FabSwingers.com forum: cumming to quickly is wrecking my life

By *ant 2 experiment OP Man
over a year ago

deeside

Im a genuine guy, so horny all the time, but as soon as my bellend touches vagina or even foreplay it tingles like hell and i blow, its gegting worse, but i love swinging i dunno wat to do, viagra helps but i cant keep taking it because i have no impotency probs, please guys girls i need advice, its annoying as i can fuck for hours wen i av a steady partner, people on here are not so nice or you just see the disalointment, so annoying its making me stress likd anything, feel like a failure, i got a pretty big cock too so women get turned o but im havin to stop n start n its just really shit, cant get a eg fb cos why take me back. When im shit.

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By *ant 2 experiment OP Man
over a year ago

deeside

Suppose ill get abuse fof putting this here, just hoping to find sum1 understanding or discuss with peole the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Play before you meet. You'll be recovered to go again when you meet and SHOULD last longer. Foreplay with your cock in your trousers.

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By *ant 2 experiment OP Man
over a year ago

deeside

Im such a horny guy i can play all day, its the thrill 8f sex especially someone new, even if my balls are empty as soon as im hard and i put it in, my cock goes solid and i cum, even f im empty, then mybhard on drops off, trust me ive tried playing for hours an it still happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a wind up

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By *ant 2 experiment OP Man
over a year ago

deeside

Its really not. I appreciate comments from guys too with same issues.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"Im such a horny guy i can play all day, its the thrill 8f sex especially someone new, even if my balls are empty as soon as im hard and i put it in, my cock goes solid and i cum, even f im empty, then mybhard on drops off, trust me ive tried playing for hours an it still happens."

wear a condom, it will take a lot of the sensation away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another Johny come lately lol

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By *ant 2 experiment OP Man
over a year ago

deeside

Its got sl bad and im feeling really down, i have to resort to this, public fucking humiliation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its got sl bad and im feeling really down, i have to resort to this, public fucking humiliation "
go see your gp then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have you tried those condoms with the numbing stuff inside?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Focus on pleasing your partners other ways with lots of foreplay and toys etc completely focus on that and not what GOUR cock is doing. It sounds like a mental issue, you are thinking about it too much.

Maybe if you do this people will want to meet more and you can relax into great sex

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By *ant 2 experiment OP Man
over a year ago

deeside

Yes i know, and it is in my head as i know ive got stamina , and strangely if i meet a girl just out in town and its all just natural im fine, but i think the expectation of good sex on a site lke this makes things worse.

Condoms yes i agree, but whe you know your capable without its kinda annoying, ill have to get a desens spray maybe???

I just hate wasting a womans time and when the foreplay is great and the sex lasts a second haha you get some real harsh reactions at times.

Im appreciating all replys people.

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By *ant 2 experiment OP Man
over a year ago

deeside

Ill look for them too ty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps some kind lady off here will meet you and help you with your problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One pump chump.

Maybe think of something else to take your mind off it... Like the sports results, a shopping list or Vanessa Feltz naked.

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By *ant 2 experiment OP Man
over a year ago

deeside

Lol thats a good shout, but i quite like larger ladies too. Lol

I am hoping a guy whos experienced the same and got around kt will let me in on what they did.

breathing techniques can help apparently.

If i drink alcohol i have no problems, but you cant be getting pissed and driving to meet people.

If only i could drive ldgally on 4 pints id be fine.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Have you tried shagging a real munter to see if that helps?

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By *RYBBWCouple
over a year ago

Leeds.

" Vanessa Feltz naked."

Now there's no need for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One pump chump.

Maybe think of something else to take your mind off it... Like the sports results, a shopping list or Vanessa Feltz naked."

Whoa now hold on Vanessa Fletz naked - this guy wants to stop cumming quick not lose his hard on!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tie a not in it lol

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By *ant 2 experiment OP Man
over a year ago

deeside

Yea ive had a few.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Condoms yes i agree, but whe you know your capable without its kinda annoying, ill have to get a desens spray maybe???

Huh? if you know condoms work... and I'd certainly advocate safe sex... where's the problem?

Apologies but it's not very clear as to whether you're wanting bareback!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just hate wasting a womans time and when the foreplay is great and the sex lasts a second haha you get some real harsh reactions at times.

Are you only capable of one round? Surely let the lady know you'll recover and second time around you can concentrate on her?

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

To be honest I like cum and if you can repeat its really not something that would bother me... For play is fun and I would have fun in a sexy way with this situation...

