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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

can you tell me how you think a lady likes to be finger fucked?

i find more and more who seem to at at it like a bull at a gate.thrusting them in at the speed of lightening!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Yeah it hurts when they do that. I blame porn.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

blame the 'squirting' obsession

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"blame the 'squirting' obsession"

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


"blame the 'squirting' obsession"

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By *ornyHousewife 68Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

Really??

My hubby tends to focus mainly on my clitoris, starting gently and slowly, working up speed and pressure ever so slightly in relation to my response, he only slips a finger or two inside briefly at various times before returning to the main focus of my pleasure... works for me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"blame the 'squirting' obsession

"

+1

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

surely the best way to find out is ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a good hard thrusting finger fuck, really makes me gush.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah it hurts when they do that. I blame porn."

I blame porn too and it just makes you piss yourself. Which they now call "gushing" . I like nice,gentle strikes that make me have an orgasm, not wet myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah it hurts when they do that. I blame porn.

I blame porn too and it just makes you piss yourself. Which they now call "gushing" . I like nice,gentle strikes that make me have an orgasm, not wet myself "

strokes..my phone changed it to strikes!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yeah it hurts when they do that. I blame porn.

I blame porn too and it just makes you piss yourself. Which they now call "gushing" . I like nice,gentle strikes that make me have an orgasm, not wet myself "

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By *uckknowsMan
over a year ago

here

Slow and tickley I prefare to use my tongue and fingers together

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By *lanwoodMan
over a year ago

Alton

A porn site I visited suggested putting 2 fingers in, and then going up and down (as opposed to in and out) at 100 miles per hour. Women apparently love that. Really? That's not my experience. I prefer to gently insert one finger while licking and sucking the clit area. Stay there for a long as it takes! Lovely!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"can you tell me how you think a lady likes to be finger fucked?

i find more and more who seem to at at it like a bull at a gate.thrusting them in at the speed of lightening!

"

I like it like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

one finger, isn't that like throwing a sausage up the Mersey tunnel ?

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By *ebsCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Orpington/london


"Really??

My hubby tends to focus mainly on my clitoris, starting gently and slowly, working up speed and pressure ever so slightly in relation to my response, he only slips a finger or two inside briefly at various times before returning to the main focus of my pleasure... works for me lol "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A handful of posts in and the answer, which was blindingly obvious from the outset is...................

Each to their own

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By *ebsCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Orpington/london


"Yeah it hurts when they do that. I blame porn.

I blame porn too and it just makes you piss yourself. Which they now call "gushing" . I like nice,gentle strikes that make me have an orgasm, not wet myself

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a huge fan of being fingered to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i only like men to play with my clit, if they put their fingers in me it hurts and makes me want to wee.

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By *ocketrocket80Man
over a year ago

Walsall

Everyone is different so its working out what that person likes and enjoys

Ive found that alternating speed, rhthym and depth of insertion normally works but I'm willing to take advice.

Also spreading two fingers inside gives the lady the feeling of fullness which some have liked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really??

My hubby tends to focus mainly on my clitoris, starting gently and slowly, working up speed and pressure ever so slightly in relation to my response, he only slips a finger or two inside briefly at various times before returning to the main focus of my pleasure... works for me lol "

I couldn't have written it better myself. Gently in with the fingers when hand only. Slowly at first but More robust when get going with mouth/tongue which I believe another bloke has said too.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"one finger, isn't that like throwing a sausage up the Mersey tunnel ?"

What a charmer!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Play with a womans clit and just above it (the u spot) if she gets really turned on I normally play with the g spot also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"one finger, isn't that like throwing a sausage up the Mersey tunnel ?

What a charmer! "

Maybe with the women hes met.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As I'm a talkative fellow I will normaly teasingly try out a varied approach while suggestively asking for her impressions of my technique .

I know I've hit on the right technique when I'm told will you bloody shut up and just get on with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gentle on my clit please if they go a bit rough I tell them its the only way lol

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By *mallteaserWoman
over a year ago

Central

To be fair I quite like a good finger or two, mmm

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By *ust a TeaseMan
over a year ago

Earth


"can you tell me how you think a lady likes to be finger fucked?

i find more and more who seem to at at it like a bull at a gate.thrusting them in at the speed of lightening!

"

It depends on the lady.

Most of the time. Its slowly and my finger is doing circles while inside.

I tend to try different things depending on how the person reacts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really??

