldnt wait for my first mmf. Nothing nicer than a good old spitroast. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't need persuading at all! In fact I think it was me who brought the subject up! Then we both spoke about it! Certainly didn't do it just to please the OH!

The things we do has to be FUN for BOTH of us..... Otherwise it's just not worth doing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi, because it took me 12 yrs to get my lovely lady to agree to do this, I see her really enjoying it, but she says its an act for my pleasure, reason for asking,"

Wow well as long as she looks like shes enjoying it eh? all for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi, because it took me 12 yrs to get my lovely lady to agree to do this, I see her really enjoying it, but she says its an act for my pleasure, reason for asking,"

If it took you 12 years to persuade her.... Do you honestly think she did it because she wanted to? Or to stop you going on about it!

Perhaps she is faking her enjoyment to please you even more!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This appeals more than a FFM more options.

Besides we have done the whole fem thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would be more the other way round for us! I (f) am pretty happy to go with the flow and would be keen on mmf, however my bloke isn't really interested in having a single bloke added to the equation.

I won't be trying to persuade him to let us meet single guys as I'm mainly here for the ladies!

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By *ittall2020Man
over a year ago

Norwich

In my limited (but recent & very decent) experience of MMFs neither of the MF apprared to have taken much persuading at all, they were both very keen. However, they did mention that they have had a lot of difficulty getting genuine Ms to actually join them, it seems to be very common that the Ms don't show & it is them that need persuading into it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi, because it took me 12 yrs to get my lovely lady to agree to do this, I see her really enjoying it, but she says its an act for my pleasure, reason for asking,"

If my wife had ever told me it was an act for my pleasure, I would have felt no pleasure or excitement whatsoever. Wouldn't want to continue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi, because it took me 12 yrs to get my lovely lady to agree to do this, I see her really enjoying it, but she says its an act for my pleasure, reason for asking,

If it took you 12 years to persuade her.... Do you honestly think she did it because she wanted to? Or to stop you going on about it!

Perhaps she is faking her enjoyment to please you even more! "

I think he has basically admitted its all for his pleasure. She has told him her enjoyment is an act.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't need asking twice....I loved every minute and still do !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi, because it took me 12 yrs to get my lovely lady to agree to do this, I see her really enjoying it, but she says its an act for my pleasure, reason for asking,"

Im thinkin she's maybe telling you porkies for the sake of your ego and actually truly is LOVING it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as has been said, no persuasion needed, just a natural progression of trying everything before we stop.

still to find a suitable single lady to join us, but we are enjoying how things are going thus far lol

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By *beautifulpainCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

We have had loads of ffm threesomes, it has taken Michael some persuasion to go for a mmf. It's not a problem with the two men thing but more the body insecurities, he believes himself too fat.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Other peoples experiences don't really have any bearing on the dynamic of your relationship. People do things for lots of reasons and its true many women and men will be doing things just because their partner wants them to, if sexually you're both comfortable with that great. However what other people are doing won't change how you and your partner feel about what goes on between you it isn't really a case of that's what lots of other men say so its ok.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have had loads of ffm threesomes, it has taken Michael some persuasion to go for a mmf. It's not a problem with the two men thing but more the body insecurities, he believes himself too fat. "

i have the same problem (however i dont believe myself to be, i actually am lol)

he really shouldnt worry about it.

its not as much of a worry as it seems.

anyway, no matter how good looking he thinks the other bloke is, you still lie in his arms at the end of the night, so cant be that good now lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was not "persuaded" in any way, shape or form. It was something we both wanted to try and we enjoyed it.

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By *aveandSue1Couple
over a year ago

Doncaster

Sue didn't need any time to say "yes", she just knew she wanted it.

Only two conditions, she decides on the guy and I have to be there. She knows I love to watch !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah Mrs N Said something along those lines after a threesome a few weeks ago. When he'd gone I said Are you happy with what happened there ?. Her reply was "I am always happy it if you are". in a slightly enigmatic way. What does it mean ?

answers on a postcard to........ LOL


"hi, because it took me 12 yrs to get my lovely lady to agree to do this, I see her really enjoying it, but she says its an act for my pleasure, reason for asking,"

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

We absolutely love MMF's and occasionally MMMF's

Didn't really need any persuasion for the 1st time, it just sort of happened.

We were talking to a single guy in a club and after a while he asked us if we wanted to play, we looked at each other, both nodded, went into a private room, and the rest is history.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Why on earth do you think women need to be persuaded to be lavished with attention from 2 men?

Some women are extremely proactive in what they want or don't want and should'nt need to be persuaded to anything they may not be happy with

What an odd thing to say "

Not really going by some comments I've read on these forums over the years!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Yeah Mrs N Said something along those lines after a threesome a few weeks ago. When he'd gone I said Are you happy with what happened there ?. Her reply was "I am always happy it if you are". in a slightly enigmatic way. What does it mean ?

answers on a postcard to........ LOL

hi, because it took me 12 yrs to get my lovely lady to agree to do this, I see her really enjoying it, but she says its an act for my pleasure, reason for asking,"

You won't find answers on a postcard! Maybe ask her?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all , wondered from guys perspective ,how long it took to persuade your wife partner to do an mmf, and did she really enjoy it or does it for you saying she doesn't really like it but is happy to please you, womens view on this also be interesting "

It wasn't a matter of persuading. It was a joint decision.

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By *zanyCouple
over a year ago

truro

It's the woman in my life that says what goes and what does not. We have tried the lot and our favourite combo is three male and two females. In our experience if anyone needs persuading it will not work so well.

D and C xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It took me a while to try my first mfm and it was with two bi guys...I loved it. I don't do many but I've enjoyed everyone apart from one but it didn't out me off not had one for ages bit nothing better than two of everything to play with lol

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By *yphoon1Man
over a year ago


"I didn't need persuading at all! In fact I think it was me who brought the subject up! Then we both spoke about it! Certainly didn't do it just to please the OH!

The things we do has to be FUN for BOTH of us..... Otherwise it's just not worth doing "

same here. did a mmmmmf too. horny fun and oh enjoyed it

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"I was not "persuaded" in any way, shape or form. It was something we both wanted to try and we enjoyed it.

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This

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