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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Only one friend of mine knows that I'm on a site like this.

I can't think I'd ever tell my family/I'm not ashamed.I just don't think members of my family need to know how I get my kicks!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

no. I don't discuss any aspect of my sex life with family or friends. I think its different for people who play singly in that one friend should know for the safety aspect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitly not. None of their fucking business!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes a few friends know and think lucky sods but don"t have the balls to start family no as we dont speak lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would never tell my family

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple of very good friends know, but wouldn't discuss my sex life with my family regardless of swinging!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few of my close friends know, some of them would like to try but not brave enough. And my sister and mum know I go to swinging clubs, though they dont know details of what I get up to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The whole world does now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope nobody else's business but ours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hubby does and me boss and some friends, most others know I am into bdsm so wouldnt be shocked at my swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A couple of very good friends know, but wouldn't discuss my sex life with my family regardless of swinging!

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some things are best kept private from family friends and work colleagues

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only one friend of mine knows that I'm on a site like this.

I can't think I'd ever tell my family/I'm not ashamed.I just don't think members of my family need to know how I get my kicks!"

This isn't intended at a pop directly at you( more a general observation prompted by your post) so please don't take it that way, nor is it intended as bashing singlemen, but I do think that single men, seeking single women and not going to clubs don't really have a lot to lose by being open that they "swing" because it's not that far removed from going out on the pull. The general prejudices of society will likely judge single women and couples far more harshly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only one friend of mine knows that I'm on a site like this.

I can't think I'd ever tell my family/I'm not ashamed.I just don't think members of my family need to know how I get my kicks!

This isn't intended at a pop directly at you( more a general observation prompted by your post) so please don't take it that way, nor is it intended as bashing singlemen, but I do think that single men, seeking single women and not going to clubs don't really have a lot to lose by being open that they "swing" because it's not that far removed from going out on the pull. The general prejudices of society will likely judge single women and couples far more harshly.

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I am not even sure in today's modern society that women would necessarily be slated for swinging.

In fact IMHO the mystique of the Swinging World may even deflect the usual labels of slapperr etc for women who enjoy regular NSA sex with a string of men.

There is no doubt that promiscuous women even today are looked at in a less than generous light but by deflecting things and becoming Swingers maybe that changes the potential stigma that the village bike label used to bring.

Just rambling here

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

A select few friends know but that's mainly because one of the nicked my phone and saw Fab. He has a big gob lol

One of my sister's knows and she was my safety person. My dad knew I was going out and about a lot and made me promise to at least tell her where I was going etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, only the friends that are actually on here too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Family no. Best friend does and another very good friend, who's a male.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite a few of our friends know but no family members.

MissD

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only one friend of mine knows that I'm on a site like this.

I can't think I'd ever tell my family/I'm not ashamed.I just don't think members of my family need to know how I get my kicks!"

I've asked this question b4 now! Luckily I have very few family members but they probably have guessed I'm here! Half of my friends are on here anyhow, even people I have worked with in the past!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only one friend of mine knows that I'm on a site like this.

I can't think I'd ever tell my family/I'm not ashamed.I just don't think members of my family need to know how I get my kicks!

This isn't intended at a pop directly at you( more a general observation prompted by your post) so please don't take it that way, nor is it intended as bashing singlemen, but I do think that single men, seeking single women and not going to clubs don't really have a lot to lose by being open that they "swing" because it's not that far removed from going out on the pull. The general prejudices of society will likely judge single women and couples far more harshly.

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in saying that theres lots on here also who think having group sex means a single straight guy must be somehow bi-curious..if he can be close to another man and performing...

my verification summary prob gets read and its autoassumed Ive been meeting men for sex...

yeahh..some people are a bit thick, so they can fuck off anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, a few friends are aware and they think I am lucky!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im a single guy friends and family know that. They also know single guys go out looking to get a fuck. Do I tell them how where why and if I just did vaginal or anal as well as oral? No I have never felt the need to give them verse on this along with what site or pub it was all initiated on. I thought I was normal and balanced till I read this thread.

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"Definitly not. None of their fucking business!"

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

Only one of my close friends knows.

My family don't need to know, neither do my other friends and acquaintances.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mum swung. My daughter is in here with her husband. My ex husband and his new wife swing. I do. My best friend does as well. Us ladies have been known to chat about it in bingo.

It is actually a nightmare trying to avoid being at the same partyor club at the same time. Especially as I am the newest addition to the lifestyle so its their toes I have to avoid.

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By *inful_coupleCouple
over a year ago

Frimley

All our friends and family know ... from best friends to acquaintances to brothers, sisters Mums and Dads ...

We feel it's important to be open about our life (we don't detail it all obviously), because we don't want to live a secret life that one day may come out... we're proud of what we do, don't hurt anyone (unless they want it lol) and also ... some of our best young girlfriends have been friends who know what we do so asked to get in our bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah as soon as we had our first swinging session after taking copious amounts of cocaine, poppers and marijuana and running naked through the town we thought it only right that we called a joint family meeting and inform them of our sexual deviancy. We also contacted the local paper and radio but they didn't seem so interested and suggested we either go to see citizens advice or get a life...

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By *inful_coupleCouple
over a year ago

Frimley


"Yeah as soon as we had our first swinging session after taking copious amounts of cocaine, poppers and marijuana and running naked through the town we thought it only right that we called a joint family meeting and inform them of our sexual deviancy. We also contacted the local paper and radio but they didn't seem so interested and suggested we either go to see citizens advice or get a life..."

You say this as if it's absolute and obvious that telling people is a ludicrous idea ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, just found it an odd question!

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By *ancingtartWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

my close friends know and my sister as she lives with me, im not ashamed... Bumped into my aunty in a club but it isnt discussed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah as soon as we had our first swinging session after taking copious amounts of cocaine, poppers and marijuana and running naked through the town we thought it only right that we called a joint family meeting and inform them of our sexual deviancy. We also contacted the local paper and radio but they didn't seem so interested and suggested we either go to see citizens advice or get a life..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I don't tell anyone about my private life. It doesn't bother me if other people are open about themselves- as long as they are discreet about others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope........not a chance x

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Our private life is exactly that, private.

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