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"It seems your suffering with similar mental issues as me, if u see my current post thatll make sense, personally i never expect a squirter if it happens , it happens, dont worry though, i dont think guys compare on how you squirt. Good luck with it. X" Yeah dude I read it. Hope you get it sorted mate, it must be hard. | |||
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"Your over thinking it... Just focus on you guys having fun and everything will fall into place. Just because one woman squirts and another doesn't, doesn't mean anything. Everyone reacts in different ways it doesn't make them any less or any more sexy or appealing. Being confident, relaxed, knowing what you want and determined to have your own fun. That's sexy... Happy to give tuition in person is required lol" Oof, nice Might take you up on that offer :P | |||
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"I know some guys get a bit of penis envy on meets if the other dude is bigger than them, and obviously their is always that worry that the other person will fuck your partner better than you can....however I am worried about squirters. Potentially meeting a couple where the girl is apparently a big squirter. I have squirted before although it's not a regular occurance, I'm a bit worried that I'm gonna get shown up by her if she soaks the room with her orgasms! Do any other girls worry that they are not going to appear to enjoy themselves as much as the other woman because they aren't niagra falls when played with? I may be being a little insecure here but I know how much guys love a squirter, I don't wanna be left out of the fun just because I don't always drench them when being played with. It certainly doesn't mean they aren't doing a good job!" Your gorgeous! No man in his right mind would care if you squirted or not | |||
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"Your over thinking it... Just focus on you guys having fun and everything will fall into place. Just because one woman squirts and another doesn't, doesn't mean anything. Everyone reacts in different ways it doesn't make them any less or any more sexy or appealing. Being confident, relaxed, knowing what you want and determined to have your own fun. That's sexy... Happy to give tuition in person is required lol Oof, nice Might take you up on that offer :P " Xxx | |||
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"Oh my gosh,don't worry at all or be put off,this obsession with squirting is out of control and is'nt a true orgasm Don't believe that all men are into it because they're not,its nowhere near as satisfying as a real orgasm and its bloody messy,enjoy the reactions your body has to pleasure and don't worry about how other peoples body reacts,just be glad you hav'nt got to clear all the mess up afterwards " Yeah, no I would have to clean up lol. Potential meet would be at our place lmao! | |||
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"Oh my gosh,don't worry at all or be put off,this obsession with squirting is out of control and is'nt a true orgasm Don't believe that all men are into it because they're not,its nowhere near as satisfying as a real orgasm and its bloody messy,enjoy the reactions your body has to pleasure and don't worry about how other peoples body reacts,just be glad you hav'nt got to clear all the mess up afterwards Yeah, no I would have to clean up lol. Potential meet would be at our place lmao!" get lots of old towels down then! And keep her off your mattress,even better make her stay on the kitchen floor if its wipe clean.....joke | |||
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"From reading recent threads about squirting, not all Men like it. Just go with the flow..pardon the pun " | |||
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"I know some guys get a bit of penis envy on meets if the other dude is bigger than them, and obviously their is always that worry that the other person will fuck your partner better than you can....however I am worried about squirters. Potentially meeting a couple where the girl is apparently a big squirter. I have squirted before although it's not a regular occurance, I'm a bit worried that I'm gonna get shown up by her if she soaks the room with her orgasms! Do any other girls worry that they are not going to appear to enjoy themselves as much as the other woman because they aren't niagra falls when played with? I may be being a little insecure here but I know how much guys love a squirter, I don't wanna be left out of the fun just because I don't always drench them when being played with. It certainly doesn't mean they aren't doing a good job!" theres a big facination about it, and I can see how women would feel challenged by it. It essentially goes down to the guys you are meeting.. once a guy has the spectacle of squirting he thiniks he's gods gift as he's doing something right, so will probably focus on the squirt rather than good sex. Some women can squirt others cant - its a plain and simple fact. My tip would be to practice reverse cowboy (your figure asside) that will definitely have them flooding to your needs lol | |||
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"As a squirter myself I can say that cotrqry to some comments on here it IS and actual orgasm, " it ISNT an orgasm, its a cum and no more. I (Venus) know the difference. i can squirt all through sex, but still need to have an orgasm after the fact, so it is definitely NOT. however, i have had an orgasm at the same time as squirting, but thats rare | |||
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"As a squirter myself I can say that cotrqry to some comments on here it IS and actual orgasm, it ISNT an orgasm, its a cum and no more. I (Venus) know the difference. i can squirt all through sex, but still need to have an orgasm after the fact, so it is definitely NOT. however, i have had an orgasm at the same time as squirting, but thats rare" Have to disagree, I squirt when I orgasm and I dont always squirt when climaxing. DEFINATELY NOT for yourself maybe. Not for all, please be aware you are not the mould for all | |||
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"As a squirter myself I can say that cotrqry to some comments on here it IS and actual orgasm, it ISNT an orgasm, its a cum and no more. I (Venus) know the difference. i can squirt all through sex, but still need to have an orgasm after the fact, so it is definitely NOT. however, i have had an orgasm at the same time as squirting, but thats rare Have to disagree, I squirt when I orgasm and I dont always squirt when climaxing. DEFINATELY NOT for yourself maybe. Not for all, please be aware you are not the mould for all " | |||
