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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What annoys you on this site?. Have yo say the main ones for me are the "don't mess them about, otherwise your have me to answer to" yeah whatever Trevor...

Another is, people making themselves out to being something they arnt. Mainly in their profiles, but when you actually come to chatting, they're as boring and as false as a Facebook friend...

Another is, when you message somebody they sometimes ask why, and are the most stuck up people you have ever come across, they seem to forget that everybody is here for the same thing, I mean if you wanna chat bollocks then join a dating site, or ask to go on the Jeremy Kyle show..

The last one is, people who can't hold a conversation, writing you three or four words, or some TV asking you if you want your cock sucked as you watch porn. Pointless..

So yeah, that's what makes my shit itch about this place, and if you gotta problem with it, then I hope you get knob rot, yeah I went there!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who pissed on your fire eh?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lolz, just saying it how it is..

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By *lentyoffun40Couple
over a year ago

Lancashire


"What annoys you on this site?. Have yo say the main ones for me are the "don't mess them about, otherwise your have me to answer to" yeah whatever Trevor...

Another is, people making themselves out to being something they arnt. Mainly in their profiles, but when you actually come to chatting, they're as boring and as false as a Facebook friend...

Another is, when you message somebody they sometimes ask why, and are the most stuck up people you have ever come across, they seem to forget that everybody is here for the same thing, I mean if you wanna chat bollocks then join a dating site, or ask to go on the Jeremy Kyle show..

The last one is, people who can't hold a conversation, writing you three or four words, or some TV asking you if you want your cock sucked as you watch porn. Pointless..

So yeah, that's what makes my shit itch about this place, and if you gotta problem with it, then I hope you get knob rot, yeah I went there!!"

People who get uptight about it.

It's a site full of individual people . All who have their own tastes and opinions

Yes there's a lot of rude people ... But just forget it and move on

Simples

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have, im not asking for people to get riled with what I've said, if people don't like it I couldn't give a monkeys toss, i say it how it is, friend or foe.

I'm just asking what annoys people here..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being asked for photos by people who have none up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who have a problem with transgendered people. I always thought that swinging would be for people with an open mind, seems I am very wrong.

People who get jealous. Jealousy has no place in swinging.

Liars and back stabbers and in general trouble causes. I so wish I could name n shame the guilty, I know who they are and best of all, they know that I know

People should remember that this is meant to be fun Ffs. Far too many issues, far too many people with prejudice and far too many jealous people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheers for the _iews so far..

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Lolz, just saying it how it is.."

Actually you sound quite bitter and angry. What you're whining about is simply people YOU'VE contacted not wanting to meet you: can't think why, you being such a charmer!

The site has filters to enable us to select who contacts us. If you're unable to enable the filter to stop men contacting you to suck your cock, maybe you should add "not providing two grey cells to rub together" to your list of complaints against the site!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

people who think that, on a site of thousands of people, they are all here 'for the same thing'

newsflash, we arent.

some are here to chat

others to meet and chat

some to meet and play

others will bang anything that moves.

and thats only the 4 generic different reasons, there are many many more individual

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish

"don't mess them about, otherwise your have me to answer to" you say this is the main thing that annoys you, yet this is almost the same wording in one of your veris shown on your profile.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"People who have a problem with transgendered people. I always thought that swinging would be for people with an open mind, seems I am very wrong.

People who get jealous. Jealousy has no place in swinging.

Liars and back stabbers and in general trouble causes. I so wish I could name n shame the guilty, I know who they are and best of all, they know that I know

People should remember that this is meant to be fun Ffs. Far too many issues, far too many people with prejudice and far too many jealous people. "

Get over it! People have problems with fat and black people! I bet there are more profiles with no blacks, no ompah lompahs than no transgenders! We'll never appeal to everyone, so why try?!!

I'm not going to cry like a big baby because someone doesn't like me for the colour of my skin or the size of my dress! Why on earth would I waste time on nonentities?!!

I don't meet women, I don't meet couples, I don't meet Doms...does that make me narrow minded or someone expressing a preference towards who I allow into MY home and MY body?!!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"people who think that, on a site of thousands of people, they are all here 'for the same thing'

newsflash, we arent.

some are here to chat

others to meet and chat

some to meet and play

others will bang anything that moves.

and thats only the 4 generic different reasons, there are many many more individual"

Add to that those that default to "being up your own arse" and "ignorant" if they're excluded in some way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""don't mess them about, otherwise your have me to answer to" you say this is the main thing that annoys you, yet this is almost the same wording in one of your veris shown on your profile. "

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


""don't mess them about, otherwise your have me to answer to" you say this is the main thing that annoys you, yet this is almost the same wording in one of your veris shown on your profile. "

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By *denlouWoman
over a year ago

bideford


"Being asked for photos by people who have none up "

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

As in life quite a few things on fab annoy me and as in life I mutter under my breath and then look at a picture of puppies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very little annoys me.

And that/those which do get immediately ignored/blocked.

Simples!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"people who think that, on a site of thousands of people, they are all here 'for the same thing'

newsflash, we arent.

some are here to chat

others to meet and chat

some to meet and play

others will bang anything that moves.

and thats only the 4 generic different reasons, there are many many more individual"
I'm here for the first three on your list. Sorry to hijack it but I've just woke up and it's what Im looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and two things annoy me: no profile pic of any type, not meaning the cock shot and if you can't accommodate, not saying why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have, im not asking for people to get riled with what I've said, if people don't like it I couldn't give a monkeys toss, i say it how it is, friend or foe.

I'm just asking what annoys people here.."

You don't say it as it is at all. You say it how you think it is which is something very different.