My hubby tends to focus mainly on my clitoris, starting gently and slowly, working up speed and pressure ever so slightly in relation to my response, he only slips a finger or two inside briefly at various times before returning to the main focus of my pleasure... works for me lol "

like this. Gently, gently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i like 2 do it that way its more satisfying 4 the women

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"can you tell me how you think a lady likes to be finger fucked?

i find more and more who seem to at at it like a bull at a gate.thrusting them in at the speed of lightening!

"

so why am i the only one they do it too?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to get the g spot.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"can you tell me how you think a lady likes to be finger fucked?

i find more and more who seem to at at it like a bull at a gate.thrusting them in at the speed of lightening!

"

I'd have to meet you to tell you I'm afraid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

that's how I like to do it too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slide in a finger or two, feel that soft warm part a few inches up, and roll your fingertips around it firmly (not forcefully) whilst you kiss her, speeding up or slowing down based on her response.

Also works for prostate massage!

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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago

Currently Faraway


"Yeah it hurts when they do that. I blame porn."

Agreed. Just like the fish hook myth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you forgo the fingers and just get your fist up there then this whole thread is a mote point

*joke*

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By *lanwoodMan
over a year ago

Alton


"can you tell me how you think a lady likes to be finger fucked?

i find more and more who seem to at at it like a bull at a gate.thrusting them in at the speed of lightening!

so why am i the only one they do it too????? "

You are meeting the wrong guys!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love a good hard thrusting finger fuck, really makes me gush. "

same here, hard and fast has me gushing everywhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In and up slow and gentle at first working your speed with a womens breathing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope! Gently, gently, gently is the only way for me.

I find that women treat men too gently, cus women like to be treated gently. And men treat women too firmly, cus men like to be treated firmly.

Remember that the OPPOSITE sex likes to be treated the OPPOSITE way from what you like..... and tweak your approach from there.

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By *ammyDodgaMan
over a year ago

Nottingham/and everywhere my location says i am ;)

I shall not divulge my secrets.. But it's certainly not about going hell for leather with the fingers..

Movement from the shoulder than the wrist is where it's at I've found.

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By *istress loves purpleCouple
over a year ago

amongst the fairy dust

this !! A male that considers the female x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm still confused

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a big fan of being fingered at all to be honest...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You wanna thrust for England... well whatever did my cervix do to you?

Two fingers in, hook towards the pubic bone NOT the anus and stroke. It's a "come here" motion and you hit the G spot.

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By *ammyDodgaMan
over a year ago

Nottingham/and everywhere my location says i am ;)


"You wanna thrust for England... well whatever did my cervix do to you?

Two fingers in, hook towards the pubic bone NOT the anus and stroke. It's a "come here" motion and you hit the G spot."

. You've just given the world the secret there.. If peeps can't watch n learn to what causes response they shouldn't be gifted with knowledge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You wanna thrust for England... well whatever did my cervix do to you?

Two fingers in, hook towards the pubic bone NOT the anus and stroke. It's a "come here" motion and you hit the G spot.

. You've just given the world the secret there.. If peeps can't watch n learn to what causes response they shouldn't be gifted with knowledge "

Twaddle... I wanna educate those who get near my ermmmm foof (I'm laughing because I had never ever heard a vagina being termed as such before I entered the forums ).

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


"You wanna thrust for England... well whatever did my cervix do to you?

Two fingers in, hook towards the pubic bone NOT the anus and stroke. It's a "come here" motion and you hit the G spot."

This is the "standard". But from experience, not all women respond to that particular spot. Some exploration might be required.

YMMV

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By *ammyDodgaMan
over a year ago

Nottingham/and everywhere my location says i am ;)


"You wanna thrust for England... well whatever did my cervix do to you?

Two fingers in, hook towards the pubic bone NOT the anus and stroke. It's a "come here" motion and you hit the G spot.

. You've just given the world the secret there.. If peeps can't watch n learn to what causes response they shouldn't be gifted with knowledge

Twaddle... I wanna educate those who get near my ermmmm foof (I'm laughing because I had never ever heard a vagina being termed as such before I entered the forums )."

.. But playing devils advocate here, if we've gotten to our age and not learnt then there's somet wrong?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You wanna thrust for England... well whatever did my cervix do to you?

Two fingers in, hook towards the pubic bone NOT the anus and stroke. It's a "come here" motion and you hit the G spot.

