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Etiquette and TS/ T girls

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have a long held desire to have fun with a sexy fit T Girl but having read some of the ads and profiles there seems to ba a minefield of dos and don'ts.

What is the politically correct term?

Tranny seems too offensive IMHO.

I am NOT looking for a guy that cross dresses but a girl with a cock.

Any advice and/or experiences welcome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chick with a dick?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe TS or Tgirl would be appropriate. 'Tranny' would be slang for transvestite, which would be a man dressed as a woman rather than a woman with a cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

T.girl covers all and isn't offensive to the vast majority. However MtoF transgenders often do not like to be referred to as transsexuals. Safest bet then is T.girl.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"T.girl covers all and isn't offensive to the vast majority. However MtoF transgenders often do not like to be referred to as transsexuals. Safest bet then is T.girl."

How about trying to speak to them and just try to be polite? They're people just like the rest of us and the labels are only there to let you know what you're setting yourself up for lol I'm gonna take a wild guess and say that they like to be called by their name, providing they like you enough to tell you what that is!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yet another guy who wants the pornstars!

The word tranny is offensive to some. Not me personally, I describe myself as one often. A good rule would be to treat it like the N word and black people. Its ok when they use it but not anyone else.

Try a site specifically for TV/TS rather than fab. You'll find listings for gatherings where you might find the girl you seek.

But if you've your heart set on meeting someone with the figure, voice, looks and mannerisms of a stunning woman but has a huge dick, then the reality is you'll be paying for it.

If you're doing it because you think they/we are easier to pull than a genetic woman then you're in for a shock too.

Good luck

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"Yet another guy who wants the pornstars!

The word tranny is offensive to some. Not me personally, I describe myself as one often. A good rule would be to treat it like the N word and black people. Its ok when they use it but not anyone else.

Try a site specifically for TV/TS rather than fab. You'll find listings for gatherings where you might find the girl you seek.

But if you've your heart set on meeting someone with the figure, voice, looks and mannerisms of a stunning woman but has a huge dick, then the reality is you'll be paying for it.

If you're doing it because you think they/we are easier to pull than a genetic woman then you're in for a shock too.

Good luck"

Says Amen to that, lady, High Fives and gives the secret TG/TS/CD/TV handshake and bimbles back out of the topic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to be a caveman.. but are they to be addressed as 'him' or 'her'?

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

When dressed, it is polite to refer to a girly as 'her'.

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By *irtyDee33Woman
over a year ago

South Yorkshire


"Sorry to be a caveman.. but are they to be addressed as 'him' or 'her'?"

Lol the clue is in the name T.GIRL!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once made the mistake of shaking a very glamorous t-girl by the hand in a club in in the gay village Manchester... didn't go down too well lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Says Amen to that, lady, High Fives and gives the secret TG/TS/CD/TV handshake and bimbles back out of the topic "

First rule of tranny club is...................

you do not wear those shoes with that skirt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"T.girl covers all and isn't offensive to the vast majority. However MtoF transgenders often do not like to be referred to as transsexuals. Safest bet then is T.girl.

How about trying to speak to them and just try to be polite? They're people just like the rest of us and the labels are only there to let you know what you're setting yourself up for lol I'm gonna take a wild guess and say that they like to be called by their name, providing they like you enough to tell you what that is!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Says Amen to that, lady, High Fives and gives the secret TG/TS/CD/TV handshake and bimbles back out of the topic

First rule of tranny club is...................

you do not wear those shoes with that skirt "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"T.girl covers all and isn't offensive to the vast majority. However MtoF transgenders often do not like to be referred to as transsexuals. Safest bet then is T.girl.

How about trying to speak to them and just try to be polite? They're people just like the rest of us and the labels are only there to let you know what you're setting yourself up for lol I'm gonna take a wild guess and say that they like to be called by their name, providing they like you enough to tell you what that is!"

Did you read the question?

"What is the politically correct term?"

Mary or whatever is not a term

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I usually go by Tgirl as a description, but would normally go with the name they gave me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all the replys.

My reason for posting was that I was wishing to avoid any offence to anyone while exploring this new avenue for me.

It does seem strange that some very attractive tgirls on this site only seem to want to meet straight guys.

surly if a guy is willing to have sex with a t Girl then he should at least be classed as Bi or Bi curious?

Your thoughts???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for all the replys.

My reason for posting was that I was wishing to avoid any offence to anyone while exploring this new avenue for me.

It does seem strange that some very attractive tgirls on this site only seem to want to meet straight guys.

surly if a guy is willing to have sex with a t Girl then he should at least be classed as Bi or Bi curious?

Your thoughts???"

Some would agree in fact my guess is most would agree but what does it matter what they consider themselves anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its simple. Those TS are women, so they have the same desires and your average straight woman, i.e a straight man for the most part.