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By *.nottsbloke..Man
over a year ago

the vale


"As in life quite a few things on fab annoy me and as in life I mutter under my breath and then look at a picture of puppies."

when I get upset I look at pictures of your puppies B-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What annoys me:

People sending messages without reading profile.

People outside my filters winking (clearly not going to be interested or wouldn't have filters set)

Unsolicited friend invites.

People that message then won't upload a face pic - seriously I don't meet blind and it's very simple to upload a pic and set to private

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The white knights and forum good guys (and girls) annoy the Hell out of me. I do wonder if they are that superficial in the real world.

And as with real life, Empty vessels annoy me. The clingy, the needy, those that need constant reassurance and acceptance annoy me but not as much as those that pander to them. And the narrowminded and bigotted really annoy me.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"The white knights and forum good guys (and girls) annoy the Hell out of me. I do wonder if they are that superficial in the real world.

And as with real life, Empty vessels annoy me. The clingy, the needy, those that need constant reassurance and acceptance annoy me but not as much as those that pander to them. And the narrowminded and bigotted really annoy me."

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"As in life quite a few things on fab annoy me and as in life I mutter under my breath and then look at a picture of puppies.

when I get upset I look at pictures of your puppies B-)"

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

People who think me replying to their forum post is an open invitation for them to PM me. My Fab desires haven't suddenly gone away just because you hit 'reply privately'!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I think watching porn whilst being sucked off by a TV is quite a tempting suggestion.

People who moan about no meets and ask for profile advice from people but then never act on it. They come back a few weeks later moaning about no meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what annoys me is how fickle these forums can be, somebody can post something and get slated,

and also seeing daily posts of 'tips for single guys' I just think its a waste because do we every listen...noooooo, ppl are always going to do what they do whatever tips others give so its a wasted post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

...when your site supporter runs out. Now that is annoying

It takes a lot to piss me off on fab. Everyone is on here for their own reasons. And i respect that. Let them be, and let them do what they want.

Who gives a shit at the end of the day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everything is going to annoy someone every second of the day. We are only human and no one's perfect.

How about we stop being so caught up on what annoys us daily and remember this is a free site that we all decided to sign up to where the positives outweigh the negatives immensely.

Just saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All those kiss fuck and pass threads about 10 a day usually started by the same people.

Some say its harmless flirting but to me its people wanting to see how popular they are in reality.... So boring

PASS

thought id get that in before others do lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Miss_tress and crystal wheels - common sense as usual . Saves me penning my tuppence' worth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing annoys me on a sex site in cyber space, nothing is real,

Profiles are adverts, they should be read, and the product either tempts you , or it doesn't.

If anyone gets annoyed by something that isn't real, they should get a life

in the real world, where things do matter.

I have said before,

FULL BALLS = EMPTY HEAD.

If you find an advert ( profile ) that does tempt you to take action, then the work starts, and it can become real.

Nothing worth having is free, and to be able to get the product ( person ) who tempts you, either by their words or pictures, the work begins.

If its easy, probably wont be worth getting, if it takes time and effort

the rewards can be fantastic, that's your choice.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"All those kiss fuck and pass threads about 10 a day usually started by the same people.

Some say its harmless flirting but to me its people wanting to see how popular they are in reality.... So boring

PASS

thought id get that in before others do lol "

and a crafty way to get around filters. Think about it: if you're a single male over a certain age you can't contact your target market.

Whack up a "would you..." type thread, the walking egos can't resist the flattery, pile it on with a trowel, presto chango...contact!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People who have a problem with transgendered people. I always thought that swinging would be for people with an open mind, seems I am very wrong.

People who get jealous. Jealousy has no place in swinging.

Liars and back stabbers and in general trouble causes. I so wish I could name n shame the guilty, I know who they are and best of all, they know that I know

People should remember that this is meant to be fun Ffs. Far too many issues, far too many people with prejudice and far too many jealous people. "

I don't have a problem with trans people, I just don't want to fuck them...it's not prejudice, it's my preference and choice...my body just doesn't get aroused by them...any more than I do by shaven headed muscle men...I think you'll find that meeting strangers off the internet for casual sex isn't covered by the equal ops act...

I'll be your best girl friend, help you choose lippy and debate the length of your skirt and have done on many occasions. The partner of a good friend of mine is in transition at the moment

The Monkey would but so many t girls only want to meet couples...does that annoy me? not in the slightest-it's their preference...

Fab is supposed to be fun but choosing not to meet people doesn't indicate a closed mind, imposing yourself on others because you feel excluded by their preferences does...

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

The walking egos lol, I shall find a way to use that phrase today.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

only 1

people who are haemorrhaging from every orifice, vomiting black lumpy bile and their left leg has just fallen off...

and they are logged onto a swingers site asking for medical advice...

apart from that, it's all tickety boo

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"only 1

people who are haemorrhaging from every orifice, vomiting black lumpy bile and their left leg has just fallen off...

and they are logged onto a swingers site asking for medical advice...

apart from that, it's all tickety boo "

And again lol.

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

People who ask for advice from others, but then proceed to ignore pretty much 100% of it, usually because they had already formed their opinion or made a decision.

Those that spend almost every waking moment in a "woe is me" state, in thecase of here, usually expressed through their forum posts.

The above isn't just limited to Fab either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because men outnumber women here .. Woman can be very picky who they meet no matter how they look or size . Its not the same for men .. Men can be made to feel second class if bigger or short,And not the best looking. Over the years here on forums seen it time and time again how men rave over the woman and just wish they would have more respect for others even if not for them .

