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By *D40 OP Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Hi, i'm new to this lifestyle and have a question...

I'm a lady with a few more lumps and bumps (as in a size 16-18) and appreciate that all men don't like plumper girls. Many profiles i've looked at and thought i was interested, but then i look at the pics & think i won't bother, they have perfect figures why on earth would they be interested in me?

Am i wrong or should i just say hi?

Julie x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have nothing to lose. Everyone is different and we're all attracted to different people and different personalities. You may be just what they're looking for. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder!

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By *irtyDee33Woman
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

I feel the same Hun but just go for it, there are a lot of guys that prefer a bigger bodied woman to play with!!!!

And if they're not interested then move on, don't take it personal.

Good luck x

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By *amamanMan
over a year ago

Inverness and around. ...

Hi ,never judge a book by its cover what works for some isnt for others so if you say hi and get a good response fair enough ,if not move on ...

some people like large some like skinny and quite often you dont always get what you expect lol

so go on and enjoy .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're not confident to approach somebody I think you have to ask how relaxed you'll feel if you plan to get jiggy with them. Doesn't mean you can't ask the question though..

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

There's someone for everyone on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

don't ask youll never know

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By *ackandkateCouple
over a year ago

Truro

You do strike gold sometimes though. I've played with an ex page 3 girl and Kate has enjoyed a number of romps with some Chippendale-esque guys.

As a lady you have a better than even chance of pulling a stunner, but unfortunately, for us guys it's more of a lottery, but hey, sometimes the numbers come out just fine.

Just enjoy the good times and forget the bad ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go for it...be confident

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You do strike gold sometimes though. I've played with an ex page 3 girl and Kate has enjoyed a number of romps with some Chippendale-esque guys."

Page 3 of Horse & Hound?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i never send men messages i think if they are interested they will contact me first, you could fab their pics or wink at them then see if they contact you.

im a big woman but i dont mind meeting fit or much younger men.

dont worry about it too much, its only sex, people arent looking for a life long partner.

some men dont like bigger women, some men like all different types.

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By *ackandkateCouple
over a year ago

Truro

"You do strike gold sometimes though. I've played with an ex page 3 girl and Kate has enjoyed a number of romps with some Chippendale-esque guys.

Page 3 of Horse & Hound?

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"You have nothing to lose. Everyone is different and we're all attracted to different people and different personalities. You may be just what they're looking for. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I say go for it if you like someone just ask them. I would say don't be to hung up on people's sizes for instance I'm a size 8-10 (when not pregnant) but I adore ladies who are more curvy them me. Sometimes I get worried to approach someone cos I don't feel I have enough curves for them (small boobs) but have learnt that if you don't ask you don't get. Embrace differences.

MissD

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By *esperatewifeWoman
over a year ago

Spalding

"There's someone for everyone on here.

Cobblers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Vive la difference!

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By *ike74Man
over a year ago

newport

"Hi, i'm new to this lifestyle and have a question...

Am i wrong or should i just say hi?

Julie x"

Just say hi life is to short.

Not eveybody likes the same thing and we all like something different at different times in our lives x good luck and enjoy x

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"There's someone for everyone on here.

Cobblers!"

Yes, in fact any shoe or boot manufacturer may find a sexual partner on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi, i'm new to this lifestyle and have a question...

Am i wrong or should i just say hi?

Julie x"

Will start by saying welcome

I'm similar to you and have been messaged by gorgeous men but always turn them down as I think they are too good looking for me, Mr thinks we should just go for it but I wonder what they see in me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi, i'm new to this lifestyle and have a question...

Am i wrong or should i just say hi?

Julie x

Will start by saying welcome

I'm similar to you and have been messaged by gorgeous men but always turn them down as I think they are too good looking for me, Mr thinks we should just go for it but I wonder what they see in me

A beautiful person with a bad personality is one of the ugliest people you can meet. Average and a good personality is always attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi, i'm new to this lifestyle and have a question...

Am i wrong or should i just say hi?

Julie x"

I'm the same or if I've seen Thier latest meets have all been stunners I stay away and if any message me I tend to say no and why I'm saying no but as people have said it takes all sorts its more how we feel about ourselves that put us off ...... Sorry waffling but hope that made sense lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi, i'm new to this lifestyle and have a question...

