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By *HAVEDONE OP Man
over a year ago

Lowestoft

What is it with some women they message you when you reply they blank you

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

i get that alot aswell as winking you then you message back and then blank i dont get it either

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Changed their mind

Didn't like what you had to say

Had a better offer

Might be busy and decided to reply later

I could carry on but you get the picture

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is it with some women they message you when you reply they blank you"

perhaps your reply wasn't what they were hoping for? Maybe they were carrying on several different conversations at once and didn't get the chance to get back to you? Possibly something happened in their real life unexpectedly and they had to step away from the keyboard? The possibilities are endless...

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By *HAVEDONE OP Man
over a year ago

Lowestoft

Yeah I don't get it why message in the first place

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Sometimes the reply back is off putting! This is a site for meeting up for sex yes, but after hello, your response shouldn't be "hi, will I be allowed to fuck ya?"

Block!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having been on a single profile before and now on a joint profile with my gf (who I met on here) it's actually quite hard to reply to every message tat we get, especially if Sarah has been on cam.

It's nothing personal, but sometimes there just isn't enough time in the day to reply to everyone.

Don't take it as anything personal as I'd say that nine out of ten times it just that real life and other obligations get in the way.

Ianard

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By *HAVEDONE OP Man
over a year ago

Lowestoft

I get what your saying its when they message you and you reply with hi how's you and nothing back why message you in the first place

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

i always reply with "fancy a fuck get your coat" whats not to like??

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By *bbwlizWoman
over a year ago

oldham

"Sometimes the reply back is off putting! This is a site for meeting up for sex yes, but after hello, your response shouldn't be "hi, will I be allowed to fuck ya?"

Block!!!"

Totally agree. I did the same with a guy a few days ago, who I winked at, them messaged me. I wasn't impressed with his message.

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

"Sometimes the reply back is off putting! This is a site for meeting up for sex yes, but after hello, your response shouldn't be "hi, will I be allowed to fuck ya?"

Block!!!

Totally agree. I did the same with a guy a few days ago, who I winked at, them messaged me. I wasn't impressed with his message. "
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

"I get what your saying its when they message you and you reply with hi how's you and nothing back why message you in the first place"

Personally, if the message I received back was just 'Hi hows you" I wouldn't be arsed replying back either.

I'd assume it was going was going to be one of those 'pulling teeth' conversations and I just wouldnt bother.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is it with some women they message you when you reply they blank you"

Who said that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes the reply back is off putting! This is a site for meeting up for sex yes, but after hello, your response shouldn't be "hi, will I be allowed to fuck ya?"

Block!!!"

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By *HAVEDONE OP Man
over a year ago

Lowestoft

Yeah but the message I got this morning from a female was hi that's all she said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't message anyone so no disappointment

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By *HAVEDONE OP Man
over a year ago

Lowestoft

I didn't message her she message me

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"Yeah but the message I got this morning from a female was hi that's all she said "

Well it sounds like it was revving up to be a riveting conversation!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Priceless, if you reply back 'do you fancy a fuck' its wrong and if you politely reply back 'hi how's you' it's wrong, I have a lot of sympathy for you single guys trying to woo the 'entitled' on here

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I'd assume it was going was going to be one of those 'pulling teeth' conversations and I just wouldnt bother."

Haha, yes I know those! Funny how some people can grab you in a couple of lines and others just totally leave you cold going back and forth with nothing having any impact at all?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's a couples account remember there are two of them. One may message or wink, the other may see the return message and not be interested.

My OH sometimes winks guys he thinks look nice, guys he thinks I will like, so he winks to indicate a friendly hello. If those guys message back and say 'hi thanks for the wink, when would you like to meet' , and I read that message, I ignore it because I think 'cheeky git assumes I'll meet just cos he's received a wink and he's not even bothered to chat to find out about us and vice versa'

It's always useful to remember that a message or a wink is just an initial friendly contact and is not a guarantee of play. If the messages stop that means no thanks. No point in starting

threads really as it's blatantly obvious

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"Priceless, if you reply back 'do you fancy a fuck' its wrong and if you politely reply back 'hi how's you' it's wrong, I have a lot of sympathy for you single guys trying to woo the 'entitled' on here

There's a vast amount of other slight more interesting things that you could say...try more than one short sentence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a vast amount of other slight more interesting things that you could say...try more than one short sentence. "

Reading these threads which crop up on a regular basis in 99% of cases whatever a guy writes back it WILL be wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

since I re-joined ive had a few get in touch with me that either blanked or blocked me for no reason

guess what response was

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

"Yeah but the message I got this morning from a female was hi that's all she said "

Well if you weren't happy with the message she sent you why reply?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it's a couples account remember there are two of them. One may message or wink, the other may see the return message and not be interested.

