FabSwingers.com forum: Married bi people

By *hyllyphylly OP Man
over a year ago

Bradford

A different take on a subject in this forum.

Is meeting the same sex cheating or "scratching an itch"?

I suppose it's both really.

My wife knew I was bi, but never really acted upon it. And it just started eating away at me, so just ended up going cruising.

Just wanted to know what you think....

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By *irtyleedsladMan
over a year ago

leeds

Not having a dig or anything just wondered how your wife was ment to act on it?? She didn't have the correct equipment to help with your bi side surely!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not having a dig or anything just wondered how your wife was ment to act on it?? She didn't have the correct equipment to help with your bi side surely!!"
I was thinking exactly the same thing.!!!

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By *hyllyphylly OP Man
over a year ago

Bradford

"Not having a dig or anything just wondered how your wife was ment to act on it?? She didn't have the correct equipment to help with your bi side surely!!"

I mean, Invited guys to join us. Anyway this topic isn't about me. It's about the question I asked

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By *irtyleedsladMan
over a year ago

leeds

Did you ever broach the subject of her wanting a bi mmf? Did she know you were meeting men??

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

If the bi person in question is doing it without the other persons consent/knowledge its still cheating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you seriously asking .That if i shag a man not a woman thats not cheating ?

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By *ll of a QuiverCouple
over a year ago

Douglas

"If the bi person in question is doing it without the other persons consent/knowledge its still cheating. "

So correct.

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By *illwill69uMan
over a year ago

moston

"A different take on a subject in this forum.

Is meeting the same sex cheating or "scratching an itch"?

I suppose it's both really.

My wife knew I was bi, but never really acted upon it. And it just started eating away at me, so just ended up going cruising.

Just wanted to know what you think.... "
It can be.

Cheating is not about what you do its about deceit. If your partner knows what you are doing and does not object then it is not cheating...

If you are lying to her going behind her back you are cheating.

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By *hyllyphylly OP Man
over a year ago

Bradford

"Are you seriously asking."

I did say... "I suppose it is"

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