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"only 1

people who are haemorrhaging from every orifice, vomiting black lumpy bile and their left leg has just fallen off...

and they are logged onto a swingers site asking for medical advice...

apart from that, it's all tickety boo "

I swear there'll be a thread one day along the lines: there's smoke everywhere, I can just about see thanks to the light of my lap top, it's getting toasty by my nether regions and my curtains have just caught fire. What do you think I should do fabbers?!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All those kiss fuck and pass threads about 10 a day usually started by the same people. "

Oh and folks who say they can accom and can't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...usually because they had already formed their opinion or made a decision.

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It's the same with threads when members give their opinion about something and everyone who doesn't agree with them is "wrong". I would like to think I'm pretty open-minded and take on board what others have to say. I like to learn/research/google but I also like to debate so on the odd occasion the red mist gets me and I guess I get a lickle blinkered with my _iews. What can I say apart from the fact I'm human .

The whining threads get a bit much but sometimes a venting is healthy for that person... so bottom line there is a place for all the type of threads we see here. We don't have to read, we don't have to comment, we don't have to agree with others. All good

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


"...usually because they had already formed their opinion or made a decision.

It's the same with threads when members give their opinion about something and everyone who doesn't agree with them is "wrong". I would like to think I'm pretty open-minded and take on board what others have to say. I like to learn/research/google but I also like to debate so on the odd occasion the red mist gets me and I guess I get a lickle blinkered with my _iews. What can I say apart from the fact I'm human .

The whining threads get a bit much but sometimes a venting is healthy for that person... so bottom line there is a place for all the type of threads we see here. We don't have to read, we don't have to comment, we don't have to agree with others. All good "

Sage words.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...usually because they had already formed their opinion or made a decision.

It's the same with threads when members give their opinion about something and everyone who doesn't agree with them is "wrong". I would like to think I'm pretty open-minded and take on board what others have to say. I like to learn/research/google but I also like to debate so on the odd occasion the red mist gets me and I guess I get a lickle blinkered with my _iews. What can I say apart from the fact I'm human .

The whining threads get a bit much but sometimes a venting is healthy for that person... so bottom line there is a place for all the type of threads we see here. We don't have to read, we don't have to comment, we don't have to agree with others. All good

Sage words."

As in the herb that helps make stuffing? Oh I need to get stuffed

hehe

Must get off pc now!!!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"...usually because they had already formed their opinion or made a decision.

It's the same with threads when members give their opinion about something and everyone who doesn't agree with them is "wrong". I would like to think I'm pretty open-minded and take on board what others have to say. I like to learn/research/google but I also like to debate so on the odd occasion the red mist gets me and I guess I get a lickle blinkered with my _iews. What can I say apart from the fact I'm human .

The whining threads get a bit much but sometimes a venting is healthy for that person... so bottom line there is a place for all the type of threads we see here. We don't have to read, we don't have to comment, we don't have to agree with others. All good

Sage words.

As in the herb that helps make stuffing? Oh I need to get stuffed

hehe

Must get off pc now!!! "

People who twist things...

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

The guys that message me with straight on their profile.

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


"Sage words.

As in the herb that helps make stuffing? Oh I need to get stuffed

hehe

Must get off pc now!!! "

*cough*

Absolutely no comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wot i dislike is when i see a bbw thread,its written by someone lacking in confidence.not every fatchick or man is like that x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

people who block you after you have been chatting for a while... so rude

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

People that say their own opinion is fact.... It's normally the guys who can't get any

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The main thing that annoys me is men who do not read my profile. I know I shouldn't let it wind me up but I'm sorry it does. So sick of receiving messages from married men, guys asking if I am free to meet in the day, not attaching a face pic to their message and random friend requests.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Wot i dislike is when i see a bbw thread,its written by someone lacking in confidence.not every fatchick or man is like that x "

Ain't that the truth!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All those kiss fuck and pass threads about 10 a day usually started by the same people.

Some say its harmless flirting but to me its people wanting to see how popular they are in reality.... So boring

PASS

thought id get that in before others do

lol

and a crafty way to get around filters. Think about it: if you're a single male over a certain age you can't contact your target market.

Whack up a "would you..." type thread, the walking egos can't resist the flattery, pile it on with a trowel, presto chango...contact! "

Totally agree with this. Specific threads I can think of are the 'I love big boobs, so come on beautiful big breasted ladies make my day and show them to me'. What follows are many women stating their sizes, all desperately trying to outdo the other women with cup size, 'I'm a 36ZZZ' type of thing. The OP probably isn't the type of guy they are looking for, but they cannot resist showing off to other women.

Whose the stupid ones in this kind of scenario, the guy who starts the thread or the women who fall for the fake charm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cannot stand the amount of profiles I read that aSsume all men are that desperate,eg don't keep contacting me I like this and won't except anything else I don't travel so don't ask me ,etc I can imagine people having there time wasted and that being frustrated ,but the attitude that sends off disgusts me its many time ill meet profile specs and won't contact them anyway just out of respect for the people they offended or disrespected

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People without face pics asking for face pics

Classic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

almost getting to have the meet you had been discussing about then saying 'what will I get out of it' (money wise)

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By *andWCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd

Not a lot annoys me on here, the odd post here or there maybe makes me roll my eyes, particularly the 'your not a real woman if...' type ones but I soon forget about it.

Probably the thing that annoys me most about fab is my own lack of will power to get off the forums and go to sleep at a reasonable hour!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So almost 60 posts in and no one has mentioned sense of entitlement and men that think the women on here will Fuck anyone at the drop of a hat.

