FabSwingers.com forum: cheating with face pics

By *udiguy OP Man
over a year ago

harrogate

been chattin to a lady on here . shes local . and like myself fully admits to be married and messin around!

ok fair nuff . thats her life...

but she has piles of face pics in her public album. i told her my opinion that bein from a small town thats not to clever.. she should make em private . and put a few sexy ones as her publics .

anyway today her name and some pictures from my mates wedding show up on my facebook.. turns out my mates her brother in law and i know her fella............

so i messaged her to tell her this ... but added " secrets safe with me

as it happens i dont like ya fella. but what if one of his mates sees u here. u need to re think ya profile"

anyway she messages back . "its not like u gonna tell anyone . "

think shes missed the point!????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah just get her tapped

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone who sees her photos here would surely be here for the same reason that she is so they probably wouldnt say anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe she wants to be found out

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

She must know the risks and accept them. Let her get on with it x

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By *udiguy OP Man
over a year ago

harrogate

got no choice she blocked me !!

im not preachin about her cheatin (im same)

just tryin to enlighten her that its a small town .....

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By *udiguy OP Man
over a year ago

harrogate

and whats a single mate got to lose

" ere i seen your mrs on the web wantin guys"

or someone who doesnt lke him....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She must know the risks and accept them. Let her get on with it x"

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Yeah it's her profile, let her get on with it. You warned her as she might not have thought of that in the excitement of using fab and from the comfort of her own home etc.

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By *udiguy OP Man
over a year ago

harrogate

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By *udiguy OP Man
over a year ago

harrogate

i guess your all right

just gobsmacks me anyones that thick..

dont think she looked past bein mad at me and realises what shes doin....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You do your thing and never mind anyone else, its no ones business but each ti own on here. I understand you was trying to hep but the risk may turn her in

A friend of mine been on here 8 years ad was found out three days ago. Was a profile set up to catch him. Now hea been fight out and waiting for live in prtner to find out!. He he ffs pics and showed verifications. I told him he as plying with fire but told him once, his life.

Now he's shitting himself but he knew risks x

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By *udiguy OP Man
over a year ago

harrogate

misstres tiger....

struggled a bit followin ya . but i get the drift...

yea i treid to give her advice...... did nt listen

i neva seen her around town . saw her here tho ..

then she pops up postin pics of my mates weddin . i now know her full name and who her fella is

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

My bet is she wants to be found out so leave her to it.

Its not as if her being found out puts you in jeopardy....does it?

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By *udiguy OP Man
over a year ago

harrogate

not at all....

shes kinda new n i wanted to share some advice

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"not at all....

shes kinda new n i wanted to share some advice"

Ok. The thing is you don't know the dynamic of her relationship if she is trying to make some awful point, trying to cause jealousy or just feels like causing pain. Posting pictures of an actual social occasion that her husband probably attended too shows even less respect than usual and kind of implies to me that she's a woman with a point to prove or nothing to lose or the most dangerous of all someone who believes they're invincible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe he knew about the profile and gets off on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My advice, to paraphrase Walter White, 'If you don’t know all the facts and the situation, then maybe your best course… would be to tread lightly.'

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By *udiguy OP Man
over a year ago

harrogate

no the weddin pics wer nt on here!!!

thats how she popped up on my facebook

my mate was tagged..

but shes got selfies n stuff on the two sites

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By *udiguy OP Man
over a year ago

harrogate

"Maybe he knew about the profile and gets off on it "

thats not what her profile says

plus i cant c it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people don't tell the truth on their profiles and who knows what little kinks go on in a relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mobile phones, and the net have caused more separations, divorces and pain, than anything else.

when you put anything on the internet, it is fair game, I imagine her husband is probably on a sex site as well...

enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"misstres tiger....

struggled a bit followin ya . but i get the drift...

yea i treid to give her advice...... did nt listen

i neva seen her around town . saw her here tho ..

then she pops up postin pics of my mates weddin . i now know her full name and who her fella is"

Sorry for typos, bloody phone and eyes like pissholes don't help! Lol

All you need to do is grit teeth. Just leave her be and you just enjoy the site and move on and say nothing coz if you do its a whole new ballgame and it will get messy x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"no the weddin pics wer nt on here!!!

thats how she popped up on my facebook

my mate was tagged..

but shes got selfies n stuff on the two sites"

Oh yes sorry its early. My opinion is the same though. If her husband doesn't know and she gets found out tough on her and very tough on him, if he does know then they're both happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was chatting too a couple it turns out he is my ladys sons best m8

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone who sees her photos here would surely be here for the same reason that she is so they probably wouldnt say anything."

