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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am really happy for her as she has found a great bloke that make her so happy, but i am gutted as we used to have a great time together and that has come to an end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This might sound harsh...but if you liked her THAT much, then why didn't you make a move before the other guy came along???? Muppet!!!

He took her off the market hun! You were tooooooooo slow!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This might sound harsh...but if you liked her THAT much, then why didn't you make a move before the other guy came along???? Muppet!!!

He took her off the market hun! You were tooooooooo slow! "

tad harsh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This might sound harsh...but if you liked her THAT much, then why didn't you make a move before the other guy came along???? Muppet!!!

He took her off the market hun! You were tooooooooo slow! "

Your right that is harsh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha ha ha...I know....sorry! But...I do mean it though. So many guys like a girl but just sit back .....

I say..if you like her.....tell her!!!

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By *RYBBWCouple
over a year ago

Leeds.

You don't need the sex to keep the friendship. Unless sex is all she was to you.

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By *abulous cleavageWoman
over a year ago

Central


"This might sound harsh...but if you liked her THAT much, then why didn't you make a move before the other guy came along???? Muppet!!!

He took her off the market hun! You were tooooooooo slow! "

This is harsh. The guy is away a lot and may not have been able to offer the lady what she was wanting. He's obviously sad that their arrangement has come to an end. I'm glad he said he's happy for her and she has found a great bloke.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ha ha ha...I know....sorry! But...I do mean it though. So many guys like a girl but just sit back .....

I say..if you like her.....tell her!!! "

Do you think this has never happened to a woman?

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By *p4u77Woman
over a year ago

Norwich

Was going to say that's harsh!! Circumstances don't always mean folks can make that move just nice to hear u are happy for her chin up buddy someone else is out there for u

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I'd be gutted if my FB met someone, but I know we are not right for each other in a relationship. You can really like someone yet still not want to be with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ha ha ha...I know....sorry! But...I do mean it though. So many guys like a girl but just sit back .....

I say..if you like her.....tell her!!!

Do you think this has never happened to a woman?"

yep I had a fb I wanted more from I never told him but I realised he wasn't for me as he was erm a selfish twat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ha ha ha...I know....sorry! But...I do mean it though. So many guys like a girl but just sit back .....

I say..if you like her.....tell her!!!

Do you think this has never happened to a woman?

yep I had a fb I wanted more from I never told him but I realised he wasn't for me as he was erm a selfish twat "

This is so true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My point was not REALLY intended to be harsh or mean..You would have seen my smile and a little hug.......I am a big softie really and that is my point!

Nothing more frustrating than when my male AND female friends tell me they like someone but do nothing about it! I am obviously talking about those that are single and available....

I just feel that sometimes, we meet special people in our lives that we dont expect to.....and dont always take the opportunities when they present themselves!

Maybe its just my romantic spirit coming through. I am sorry you have lost your playmate and friend....but I do wonder if part of you wishes you were him...and if so...why you didnt do something about it and go for it!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ha ha ha...I know....sorry! But...I do mean it though. So many guys like a girl but just sit back .....

I say..if you like her.....tell her!!!

Do you think this has never happened to a woman?

yep I had a fb I wanted more from I never told him but I realised he wasn't for me as he was erm a selfish twat

This is so true "

im so glad too. rose tinted glasses x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of COURSE I realise that sometimes other factors mean it wouldn't be possible..geography, lifetyles etc.... but for those who think there is potential....take a chance!!! You never know!!!!

Aww come on.....I am just being an old romantic...I like a good love story! xxx

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Of COURSE I realise that sometimes other factors mean it wouldn't be possible..geography, lifetyles etc.... but for those who think there is potential....take a chance!!! You never know!!!!

Aww come on.....I am just being an old romantic...I like a good love story! xxx"

Well, I am going on holiday with mine next month so it could be make or break!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Of COURSE I realise that sometimes other factors mean it wouldn't be possible..geography, lifetyles etc.... but for those who think there is potential....take a chance!!! You never know!!!!

Aww come on.....I am just being an old romantic...I like a good love story! xxx"

thank god mines not mentioned xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Of COURSE I realise that sometimes other factors mean it wouldn't be possible..geography, lifetyles etc.... but for those who think there is potential....take a chance!!! You never know!!!!

Aww come on.....I am just being an old romantic...I like a good love story! xxx

Well, I am going on holiday with mine next month so it could be make or break! "

enjoy xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd be gutted if my FB met someone, but I know we are not right for each other in a relationship. You can really like someone yet still not want to be with them."

Could not agree more, luckily most of my fb's are already in relationships, less of the feelings, more of the action..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd be gutted if my FB met someone, but I know we are not right for each other in a relationship. You can really like someone yet still not want to be with them.

Could not agree more, luckily most of my fb's are already in relationships, less of the feelings, more of the action.. "

Nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And secretly, nothing would make me happier than if you were to put your batman outfit on and burst through her bedroom, with a box of milk tray in hand...... beat the guy off with magic wand.....and carry the girl off into the night! !!!

Oh ok....I have been watching too many movies!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And secretly, nothing would make me happier than if you were to put your batman outfit on and burst through her bedroom, with a box of milk tray in hand...... beat the guy off with magic wand.....and carry the girl off into the night! !!!

Oh ok....I have been watching too many movies!!! "

iron man or suit braces and tie mmmmn

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you all for the kind and understanding responses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You don't need the sex to keep the friendship. Unless sex is all she was to you."

Try telling that to some on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd be gutted if my FB met someone, but I know we are not right for each other in a relationship. You can really like someone yet still not want to be with them.