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


"So almost 60 posts in and no one has mentioned sense of entitlement and men that think the women on here will Fuck anyone at the drop of a hat."

I think i've become desensitized to that, as you tend to see it almost every day. Sad really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So almost 60 posts in and no one has mentioned sense of entitlement and men that think the women on here will Fuck anyone at the drop of a hat."

I got called selfish yesterday by a guy on the forums because I said I have to have an attraction to anyone I meet.

I like being chosey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People who ask for advice from others, but then proceed to ignore pretty much 100% of it, usually because they had already formed their opinion or made a decision.

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Oh I love those! Or specifically those complaining they can't get meets who then proceed to dismiss advice given by numerous well verified posters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have, im not asking for people to get riled with what I've said, if people don't like it I couldn't give a monkeys toss, i say it how it is, friend or foe.

I'm just asking what annoys people here..

You don't say it as it is at all. You say it how you think it is which is something very different. "

Its just a saying, people say they say it as it is, meaning, they say what they think, not what they think others want them to say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pet hate - people who act out their lives on the updates, "im leaving", "feel let down, you know who you are" etc etc.

Its a swingers site, not facebook ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was told to go to a certain street and to ring them when I was there so they could meet me. They never answered the phone, waited for a while then drove an hour back home. Never held a word. Great stuff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mostly women who dont like themselves very much, who seem grateful for attention from any man, they should either learn to like themselves or just keep quiet about it.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Was told to go to a certain street and to ring them when I was there so they could meet me. They never answered the phone, waited for a while then drove an hour back home. Never held a word. Great stuff"

Think with your head next time: the head on your shoulders.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Mostly women who dont like themselves very much, who seem grateful for attention from any man, they should either learn to like themselves or just keep quiet about it."

I cringe at some posts! "I'm gross with wobbly bits, buck teeth and stringy hair and don't know why men meet me, I'm not worthy, so turn down the lookers and fuck fellow mingers".

Very annoying!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

getting ignored when you post on forum

an ofcourse forum bullies do exists

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By *encarolCouple
over a year ago

Tyneside

People looking at you chatting / winking , then send friends request , then they fuc*ing block you , gggrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago

Rockford


"getting ignored when you post on forum

an ofcourse forum bullies do exists "

Dont let them get you down sunshine. Post away with a smile on and await the inevitable ban they will eventually get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look what you've started!! Lol

Nothing annoys me about this site, it's free, there are some great people on here and like life in general you get back what you put in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"getting ignored when you post on forum

an ofcourse forum bullies do exists

Dont let them get you down sunshine. Post away with a smile on and await the inevitable ban they will eventually get "
yup try not to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How long is a piece of string is what I think when it comes to this place and things that annoy me lol!

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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago

Rockford


"getting ignored when you post on forum

an ofcourse forum bullies do exists

Dont let them get you down sunshine. Post away with a smile on and await the inevitable ban they will eventually get yup try not to "

if it helps... I am personally one if the things that annoys many people on fab

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"getting ignored when you post on forum

an ofcourse forum bullies do exists "

Good Lord, my posts are often ignored, how does that make others bullies?!! The Mods are shit hot and put you on the naughty step if you bully.

Post away! Disagreeing or being ignored is not bullying, get a grip!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Look what you've started!! Lol

Nothing annoys me about this site, it's free, there are some great people on here and like life in general you get back what you put in "

Spot on, I have had a few rants on here in the past but like suggested elsewhere most of this site isnt 'real' it's all cyber bullshit. I find most of it hilarious

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"getting ignored when you post on forum

an ofcourse forum bullies do exists

Dont let them get you down sunshine. Post away with a smile on and await the inevitable ban they will eventually get "

That's the point. If you bully you get a ban! People have the right to answer messages, ignore forum threads: how many times have Mods advised us to ignore posts we don't like?!!

Now you're a bully if you do: you really can't win!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life's too short to get annoyed, lets get naked and party!

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By *ustyBrunette35Couple
over a year ago

birmingham

People that complain about OTHER peoples profiles.

It's their profile and its written the way THEY want too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Very little annoys me.

And that/those which do get immediately ignored/blocked.

Simples! "

Wish I was as chilled as you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Probably the thing that annoys me most about fab is my own lack of will power to get off the forums and go to sleep at a reasonable hour! "

Soooo true xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always smile at the messages I receive from guys who we've winked (well the OH has winked as he tends to do the browsing) and they reply with a 'thanks for the wink, when would you like to meet'. A wink is not a guaranteed meet, it is merely a friendly hello

It doesn't annoy me as it's a very useful insight. If guys don't want to find out and chat to the person they've messaged, I'm hardly going to want to meet them.

Also guys who, when you ask them to tell them a little about themselves and their hobbies, likes/dislikes etc, they reply 'well what do you want to know'. I don't reply, the answer is simple, I just don't want to know anything as you clearly are unimaginative.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

users that moans they cant get meets

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

very little,

life's to short to be annoyed by small things and half of the best forum threads have come from what others would see as a annoying post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"people who think that, on a site of thousands of people, they are all here 'for the same thing'

newsflash, we arent.

some are here to chat

others to meet and chat

some to meet and play

others will bang anything that moves.

and thats only the 4 generic different reasons, there are many many more individual"
just this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it annoys me when people ask does hubby play as well or know im on here , then i know they havent read my profile bugs the life out of me, read profiles then u know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"getting ignored when you post on forum

an ofcourse forum bullies do exists "

Your not getting ignored now tho lol i get ignored sumtimes because ive said sumat really boring or crap,other times i say sumat interesting and someone will coment,depends wot the thread is about,dont bother me im not on here to be miss popular,i like Open Chat and different oppinions

I wouldnt say what i read is bullying,some people feel very strongly abt some subjects,i have set up a cple threads,i value peoples oppinions and can take the good with the bad, i dont let it bother me

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By *harlieannCouple
over a year ago

norwich

Plastic tits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never having a single reply :P

I don't go into the chatrooms much but I do try to put effort into hello mails. But then again you ladies get so many so it's tough to make myself stand out. Not moaning, just a playful sigh. "ahhhh"

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Plastic tits"

What annoys you about fake breasts??

