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"I was thinking about what was the best way to pleasure you ladies What is your biggest turn on and how would us men best pleasure you I think all guys should think about this don't you ? " I would imagine that it's different for everyone. | |||
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"One way - one man. Never would happen on a meet. Try to thing about just having fun and let a woman guide you, and explore together. It isn't all about the finish line but how you get there. " True have always thought that intercourse / sex as a full stop its the finishing act what happens before that is more important ? | |||
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"One way - one man. Never would happen on a meet. Try to thing about just having fun and let a woman guide you, and explore together. It isn't all about the finish line but how you get there. True have always thought that intercourse / sex as a full stop its the finishing act what happens before that is more important ?" No cumming is the final act and having fun getting there is important! ![]() | |||
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"I think us guys need to listen more and be happy to take direction now and then After all it's your bodies and you know what they like Also to concentrate on the other person more ?" No no!!! Listen to each other and work out what you both like, should not be about concentrating on one person only. | |||
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"I think us guys need to listen more and be happy to take direction now and then After all it's your bodies and you know what they like Also to concentrate on the other person more ? No no!!! Listen to each other and work out what you both like, should not be about concentrating on one person only. " Nice to hear the woman's point of view this is what a forum is about ?? | |||
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"I think us guys need to listen more and be happy to take direction now and then After all it's your bodies and you know what they like Also to concentrate on the other person more ? No no!!! Listen to each other and work out what you both like, should not be about concentrating on one person only. Nice to hear the woman's point of view this is what a forum is about ?? " Erm yes, everyone will have their own opinions of course ![]() | |||
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"Just do what men have been doing forever. Make base camp on the nipples after sucking on them like they're going to come off, then head south, play a fleeting visit to the clitoris before you take that vagine to down to pound town. " Jodie now come on!! Men don't know where a clitoris is so your story is wrong, wrong, wrong!!! ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Just do what men have been doing forever. Make base camp on the nipples after sucking on them like they're going to come off, then head south, play a fleeting visit to the clitoris before you take that vagine to down to pound town. Jodie now come on!! Men don't know where a clitoris is so your story is wrong, wrong, wrong!!! ![]() ![]() That's soooo not true Julie....of course men have heard of it. Trouble is it's not on any map, satnav is useless in bed as is google streetview, so there's no chance of it being found and most think it's a character from Lord of the Rings anyway. | |||
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"Just do what men have been doing forever. Make base camp on the nipples after sucking on them like they're going to come off, then head south, play a fleeting visit to the clitoris before you take that vagine to down to pound town. Jodie now come on!! Men don't know where a clitoris is so your story is wrong, wrong, wrong!!! ![]() ![]() Jesus now I know where I have been going wrong! Thanks Jodie - off to install a sat nav in my pants ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Just do what men have been doing forever. Make base camp on the nipples after sucking on them like they're going to come off, then head south, play a fleeting visit to the clitoris before you take that vagine to down to pound town. Jodie now come on!! Men don't know where a clitoris is so your story is wrong, wrong, wrong!!! ![]() ![]() Hey I knew there was one just not where pmsl Btw that was a joke in case some people believe me ![]() | |||
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"Just do what men have been doing forever. Make base camp on the nipples after sucking on them like they're going to come off, then head south, play a fleeting visit to the clitoris before you take that vagine to down to pound town. Jodie now come on!! Men don't know where a clitoris is so your story is wrong, wrong, wrong!!! ![]() ![]() ![]() Cat's out the bag now ![]() ![]() | |||
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"unless you have a writing pad, there realy is no point is saying xyz makes someone cum. plus, you can play with 10 different people and the same thing with each person may not make you cum either. best to wait til you have a meet with someone and enjoy each other as best you can at the time. listen and learn. wouldnt want to meet with anyone that had preconceived ideas about how to do things anyway, would just make for a let down." It's not about preconceived ideas its a generalisation to help ? I know everyone is different but there is already starting to be a trend and that is to listen and learn ? My Idea was to just chat about it and maybe find some new things to enjoy when with someone not just the run of the mill stuff And of course to have a laugh along the way It's about exploring and enjoying sex / foreplay Yes I know you thought us guys didn't know about foreplay well we do but I for one want to find out more as its the key to great sex I think ??? Sex has not got last hours if you have good foreplay what do you think ? | |||
