FabSwingers.com forum: How do you know?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How do you know before you try? So I’m straight and that’s what I have on my profile, but just lately I have been thinking I would like to try and have some fun with male with a female too, so a Bi couple or just a Bi male with. So is just a fantasy or more!!! I would maybe have to find a couple that would allow me to spend some time with them over a drink and a chat and see how it goes from there. I welcome your constructive comments.

By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

i think the answer is, you don't.

Until you try you will never know. It's better to try and not like than forever wonder.

By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Try going dogging instead. That way you can anonymously explore any bi ideas without troubling a couple until you are sure it is for you. That may be simpler.

A lot of bi couples I know have trouble with bi guys wanting to play, discovering they aren't quite into it and everyone ending up feeling awkward. In fact a lot insist on the guy showing he is bi before the lady joins in, as a few guys try to use it as a dodge to get a meet

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Try going dogging instead. That way you can anonymously explore any bi ideas without troubling a couple until you are sure it is for you. That may be simpler.

Thanks, but I'm not using it as a dodge to meet, but I'm sure you are correct in that is what some guys do. Its a catch 22 really.