FabSwingers.com forum: Pregnant. Confused...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've been pottering about as of late, took a bit of a break. Now looking for some more fun.

I noticed, a lot of people are turned on by pregnant girls... Judging by my profile its no great leap to see that its a massive thing for me.

The part I can't get, are people's negativity to people wanting to meet in that situation. Almost to the degree that people that do, take measures not to mention it unless they want to for fear of "Questionable" messages.

I get it if people disagree with it, but .. To the point of people being judgmental where people have to publically hide it .. That's the part I can't quite get my head around..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh gosh this again lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you know people hide that they want to meet pregnant women?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't judge, or think it is sick and perverted,

just dangerous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP this is another very emotive subject do be prepared for a bumpy ride on this one.

My _iew is that if I was pregnant I wouldn't swing. The health & safety of my unborn child would be paramount to me. I wouldn't take the unnecessary risk of having casual sex with strangers.

However that is my _iew & choice on this, I respect everyone on here to make their on choices and do what they are comfortable with. I'm not going to say I wouldn't judge them, I'm human and we are judgemental creatures, but I would respect their decision.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads and LOADS of single guys.

Very few women by comparison.

Even FEWER of whom are pregnant.

Even fewer STILL among them who actively choose to swing.

Ultimately a single male pursuing pregnant women is looking at 1 in a million odds of actually getting a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"How do you know people hide that they want to meet pregnant women?"

Naturally, that's impossible.. But sometimes due to the nature of my profile I get the odd message. ; )

It just seems unfortunate due to people's judgements, regardless of interest, or so it seems.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Judging is a natural instinct in humans, not something you have any power over doing.

When it involves children of course people are going to have strong feelings over it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Judging is a natural instinct in humans, not something you have any power over doing.

When it involves children of course people are going to have strong feelings over it"

Yep. that's understood. It's not just pregnant girls that have the problem of course - but when it "sort of" gets to a degree of judgement that people get nasty messages, and they have to actively hide information (as with a few other sensitive subjects and the select few single relentless males) it just seems like a shame, You know?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

people post on emotive subjects asking for opinions

people give their opinions

people then jump up and down if the opinions differ

people then lambast and state how surprised they are as swingers are supposed to be liberated and non judgemental...... like fuck we are.

thank god....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Judging is a natural instinct in humans, not something you have any power over doing.

When it involves children of course people are going to have strong feelings over it

Or they could hide it as they want to meet with someone that wants to meet them for them, not used as a fetish

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Judging is a natural instinct in humans, not something you have any power over doing.

When it involves children of course people are going to have strong feelings over it

Or they could hide it as they want to meet with someone that wants to meet them for them, not used as a fetish"

Of course, but it seems like its more one than the other. The majority of people I speak to in that condition, take it as a compliment that someone is showing interest. - As with everything, a few people just.... Seem to have overly strong vocal opinions and unintentionally alienate some people.

Not just pregnant people. ; )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you thought of maybe joining a fetish site as well as this one. I'm thinking this definitely qualifies as a fetish. Try fetlife.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Judging is a natural instinct in humans, not something you have any power over doing.

When it involves children of course people are going to have strong feelings over it"
your right .. and no way would I have played as I had two miscarriages and had to really take care when I had my children .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest and I'll probably get hung drawn and quartered for this-I kind of _iew it as someone offering up their unborn offspring to satisfy someone else's grubby fantasy...judgmental? Perhaps but as they all say, each to their own...and this is my own...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is the pregnant women's prerogative if she decides to swing during pregnancy. My choice being 6 months pregnant is not to swing. Hubby support's and agrees with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is the pregnant women's prerogative if she decides to swing during pregnancy. My choice being 6 months pregnant is not to swing. Hubby support's and agrees with me. "

Shouldn't it be both people's choice to swing or not rather than just the woman's.

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By *ayandess1Couple
over a year ago

bridgwater

We both love pregnant women, but wouldn't go out of our way to find one.

If we met and got on and then it turned out she was pregnant it wouldn't change if we wanted to play. We are both very sensual anyway. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

even though i find pregnant women extremely sexy, i would never imagine having full sex with one.

too many variables and problems that could occur.

if things happen when a couple is doing anything then they would be able to face it together, but to cause anything, as a third party, i would be devestated if i found out.

however, i would be more than happy to play with a pregnant woman, that didnt include penetrative sex.

that would be heaven.

OP, going from your username, is it only pregnant sex you have?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"even though i find pregnant women extremely sexy, i would never imagine having full sex with one.

too many variables and problems that could occur.

if things happen when a couple is doing anything then they would be able to face it together, but to cause anything, as a third party, i would be devestated if i found out.

however, i would be more than happy to play with a pregnant woman, that didnt include penetrative sex.

that would be heaven.

OP, going from your username, is it only pregnant sex you have?"

Hardly, that would be somewhat limited!

Just an interesting username to accommodate an interesting interest. ; )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"even though i find pregnant women extremely sexy, i would never imagine having full sex with one.

too many variables and problems that could occur.

if things happen when a couple is doing anything then they would be able to face it together, but to cause anything, as a third party, i would be devestated if i found out.

however, i would be more than happy to play with a pregnant woman, that didnt include penetrative sex.

that would be heaven.

OP, going from your username, is it only pregnant sex you have?

Hardly, that would be somewhat limited!

Just an interesting username to accommodate an interesting interest. ; )"

i would say its more a very limiting username that will only appel to very few persons.

will cause you much difficulty in meeting i have no doubt

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"even though i find pregnant women extremely sexy, i would never imagine having full sex with one.

too many variables and problems that could occur.

if things happen when a couple is doing anything then they would be able to face it together, but to cause anything, as a third party, i would be devestated if i found out.

however, i would be more than happy to play with a pregnant woman, that didnt include penetrative sex.

that would be heaven.

OP, going from your username, is it only pregnant sex you have?

Hardly, that would be somewhat limited!

Just an interesting username to accommodate an interesting interest. ; )

i would say its more a very limiting username that will only appel to very few persons.

will cause you much difficulty in meeting i have no doubt"

Naturally. But who said this was my only name?

Nah, kidding. But I'm fine the way it is. ; )

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