FabSwingers.com forum: Secret Signals

By *rightonsteve OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Do you have a secret signal for your sex partner when you want to let them know something but don't want other people to know? I just read a couples of posts on another thread and the thought hadn't occurred to me.

I don't expect you to say what they are! Yes or no will do....just curious.

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By *rightonsteve OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Do you have a secret signal for your sex partner when you want to let them know something but don't want other people to know? I just read a couples of posts on another thread and the thought hadn't occurred to me.

I don't expect you to say what they are! Yes or no will do....just curious. "

No - hadn't occurred to me.*

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I wish people would use something subtle. Seeing a guy incline his head towards me and his lady partner slowly shaking her head really put a crimp on my night once.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont meet couple anymore, well i was a bit nervous in the first place, but one couple i met, the lady was nice but i didnt like the man, and they kept whispering to each other, have only met 3 couples and thought it was strange the way they talked to each other like i wasnt there.

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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago

Rockford

"I wish people would use something subtle. Seeing a guy incline his head towards me and his lady partner slowly shaking her head really put a crimp on my night once."

how shockingly rude. Some ladies are afraid its a competition.

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By *rightonsteve OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I wish people would use something subtle. Seeing a guy incline his head towards me and his lady partner slowly shaking her head really put a crimp on my night once."

maybe his head inclination was him saying "are you sexier than her?"

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I wish people would use something subtle. Seeing a guy incline his head towards me and his lady partner slowly shaking her head really put a crimp on my night once.

maybe his head inclination was him saying "are you sexier than her?"

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

If we sitting together I will squeeze his hand.....

He then knows its not going to be happening!

We are always polite, letting the others know....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ring a big red buzzer and shout NO FUCKING WAY im outta here

We do have a subtle sign if we're not happy with something, but its very rarely used

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't know about secret signals but as with messages on here, some people think it completely normal to just blatantly ignore you when you are talking to them.

Had this in a club the other weekend, was speaking directly to their faces and they just turned around and walked away.

Very rude, would of been nicer for them too signal to each other that they werent interested and politely make an excuse to move away, or just say straight up that they weren't interested.

We haven't been approached by anyone at a club yet although we'd be able to tell if our partner was interested in them just from the way we were speaking - i think with body language you can tell with someone you know well what they're feeling about a situation.

We have relied on instinct at social meets, if one of us says, ok well it's getting late...it's pretty obvious we don't want anything to happen.

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