It's always useful to remember that a message or a wink is just an initial friendly contact and is not a guarantee of play. If the messages stop that means no thanks. No point in starting

threads really as it's blatantly obvious

Very Confused.come here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah but the message I got this morning from a female was hi that's all she said

Well it sounds like it was revving up to be a riveting conversation!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah but the message I got this morning from a female was hi that's all she said

Well if you weren't happy with the message she sent you why reply?"

She said Hi

He was happy with that so said Hi how's you back at her

At least I think that's how it went

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lets be honest, you know within 5 seconds of reading a message, if its going anywhere,

don't think twice, be polite, and let go,

its our ego that stops us doing that,

as a gay man, I couldn't block anyone, in case I miss anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it's a couples account remember there are two of them. One may message or wink, the other may see the return message and not be interested.

My OH sometimes winks guys he thinks look nice, guys he thinks I will like, so he winks to indicate a friendly hello. If those guys message back and say 'hi

thanks for the wink, when would you like to meet' , and I read that message, I ignore it because I think 'cheeky git assumes I'll meet just cos he's received a wink and he's not even bothered to chat to find out about us and vice versa'

It's always useful to remember that a message or a wink is just an initial friendly contact and is not a guarantee of play. If the messages stop that means no thanks. No point in starting

threads really as it's blatantly obvious

Very Confused.come here

Ok try this - if messages stop then they don't want to meet, it really can't be any easier than that.

Noone else will know the reason why, but it doesn't matter why, they don't want to meet.

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By *illonuk2000Man
over a year ago

Stafford

whether you are online or whether you're stood in a bar.. people always have options and you always have to stand out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is it with some women they message you when you reply they blank you"

I will ignore and delete any message i see fit and doesnt meet my criteria or the message is aload of bollocks

this is my profile on here and i WILL do as i damm well please and the terms and conditions on here does not state we have to reply to every message

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By *HAVEDONE OP Man
over a year ago

Lowestoft

Well it seems some women like to play head games with singles

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

"as a gay man, I couldn't block anyone, in case I miss anything

That did make me chuckle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well it seems some women like to play head games with singles "

In your opinion!

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"Well it seems some women like to play head games with singles "

Only seems that way because your letting them. If you were at a bar and lady says hi to you and you said hi back then she went off to the loo and you didn't see her again would you let it ruin your night or just think 'oh well that obviously want gonna go anywhere!' And carry on with your evening? I know which id do!

It's meant to be fun on here, don't sweat the small stuff, just concentrate on your inbox and browsing for those that suit your preference and you theirs or your time on fab is gonna be spent very pissed off over silly things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a female says 'hi' to you in a bar or club does that mean you're definitely going to take her home and fuck her ? Some are just being friendly same principles apply here just move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is it with some women they message you when you reply they blank you

I will ignore and delete any message i see fit and doesnt meet my criteria or the message is aload of bollocks

this is my profile on here and i WILL do as i damm well please and the terms and conditions on here does not state we have to reply to every message

Exactly x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well it seems some women like to play head games with singles

In your opinion!

And sometimes the men create the game in their own head. For example discussing read but not deleted messages, the only messages to concentrate on are the ones in your inbox

I have even had men I have never exchanged any sort of message or wink with wondering if my status is about them !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"as a gay man, I couldn't block anyone, in case I miss anything

That did make me chuckle

ditto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well it seems some women like to play head games with singles

In your opinion!

And sometimes the men create the game in their own head. For example discussing read but not deleted messages, the only messages to concentrate on are the ones in your inbox

I have even had men I have never exchanged any sort of message or wink with wondering if my status is about them !"

but your status is lololol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is it with some women they message you when you reply they blank you"
erm they be here for ever

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