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"missed a letter, meaning XXL? Again, how big is that? Not that it matters that much, but it helps to have an idea a mental image There are no pics , public, private or otherwise!" Ask for some or move onto a profile that has pics. | |||
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"If it bothers you how big a lady is then do not pursue this, there is no easy way to ask without offending. If you have to ask, it means it does bother you by the way." Absolutely spot on! thank you, you spoke my mind. If you ask, you risk offending. The fact that she hasn't put a picture, even in private means that she doesn't want to share it, maybe she's too body conscious. In honesty though, I'm not at all bothered by her size (well, as long as she has a big bum ), it's just to form a mental image as I said (so I can fantasise about her properly, lol). Communications has been established and she does sound like a lovely lass and that's all what matters at this point. | |||
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"missed a letter, meaning XXL? Again, how big is that? Not that it matters that much, but it helps to have an idea a mental image There are no pics , public, private or otherwise! Beats me why you would be intetested in a profile with no pics,have you asked her? For the purposes of this site and how the sizing goes fabulous would be seen as on the larger side.....anymore info than that would mean you opening a line of communication with the person and finding out for yourself" I have pics up. I'm size 18 and if the pics stop me from meeting certain people then so be it. I won't lose any sleep. I expect people to accept me as I am. I expect all those who judge and criticise people on looks, size, shape etc are all perfect themselves. They must be in order to make their comments like they do. | |||
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"missed a letter, meaning XXL? Again, how big is that? Not that it matters that much, but it helps to have an idea a mental image There are no pics , public, private or otherwise!" in that case fecking huge x | |||
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"missed a letter, meaning XXL? Again, how big is that? Not that it matters that much, but it helps to have an idea a mental image There are no pics , public, private or otherwise! Beats me why you would be intetested in a profile with no pics,have you asked her? For the purposes of this site and how the sizing goes fabulous would be seen as on the larger side.....anymore info than that would mean you opening a line of communication with the person and finding out for yourself I have pics up. I'm size 18 and if the pics stop me from meeting certain people then so be it. I won't lose any sleep. I expect people to accept me as I am. I expect all those who judge and criticise people on looks, size, shape etc are all perfect themselves. They must be in order to make their comments like they do." Don't quite know why you've quoted me with comments about judging and criticising? | |||
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"missed a letter, meaning XXL? Again, how big is that? Not that it matters that much, but it helps to have an idea a mental image There are no pics , public, private or otherwise!" no pictures = no contact in our book. | |||
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"I used to go to BBW (big beautiful women) party nights. There a fabulous lady would be a very large lady, maybe size 24+, the guys would never describe a lady under a size 18 as fabulous. Not because they're not gorgeous but because to them they like a larger lady that's what floats their boats. So basically, look at the pictures. Personally, fabulous is a feeling within the person, confidence is the sexiest trait a woman/man can have xx" I was told by a lovely lass who attended one of those, that 24+ is called "goddess". I'm personally not keen on such events, sounds too fetishistic for my taste, but as you say, whatever floats their boats. As I say on my profile, I love all women including BBWs and not exclusively BBWs. | |||
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"I expect all those who judge and criticise people on looks, size, shape etc are all perfect themselves. They must be in order to make their comments like they do." Because only perfect people are allowed to pass comment on what they find attractive? | |||
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"If it bothers you how big a lady is then do not pursue this, there is no easy way to ask without offending. If you have to ask, it means it does bother you by the way." I have just posted on a similar thread. Im 5ft2 and size 18, a fat bird. I changed from curvy to fabulous because thats the way I feel when I meet, dress up etc. My stats are on profile for all to see. Equally, slim, lithe (lucky bitches) are fabulous too. Not everyone digs fat chicks, tell us something we dont know but try not to stereotype, we are all here to have fun. Ps: You missed a third X nothing wrong with XXX isnt it what we are all here for? | |||
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"@TRYBBW, what you say is true in an ideal world. In the real world however, not everybody's as confident as you are. Some girls will be too self conscious. I think one should accomodate that and accept that people are different. I personally have no problem with size, and the lack of a pic on a profile doesn't bother me a single bit." Thank you. I am very confident about myself. But it's threads like this that serve to further lower the self esteem of those who were insecure in the first place. | |||
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"If it bothers you how big a lady is then do not pursue this, there is no easy way to ask without offending. If you have to ask, it means it does bother you by the way. I have just posted on a similar thread. Im 5ft2 and size 18, a fat bird. I changed from curvy to fabulous because thats the way I feel when I meet, dress up etc. My stats are on profile for all to see. Equally, slim, lithe (lucky bitches) are fabulous too. Not everyone digs fat chicks, tell us something we dont know but try not to stereotype, we are all here to have fun. Ps: You missed a third X nothing wrong with XXX isnt it what we are all here for? " You look fab not fat ! Xx | |||
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"If it bothers you how big a lady is then do not pursue this, there is no easy way to ask without offending. If you have to ask, it means it does bother you by the way. I have just posted on a similar thread. Im 5ft2 and size 18, a fat bird. I changed from curvy to fabulous because thats the way I feel when I meet, dress up etc. My stats are on profile for all to see. Equally, slim, lithe (lucky bitches) are fabulous too. Not everyone digs fat chicks, tell us something we dont know but try not to stereotype, we are all here to have fun. Ps: You missed a third X nothing wrong with XXX isnt it what we are all here for? You look fab not fat ! Xx " Thank you xx | |||
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"missed a letter, meaning XXL? Again, how big is that? Not that it matters that much, but it helps to have an idea a mental image There are no pics , public, private or otherwise!" ask for some then | |||
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"My own take on this matter is, fabulous is often a single word euphemism for " I don't really care about body labels I'm confident and happy with my shape" and is used a little tongue in cheek by all sizes from petite to size 30 plus There is no doubt that many larger ladies do choose this option but it would be foolish to attribute any size to the description as in essence it's use is often there to be expressively none specific xx" gold star for that there man!!! | |||
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"If it bothers you how big a lady is then do not pursue this, there is no easy way to ask without offending. If you have to ask, it means it does bother you by the way. I have just posted on a similar thread. Im 5ft2 and size 18, a fat bird. I changed from curvy to fabulous because thats the way I feel when I meet, dress up etc. My stats are on profile for all to see. Equally, slim, lithe (lucky bitches) are fabulous too. Not everyone digs fat chicks, tell us something we dont know but try not to stereotype, we are all here to have fun. Ps: You missed a third X nothing wrong with XXX isnt it what we are all here for? " I have similar stats (16/18) but have been told that I'm a big girl but not a BIG girl But to some men I'm huge so can't win really they can look at my pics and decide for themselves then can't accuse me of lying. | |||
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"Always go by the pics. Its like men who tick athletic and have spaghetti arms and no muscle whatsoever " No point discussing it as everyone thinks differently. Just look at the pics or meet in person. | |||
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