Am i wrong or should i just say hi?

Julie x

Will start by saying welcome

I'm similar to you and have been messaged by gorgeous men but always turn them down as I think they are too good looking for me, Mr thinks we should just go for it but I wonder what they see in me

A beautiful person with a bad personality is one of the ugliest people you can meet. Average and a good personality is always attractive."

Yeah I might not be everyone's cup of tea but I like to think I have a good personality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go for it im the same and nothing special in the looks department and thought this.

I went for it with some tho and glad i did as i must have something about me i always get asked for another meet and speak after...its about the person not the looks with most.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You do strike gold sometimes though. I've played with an ex page 3 girl and Kate has enjoyed a number of romps with some Chippendale-esque guys.

Page 3 of Horse & Hound?

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By *D40 OP Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Thanks guys n gals. I will take everything on board xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should go for it - far better to click with people than looks - and as women - we know EVERY woman has some sort of confidence failure about their looks!

Personality, hygiene & attitude are very appealing attributes too....

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By *ocketrocket80Man
over a year ago

Walsall

A polite courteous message deserves a reply in my book so go for it.

I've found that to be the case on here with others to.

Good luck and enjoy

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"If you're not confident to approach somebody I think you have to ask how relaxed you'll feel if you plan to get jiggy with them. Doesn't mean you can't ask the question though.."

Agree!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as has been said, dont take everything by what your eyes see.

people with, what you conceive to be, perfect figures, can be just as self conscious as the rest of us.

very rarely are there people that like everything about themselves.

if you guys like the look of someone, then initiate contact.

the worst that can happen is they arent interested, which is as much their loss as anyone elses, the best being you have a wonderful time together. either way, its much better to know than not to.

either way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OMG 16/18

your wasting your time here if your

over a 10/12

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi, i'm new to this lifestyle and have a question...

Am i wrong or should i just say hi?

Julie x

Will start by saying welcome

I'm similar to you and have been messaged by gorgeous men but always turn them down as I think they are too good looking for me, Mr thinks we should just go for it but I wonder what they see in me

A beautiful person with a bad personality is one of the ugliest people you can meet. Average and a good personality is always attractive."

thats where us uglies come into our own, when the laughs are rollin and the conversation is in full swing.

they do say with the right personality you can talk anyone into bed (although i have been told i can talk someone to sleep, but it still counts lol)

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"Hi, i'm new to this lifestyle and have a question...

Am i wrong or should i just say hi?

Julie x"

I mean this in a nice way but Julie you have what men want so 80% plus of men would be interested, its up to you to sort out those who want you for mutual pleasure and those who want you to use you for there pleasure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Kate has enjoyed a number of romps with some Chippendale-esque guys."

I wear a bowtie sometimes but only because I can't afford a suit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Kate has enjoyed a number of romps with some Chippendale-esque guys.

I wear a bowtie sometimes but only because I can't afford a suit."

he meant they look like a sideboard lol

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By *D40 OP Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"If you're not confident to approach somebody I think you have to ask how relaxed you'll feel if you plan to get jiggy with them. Doesn't mean you can't ask the question though..

Agree!

Had my first play & it was good so no worries on that front

Julie x

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Hi, i'm new to this lifestyle and have a question...

Am i wrong or should i just say hi?

Julie x

Will start by saying welcome

I'm similar to you and have been messaged by gorgeous men but always turn them down as I think they are too good looking for me, Mr thinks we should just go for it but I wonder what they see in me

See I really struggle with this. You're part of a couple here to fulfil you're sexual fantasies not looking for a husband so why the insecurity?!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Kate has enjoyed a number of romps with some Chippendale-esque guys.

I wear a bowtie sometimes but only because I can't afford a suit.

he meant they look like a sideboard lol"

As opposed to a washboard?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OMG 16/18

your wasting your time here if your

over a 10/12"

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By *D40 OP Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"Hi, i'm new to this lifestyle and have a question...

Am i wrong or should i just say hi?