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By *ICEFITMan
over a year ago

dundee

Suppose my pet hate is women who demand face pics, yet have/offer no pics themselves. I accept that they probably dontl wanna meet someone they not attracted to, but hey! Neither do the guys! Give a little, get a little.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All those kiss fuck and pass threads about 10 a day usually started by the same people.

Some say its harmless flirting but to me its people wanting to see how popular they are in reality.... So boring

PASS

so true... and most single males who think we as couples should fuck anything because we are on this site.. WE DON'T. we like meeting for the social side as well.

thought id get that in before others do lol "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Plastic tits"

i prefer your tits.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"getting ignored when you post on forum

an ofcourse forum bullies do exists

Your not getting ignored now tho lol i get ignored sumtimes because ive said sumat really boring or crap,other times i say sumat interesting and someone will coment,depends wot the thread is about,dont bother me im not on here to be miss popular,i like Open Chat and different oppinions

I wouldnt say what i read is bullying,some people feel very strongly abt some subjects,i have set up a cple threads,i value peoples oppinions and can take the good with the bad, i dont let it bother me"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

profiles with

"update"

and the profiles still boring as hell

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By *RYBBWCouple
over a year ago

Leeds.

If this site annoys you so much go do something else instead. Simples.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"profiles with

"update"

and the profiles still boring as hell "

*Giggles*

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By *anther and gothic angelCouple
over a year ago

fairy land

People who think you should not have a sexual preference or be choosy if you don't look like a super model.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profiles that state no time wasters......does anyone really want a time waster?

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Profiles that state no time wasters......does anyone really want a time waster? "

that's a very good point I've yet to see timewaster in the options box in "browse"

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

Forum sycophants. Invariably male. Will agree with everything female posters say if they deem it the 'correct' response.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Messages from men begging me to meet them saying they'll do anything...although sometimes it amuses me to set them an unachievable challenge

Or guys who say that they couldn't be arsed reading my epic profile but thought they'd message me anyway to see if I fancied meeting

Veris which say 'gives the best blow job ever' when they actually mean 'the-best-one-since-I-last-got-one-which-was-ages-ago'...unless it's one of mine, in which case it's true!

And finally gross extreme close ups of lady-bits which look like the Predator roaring...only highly paid gynaecologists should have to stomach that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"profiles with

"update"

and the profiles still boring as hell

*Giggles* "
#

thought you may have smiled then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who message you then go offline -_-

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Messages from men begging me to meet them saying they'll do anything...although sometimes it amuses me to set them an unachievable challenge

"

hmmmm you do that too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oops missed one...snide couples who criticise and abuse single guys for daring to start a thread, yet are happy to play along in a forum regular's 'guess what my dog had for breakfast' post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

?t how addictive threads are,im back again peeking

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"

Or guys who say that they couldn't be arsed reading my epic profile but thought they'd message me anyway to see if I fancied meeting "

To be fair it is really, really, REALLY loooooong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you are polite and say no thanks and they come back with...WHY! People would reply more if others took a polite no thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you are polite and say no thanks and they come back with...WHY! People would reply more if others took a polite no thanks."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

people who think a no thanks means " but please i can change your mind"

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Messages from men begging me to meet them saying they'll do anything...although sometimes it amuses me to set them an unachievable challenge

Or guys who say that they couldn't be arsed reading my epic profile but thought they'd message me anyway to see if I fancied meeting

Veris which say 'gives the best blow job ever' when they actually mean 'the-best-one-since-I-last-got-one-which-was-ages-ago'...unless it's one of mine, in which case it's true!

And finally gross extreme close ups of lady-bits which look like the Predator roaring...only highly paid gynaecologists should have to stomach that "

*Sniggers*

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Forum sycophants. Invariably male. Will agree with everything female posters say if they deem it the 'correct' response."

They make me cringe actually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People without face pics asking for face pics

Classic"

How do you know they haven't got face pics, they might be in their private folder like mine are

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Messages from men begging me to meet them saying they'll do anything...although sometimes it amuses me to set them an unachievable challenge

hmmmm you do that too "

Telling them what my Goliath is, and my home made lube: key ingredient wasabi often results in (user no longer on site)!

Re...sult!

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

The list is endless... Ill wear my phone out typing it. Lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Messages from men begging me to meet them saying they'll do anything...although sometimes it amuses me to set them an unachievable challenge

hmmmm you do that too

Telling them what my Goliath is, and my home made lube: key ingredient wasabi often results in (user no longer on site)!

Re...sult! "

Yet it worries me as i actually believe you would do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

guys who write verifications.and ladies who then put them on with the words 'sucks like a dyson' who would want to be compared to a hoover

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Forum sycophants. Invariably male. Will agree with everything female posters say if they deem it the 'correct' response.

They make me cringe actually. "

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Messages from men begging me to meet them saying they'll do anything...although sometimes it amuses me to set them an unachievable challenge

hmmmm you do that too

Telling them what my Goliath is, and my home made lube: key ingredient wasabi often results in (user no longer on site)!

Re...sult!