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"Wait......women can orgasm ???? Since when ?" Oh god it is a new crazy fad, soon die out ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"unless you have a writing pad, there realy is no point is saying xyz makes someone cum. plus, you can play with 10 different people and the same thing with each person may not make you cum either. best to wait til you have a meet with someone and enjoy each other as best you can at the time. listen and learn. wouldnt want to meet with anyone that had preconceived ideas about how to do things anyway, would just make for a let down. It's not about preconceived ideas its a generalisation to help ? I know everyone is different but there is already starting to be a trend and that is to listen and learn ? My Idea was to just chat about it and maybe find some new things to enjoy when with someone not just the run of the mill stuff And of course to have a laugh along the way It's about exploring and enjoying sex / foreplay Yes I know you thought us guys didn't know about foreplay well we do but I for one want to find out more as its the key to great sex I think ??? Sex has not got last hours if you have good foreplay what do you think ?" i have no idea what you mean? who says men know nothing about foreplay? i certainly didnt. some men are ignorant to the needs of others, as are some women, others are great. good foreplay doesnt mean sex is over quickly, i dont get you. we only soft play, so to us, foreplay is more important than to a lot, because this is all we do with other people. we have great penetrative sex with each other. if you are one of those that thinks whats between your legs is the only pleasure giver, as opposed to whats between your ears, then i feel you may be missing the point | |||
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"unless you have a writing pad, there realy is no point is saying xyz makes someone cum. plus, you can play with 10 different people and the same thing with each person may not make you cum either. best to wait til you have a meet with someone and enjoy each other as best you can at the time. listen and learn. wouldnt want to meet with anyone that had preconceived ideas about how to do things anyway, would just make for a let down. It's not about preconceived ideas its a generalisation to help ? I know everyone is different but there is already starting to be a trend and that is to listen and learn ? My Idea was to just chat about it and maybe find some new things to enjoy when with someone not just the run of the mill stuff And of course to have a laugh along the way It's about exploring and enjoying sex / foreplay Yes I know you thought us guys didn't know about foreplay well we do but I for one want to find out more as its the key to great sex I think ??? Sex has not got last hours if you have good foreplay what do you think ? i have no idea what you mean? who says men know nothing about foreplay? i certainly didnt. some men are ignorant to the needs of others, as are some women, others are great. good foreplay doesnt mean sex is over quickly, i dont get you. we only soft play, so to us, foreplay is more important than to a lot, because this is all we do with other people. we have great penetrative sex with each other. if you are one of those that thinks whats between your legs is the only pleasure giver, as opposed to whats between your ears, then i feel you may be missing the point" My point it to use what is between my ears better I am not arrogant just trying my best thats all and trying to find out from the woman's perspective I want to better myself that's all is that wrong ? | |||
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" I am not arrogant just trying my best thats all and trying to find out from the woman's perspective I want to better myself that's all is that wrong ?" not wrong at all, just easier and makes much more sense to sort it out with whoever you are with at the time. what doe sit for V wont do it for Julie, and son on, so you would be wasting your time. | |||
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"Many of us have no interest in getting to orgasm from a Fab meet - it's not what we want. If guys would make fewer assumptions about it, then we'd be far more inclined to say yes to a meet, but it can be very off-putting when a guy starts by saying that he's guaranteed to get us off, or whatever... " I find I enjoy the flirting at a meet and never assume there will be sex that's just not the way it works for me But sometimes it happens and it's fine if that's what everyone wants | |||
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"My own fingers. ![]() ![]() all men, or the ones you have been with? its a big suggestion to say that no man, in the entire world, would be able to make you cum, however its easy to say those you have come into contact with so far havent done it for you | |||
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"My own fingers. ![]() ![]() Ok ok, I am yet to meet a man who can make me cum .... Better ![]() | |||
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"My own fingers. ![]() ![]() ![]() absolutely. now that i have helped, await all your messages telling you that you ahvent met the right men and they can do it for you. lol | |||
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"Its easy to make a woman cum, and to squirt, even if she's never done it before, its just technique ![]() Bollocks! No meet would make me cum, regardless of technique! | |||
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"Its easy to make a woman cum, and to squirt, even if she's never done it before, its just technique ![]() message BBW4Ux she needs someone like you ![]() | |||
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"One way - one man. It goes like this: ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() That's the one!! | |||