In Shakespeare's words. "Nothing is good or bad, it's how we think of it that makes it so"

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By *ant 2 experiment OP Man
over a year ago

deeside

Ive had mix experience wkth condoms, i play safe where appropriate......

Yes i can recover and play again but ad i said b4, it can happen again......

dont get me wrong ill have times ehere things go right..... just seems my luck on here is getting worse.

Im not one to shy from a bad situation, ill get over it. Just needect put this out there and get the responses,

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By *ant 2 experiment OP Man
over a year ago

deeside

I hav been told by sum its a big turn on that it happened

but when you love sex, you want to be able to perform

my biggest turn on is wen a woman cums....

missionary is definately the worse, my cock is just so sensitive i think, bell gets masive and throbs so much, im there squeezing it lol.

It makds u feel stupid, but hey, sgit happens.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"Its got sl bad and im feeling really down, i have to resort to this, public fucking humiliation "

try everybody's friend mr google, then you can be humiliated in private not public "simples"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it me or have you already answered your own question?!

You have stamina with a regular partner so you know it's nothing medical, your fine after a drink and condoms work for you as well?!

To me you've got quite a few options there

In summary a social drink with someone you've met before, put a condom on and your a fucking stallion!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well stopping & starting is good in my book, love to keep a guy on the edge. Plenty to teasing whilst you wait for the tingling to subside. Then bring him up to edge again. Besides nothing wrong with shooting & then recovering to shoot again. Repeat cumming is brilliant. Stop worrying about it, I'm sure a girl would love it. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just down to nerves, the more you think about it the worse it will get!! I suffered with it for a few months when I was younger seemed to be ok when I'd had a drink, but as I got more confident in myself it stopped!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Practice tantra. It helped me when I was younger.

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By *ant 2 experiment OP Man
over a year ago

deeside

Great replys the last few posts, thanks.

Tantra..... now thats sumthing totally new... and intriguing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this is a tip from Billy Connelly, 'try saying the nines times table'.

try taking your mind off what you are doing for a short while, once you are past the point of where you normally cum you might feel a better and enjoy it. As it seems to me you are worrying about your performance, this might be hampering you maybe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the condoms, or numbing lube works well. I used to last just a minute before. When I used that stuff I lasted 20mins

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

tell her shes that dam good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"the condoms, or numbing lube works well. I used to last just a minute before. When I used that stuff I lasted 20mins"

Anbesol works as well as the numbing lube. Or Bonjela.

And before yas all laugh on an orgasm denial website I am a Domme on the subs use these products so they can edge and practise tease and denial without cumming.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"the condoms, or numbing lube works well. I used to last just a minute before. When I used that stuff I lasted 20mins

Anbesol works as well as the numbing lube. Or Bonjela.

And before yas all laugh on an orgasm denial website I am a Domme on the subs use these products so they can edge and practise tease and denial without cumming.

yes this

edge practice does wonders over time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you're pulling my pisser

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By *amie0151Man
over a year ago

Wallasey

"Lol thats a good shout, but i quite like larger ladies too. Lol

I am hoping a guy whos experienced the same and got around kt will let me in on what they did.

breathing techniques can help apparently.

If i drink alcohol i have no problems, but you cant be getting pissed and driving to meet people.

If only i could drive ldgally on 4 pints id be fine. "

Taxi or public transport... but pissed up meets ain't a good way to roll

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

The OP says it's the contact with the vagina that makes him shoot his load early and it's affecting his meets off here yet the two non-displayed verifications he has are from men

Guess the owners of the vaginas didn't bother verifying him.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"The OP says it's the contact with the vagina that makes him shoot his load early and it's affecting his meets off here yet the two non-displayed verifications he has are from men

Guess the owners of the vaginas didn't bother verifying him."

Verifications aren't mandatory you know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can help you

Cum on over big boi, and lets play

3 hours on my bondage table will solve your problems.(_O_)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im a genuine guy, so horny all the time, but as soon as my bellend touches vagina or even foreplay it tingles like hell and i blow, its gegting worse, but i love swinging i dunno wat to do, viagra helps but i cant keep taking it because i have no impotency probs, please guys girls i need advice, its annoying as i can fuck for hours wen i av a steady partner, people on here are not so nice or you just see the disalointment, so annoying its making me stress likd anything, feel like a failure, i got a pretty big cock too so women get turned o but im havin to stop n start n its just really shit, cant get a eg fb cos why take me back. When im shit. "

Lol....too bad mate , wear like 3 condoms at once ...might help take out the sensitivity ...