Yet it worries me as i actually believe you would do it "

I do have a giant dildo called Goliath and I do use wasabi as lube...it sure separates the dreamers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Forum sycophants. Invariably male. Will agree with everything female posters say if they deem it the 'correct' response.

They make me cringe actually. "

Their lack of consistency always makes me cringe.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"Messages from men begging me to meet them saying they'll do anything...although sometimes it amuses me to set them an unachievable challenge

hmmmm you do that too

Telling them what my Goliath is, and my home made lube: key ingredient wasabi often results in (user no longer on site)!

Re...sult!

Yet it worries me as i actually believe you would do it

I do have a giant dildo called Goliath and I do use wasabi as lube...it sure separates the dreamers! "

Ok I've heard about Goliath but please tell me you're kidding about the wasabi?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has anyone mentioned the fantasists who make utterly ridiculous forum posts and in some cases follow them up with more and more outlandish claims

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By *uteguy06Man
over a year ago

Swindon

People who have not even had a proper conversation with me and think I am fake or a time waster because I have not had any meets yet and been a member for over a year!!

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

People with the Sydney University warning. How many of then would really go the trouble and expense of suing someone in Australia for taking a few pictures or copying their profile text? Not saying people should be able to use other's photos, but those few lines are hardly going to make someone stop if they were going to

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Messages from men begging me to meet them saying they'll do anything...although sometimes it amuses me to set them an unachievable challenge

hmmmm you do that too

Telling them what my Goliath is, and my home made lube: key ingredient wasabi often results in (user no longer on site)!

Re...sult!

Yet it worries me as i actually believe you would do it

I do have a giant dildo called Goliath and I do use wasabi as lube...it sure separates the dreamers!

Ok I've heard about Goliath but please tell me you're kidding about the wasabi? "

No, I'm not! I also use Deep Heat!

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"Messages from men begging me to meet them saying they'll do anything...although sometimes it amuses me to set them an unachievable challenge

hmmmm you do that too

Telling them what my Goliath is, and my home made lube: key ingredient wasabi often results in (user no longer on site)!

Re...sult!

Yet it worries me as i actually believe you would do it

I do have a giant dildo called Goliath and I do use wasabi as lube...it sure separates the dreamers!

Ok I've heard about Goliath but please tell me you're kidding about the wasabi?

No, I'm not! I also use Deep Heat! "

Good grief!! Lol x

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"people who think that, on a site of thousands of people, they are all here 'for the same thing'

newsflash, we arent.

some are here to chat

others to meet and chat

some to meet and play

others will bang anything that moves.

and thats only the 4 generic different reasons, there are many many more individual"

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The white knights and forum good guys (and girls) annoy the Hell out of me. I do wonder if they are that superficial in the real world.

And as with real life, Empty vessels annoy me. The clingy, the needy, those that need constant reassurance and acceptance annoy me but not as much as those that pander to them. And the narrowminded and bigotted really annoy me."

problem is, if people were to say what they really think on forums, they would be silences very quickly, even though most opinions arent bigoted or morally wrong, they just upset those that shout a little louder than others.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Ok here's a few..

People who message me saying how beautiful I am when they've not seen my face

People who message saying 'loved your profile' or similar then say things which prove there's no way they read it.

The whole 'Its rude not to reply' thing

Anyone that resorts to being nasty to get their point across on the forums.

And the last one is ME. Coz I get annoyed at myself at least once a day for getting annoyed at bloody idiots on here!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What annoys you on this site?. Have yo say the main ones for me are the "don't mess them about, otherwise your have me to answer to" yeah whatever Trevor...

Another is, people making themselves out to being something they arnt. Mainly in their profiles, but when you actually come to chatting, they're as boring and as false as a Facebook friend...

Another is, when you message somebody they sometimes ask why, and are the most stuck up people you have ever come across, they seem to forget that everybody is here for the same thing, I mean if you wanna chat bollocks then join a dating site, or ask to go on the Jeremy Kyle show..

The last one is, people who can't hold a conversation, writing you three or four words, or some TV asking you if you want your cock sucked as you watch porn. Pointless..

So yeah, that's what makes my shit itch about this place, and if you gotta problem with it, then I hope you get knob rot, yeah I went there!!"

Stop shagging itchy shitters and you won't get knob rot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When verifications say...."don't pass him/her by"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

single blokes that jump on things other single blokes do that annoy couples/single fems, to make themselves look good, and yet we all know they have, at one point or another, done the exact same, and probably will do again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being asked for photos by people who have none up "

My pet hate!

I have no problem providing a pic but the cheek of someone demanding a face pic when they have none at all...Grrr!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who discriminate against disabled or vulnerable people.

What, I hear you cry....

Yes there are some here, on the site in general, honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

men who send you a friend invite, look at your profile every day, then say on the forums derogatary things about the type of pics on your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People that start a conversation with you and suddenly just stop messaging without any reason. I get that couples are popular and guys come in bunch but if you've been talking for a while you'd think it wouldn't end that abruptly.

Also, sort of related, I wish fab would let me filter events based on what people are looking for..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"single blokes that jump on things other single blokes do that annoy couples/single fems, to make themselves look good, and yet we all know they have, at one point or another, done the exact same, and probably will do again."

. This exactly. It really gets on my goat when you see them jump all over a guy, trying to gain themselves brownie points.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Freeloaders,people who expect something in return for a meet, I suppose that's my only gripe,

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Reading a really good profile and then coming to the Sydney Warning and realising that they are in fact sheeple.

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

The list is endless but jeyho. Block, delete, move on.