Really? Plenty on here have no idea about discretion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh for the love of God - just 'Hit it or Quit it'!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of you are kind of missing the point the world is not full of happy bunnies and nice people .

Someone will try the old blackmail route on her if she does not protect herself against such things as a married women .

Next up you have the kind of person who loves to cause misery for no other reason than there life's miserable so why not make other peoples life's miserable which they will if they can.

My opinion you have been to nice if your attempt to explain , be brutal and she will get the message .

Sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind or in her case to make someone see sense .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe she wants to be found out

That's my thought too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she has blocked you, and you can't see her page she may have realised her risk! And removed them by now ! Don't worry hun ... Just move on

you have done what you can to help x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe she wants to be found out

That's my thought too

If she has a beef with her husband and is looking to even the score no need to join one of these sites .

As a women all she has to do is give the old come on smile to a couple of guys on a Friday night and the score will be settled at the end of the evening .

Real world sex hunting is far easier than online sex hunting again just my opinion.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Have to say that if someone messaged me trying to give me unsolicited advise on my profile, warning me about the need for discretion and saying my secrets were safe with them, Id more than likely interpret that as them stirring and also a touch threatening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does anyone here really really understand how easy it is to 'right click' and save pictures from the likes of FB and even Fab? To do the Devils handiwork with!

We work on the premiss that all profiles on here are Fake.

Any profile that plasters Fizzog pictures in its public pictures has us giving it an extremely wide berth. It's almost certainly going to be fake and in the unlikely event it's genuine the fact that they probably cannot even spell 'diskreet' makes us avoid it like the plague.

We use veri's and veri's of veri's to try and sort the wheat from the chaff and in 14 years of playing have not been let down yet.

To the OP the profile in question is either

FAKE and someone is out to do someone else harm

REAL and someone is toooooo stupid not to eventually embroil you in a situation you will probably live to regret.

AVOID!!!!

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By *udiguy OP Man
over a year ago

harrogate

"Some of you are kind of missing the point the world is not full of happy bunnies and nice people .

Someone will try the old blackmail route on her if she does not protect herself against such things as a married women .

Next up you have the kind of person who loves to cause misery for no other reason than there life's miserable so why not make other peoples life's miserable which they will if they can.

My opinion you have been to nice if your attempt to explain , be brutal and she will get the message .

Sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind or in her case to make someone see sense ."

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By *udiguy OP Man
over a year ago

harrogate

"Have to say that if someone messaged me trying to give me unsolicited advise on my profile, warning me about the need for discretion and saying my secrets were safe with them, Id more than likely interpret that as them stirring and also a touch threatening

well i dont like the bloke

but i ve nowt against her my "advice" was fully innocent n without threat or malice

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over a year ago

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By *udiguy OP Man
over a year ago

harrogate

"Does anyone here really really understand how easy it is to 'right click' and save pictures from the likes of FB and even Fab? To do the Devils handiwork with!

We work on the premiss that all profiles on here are Fake.

We use veri's and veri's of veri's to try and sort the wheat from the chaff and in 14 years of playing have not been let down yet.

To the OP the profile in question is either

FAKE and someone is out to do someone else harm

REAL and someone is toooooo stupid not to eventually embroil you in a situation you will probably live to regret.

i reckon its real

these pics are goin up as quick as she facebooks em

AVOID!!!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hold a fabswingers town meeting...just to make sure everyone gets the message about discretion

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By *udiguy OP Man
over a year ago

harrogate

"hold a fabswingers town meeting...just to make sure everyone gets the message about discretion "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hold a fabswingers town meeting...just to make sure everyone gets the message about discretion "

Haha!

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"Anyone who sees her photos here would surely be here for the same reason that she is so they probably wouldnt say anything."

Some people are more discreet than others. You only have to read some of the threads on the forums about recognising others in public.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"been chattin to a lady on here . shes local . and like myself fully admits to be married and messin around!

ok fair nuff . thats her life...

but she has piles of face pics in her public album. i told her my opinion that bein from a small town thats not to clever.. she should make em private . and put a few sexy ones as her publics .

anyway today her name and some pictures from my mates wedding show up on my facebook.. turns out my mates her brother in law and i know her fella............

so i messaged her to tell her this ... but added " secrets safe with me

as it happens i dont like ya fella. but what if one of his mates sees u here. u need to re think ya profile"

anyway she messages back . "its not like u gonna tell anyone . "

think shes missed the point!????

