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By *razy-Cpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas

Hi guys

just wondering when in a group suitation where there is lots of guys and women playing,and guys moving from woman to woman do guys actually change condoms when moving from woman to woman as mr crazy does. And if not is it rude for mrs crazy to ask a guy to change condom as we feel there is no protection on the womans part if a guy is going from woman to woman with the same condom, as he is only protecting himself.just like to know yer _iews on this and also whats the norm ,

Whats yer _iews on this ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you for asking this as I have wondered about it too x

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I have seen plenty that don't to be honest, it is scary.

It stops it for me and I leave. Also a combination of that and barebacking.

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By *andWCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd

Yes definitely change condom! And if a guy is not changing them then there is nothing rude about asking him to!

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By *andWCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd


"I have seen plenty that don't to be honest, it is scary.

It stops it for me and I leave. Also a combination of that and barebacking.

"

I agree, I was thinking that whilst typing my reply, I think we would just leave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have had several group situations. You do need to watch out. Have caught a few guys moving without changing. BUT also caught a couple of women using sex toys on one, then another without a clean!!!

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By *razy-Cpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas

We just feel as a couple, we are left very vonurable if a guy doesnt change condom for every partner as we are big into safe sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once saw someone at a party double dipping a carrot in the hummus. I left. How gross. You don't 'DOUBLE DIP'!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive never been in a group session, admittedly probably wont either, but if it was my first time, as for a lot of things would be firsts for me, wouldn't be a confidence booster, id leave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Def change condom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive never been in a group session, admittedly probably wont either, but if it was my first time, as for a lot of things would be firsts for me, wouldn't be a confidence booster, id leave"

Huh??? Why would it effect your confidence?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have had several group situations. You do need to watch out. Have caught a few guys moving without changing. BUT also caught a couple of women using sex toys on one, then another without a clean!!!"

I've seen that too.

I make darned sure I see a guy put a new condom on before he comes near me. I have no issues with telling him to go away if he hasn't. I certainly wouldn't be embarrassed about it.

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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago

Currently Faraway


"Hi guys

just wondering when in a group suitation where there is lots of guys and women playing,and guys moving from woman to woman do guys actually change condoms when moving from woman to woman as mr crazy does. And if not is it rude for mrs crazy to ask a guy to change condom as we feel there is no protection on the womans part if a guy is going from woman to woman with the same condom, as he is only protecting himself.just like to know yer _iews on this and also whats the norm ,

Whats yer _iews on this ?? "

Definitely ask them to change it. You are on the receiving end, so your vagina will accept whatever is on the outer lining of the condom, which is a no-no x

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

As a veggie I have numerous times asked serving staff to change their rubber gloves after handling meat before preparing my food. If I can be fussy about that no way am I going to be shy in telling a guy to grab a new rubber!

Don't think it's rude at all, play should be about fun and respect for others.

R x

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By *ibanditMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

And if so, do make sure you have plenty of condoms with you so there's no excuse!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd advocate this however there's always an element of risk.

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By *rank_SimoneCouple
over a year ago

Bideford

Definitely change condoms and clean toys.

And you are perfectly within you rights to ask them to do so, if they don't then no entry.

Not changing condoms carry the same STI risk as bareback.

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By *ogamuffinMan
over a year ago

slough

I always change my condom.

Every new hole requires a new condom.

Better to be safe than sorry.

If I see something that's wrong then I tell the guys. Atleast I'm looking out for the lady, even though I don't know them. But people certainly appreciate looking after each others health.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's always the issue of people not washing their hands after fingering...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't been in a group bigger than 3 males 2 females each changed condoms and if i was in a bigger group I'd keep an eye out of they wasn't bring changed each time then I'd ask them or as others said leave not worth the risk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always change my condom.

Every new hole requires a new condom.

Better to be safe than sorry.

If I see something that's wrong then I tell the guys. Atleast I'm looking out for the lady, even though I don't know them. But people certainly appreciate looking after each others health."

Well done that's so nice to hear

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I've been in groups before where I've been the first to be fucked and then the girly after me hasn't been that particular about the condom being changed. I would be myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex is a risky business, sex in a swinging situation is a 1000 times riskier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's always the issue of people not washing their hands after fingering... "

we have hand gel in our swing kit and always use it between people

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By *razy-Cpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas


"There's always the issue of people not washing their hands after fingering...

we have hand gel in our swing kit and always use it between people"

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By *ogamuffinMan
over a year ago

slough


"I always change my condom.

Every new hole requires a new condom.

Better to be safe than sorry.

If I see something that's wrong then I tell the guys. Atleast I'm looking out for the lady, even though I don't know them. But people certainly appreciate looking after each others health.

Well done that's so nice to hear "

Thank you I do try.

Better to be safe than sorry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always change Condoms and Play Safe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have been witness to group sex, and yes, one guy was splitting his time between 3 women, and used the same condom on each.

we waited to manage to chat with him, find out his username and blocked him when we got home.

disgustingly selfish and thoughtless

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

What about when there are a few hands all over the show in a group situation?

Does hand gel make that safe?

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over a year ago

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London


"There's always the issue of people not washing their hands after fingering...

we have hand gel in our swing kit and always use it between people"

Same here....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In a group situation, we do insist on condom change and never use toys without a condom. Hubby often makes sure other guys change condoms, with me and any other woman involved. Not into taking risks at all.

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By *irtyAndCh33kyCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

We would always insist that a guy uses a new condom during group sessions! I also use a new condom when using toys on another woman.

The worst one we saw was a guy that turned a used condom inside out before fucking a female....she watched and let him do it to!

We promptly left

Mrs Dirty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"have been witness to group sex, and yes, one guy was splitting his time between 3 women, and used the same condom on each.

we waited to manage to chat with him, find out his username and blocked him when we got home.

disgustingly selfish and thoughtless"

Did you block the women too?

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By *rivate auditionsMan
over a year ago

West Midlands

At the 2 local clubs i been to in west midlands that do gangbangs + greedy girl meets before the start you are told to shower before playing,use a condom and to change condom if you change lady!.

i saw one guy go from lady to lady without changing condom and reported the matter to club official.

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