Julie x

Will start by saying welcome

I'm similar to you and have been messaged by gorgeous men but always turn them down as I think they are too good looking for me, Mr thinks we should just go for it but I wonder what they see in me

See I really struggle with this. You're part of a couple here to fulfil you're sexual fantasies not looking for a husband so why the insecurity?!!"

Had 2 husbands don't need a third. I don't know any woman that doesn't have an insecurity.

On 1 2 1 basis on a social scene I don't have a problem finding what attracts me & men who find me attractive. However you can't read personality & body language on a pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nothing wrong with you.you look lovely.just say hi whats the worst they can say no.i wd love 2 play if I lived closer don't mind the fuller figured woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi, i'm new to this lifestyle and have a question...

Am i wrong or should i just say hi?

Julie x"

Say hi, I think its more about personality and having a bit for craic than just straight sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even before I joined FAB I have dated and played with some gorgeous men, who don't base a womans value on the size of her knickers. Even had a relationship with a body builder.

I have been turned down by some nasty average looking men who simply want barbie to boost their own confidence. (Weren't nice about stating their preferences)

Of course we all have preferences, I prefer white men and well built muscular/strong men over slim men or lean types BUT have learnt that sexual attraction can sometimes blow preferences out of the window and sexiness isn't just about looks.

I seduced a man who swore he only liked tall slim women, I wasn't even trying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You will definitely do well on here !! Lots of guys like curves and my mate ( who I bullied to join ) is size 18/20 and having a ball !! GOOD LUCK

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By *D40 OP Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"You will definitely do well on here !! Lots of guys like curves and my mate ( who I bullied to join ) is size 18/20 and having a ball !! GOOD LUCK

Bless you, am going to try my hardest lol... Sexiness is not just a look, it's almost like a pheremone, some people excrete it even when they aren't your type

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it does not matter if you have a few lumps and bumps!! Some of the best most passionate sex I have encountered have been with larger ladies! One word springs to mind here and thats chemistry! Its all you need! If you find that with someone way ha! You will have an awesome time my girl! !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi, i'm new to this lifestyle and have a question...

Am i wrong or should i just say hi?

Julie x"

We've had the opposite met some who said they thought we would never meet them as we looked to good for them xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi, i'm new to this lifestyle and have a question...

Am i wrong or should i just say hi?

Julie x"

I used to feel this way, but after getting contacted by and meeting a number of very attractive people I've just decided sod it and make contact...admittedly I only wink and if they wink back then I get in touch, but it's a step in the right direction!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to work on your own self image ....if you feel you are not good enough you will give off negative vibes to others who could turn you down based on that and nothing to do with size or shape....if you think you are sexy/hot/desirable whatever you want to call it then you will be...it's much more about confidence that looks ...all the best and hope you find what you want here, remember, your here for your pleasure not to fit the criteria of others. :D xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love bumps but it is you that counts xx

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By *amamanMan
over a year ago

Inverness and around. ...

you are selling yourself short ,try and be a bit more positive and you will be overwhelmed by offers ..then be pissed off cause you dont get any peace

enjoy it while you are still young and beautiful .....

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By *D40 OP Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"you are selling yourself short ,try and be a bit more positive and you will be overwhelmed by offers ..then be pissed off cause you dont get any peace

enjoy it while you are still young and beautiful .....

Young and beautiful

Made my day xx

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

just go for it . you may get lucky x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even for a tiny weeny cocked man? WERE lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi, i'm new to this lifestyle and have a question...

Am i wrong or should i just say hi?

Julie x"

Yes, you are wrong to put yourself down.

Being sexually attractive and having sex appeal is something that you either have or don't. It doesn't rely totally on purely physical appearance. You'd be surprised. Good luck.

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By *amamanMan
over a year ago

Inverness and around. ...

you are more than welcome ....

now go and enjoy !!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I like women with curves that go in and out in all the right places. If you'd care to peruse my profile (blatant but why not?) you will see my preferences towards the end....

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By *ubberdollieWoman
over a year ago

Stoke

Whoever said we all have insecurities was so right. I am a slim lady but if I look at who a fella has met and they are all much younger I won't meet them, for the same reason I only meet guys over 40.

I prefer stocky , well built guys and just don't fancy the mega fit toned men. Horses for courses I guess?

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