Could not agree more, luckily most of my fb's are already in relationships, less of the feelings, more of the action..

Nice "

I do try They're the ones in the wrong not meeee.

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"Ha ha ha...I know....sorry! But...I do mean it though. So many guys like a girl but just sit back .....

I say..if you like her.....tell her!!! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Of COURSE I realise that sometimes other factors mean it wouldn't be possible..geography, lifetyles etc.... but for those who think there is potential....take a chance!!! You never know!!!!

Aww come on.....I am just being an old romantic...I like a good love story! xxx

Well, I am going on holiday with mine next month so it could be make or break! "

Good luck!! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My point was not REALLY intended to be harsh or mean..You would have seen my smile and a little hug.......I am a big softie really and that is my point!

Nothing more frustrating than when my male AND female friends tell me they like someone but do nothing about it! I am obviously talking about those that are single and available....

I just feel that sometimes, we meet special people in our lives that we dont expect to.....and dont always take the opportunities when they present themselves!

Maybe its just my romantic spirit coming through. I am sorry you have lost your playmate and friend....but I do wonder if part of you wishes you were him...and if so...why you didnt do something about it and go for it!!!!

"

Food for though! I'm a romantic too. Sadly also a realist.

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By *ophiasChoiceWoman
over a year ago

ystrad mynach


"Of COURSE I realise that sometimes other factors mean it wouldn't be possible..geography, lifetyles etc.... but for those who think there is potential....take a chance!!! You never know!!!!

Aww come on.....I am just being an old romantic...I like a good love story! xxx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This might sound harsh...but if you liked her THAT much, then why didn't you make a move before the other guy came along???? Muppet!!!

He took her off the market hun! You were tooooooooo slow! "

Totally agree...not harsh at all!!!!

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By *icekatCouple
over a year ago

north east

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By *r_Darcy40Man
over a year ago

huddersfield

fuck buddies should not think that once they fuck each otheru, they own each other. Saying you cannot sleep with others without permission. Its worse when they blab in the chat rooms like a bloody couple in love for all to see time to grow up. It is a sex site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are some circumstances where it may be unreasonable/unrealistic to expect a former partner to accept that what was once a rewarding relationship involving a full sex life, can be replaced with simple, non-sexual friendship when the relationship comes to an end - regardless of which party ended that relationship.

On those occasions, it may be wiser for both parties to accept that a simple friendship may actually cover-up or suppress hurt and emotions which may flare up and make the 'friendship' untenable at some point in the future. In such circumstances, it may be wiser to draw a line under it, accept that he relationship has come to its end and part on the best terms you can.

Different if there are children from the relationship, for whom you need to stay on friendly terms of course. But if there are not, just accept it's over and go your separate ways..

ted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd be gutted if my FB met someone, but I know we are not right for each other in a relationship. You can really like someone yet still not want to be with them.

Could not agree more, luckily most of my fb's are already in relationships, less of the feelings, more of the action..

Nice

I do try They're the ones in the wrong not meeee."

That's good to hear,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"fuck buddies should not think that once they fuck each otheru, they own each other. Saying you cannot sleep with others without permission. Its worse when they blab in the chat rooms like a bloody couple in love for all to see time to grow up. It is a sex site."

Ok be fair...I dont think he suggested once that she shouldn't sleep with whoever she wants to be with. In fact he said he was happy for her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are some circumstances where it may be unreasonable/unrealistic to expect a former partner to accept that what was once a rewarding relationship involving a full sex life, can be replaced with simple, non-sexual friendship when the relationship comes to an end - regardless of which party ended that relationship.

On those occasions, it may be wiser for both parties to accept that a simple friendship may actually cover-up or suppress hurt and emotions which may flare up and make the 'friendship' untenable at some point in the future. In such circumstances, it may be wiser to draw a line under it, accept that he relationship has come to its end and part on the best terms you can.

Different if there are children from the relationship, for whom you need to stay on friendly terms of course. But if there are not, just accept it's over and go your separate ways..

ted."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd be gutted if my FB met someone, but I know we are not right for each other in a relationship. You can really like someone yet still not want to be with them."

Same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am really happy for her as she has found a great bloke that make her so happy, but i am gutted as we used to have a great time together and that has come to an end "

I remember ending things with my FB a few years ago when I met a man I wanted a relationship with, you can still be friends I'm still in a platonic friendship with him 3 years after the relationship I chose over him ended.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This might sound harsh...but if you liked her THAT much, then why didn't you make a move before the other guy came along???? Muppet!!!

He took her off the market hun! You were tooooooooo slow!

Totally agree...not harsh at all!!!!"

absolutely 100% agree, it isnt harsh to say it.

gutted about her finding someone suggests the OP would have either liked the original situation to remain, or moved it on, either way he should have made his move.

being away a lot is no excuse not to tell someone how you feel, or want a relationship as people do the LDR all the time, everywhere.

the only reason i can think of for the OP to bite his tongue, is he was afraid of him saying something would have resulted in her not continuing their arrangement, and so he would have lost her, and the NSA sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well me and my lovely FB have several blockers to being in a full blown relationship, I know people look at our profile and think we might be bit to full on however our time together is precious and rare and we need our fun NOW. As a relationship we wouldn't work and we both know it deep down, we have talked about it and reached same conclusion.

D is in a relationship (he knows) I'm not at moment, we live a fair distance apart, our schedules are hectic and we dont get to see each other often (and we do try).

That doesnt mean we don't care for each other because we do.

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