This is the "standard". But from experience, not all women respond to that particular spot. Some exploration might be required.

YMMV"

YMMV?

Young man meets vagina?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"can you tell me how you think a lady likes to be finger fucked?

i find more and more who seem to at at it like a bull at a gate.thrusting them in at the speed of lightening!

"

I tend to gently stroke The lips of your fanny then slid in me finger into your clit and stroking it abit and then working it til you start twitching with pleasure then gently rub both lips together while tickling your clit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a sensitive cervix so long fingers hit spot but if it's prolonged it becomes over sensitive and it's more like torture. Imagine hitting your funny bone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"surely the best way to find out is ask "

or listen

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By *ammyDodgaMan
over a year ago

Nottingham/and everywhere my location says i am ;)


"surely the best way to find out is ask

or listen "

a lot to be said for patience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like things nice and gentle. I also agree that the squirting obsession has led to more men being rough with women.

The same goes for penetrative sex, lots of men are really rough and just pound away. I prefer my sex a little more sensual and skilful

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


"You wanna thrust for England... well whatever did my cervix do to you?

Two fingers in, hook towards the pubic bone NOT the anus and stroke. It's a "come here" motion and you hit the G spot.

This is the "standard". But from experience, not all women respond to that particular spot. Some exploration might be required.

YMMV

YMMV?

Young man meets vagina? "

Hahaha, good one. I have to use that sometimes. No "Your Mileage May Vary"

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

The Wild Wetness

I've posted it elsewhere tonight, but surely a revolutionary idea such as talking would help.

You can assume someone is a sex expert and will instantly know what exactly does it for you or you could assist and let them know.

I'm not saying the whole sexual experience should be a tutoring session, but different women, like different things, I would never assume I could pleasure them all the same way that I can pleasure my wife.

Hell my wife likes it different each time. Sometimes completely clitoral, sometimes fisting.

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By *eathersnlustCouple
over a year ago

stoke

sensitive , the tip of a finger ! very gentile too !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"one finger, isn't that like throwing a sausage up the Mersey tunnel ?

What a charmer!

Maybe with the women hes met."

luckily have never met a woman, and never will x

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By *ymrocruMan
over a year ago

penygroes

A few of the wemen/ cpls i have had the pleasure of meeting love both holes gently fingerd in unison. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I'm somewhat of an expert in that department .. And it's really a matter of preference . Some girls like the heavier thrusting others like to be licked and stroked gently .. Personally whatever your into just ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When answering the question of 'what's the best way to finger or fucking a woman have to be straightforward and say that there is no single perfect technique. Every woman is special and different that is simply because all bodies are shaped differently and nerves and sensitive spots are never located in the same place. I always make sure she's wet as she can be by teasing her pussy and on yeah plenty of sensual kissing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its all about clit play not finger fucking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

definitly the come hither motion works gently to warm me up x although the bull in China shop drives me wild i love it fast lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and guys - keep those damn nails short with no sharp edges!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to play with the clit and slide my fingers down over the pussy gently teasing it but not quite going in . Then when the woman is nice and wet I'd slide two fingers in and curl them

Up to find the g spot while rubbing her clit with my thumb and perhaps just ringing the clit as well .

I've had no complaints yet but if I'm doing something wrong I'd expect a woman to tell me how she likes it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry that should be tonguing not ringing !!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gentle slow bit of oil or lub on the clit and take it real slow from there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All that porn and the effort to find G-Spot makes it worse. Tongue is the best and must say i am good at it lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every woman is different. Start slow and gentle and build up speed and force until you hear whats her point of pleasure. If you cant tell by listening, ask or get her to show you how she likes it and copy what she does

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

This is starting to sound like some people (it's not just men) find something that works with one partner and stick to it.

Doesn't that get boring? Surely half the fun of swinging is the finding out what turns the partner you are with on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive met ladies who like to be finger fucked hard, others dont, its personal preference,

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By * n zCouple
over a year ago

leamington spa

Hopefully most guys would ask on this one as we are all different and can depend on the day too........same as how does a guy like to be wanked?

Communication is the key.

A

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"can you tell me how you think a lady likes to be finger fucked?

i find more and more who seem to at at it like a bull at a gate.thrusting them in at the speed of lightening!

"

Each woman will like something different.

Why communication on a meet is so important.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"one finger, isn't that like throwing a sausage up the Mersey tunnel ?

