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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi guys. Just out of interest how many men would be interested in a meet where they would be blindfolded upon arrival, wear a condom and allow my wife or someone elses wife to play with you and hubbys cock until you climaxed.

You would not touch the wife and it would be hands and oral only.

Im thinking that it would be a low amount, due to being made to wear a condom and no penetration.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With nothing to watch and nothing to do, I'm not sure it would do it for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi guys. Just out of interest how many men would be interested in a meet where they would be blindfolded upon arrival, wear a condom and allow my wife or someone elses wife to play with you and hubbys cock until you climaxed.

You would not touch the wife and it would be hands and oral only.

Im thinking that it would be a low amount, due to being made to wear a condom and no penetration.

I'd try this what a kinky turn on

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

"You would not touch the wife and it would be hands and oral only.

Im thinking that it would be a low amount, due to being made to wear a condom and no penetration.

Would need the stimulation to be equal to, or exceed that which i get from penetration. Which hands and oral don't do in my case.

So wouldn't be an ideal scenario for me, especially being robbed of my sense of sight in that instance.

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By *ecor atorMan
over a year ago

York

Would love that, if ever you are in York.........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You would not touch the wife and it would be hands and oral only.

Im thinking that it would be a low amount, due to being made to wear a condom and no penetration.

Got to have a lot of trust here. What's to say its the wife playing with you could be another bloke.

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By *taffsfella1Man
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

You would not touch the wife and it would be hands and oral only.

Im thinking that it would be a low amount, due to being made to wear a condom and no penetration.

How would you know there was even a female there if you're blindfolded and not allowed to touch?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love this, the sensual deprivation of the blindfold and then played with

Would prefer hands restrained as adds to it for me but think its a great scenario

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Worry its the man sucking otherwise i would love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does sound very enticing but I imagine for a lot of guys, the loss of sight would worry them. Sounds like a way to be tricked into having a bloke suck you off without your knowledge or consent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The common response is who would be doing the touching,

If you don't trust someone don't let them blindfold you, you can safely assume this would be agreed from the offset,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being bi, the issue of the bloke doing the oral wouldnt be a problem to me, however this still wouldnt really appeal to me.

I've been blindfolded and restrained before by a lady but only after we have both had some foreplay.

For me its about not being able to see and touch someone that you just have despite wanting too, there wouldnt be any such feeling of that if I just walked in blindfold on and that was it, would lose the erotic tension

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You would not touch the wife and it would be hands and oral only.

Im thinking that it would be a low amount, due to being made to wear a condom and no penetration.

Not for me and nothing to do with the condom or the penetration. It would be too much of a risk without somebody that I knew and trusted present

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

I'm oddly aroused by the idea.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Understandably alot of men seem to be a little worried incase it's a male touching them.

If this was me and the wife setting this up then whilst the meet was going on I would be talking to my wife.

This would help clarify that she was there plus talking with her mouth full will also help to reasure you that she is doing the work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Understandably alot of men seem to be a little worried incase it's a male touching them.

If this was me and the wife setting this up then whilst the meet was going on I would be talking to my wife.

This would help clarify that she was there plus talking with her mouth full will also help to reasure you that she is doing the work.

it's not so much worry about who's doing the work ... it's the bad dreams about the cheese wire

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By *uckyinlustMan
over a year ago

manchester

Not a feckin chance.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Only to those who have already commented please.

what it she was to ride you to climax.

Would that change things?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a man, but if I was, I'd be worried what you were doing with my sperm after? I mean, why is the condom so necessary if there is no penetration? Not being argumentative, just genuinely wondering? Lauz x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

men by their very nature are a visual beast, so the stimulus given whilst this sense is deprived would have to be immense.

personally, blow jobs do nothing for me if im not stroking or playing with the lady in question.

and getting ridden to climax wouldnt make any difference either as its the visualisation and feel of whats on your lap rather than the sensation of whats moving on my cock.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm not a man, but if I was, I'd be worried what you were doing with my sperm after? I mean, why is the condom so necessary if there is no penetration? Not being argumentative, just genuinely wondering? Lauz x"

I hubby started this Thread as this is something that me and my wife have spoken about.

As you can imagine there is a certain level of kink to this and I just wondered how many would be up for it...or not.

As for the concern of the sperm you need not worry as the male would clean himself disposing of the sperm.

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

"Would love that, if ever you are in York........."

Get your butt down to Exeter you lazy sod!

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

I wouldn't do it due to trust issues plus the visual stimuli is very important for me

Wouldn't have been bothered what was done with my man juice as I'm a jaffa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally like the idea of being pleasured whilst blindfolded. You could let your imagination run wild and it could lead to a great climax. I would prefer to have the female ride me to completion though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't trust anyone who made that proposition to me, let alone a couple. As has been said before, who's to know that you're not being sucked off by the male part of the couple, or any other male for that matter?

Devious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who wants to suck a man off with a condom on anyway? yuk!

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By *U1966Man
over a year ago

Devon

Why not get the mind working

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's more to the point, why a condom with no prospect of penetration? That's like getting in your car, putting your seatbelt on and not even starting the engine.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

When I'm meeting I decline anyone who suggests they'd be happy to come to mine and be blindfolded and shackled: I don't meet nutcases, and to me, anyone who'd meet me without concern for their own safety are not for me!

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

"Only to those who have already commented please.

what it she was to ride you to climax.

Would that change things?

Nope.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes I would. for all the reason above not to. going into the unknown is what would make it kinky and fun. would I climax? don't know never tried but there is a lot that could go wrong with this one it's all in the head.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I'm meeting I decline anyone who suggests they'd be happy to come to mine and be blindfolded and shackled: I don't meet nutcases, and to me, anyone who'd meet me without concern for their own safety are not for me!"

It's different for a man though. I would happily do what the OP is asking about. Not because I'm a nut case but because I know that if it turned dodgy I know I could handle it. OP I know it wouldn't in this case! No offence!

I love kink and I think it's a great idea. Others wouldn't... but sign me up hahah

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'd do it

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"What's more to the point, why a condom with no prospect of penetration? That's like getting in your car, putting your seatbelt on and not even starting the engine.

because you can still catch an sti through oral sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, not as described.

restrained but no blindfold - yes

blindfolded but unrestrained - yes

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What's more to the point, why a condom with no prospect of penetration? That's like getting in your car, putting your seatbelt on and not even starting the engine.

because you can still catch an sti through oral sex."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, not as described.

restrained but no blindfold - yes

blindfolded but unrestrained - yes"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You would not touch the wife and it would be hands and oral only.

Im thinking that it would be a low amount, due to being made to wear a condom and no penetration.

Not for me and nothing to do with the condom or the penetration. It would be too much of a risk without somebody that I knew and trusted present"
i will keep you company if you wanted

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I think a few will be interested

whether they actually turn up is a different matter.

good luck, hope you achieve your meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think a few will be interested

whether they actually turn up is a different matter.

good luck, hope you achieve your meet"

Thanks for the input. I must say that were not looking for potential candidates. This is just out of interest although we do like the idea.

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