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"As a squirter myself I can say that cotrqry to some comments on here it IS and actual orgasm, it ISNT an orgasm, its a cum and no more. I (Venus) know the difference. i can squirt all through sex, but still need to have an orgasm after the fact, so it is definitely NOT. however, i have had an orgasm at the same time as squirting, but thats rare Have to disagree, I squirt when I orgasm and I dont always squirt when climaxing. DEFINATELY NOT for yourself maybe. Not for all, please be aware you are not the mould for all " agreed, which makes your OP inaccurate too because you said it is an orgasm, maybe for you, but not for all. please be aware, you are not the mould for all lol | |||
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"What is this obsession with squirting? I just don't get why it's so important, I couldn't give a rats ass if someone squirts or not, as long as we're all having fun and enjoying it who cares." The point I have been.trying to make, yet somehow has been construed in other ways | |||
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"agreed, which makes your OP inaccurate too because you said it is an orgasm, maybe for you, but not for all. please be aware, you are not the mould for all I said an orgasm for me so therefore your point of it definately not being an orgasm is invalid. Think carefully about what you say sweetie " how very condescending, sweetie. your post said it IS an orgasm, nothing about it being personal, i have read, and reread it. | |||
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"I know some guys get a bit of penis envy on meets if the other dude is bigger than them, and obviously their is always that worry that the other person will fuck your partner better than you can....however I am worried about squirters. Potentially meeting a couple where the girl is apparently a big squirter. I have squirted before although it's not a regular occurance, I'm a bit worried that I'm gonna get shown up by her if she soaks the room with her orgasms! Do any other girls worry that they are not going to appear to enjoy themselves as much as the other woman because they aren't niagra falls when played with? I may be being a little insecure here but I know how much guys love a squirter, I don't wanna be left out of the fun just because I don't always drench them when being played with. It certainly doesn't mean they aren't doing a good job!" Mrs b can squirt lots but hasnt always on meets sometimes it only happens with mr c its not sonething that bothers us in order to squirt mrs b has to feel completly relaxed and sonetimes thsts difficult to do on meets with nerves and all that i wouldnt worry | |||
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"agreed, which makes your OP inaccurate too because you said it is an orgasm, maybe for you, but not for all. please be aware, you are not the mould for all I said an orgasm for me so therefore your point of it definately not being an orgasm is invalid. Think carefully about what you say sweetie how very condescending, sweetie. your post said it IS an orgasm, nothing about it being personal, i have read, and reread it." I shall repeat myself, yet again, maybe then you will understand? Yes I said squirting is an orgasm. The reason for that? Because I squirt when climaxing. Doesnt take a genius. Not once did I say everyone does, infact the reason behind the initial post was that as a squirter, I dont always find it to be an advantage. You seem to have got on your high horse dictating that is most definatley not an orgasm. A point that is invalid. You do not experience a climax when squirting personally; does not maketh a non existent truth. You have used opinion and stamped over fact with distaste. So yes condescending I may be to yourself. In my brief experience of you I feel it was needed. Now get off that high horse and realise that we are all different. That was the point of my initial post had you read correctly to begin with. | |||
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"You could always fake it and let out a sneaky pee at the right moment (which too be honest I think is quite common)." | |||
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" I shall repeat myself, yet again, maybe then you will understand? Yes I said squirting is an orgasm. The reason for that? Because I squirt when climaxing. Doesnt take a genius. Not once did I say everyone does, infact the reason behind the initial post was that as a squirter, I dont always find it to be an advantage. You seem to have got on your high horse dictating that is most definatley not an orgasm. A point that is invalid. You do not experience a climax when squirting personally; does not maketh a non existent truth. You have used opinion and stamped over fact with distaste. So yes condescending I may be to yourself. In my brief experience of you I feel it was needed. Now get off that high horse and realise that we are all different. That was the point of my initial post had you read correctly to begin with. " you can repeat yourself all you like, it still doesnt change the fact you said it is an orgasm, i said it isnt. obviously, in your opinion, you are correct, and likewise with mine. doesnt call for condescention or talking down to people just for having a differing opinion | |||
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"What is this obsession with squirting? I just don't get why it's so important, I couldn't give a rats ass if someone squirts or not, as long as we're all having fun and enjoying it who cares." No me neither, my sheets get messy enough as it is with all the spunk and lube. | |||
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"Give us a normal orgasm wet lady garden over a torrential monsoony flip flop everyday!!!! Fun should never ever be a competition xx " lol@ monsoony flip flop!!! love it !! | |||
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"As a squirter myself I can say that cotrqry to some comments on here it IS and actual orgasm, it ISNT an orgasm, its a cum and no more. I (Venus) know the difference. i can squirt all through sex, but still need to have an orgasm after the fact, so it is definitely NOT. however, i have had an orgasm at the same time as squirting, but thats rare" See I won't gush or squirt without an orgasm. Lol funny how we are all different. X | |||