- Amy. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What annoys me when you are genuine and you travel for a meet then you get a text message saying "sorry but I can't be arsed meeting you now as I'm too tired " lol there are so many people that put themselves so high when the reality is they are just plane Jane lol

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts


"The list is endless but jeyho. Block, delete, move on.

- Amy. x"

"jeyho"?! Great, now I've got Pussycat Dolls in my head!...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another one is when people say I'm classy, professional and have a very high standard and I don't just chose anyone to meet they have to be short listed .... And they have 40 verifications and pics of them being nailed in some dirty stinking alley lol

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"single blokes that jump on things other single blokes do that annoy couples/single fems, to make themselves look good, and yet we all know they have, at one point or another, done the exact same, and probably will do again."

This too!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"What annoys me when you are genuine and you travel for a meet then you get a text message saying "sorry but I can't be arsed meeting you now as I'm too tired " lol there are so many people that put themselves so high when the reality is they are just plane Jane lol"

That's your selection process though, so you should be annoyed with yourself!

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By *tirling DarkCouple
over a year ago

Stirling


"All those kiss fuck and pass threads about 10 a day usually started by the same people.

Some say its harmless flirting but to me its people wanting to see how popular they are in reality.... So boring

PASS

thought id get that in before others do lol "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People who discriminate against disabled or vulnerable people.

What, I hear you cry....

Yes there are some here, on the site in general, honest.

"

we have been messaged by a few couples where the bloke is disabled, and we never get further than asking what participation is the guy able to manage.

have no problem with meeting couples where one or other have some form of differing ability, but they have to be open with what they can do and cant do.

no point meeting with us if V is on the rag and cant participate in oral is there.

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By *mallteaserWoman
over a year ago

Central

Being totally deaf, it's very alarming just how many people do discriminate on here, been there and it's just not nice x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What annoys me when you are genuine and you travel for a meet then you get a text message saying "sorry but I can't be arsed meeting you now as I'm too tired " lol there are so many people that put themselves so high when the reality is they are just plane Jane lol

That's your selection process though, so you should be annoyed with yourself! "

How is it my fault? I cooperated with her instructions fully . As it turns out I wasn't the only one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What annoys me when you are genuine and you travel for a meet then you get a text message saying "sorry but I can't be arsed meeting you now as I'm too tired " lol there are so many people that put themselves so high when the reality is they are just plane Jane lol

That's your selection process though, so you should be annoyed with yourself! "

How is it my fault? I cooperated with her instructions fully . As it turns out I wasn't the only one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads of things

One i've just come across again though.

I know it has nothing to do with me how people use fab but the same folk in my local updates list who put a meet up everyday then moan and call everyone fakes when they don't get a daily shag.

FFS, get another interest, do folk really want to swap everyday.

Would love to tell them the countless close ups of the fems hairy arse really isn't doing them any favours.

Oh I feel bad now but I just had to get that one off my chest.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Being totally deaf, it's very alarming just how many people do discriminate on here, been there and it's just not nice x"

This is fantasy.

If my enjoyment is giving playmates instructions if they can't hear me how does that work for me?

If someone is in a wheelchair how are they going to get over my porch steps into my house, let alone up two flights of steps into my bedroom?

If someone has a withered arm how can I shackle them from the hooks in my ceiling?

Too many people on here are too quick to lable others who don't want to meet them. I'm here for MY sexual gratification: people who don't meet my play needs: that includes fit as fuck married men just have to get over it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being totally deaf, it's very alarming just how many people do discriminate on here, been there and it's just not nice x"

Yup. So it isnt just moi. And I discussed this with a blind person the other day who had been told he had no right to swing.

Anyway thats a whole different thread. Lots of people are great, its only a website, and the only reason this riled me is because I know disability discrimination is rife in the real world even more so than the cyber one.

Generally if I dont like summat I just ignore, delete or block!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about the folks that take over a post on the forums and use it as love in? Or am i the only one with that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

u mean hijack a post

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By *arnaclebillMan
over a year ago

Robin Hood County


"What annoys you on this site?. Have yo say the main ones for me are the "don't mess them about, otherwise your have me to answer to" yeah whatever Trevor...

Another is, people making themselves out to being something they arnt. Mainly in their profiles, but when you actually come to chatting, they're as boring and as false as a Facebook friend...

Another is, when you message somebody they sometimes ask why, and are the most stuck up people you have ever come across, they seem to forget that everybody is here for the same thing, I mean if you wanna chat bollocks then join a dating site, or ask to go on the Jeremy Kyle show..

The last one is, people who can't hold a conversation, writing you three or four words, or some TV asking you if you want your cock sucked as you watch porn. Pointless..

So yeah, that's what makes my shit itch about this place, and if you gotta problem with it, then I hope you get knob rot, yeah I went there!!"

The last time I commented on a similar question I got myself barred from the forums for a few days. So I'll just bite my tongue and say nowt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But not everyone is looking to be your idea of a submissive for the purposes of play. Thats a whole different thread anyway, but all I will say is that many people in wheelchairs with no arms are fit as fuck and I have done all the things you talk of as a Domme and I am disabled. And as a sub.

If you dont talk to people you never know what they are capable are.

I suppose what I am saying annoys me about the site is that people see the disability, not the person, as soon as you mention it.

No more to say, sorry for the hijack.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"u mean hijack a post

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Yeah, lol.

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

the ones that message to say they are blocking me why bother telling me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the ones that message to say they are blocking me why bother telling me"

Maybe hoping that you will message back asking why. That way they can then try and entice you into chatting to them. Had it done to me. Lol.

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By *isandreTV/TS
over a year ago

Durham

What annoys me?

