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"Fix your profile, and you'll come up smelling like roses *blows kiss* ![]() Will try tomorrow to be fair change it every month no interest ;( | |||
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"Fix your profile, and you'll come up smelling like roses *blows kiss* ![]() Same here mate a lot harder for the guys on these sites ![]() | |||
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"Fix your profile, and you'll come up smelling like roses *blows kiss* ![]() ![]() Allot impossible | |||
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"..... That doesn't stop them from having an opinion about any other topic that crops up on the forums. I agree that a judgmental attitude is rarely pleasant, but hey - it's unavoidable, I fear..... ![]() I agree and add that just as people have certain _iews, others will have _iews on those _iews! To be fair, I don't think there's anything wrong with that. Not sure though, when does an opinion become a judgement? | |||
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"Just because people swing, doesn't make them open minded. Horny, but not open minded." This is the Eureka moment many who stick around eventually have. Well said. | |||
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"We've only recently started using the forums but we are both shocked at the amount of thought police on the site! The one place we thought we would find and embrace an open minded group of people would be here, but it seems as with general life there are a lot of people willing to judge and condemn others for having a differing opinion. What happened to the old live and let live, different strokes for different folks, variety being the spice of life? We swing partly because we have an open _iew to the world. We try not to judge others. If we are all adults we should be capable of making our own decisions in life, whatever they may be. Lets not judge each other so quickly xx" Site life is what it is .....when I see or am affected by a moral judgement I let it slide thinking just two thoughts as I do so . People in glass houses should not throw stones and he who is innocent of any crime can judge me but only him . I find the minute I think of these two sentences a smile crosses my face and I move on thinking small people in a small world ![]() | |||
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"I cannot speak for anyone else but I am human, therefore I judge people, I look at their _iews and opinions but I am a realist and as such know that it is a human trait to judge people. It is not always a bad thing to do that, what if we were all non-judgemental, who would make laws preventing crime ? What if we didn't judge criminals and decide that murder, rape, robbery were wrong, should we accept paedophiles for what they are and what they do or should we judge them to be wrong. I judge according to my _iews, my _iews have no bearing, I don't make laws, I don't pass down sentences to criminals but they are my _iews and often they are judgmental in what I think. I don't believe being gay is wrong, I don't judge people for wanting multiple partners or having bareback sex, it is their choice providing they are don't involve me in bb without my knowledge. I believe that when I do judge people it has some basis for being, but again that is my opinion and sometimes I may be wrong in my judgement, another human trait ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Agreed, but we thought there would be a more open minded _iew to the general sexual side. After all, we all have our own personal kinks and quirks that we have stumbled across during our individual journeys through life. " Do you mean the pubic hair is vile, all people should like oral sex or they're weird brigade? The people who think that sex their way is the only way? | |||
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"Just because people swing, doesn't make them open minded. Horny, but not open minded. This is the Eureka moment many who stick around eventually have. Well said." 2 sets of ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Just because people swing, doesn't make them open minded. Horny, but not open minded." how very true this is. In fact I think some I have seen on this forum seem like extremely rigid, judgemental and close minded folk I have ever come across. Plus if your nice and friendly here you will be critisized for that too. You cant please everyone so you just got to please yourself. I will remain as I am even if it annoys people...especially the hyper critical squad ![]() ![]() | |||
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"It puzzles me why some think swingers will be any different to vanilla people ? The swinging community is no different to the community we all live in. You also have to be thick skinned to post on any public forums,not exclusive to swingers. Swingers may well be liberated but that doesn't necessarily make them more compassionate." Ah but they are different as there engaging in a minority past time that at the very least is frowned apon by normal vanilla society . So logically its natural to assume a more liberal forgiving outlook will be shown by those on the fringe of normal society . Sadly logic has no place in the argument when dealing with your fellow human beings ![]() | |||
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"Just because people swing, doesn't make them open minded. Horny, but not open minded." haha ![]() | |||
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"You can have an open mind and still state an opinion - that's what differs from an empty mind." ![]() ![]() | |||
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"We've only recently started using the forums but we are both shocked at the amount of thought police on the site! The one place we thought we would find and embrace an open minded group of people would be here, but it seems as with general life there are a lot of people willing to judge and condemn others for having a differing opinion. What happened to the old live and let live, different strokes for different folks, variety being the spice of life? We swing partly because we have an open _iew to the world. We try not to judge others. If we are all adults we should be capable of making our own decisions in life, whatever they may be. Lets not judge each other so quickly xx" People on this site are no different to anyone. Some are easy going, some argumentative, some think they are gods gift, some very modest. Just as they are anywhere. We have had as much success, if not more, finding people to swing with via a totally different approach to actually using a swingers site. | |||
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"I cannot speak for anyone else but I am human, therefore I judge people, I look at their _iews and opinions but I am a realist and as such know that it is a human trait to judge people. It is not always a bad thing to do that, what if we were all non-judgemental, who would make laws preventing crime ? What if we didn't judge criminals and decide that murder, rape, robbery were wrong, should we accept paedophiles for what they are and what they do or should we judge them to be wrong. I judge according to my _iews, my _iews have no bearing, I don't make laws, I don't pass down sentences to criminals but they are my _iews and often they are judgmental in what I think. I don't believe being gay is wrong, I don't judge people for wanting multiple partners or having bareback sex, it is their choice providing they are don't involve me in bb without my knowledge. I believe that when I do judge people it has some basis for being, but again that is my opinion and sometimes I may be wrong in my judgement, another human trait ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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""Let he who is without sin cast the first stone........"" Careful now.. that's an awful profound thing to be saying to us mere mortals ![]() | |||
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