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By *ittleBitOfFunCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Well if you can cum over and over it shouldn't really be a problem. If you cum when having sex it will probably turn the woman on and then cum again

I love it when the man cums it makes me cum too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lucky OP! I can bang away for ages without cumming.

Very frustrating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do agree, the expectation of fantastic sex is a lot of pressure....probably why I've stuck to forums and admired from afar at clubs...

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

"The OP says it's the contact with the vagina that makes him shoot his load early and it's affecting his meets off here yet the two non-displayed verifications he has are from men

Guess the owners of the vaginas didn't bother verifying him.

Verifications aren't mandatory you know. "

Really? Cheers for the info

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beat the snake a couple of hours before a meet. I always do not that I ever suffer from prem ejaculation but better safe that sorry lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's just when your dick touches their vagina then don't. Stick it up their bum instead. Simples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One pump chump.

Maybe think of something else to take your mind off it... Like the sports results, a shopping list or Vanessa Feltz naked.

Whoa now hold on Vanessa Fletz naked - this guy wants to stop cumming quick not lose his hard on!!!"

lol

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By *otwifeguyMan
over a year ago

Exeter

I have some genuine helpful advice . I can reply in the forum or privately .... You choose

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By *ant 2 experiment OP Man
over a year ago

deeside

Ive been told gettin circumcised could help. ...?????

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By *ant 2 experiment OP Man
over a year ago

deeside

I have another account too, so this is ridiculous, one guy does sports massage n the other is a fella i knew for years round corner , he veri me to get the veri there........

caz could confitm my real acc has many female verifications.

Not that i have to justify anything, its clear to see im fairly honest hence this god damn thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On a serious note doesn't pinching the base of the penis stop the need to cum?

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By *ant 2 experiment OP Man
over a year ago

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This can help but the blood pumps like fck and sumtimes i do that n it kinda makes it blow too........ was told if i get circ my bell will get used to bein in contact with stuff more... i love my cock tho how it looks etc, so wuud b a desperate measure

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By *d_deeTV/TS
over a year ago

cheshire

I got a fleshlight stamina trainer.

That doesn't help me as its very nice

I find that alcohol helps me, I can go for hours then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This can help but the blood pumps like fck and sumtimes i do that n it kinda makes it blow too........ was told if i get circ my bell will get used to bein in contact with stuff more... i love my cock tho how it looks etc, so wuud b a desperate measure"

We can't help, D would have you cumming in seconds. She tends to have that effect!

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By *ant 2 experiment OP Man
over a year ago

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Fair play to her, id get pissed take a viagra and deal with her that way instead. Haha, just had some brilliant inboxxes, im glad i made this post. Gr8 to discuss,

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By *otwifeguyMan
over a year ago

Exeter

"On a serious note doesn't pinching the base of the penis stop the need to cum?"

actually you squeeze just below the glans . It can help you last 5 -10 mins longer , but won't make you a cum when ever I want man

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By *ant 2 experiment OP Man
over a year ago

deeside

Had some priceless info, and its worked, so far, outlasted her last night, cud i have the answer, wankin with foreskin back to get cock used to sesitivity .

Also found by just pushin my belll in n out for a lil bit, teasing her helped, slowly work it in.

Horny as fck, but need to calm the fck down, if i have solved this ill be fcking happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

get circumcised. The constant rubbing on the exposed bell end will make it far less sensitive.bell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any updates!? Are you a happier stud ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've has instances of this when guys have been with us and yes it is rather disappointing. As you say it is something going on in the head. Probably need to think about mowing the lawn or the gas bill or something when you first start.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try wanking regularly to 'take the edge' off the difficulties...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Try wanking regularly to 'take the edge' off the difficulties..."

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"Any updates!? Are you a happier stud ?"

He's not been online for over a year. Hopefully he's off having lots of sex

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By *exy4youxxWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract

"Any updates!? Are you a happier stud ?"

How the hell did you find an over the year old thread to revive

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By *msm6463Couple
over a year ago

Ashby

Try priligy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Christ I wish I could cum.

Medication is a bitch

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

You're only asking for 5 minute meets so why do you want to last longer,

By the time you've both undressed, had two pumps that's your 5 minutes up

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Try thinking of Diane Abbott or someone else you don't find attractive

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