What a charmer!

Maybe with the women hes met.

luckily have never met a woman, and never will x"

That explains it then.

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village


"can you tell me how you think a lady likes to be finger fucked?

i find more and more who seem to at at it like a bull at a gate.thrusting them in at the speed of lightening!

"

I'd say it depends on the lady who you are pleasuring and how she enjoys it. I guess it comes down to the male taking his time and paying attention to his partners reaction as to how they enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"one finger, isn't that like throwing a sausage up the Mersey tunnel ?

What a charmer!

Maybe with the women hes met.

luckily have never met a woman, and never will x

That explains it then."

sounds like hes met my ex

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By *illwill69uMan
over a year ago

moston


"can you tell me how you think a lady likes to be finger fucked?

i find more and more who seem to at at it like a bull at a gate.thrusting them in at the speed of lightening!

"
I find that starting with my mouth and kissing the pussy lips gently gently just like starting to kiss a girls lips before moving on to french kiss the pussy. Then slide 1 finger inside while kissing the clit and starting to gently stroke the G spot. As the pussy gets wetter then insert another and 3rd finger and play the front walls of the pussy in the same way you finger-pick an acoustic guitar.

Seems most girls love it! And so do I!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say, in my opinion, everyone is right. I find that woman like the variety and the surprise as much as i like changing things up and around also. Also just feeling what the mood calls for and the speed that's required - i don't think you can pre decide. And then there is the old fashion, just talking to one another! If it feels good carry on, if not, try something else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah it hurts when they do that. I blame porn."

Yeah porn has a lot to answer for lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Less is more....porn is farfetched...fingering I adore it... softly is best ...a bit of ruff from time to time . Flame x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nice n slow go more for pressure points to tease, I have very large hands and hard and fast sometimes hurts her

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You wanna thrust for England... well whatever did my cervix do to you?

Two fingers in, hook towards the pubic bone NOT the anus and stroke. It's a "come here" motion and you hit the G spot."

mrs hedo likes that way too , also put gentle pressure on the pubic mound with the other hand from outside

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It all depends on the lady! Each to there own but I start gently and build up! Major focus in sensitising the area without touching the 'go too' clit and g spot. Caressing the inner thigh and the areas around the pussy gets it all hyper sensitive and then I like to spread the juices over the lips before blowing gently on the area to heighten sensations. If I want to make them cum, I pull the clitoral hood back and play with there clit either tongue or finger whilst applying pressure to the perineum. 5 minutes of that and even the most difficult ladies are climbing the walls!

J

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

you can always ask one of my play mates if they think I know how to do it.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It all depends on the lady! Each to there own but I start gently and build up! Major focus in sensitising the area without touching the 'go too' clit and g spot. Caressing the inner thigh and the areas around the pussy gets it all hyper sensitive and then I like to spread the juices over the lips before blowing gently on the area to heighten sensations. If I want to make them cum, I pull the clitoral hood back and play with there clit either tongue or finger whilst applying pressure to the perineum. 5 minutes of that and even the most difficult ladies are climbing the walls!

J "

Would you mind re_iewing your parameters please?

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By *istress loves purpleCouple
over a year ago

amongst the fairy dust


"I would say, in my opinion, everyone is right. I find that woman like the variety and the surprise as much as i like changing things up and around also. Also just feeling what the mood calls for and the speed that's required - i don't think you can pre decide. And then there is the old fashion, just talking to one another! If it feels good carry on, if not, try something else."

I agree too communication by talking , touching , caressing and kissing

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By *lassic1Man
over a year ago

bellshill


"I like to get the g spot. "

FFS the G Spot......you are down there tongue....fingers...etc......who the hell is going to hold the map and torch ...ehhh ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A porn site I visited suggested putting 2 fingers in, and then going up and down (as opposed to in and out) at 100 miles per hour. Women apparently love that. Really? That's not my experience. I prefer to gently insert one finger while licking and sucking the clit area. Stay there for a long as it takes! Lovely! "

Same, pay attention to the g-spot and tongue the clit hard when I do (after having started slowly), seems to do the trick

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By *inful_coupleCouple
over a year ago

Frimley

Dave has wonderful fingers and not one of our girls has had anything other that intense pleasure from finger fucking... But I guess some guys have good, useful experience and care about the pleasure of the girl. Some, most, guys dont.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the guy explores a little he might find the spot for the partner he is with. And it it a myth that it takes a couple of fingers being rammed in with force & speed to make a lady gush. My FB can do it with 1 finger as he knows the spot and just tickling the spot can get me gushing with very little force or effort. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to tounge fuck than finger fuck.

