FabSwingers.com forum: To BJ all the way of fuck?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How can you tackle the subject of discussing with a woman you 'see' regularly whether she'd rather swallow your load that you giving her one?

By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

By asking her?

Sorry to be blunt but sometimes you just need to say what you want.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree. Then if you can repeat and she wants full sex give her it?!

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely its as easy as that, especially in a swinging world, be open and tell her what you like.

Put yourself in the other position, wouldnt you like to know what your sexual partner wans and enjoys more?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"By asking her?

Sorry to be blunt but sometimes you just need to say what you want."

I'd rather give her one but if swallow is what she's really into... We went through a phase of her swallowing every time so I moved it back round to sex. Last time we had 69 her on top and it seemed she wanted it in her mouth so that's what she got. Have 'known' her for over 6 months and do get on well enough with her to ask her. Just have to be a 'man' and try to make it pillow talk at one in the morning and there's always later for sex as long as I'm not late for work too often.

And or not of

By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

Maybe ask at the height of passion rather than afterwards

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Maybe ask at the height of passion rather than afterwards"

Interesting. I think just lying in bed not then would be a better time for discussion but I agree the way for me is to talk about it. Just that she seems to like it so much. She told me last time she though I was going to drown her and how holding her breath is doing her asthma good.