FabSwingers.com forum: getting bored of swinging

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I don't seem to get excited at the thought of it anymore, and it seems Mrs Toypaj although she won't admit it is the same. When we first started it was so exciting and new, But just lately it seems to have become more a social event as for a sexual one and the idea of the sex doesn't really do anything for me. Our personal sex life is still booming Not sure if its just a dry patch which will get going again, or maybe the swinging side of it just doesn't turn us on anymore.

Maybe we just haven't found the right couple who we've been sexual attracted to. WHO KNOWSSS!

And in other news the word "Almost" is the longest commonly used word in the English language with all the letters in alphabetical order.

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Good thing you won that trip abroad to a top swinging destination then

But seriously everyone goes through periods where its not that interesting or you're not that active there is no harm in giving it a break for a bit and doing stuff together and coming back to it. Earth will still spin and site will still be here

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I knoowwwwww to be fair though that could be a blessing I'm sure well make the most of it :p

NAY! I know we will. It was rather unnecessary me posting this in all fairness, because although true, thinking logically I know the feeling won't last. Just begging attention really....like you say looks like well have to fight through our free holiday with much struggle!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I take regular breaks from NSA meets now and then. If it seems to be too much hassle then its worth just having a time out. You'll know when you want to get back into it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe we just haven't found the right couple who we've been sexual attracted to. WHO KNOWSSS!

I bet that will make the couples who have verified you feel special.

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"I knoowwwwww to be fair though that could be a blessing I'm sure well make the most of it :p

:D"

Breaks from this "lifestyle" to go be regular people are the most important thing in long term swinging because otherwise it becomes your life and that will lead to it becoming mundane and boring.

We thankfully tend to go through enforced periods of time where we just dont have time to swing so it tends to help keep it interesting for us but even so we have had periods where one or both of us just lose interest, natural human behaviour just go do something else for a bit

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

Maybe we just haven't found the right couple who we've been sexual attracted to. WHO KNOWSSS!

I bet that will make the couples who have verified you feel special.

Nice one. Had to check whether you were one of the couples

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

I left before cos it got too much

it can get too big a part of anyones life so like they all say take a break for a while

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Maybe we just haven't found the right couple who we've been sexual attracted to. WHO KNOWSSS!

I bet that will make the couples who have verified you feel special.

I did think about the way that was worded after I posted it, oops!

We've only soft swapped with 2 of the couples who have verified us. All the others are solely on the basis of us meeting for a laugh and if something happened it happened if not then oh well and nothing happened and the ones who verified us who we still have contact with are mature enough I'm sure to understand that

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