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By *D40 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Is it wrong to put limits to the swinging?

We are off to a club one day this week along with a friend that i have had a none lesbian threesome with my man with (a few times). Another not so good friend is also coming along, when himself asked if it was okay to ask her to play if they were both interested my initial response was 'NOOOOOO'...

He admitted if any of his friends were into the swinging scene and were there that he wouldn't like the idea of me going with them. But in fairness the girl isn't like my best friend or anything, although she's flipping great and soooo has the potential to join the top two of my friends (the one we played with being my bff).

Thoughts please? xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely it would be down to her, her choice who she played with???,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems to me that you just see her as a play thing x

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By *D40 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"Surely it would be down to her, her choice who she played with???,"

You misunderstand. I mean if she wanted to play, not that she doesn't have a choice. And we are all playthings x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Glad that's cleared up. Playthings all of us

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

If you don't want to play, you don't have to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you don't feel comfortable playing with her, or with your other half playing with her, then don't. Simples

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Eh? You have to have limits. Have I understood the question?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Swinging doesn't mean having sex with anyone regardless.

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By *D40 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"Swinging doesn't mean having sex with anyone regardless."

We do have to have limits and what we are comfortable with....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you'd rather he didn't play with her (assuming she's willing), then tell him so.

Just because you're swingers doesn't mean that 'anything goes', so to speak.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Swinging doesn't mean having sex with anyone regardless.

We do have to have limits and what we are comfortable with....

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I'm being a but thick tonight, are you asking if you should play with someone even of you don't really want to?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think you need limits as you have come into this with your eyes open if your Not Happy with The situation then get yourself in a position that you Are Happy to carry on

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

I wouldnt play with someone I considered a friend (unless of course we became friends through playing)

And my OH would understand that...

No from me

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