FabSwingers.com forum: Verifications

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Are too many verifications a turn off or a turn on????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are too many verifications a turn off or a turn on????

I think a selected few that are recent are good, but too many is a put off, just makes me think that they aren't too picky & will just meet for the sake of having a fuck. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For some people yes it is a turn off... I recently was informed by a couple that if I hadn't met so many people they would have met me...

For others it's ok if you have 100 plus verifications and shows you are genuine.

I've experienced both sides of the coin... It doesn't bother me!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They could have 5 on show and 250 hidden how do you know?

You may think you're off to play with who you think is mr and mrs selective when in fact its mr and mrs party animal so its not really the best way to make a judgement about someone

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I am indifferent to verifications and am more intrigued by the ranters: I have noticed that some of the worst ranters are people with a lot.

that puts me off as they take it all too seriously

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

I think they go against ive turned down men when I see loads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too many can be a bit of a turn off especially if they are 2 or 3 a week as shows they are possibly just trying to shag anything with a pulse.

Spread out isn't so bad though or if the same names appear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Too many can be a bit of a turn off especially if they are 2 or 3 a week as shows they are possibly just trying to shag anything with a pulse.

Spread out isn't so bad though or if the same names appear."
Mine are every weekend only and mostly repeats . Does that make me a good lad

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

It doesn't bother me either way. I've got lots. I don't mind if that precludes me from some people's selection criteria - maybe we wouldn't have got on if they think someone with lots of veris on a sex/swinging site was a slapper/dirty/un fussy/more likely to be playing unsafe/just not their type (delete (or add reasons I've missed!) as appropriate)

I've mostly met verified or fairly well verified people...when I'm asked to meet unverified who've been on site for a while I ask why and then decide whether to meet (so I'm first veri for a handful of guys/couples)

At the end of the day (shite, was that a football type reference?) the meets I have work out brilliantly 99% of the time - not to do necessarily with amount of veris, but with my process for arranging meets, so in summary, for me there's no such thing as too many or too few veris IF my checks are in place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They could have 5 on show and 250 hidden how do you know?

You may think you're off to play with who you think is mr and mrs selective when in fact its mr and mrs party animal so its not really the best way to make a judgement about someone"

That is why the verification summary is a good feature if people choose to activate it...

Although all my veris are not displayed, my summary is. At least people can then see I'm not hiding unknown quantities of veris...

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

"I am indifferent to verifications and am more intrigued by the ranters: I have noticed that some of the worst ranters are people with a lot.

that puts me off as they take it all too seriously"

Bugger, hope you didn't consider my previous a rant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Too many can be a bit of a turn off especially if they are 2 or 3 a week as shows they are possibly just trying to shag anything with a pulse.

Spread out isn't so bad though or if the same names appear. Mine are every weekend only and mostly repeats . Does that make me a good lad

Always a good sign that they return for more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't worry me... Then again I've got a fair few myself. Thing is I've only been verified for about a 10th of my meets if that... And a good few that I show are from parties or clubs.

If someone was turned off by how many verifications I have, they wouldn't be the type of person I would meet anyway x

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"I am indifferent to verifications and am more intrigued by the ranters: I have noticed that some of the worst ranters are people with a lot.

that puts me off as they take it all too seriously

Bugger, hope you didn't consider my previous a rant

you rant at appropriate times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whatever you do will put certain sections of the site off so I just please myself and do what I want

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