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"Its easy to make a woman cum, and to squirt, even if she's never done it before, its just technique ![]() Of course its not bollocks lol, unless your stopping yourself. It hasn't failed yet anyway. | |||
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"Its easy to make a woman cum, and to squirt, even if she's never done it before, its just technique ![]() Erm yes it is! I know my body ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Its easy to make a woman cum, and to squirt, even if she's never done it before, its just technique ![]() ![]() ![]() Your asking me how I know they didn't squirt...id have thought the answer was obvious lol ![]() | |||
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"Its easy to make a woman cum, and to squirt, even if she's never done it before, its just technique ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Could just be piss haha | |||
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"Its easy to make a woman cum, and to squirt, even if she's never done it before, its just technique ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Haha id know by the taste ![]() | |||
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"Its easy to make a woman cum, and to squirt, even if she's never done it before, its just technique ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() P.S a number of ladies who do squirt say it is not the same thing as an orgasm ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Its easy to make a woman cum, and to squirt, even if she's never done it before, its just technique ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Well, theres only one way to find out.....FIIIIGHT lol | |||
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"Its easy to make a woman cum, and to squirt, even if she's never done it before, its just technique ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I am off to hide behind Mister!!! You can fight him lmao ![]() | |||
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"Its easy to make a woman cum, and to squirt, even if she's never done it before, its just technique ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Hmmmm im not sure my technique would work on him lol | |||
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"Its easy to make a woman cum, and to squirt, even if she's never done it before, its just technique ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() It wouldn't work on either of us. | |||
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"Its easy to make a woman cum, and to squirt, even if she's never done it before, its just technique ![]() being good at something is sexy being arrogant with it, is more of a turn off. | |||
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"I was thinking about what was the best way to pleasure you ladies What is your biggest turn on and how would us men best pleasure you I think all guys should think about this don't you ? I would imagine that it's different for everyone." ![]() | |||
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"One way - one man. Never would happen on a meet. Try to thing about just having fun and let a woman guide you, and explore together. It isn't all about the finish line but how you get there. " ![]() | |||
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"I think us guys need to listen more and be happy to take direction now and then After all it's your bodies and you know what they like Also to concentrate on the other person more ? No no!!! Listen to each other and work out what you both like, should not be about concentrating on one person only. " Oh I beg to differ! ![]() | |||
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"I think us guys need to listen more and be happy to take direction now and then After all it's your bodies and you know what they like Also to concentrate on the other person more ? No no!!! Listen to each other and work out what you both like, should not be about concentrating on one person only. Oh I beg to differ! ![]() I am not as mean as you ![]() | |||
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"Its easy to make a woman cum, and to squirt, even if she's never done it before, its just technique ![]() Very true, id never dream of being arrogant ![]() | |||
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"Its easy to make a woman cum, and to squirt, even if she's never done it before, its just technique ![]() ![]() its lucky you dont need to dream about it then | |||
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"Its easy to make a woman cum, and to squirt, even if she's never done it before, its just technique ![]() ![]() Now now lol, | |||
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"Its easy to make a woman cum, and to squirt, even if she's never done it before, its just technique ![]() ![]() ![]() This! I've only orgasmed with men I've had an emotional connection with and only ever had mind blowing orgasms with my husband. | |||
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"Im here to pleasure all the wemen i can. Have been told by a few ladies that i have fantastic oral skills. Xxxx" What talking about it lol | |||
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"Im here to pleasure all the wemen i can. Have been told by a few ladies that i have fantastic oral skills. Xxxx" thats a nice way of saying you talk a good fuck lol | |||
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"Its easy to make a woman cum, and to squirt, even if she's never done it before, its just technique ![]() ![]() ![]() Amen!! ![]() | |||
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"Its easy to make a woman cum, and to squirt, even if she's never done it before, its just technique ![]() What a ridiculous statement. How can you possible know this unless you've tried it on all women everywhere. All you can say is the women you've been with have all orgasmed. And forgive me but you can't even say that with any certainty. | |||