All this damn promiscuity. It's a disgrace.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But not everyone is looking to be your idea of a submissive for the purposes of play. Thats a whole different thread anyway, but all I will say is that many people in wheelchairs with no arms are fit as fuck and I have done all the things you talk of as a Domme and I am disabled. And as a sub.

If you dont talk to people you never know what they are capable are.

I suppose what I am saying annoys me about the site is that people see the disability, not the person, as soon as you mention it.

No more to say, sorry for the hijack.

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angel, sorry but its not black and white.

we have a couple we want to meet where the guy is an amputee. its not a bother at all, however we were asked if we would meet another couple, where the gent was paraplegic.

although not a problem, especially access to the house, he was no longer able to function as a horny bloke usually can, and seeing as V likes cock more than either of us likes pussy, then the dynamic just wouldnt be there.

and thats the point.

wouldnt meet able bodied people that dont meet the needs we are looking to fill, so why would a disabled person/couple be treated any differently?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheers to the people actually responding to the question, obviously get s few spitting their dummies out, build a bridge and get the fuck over it, and all that jazz.

Sorry, but saying were not all here for thing, is bullshit. If that was the case, most would be on dating sites, chat rooms, mot an adult website, don't fool yourselfs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cheers to the people actually responding to the question, obviously get s few spitting their dummies out, build a bridge and get the fuck over it, and all that jazz.

Sorry, but saying were not all here for thing, is bullshit. If that was the case, most would be on dating sites, chat rooms, mot an adult website, don't fool yourselfs

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not fooling ourselves.

WE are not looking for what YOU are looking for, so we ARENT all here for the same reason, just going by the cross section of the 3 people involved in this post.

if you add into the mix those that are JUST after camming

JUSt here to chat with people the know

Here to waste a bit of time

Watch the cams

Read messages

then you will see that we ARENT all here for the same reason, which im guessing you are insisting is to have sex with strangers (if not then please do tell me what this 1 thing we are all here for is)

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"What about the folks that take over a post on the forums and use it as love in? Or am i the only one with that? "

No, I just ignore them.

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By *wingerdelightCouple
over a year ago

eastliegh

The only thing that annoys me is people with straight on their profile messaging saying I'm bi but don't like to show it. Ffs swinging is about beeing honest.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"What about the folks that take over a post on the forums and use it as love in? Or am i the only one with that? "

I've been guilty of that on many an occasion. Sorry. I think someone needs to say 'stop typing with one hand' or something

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"But not everyone is looking to be your idea of a submissive for the purposes of play. Thats a whole different thread anyway, but all I will say is that many people in wheelchairs with no arms are fit as fuck and I have done all the things you talk of as a Domme and I am disabled. And as a sub.

If you dont talk to people you never know what they are capable are.

I suppose what I am saying annoys me about the site is that people see the disability, not the person, as soon as you mention it.

No more to say, sorry for the hijack.

"

People don't want to meet me because I'm fat, old etc. It doesn't mean they're being nasty, I don't meet their play needs. I have no issue with that.

My point is some people go into hypersensitive mode if they're excluded in any way shape or form.

I don't intend to carry out a risk assessment or conduct a diversity questionnaire in order to ascertain fitness to fuck: it kills the mood for me. Been there, played with a man who had a Hickman tube fitted in his chest: I was scared it'd come out!

Not fun for me, and at the end of the day it really is all about me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The endless list of people on here that think there above you and me and this site.there the same type of people that you can pass in the street and say hello to and get no reply so its probly a good thing there like that becuse it makes me feel good about the way i relate to others

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"But not everyone is looking to be your idea of a submissive for the purposes of play. Thats a whole different thread anyway, but all I will say is that many people in wheelchairs with no arms are fit as fuck and I have done all the things you talk of as a Domme and I am disabled. And as a sub.

If you dont talk to people you never know what they are capable are.

I suppose what I am saying annoys me about the site is that people see the disability, not the person, as soon as you mention it.

No more to say, sorry for the hijack.

angel, sorry but its not black and white.

we have a couple we want to meet where the guy is an amputee. its not a bother at all, however we were asked if we would meet another couple, where the gent was paraplegic.

although not a problem, especially access to the house, he was no longer able to function as a horny bloke usually can, and seeing as V likes cock more than either of us likes pussy, then the dynamic just wouldnt be there.

and thats the point.

wouldnt meet able bodied people that dont meet the needs we are looking to fill, so why would a disabled person/couple be treated any differently?"

That's the point I was trying to make.

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria


"Being asked for photos by people who have none up "

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When guys in the chatrooms tell me I am stunning and then use the exact same words on someone who in my opinion is anything but stunning.

I know they'll say anything to get me to undress but srsly still gets in my nerves.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

not getting the last say

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By *inkySCouple
over a year ago

Capetown


"Messages from men begging me to meet them saying they'll do anything...although sometimes it amuses me to set them an unachievable challenge

Or guys who say that they couldn't be arsed reading my epic profile but thought they'd message me anyway to see if I fancied meeting

Veris which say 'gives the best blow job ever' when they actually mean 'the-best-one-since-I-last-got-one-which-was-ages-ago'...unless it's one of mine, in which case it's true!

And finally gross extreme close ups of lady-bits which look like the Predator roaring...only highly paid gynaecologist should have to stomach that "

Pmsl...miss Dee Vine you made me laugh so hard at last comment about predator x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was told to go to a certain street and to ring them when I was there so they could meet me. They never answered the phone, waited for a while then drove an hour back home. Never held a word. Great stuff

Think with your head next time: the head on your shoulders. "

Very hard to think with your head sometimes, the bigger brain takes over

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