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By *akedninjaMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

I blame the telly tubbies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If the guy explores a little he might find the spot for the partner he is with. And it it a myth that it takes a couple of fingers being rammed in with force & speed to make a lady gush. My FB can do it with 1 finger as he knows the spot and just tickling the spot can get me gushing with very little force or effort. xx"

We need to meet, lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely a lady would say if you're not doing it how she likes?!

I think if you're bothering to take her pleasure into consideration you'll be able to tell if she's liking what you're doing...?

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

if she says dont stop .. dont stop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So many men don't know where the GSpot is...now Joe hits it every time without feeling the need to smash my pussy in lol

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"I prefer to tounge fuck than finger fuck."

But does the woman?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I play bass and have never had any complaints about my fingering technique

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

When I were a lad, I read in some mag or another than you were supposed to rub the clit with yer fingerpad like you were trying to get a small stain out of velvet.

Despite my mind boggling at the notion of young lads owning velvet clothing, it seemed to serve me well in my teenage years.

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By *ubberdollieWoman
over a year ago

Stoke

I so love it when men say they know what we ladies like... all of us? Wow now that is impressive!

personally I love a skilful finger in me bits, and I can come hard, but some men do not know what they are doing and its either painful or just plain annoying

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex


"blame the 'squirting' obsession"

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By *ature married manMan
over a year ago

Loughborough

I love to gently rub my fingers between the lips gathering the juices and smearing them over every part of her pussy , sliding my fingers up and down slowly each side of their lips to their clit... Then from the clit very slow and gently starting with your finger, and glide downwards letting your palm and eventually the inside of your wrist stroke over the clit.... Carry on doing that for a while stroking the inside of her thighs and anus.... Adding a tiny little pressure to the clit from your soft skin on your wrist will eventually make the lady have an orgasm .

That's how i do it always... So for me its as gentle as you can be and not hard and rough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Find best way is lightly probing with some soft tongue action aswell.teasing with both heightens orgasm and makes for a very wet pussy...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not only is every woman different, each of them want different things at different times, most in my experience don't want to give full instructions before sex starts... So vary the technique a bit and follow the verbal / non verbal clues about how this pussy wants to play this time

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By *ark Gr8 Teddy BearMan
over a year ago

Wigan

I like to go slowly and take my cue from how the girl responds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"blame the 'squirting' obsession

"

In my experience the squirting only happens when i am going down on a girl and teasing the front inner wall of her softly and slowly

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By *iceguy25Man
over a year ago

tongbridge

This is how you work out the men from the boys lol if you know what your doing you need nothing more then two fingers in the "come here" position and if your really good your thumb on the clit and you in control you can finish her in 10 seconds or get her almost to the point and stop love that the power it gives

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah it hurts when they do that. I blame porn."

yep porn is crap, nothing taking it slow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"blame the 'squirting' obsession

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it reminds me of the programme "All creatures great and small" when they stick their arm half way up a cows flange!! ffs youre meant to be pleasuring us not delivering a calf! lol

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By *rT30Man
over a year ago

Munster


"blame the 'squirting' obsession"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of the responses sound very mechanical, like some sort of science project where the achievement is the lady gushing or cumming or both.

Pity, there is so much more to be experienced.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"can you tell me how you think a lady likes to be finger fucked?

i find more and more who seem to at at it like a bull at a gate.thrusting them in at the speed of lightening!

"

anyone does that gets short shrift.

no fun to be had when the downstairs is too sore to be touched.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is how you work out the men from the boys lol if you know what your doing you need nothing more then two fingers in the "come here" position and if your really good your thumb on the clit and you in control you can finish her in 10 seconds or get her almost to the point and stop love that the power it gives"

2 fingers??

amateur lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this thread has made me chuckle.

can imagine now, guys writing all this shit down and taking a pad with them, then when lesson one doesnt work, flip the page and start with lesson 2.

look, guys, there is only 1 way to pleasure a woman.

use you brain and your ears.

she will tell you what she likes.

start off however you want, but keep lines of communication open with her.

if your shit, she will tell you

she will also tell you very quickly what she likes

none of the above really matters, unless you are meeting the exact same women the posters have met.

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