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"Its easy to make a woman cum, and to squirt, even if she's never done it before, its just technique ![]() I can only orgasm with mental and some emotional connection... So it would fail on me too. | |||
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"My own fingers. ![]() ![]() ![]() The more a guy tries to make me cum the less its possible. I can get close but never quite 'tip over'. Btw i can be made to squirt, but its not an orgasm. | |||
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"One way - one man. Never would happen on a meet. Try to thing about just having fun and let a woman guide you, and explore together. It isn't all about the finish line but how you get there. True have always thought that intercourse / sex as a full stop its the finishing act what happens before that is more important ?" much more important for me, i have never cum thro penetration, to be honest it don't do that much for me and could quite happy have a meet and only do the kissing, licking, sucking, touching ![]() | |||
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"One way - one man. Never would happen on a meet. Try to thing about just having fun and let a woman guide you, and explore together. It isn't all about the finish line but how you get there. True have always thought that intercourse / sex as a full stop its the finishing act what happens before that is more important ? much more important for me, i have never cum thro penetration, to be honest it don't do that much for me and could quite happy have a meet and only do the kissing, licking, sucking, touching ![]() and you REALLY wont meet couples? lol | |||
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"I'm surprised how many women say they don't orgasm on meets ![]() ![]() ![]() I can count on one hand the guys that have made me orgasm... I have a good time... But till I met Lee I never came with a meet. Cali | |||
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"Its easy to make a woman cum, and to squirt, even if she's never done it before, its just technique ![]() Don't you mean: "It's easy to ignore what a woman actually wants and bore her to the point where she fakes an orgasm..." In all my wide circle of women friends, I don't know a single one who hasn't ended up doing it just to save some poor guy's ego.... You'll never know for sure if we're faking it or not, will you...??? ![]() | |||
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" Don't you mean: "It's easy to ignore what a woman actually wants and bore her to the point where she fakes an orgasm..." In all my wide circle of women friends, I don't know a single one who hasn't ended up doing it just to save some poor guy's ego.... You'll never know for sure if we're faking it or not, will you...??? ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"interesting how many women don't orgasm on a meet" I wonder out of that count, how many are like me and have never had one | |||
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"interesting how many women don't orgasm on a meet" doesnt suprise me. for V orgasms are the pinacle, that she can only get to when suitably relaxed, turned on and enjoying herself. really dont think it is possible to get to the mental state where you are ready to have something like that, when being serviced by, or around, people you dont know that well. | |||
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"interesting how many women don't orgasm on a meet I wonder out of that count, how many are like me and have never had one" I thought I was in the minority tbh. Glad I appear to be normal ![]() | |||
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"interesting how many women don't orgasm on a meet I wonder out of that count, how many are like me and have never had one I thought I was in the minority tbh. Glad I appear to be normal ![]() *warning* unfounded ridiculous statement approaching. please stand clear *warning* i reckon i could make you orgasm just by looking at you *warning*unfounded ridiculous statement now moving away. please mind your feet. have a pleasant day*warning* | |||
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"interesting how many women don't orgasm on a meet I wonder out of that count, how many are like me and have never had one I thought I was in the minority tbh. Glad I appear to be normal ![]() Do a search on the forums as there are actually quite a few women who haven't ever orgasmed | |||
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"interesting how many women don't orgasm on a meet I wonder out of that count, how many are like me and have never had one I thought I was in the minority tbh. Glad I appear to be normal ![]() Very rare for me I think I'm just insatiable | |||
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"OMG I just came! you really do have magic powers,,," lol. phew. ![]() | |||
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"One way - one man. Never would happen on a meet. Try to thing about just having fun and let a woman guide you, and explore together. It isn't all about the finish line but how you get there. True have always thought that intercourse / sex as a full stop its the finishing act what happens before that is more important ? much more important for me, i have never cum thro penetration, to be honest it don't do that much for me and could quite happy have a meet and only do the kissing, licking, sucking, touching ![]() Me to sex is not always important | |||
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"Just do what men have been doing forever. Make base camp on the nipples after sucking on them like they're going to come off, then head south, play a fleeting visit to the clitoris before you take that vagine to down to pound town. " Funny as fuck! | |||
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