For some people the risk is what its all about you might find out he already knows but its their kink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i guess your all right

just gobsmacks me anyones that thick..

dont think she looked past bein mad at me and realises what shes doin...."

think this says more about you than her, tbh

maybe she isnt as good at beaing devious than you?

MAYBE she isnt happy in her marriage and is using having sex with other men as a reason to get out of the relationship.

maybe he DOES know about it, and gets off on knowing she is doing this sort of thing.

just because she isnt ashamed of what she is doing doesnt mean she is thick.

if its going to affect you when she gets caught then delete your profile and start another, or dont, your choice.

if it wont effect you, then why worry about it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some of you are kind of missing the point the world is not full of happy bunnies and nice people .

Someone will try the old blackmail route on her if she does not protect herself against such things as a married women .

Next up you have the kind of person who loves to cause misery for no other reason than there life's miserable so why not make other peoples life's miserable which they will if they can.

My opinion you have been to nice if your attempt to explain , be brutal and she will get the message .

Sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind or in her case to make someone see sense ."

So? You choose to cheat, you deal with the consequences.

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By *udiguy OP Man
over a year ago

harrogate

true u do

but why . if not cos she wants to get caught..

be so blatent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must concentrate on reading posts properly - stopped at a very inappropriate place and all I saw was this:

been chattin to a lady on here . shes local . and like myself fully admits to be married and messin around!

ok fair nuff . thats her life...

but she has piles..........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She's playing with fire mate!!

You have tried to advise her prob is if she's caught she may bring you into the equation

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By *udiguy OP Man
over a year ago

harrogate

"She's playing with fire mate!!

You have tried to advise her prob is if she's caught she may bring you into the equation "

no way she can mate

im just _udiguy

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"been chattin to a lady on here . shes local . and like myself fully admits to be married and messin around!

ok fair nuff . thats her life...

but she has piles of face pics in her public album. i told her my opinion that bein from a small town thats not to clever.. she should make em private . and put a few sexy ones as her publics .

anyway today her name and some pictures from my mates wedding show up on my facebook.. turns out my mates her brother in law and i know her fella............

so i messaged her to tell her this ... but added " secrets safe with me

as it happens i dont like ya fella. but what if one of his mates sees u here. u need to re think ya profile"

anyway she messages back . "its not like u gonna tell anyone . "

think shes missed the point!????

Mind...your...own...business!

You're here cheating running the risk of being found out, so is she. She's using her profile how she wants, who are you, the moral police? *Sniggers*

Your bare faced cheek beggars belief!

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By *udiguy OP Man
over a year ago

harrogate

it was nt her morals i was worried about!

my concern was she could have fun without the risk

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Some of you are kind of missing the point the world is not full of happy bunnies and nice people .

Someone will try the old blackmail route on her if she does not protect herself against such things as a married women .

Next up you have the kind of person who loves to cause misery for no other reason than there life's miserable so why not make other peoples life's miserable which they will if they can.

My opinion you have been to nice if your attempt to explain , be brutal and she will get the message .

Sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind or in her case to make someone see sense ."

You have to be over 18 to join the site: an adult! Why would you write to someone you don't know to remove their face pics? What bloody cheek!

What next: writing to people with bareback photos informing them of the risks of sti's?!!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I thought it was just me!

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By *EXY50ishWoman
over a year ago

Anywhere and nowhere

"it was nt her morals i was worried about!

my concern was she could have fun without the risk"

I agree with you, your post didnt read at sll like Moral high ground to me.

I NEVER show anything that would give away my identity.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

I thought it was just me!

Nope, not the only one.

A friendly heads up is one thing. But to be so insistent - even starting a thread about it! - is getting creepy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All I can say if someone takes offence to a message that is clearly aimed at there well being.

Then sadly that says more about them as a person than it does about the person sending the message .

Pushing your own negative thoughts into a message that clear has the best of intentions at heart is kind of a turn off in my book .

Each to there own live and let live that's what I say

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

And having just re-read the thread now that its been bumped I realise its another site member that is being discussed so I think we can leave it there.

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