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"I know some guys get a bit of penis envy on meets if the other dude is bigger than them, and obviously their is always that worry that the other person will fuck your partner better than you can....however I am worried about squirters. Potentially meeting a couple where the girl is apparently a big squirter. I have squirted before although it's not a regular occurance, I'm a bit worried that I'm gonna get shown up by her if she soaks the room with her orgasms! Do any other girls worry that they are not going to appear to enjoy themselves as much as the other woman because they aren't niagra falls when played with? I may be being a little insecure here but I know how much guys love a squirter, I don't wanna be left out of the fun just because I don't always drench them when being played with. It certainly doesn't mean they aren't doing a good job!" The minute you start comparing yourself to other people is the minute you should stop swinging in my opinion. It isn't a competitive sport and if you aren't emtionally equipped it will only deepen insecurities. I don't squirt, gush or otherwise expel copious liquid I have the absolute (if you were to believe what you read here)worst thing a woman could have in neatly trimmed pubic hair and yet believe it or not men still want to have sex with me...amazing isn't it? In the words of Marvin Gaye "believe half of what you see and something and nothing of what you hear" and you will start to get a realistic idea of what people really think about all this stuff. | |||
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"As a squirter myself I can say that cotrqry to some comments on here it IS and actual orgasm, it ISNT an orgasm, its a cum and no more. I (Venus) know the difference. i can squirt all through sex, but still need to have an orgasm after the fact, so it is definitely NOT. however, i have had an orgasm at the same time as squirting, but thats rare See I won't gush or squirt without an orgasm. Lol funny how we are all different. X" and its those differences that make everyone attractive to most. x | |||
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"I don't squirt, I don't gush and I don't have orgasms. If people don't like that, they shouldn't meet me. " Damn right! | |||
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"I don't squirt, I don't gush and I don't have orgasms. If people don't like that, they shouldn't meet me. " och! | |||
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"I know some guys get a bit of penis envy on meets if the other dude is bigger than them, and obviously their is always that worry that the other person will fuck your partner better than you can....however I am worried about squirters. Potentially meeting a couple where the girl is apparently a big squirter. I have squirted before although it's not a regular occurance, I'm a bit worried that I'm gonna get shown up by her if she soaks the room with her orgasms! Do any other girls worry that they are not going to appear to enjoy themselves as much as the other woman because they aren't niagra falls when played with? I may be being a little insecure here but I know how much guys love a squirter, I don't wanna be left out of the fun just because I don't always drench them when being played with. It certainly doesn't mean they aren't doing a good job!" I'm a squirted but depends what mood I'm in ,we've had plays where hubby has made the other women squirt but I havent As long aa you have fun and relax if someone else doesn't like it that's their loss | |||
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"You could always fake it and let out a sneaky pee at the right moment (which too be honest I think is quite common). " but not in my fucking mouth thanks! | |||
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"It seems your suffering with similar mental issues as me, if u see my current post thatll make sense, personally i never expect a squirter if it happens , it happens, dont worry though, i dont think guys compare on how you squirt. Good luck with it. X Yeah dude I read it. Hope you get it sorted mate, it must be hard. " Not for long apparently (sorry) I don't get the squirting thing especially as a badge of honour. | |||
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"I know some guys get a bit of penis envy on meets if the other dude is bigger than them, and obviously their is always that worry that the other person will fuck your partner better than you can....however I am worried about squirters. Potentially meeting a couple where the girl is apparently a big squirter. I have squirted before although it's not a regular occurance, I'm a bit worried that I'm gonna get shown up by her if she soaks the room with her orgasms! Do any other girls worry that they are not going to appear to enjoy themselves as much as the other woman because they aren't niagra falls when played with? I may be being a little insecure here but I know how much guys love a squirter, I don't wanna be left out of the fun just because I don't always drench them when being played with. It certainly doesn't mean they aren't doing a good job!" Nah I don't think squirting is all that! With a gorgeous body like yours you don't need to squirt | |||
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"I know some guys get a bit of penis envy on meets if the other dude is bigger than them, and obviously their is always that worry that the other person will fuck your partner better than you can....however I am worried about squirters. Potentially meeting a couple where the girl is apparently a big squirter. I have squirted before although it's not a regular occurance, I'm a bit worried that I'm gonna get shown up by her if she soaks the room with her orgasms! Do any other girls worry that they are not going to appear to enjoy themselves as much as the other woman because they aren't niagra falls when played with? I may be being a little insecure here but I know how much guys love a squirter, I don't wanna be left out of the fun just because I don't always drench them when being played with. It certainly doesn't mean they aren't doing a good job!" I wouldn't be, i squirt on occasions but when i meet as a couple i avoid the type of play that makes me squirt as i'd be mortified if i did. I just concentrate on what we both like and my playmate has never complained that the other fem didn't squirt, he was just thankful she came. | |||
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