What they probably find (as I do) is that a lot of men want to be fucked by a woman (or someone feminine looking) and they are trying to avoid that by only looking for straight men. Unfortunately there are an awful lot of Straight men on this site who actively lie about being bi because....

1. They have mates on the site

2. Being bi puts off their real prey of F/MF and they are just desperate for any hole.

3. They need to be discreet because they are married

4. Its straight if they fuck tv/ts as they wear womens clothes innit.

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Its simple. Those TS are women, so they have the same desires and your average straight woman, i.e a straight man for the most part.

What they probably find (as I do) is that a lot of men want to be fucked by a woman (or someone feminine looking) and they are trying to avoid that by only looking for straight men. Unfortunately there are an awful lot of Straight men on this site who actively lie about being bi because....

1. They have mates on the site

2. Being bi puts off their real prey of F/MF and they are just desperate for any hole.

3. They need to be discreet because they are married

4. Its straight if they fuck tv/ts as they wear womens clothes innit."

I'd rather be honest and say bi, (definitely gone past curious some time ago), I'll only fuck Tgirls or Ts's. I won't fuck a man who dressed as a man, however in group play I might well play with and suck his cock. I know, I'm weird

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By *corcherMan
over a year ago

Loughborough


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I'd rather be honest and say bi, (definitely gone past curious some time ago), I'll only fuck Tgirls or Ts's. I won't fuck a man who dressed as a man, however in group play I might well play with and suck his cock. I know, I'm weird "

Nothing weird as I see it. We all like different things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe the phrase should be t-curious?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its each to there own. I like t-gitl I have friends who love the tranny lable. We all like to be called by our names not hun or babe.

T- curious, bi- curious!!!! You either are our your not

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Maybe there should be a differnt catagory in the listings for Transsexuals and cross dressers?

Atthe moment they are all lumped in together and while looking for a sexy T girl I am presented with a hairy arsed trucker how likes to wear stockings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

T.girl is all encompassing. As I understand it there are lots of cross overs and grey areas between cross dressers and Transexuals.

The T.girls I have spoken to in the Manchester village prefer T.girl if you are going to lump them all together under one heading. Some are aid back by terms others not so happy.

T.girl seems less offensive if I can put it that way than other label's. However each to their own.

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Maybe there should be a differnt catagory in the listings for Transsexuals and cross dressers?

Atthe moment they are all lumped in together and while looking for a sexy T girl I am presented with a hairy arsed trucker how likes to wear stockings "

Really there are quite a few categories, there's a big difference between a lovely transvestite and a hairy arsedtrucker who likes to wear stockings. However you also have pre op transexuals and post op transexuals.

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By *isandreTV/TS
over a year ago

Durham

Goddess is fine

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By * and K coupleTV/TS
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Ive been called some things in my time

To all the boys out there...just use the term Tgirl,it keeps them happy and stops them from moaning and wingeing...

I personal couldnt give two hoots about titles,very outdated in this day and age.

You are who you are,live life and get on with it.

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By *S_PennyTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

If you used Tranny in my company you get a heel somewhere where it hurt.

Personally I'm happy with either TS or woman. Preferably the latter. I will refer to myself as a Tgirl just for ease probably too.

I've had people call me Sir or mate, shake my hand, ask my "real" name (which incidentally is Penny) all of which are big no nos. at that point you'd wish you never made the mistake probably.

It's also important to remember Gender and Sexuality aren't the same thing. I have always been bi-sexual and I imagine will continue to be once post op as quite frankly I'm more interested in the person that what bits they've got.

Just talk to any trans woman or even trans man for that matter as the sex they are outwardly identifying and you'll be fine.

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By *hristine and MarieCouple (FF)
over a year ago

Somewhere north of Spalding

A woman with a penis is exactly that, a woman. Chances are she will want rid of the offending article as soon as possible, and does not really like it very much. If a woman wants sex with a man, she is hetrosexual, straight.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

don't use the term TV you'll get a bad reception

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By * and K coupleTV/TS
over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"If you used Tranny in my company you get a heel somewhere where it hurt.

Personally I'm happy with either TS or woman. Preferably the latter. I will refer to myself as a Tgirl just for ease probably too.

I've had people call me Sir or mate, shake my hand, ask my "real" name (which incidentally is Penny) all of which are big no nos. at that point you'd wish you never made the mistake probably.

It's also important to remember Gender and Sexuality aren't the same thing. I have always been bi-sexual and I imagine will continue to be once post op as quite frankly I'm more interested in the person that what bits they've got.

Just talk to any trans woman or even trans man for that matter as the sex they are outwardly identifying and you'll be fine.

"

Hi.

Best reply on here so far.

Beauty and brains

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