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By *ensualtouch15 OP Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

What is your opinion of a man who knows he is good looking ?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

cool, confidence about his looks is all good

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

He might THINK he is, but all women are different. I don't go for conventionally attractive men, so a guy who 'knows' he is good looking might find me a bit hard work in the worship department.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont forget that whilst looks attract people ladies may also be attracted by a guys personality

I've met both attractive ladies & men but who are arrogant and people I wouldn't like to be with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends. If he has his head up his arse then I'm not keen at all. Also his idea of good looking might be different to mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

confidence is good, not all good looking men are good looking to me though. i suppose someone like david beckham would be considered to be good looking by most people of course.

i like men who like themselves, not arrogant men though.

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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago

Rockford

Too pretty like the male models does not do it for me..I like character in a face...though a killer smile does make me melt. Confidence is attractive but arrogance isn't

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By *ea and SugarCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

"It depends. If he has his head up his arse then I'm not keen at all. Also his idea of good looking might be different to mine."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What one person considers to be good looking, another will not.

A man is attractive not through just looks alone, and it is a whole package.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I've been contacted by a few of what I class as good looking, unfortunately it was like pulling teeth trying to have a conversation with them, so for that reason I never met!

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"He might THINK he is, but all women are different. I don't go for conventionally attractive men, so a guy who 'knows' he is good looking might find me a bit hard work in the worship department."

Same for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know I'm good looking to some.

I'm also confident that I'm not at all attractive to others.

That's life. And it's all good!

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Depends on his attitude as there is a difference between being confident in your looks and being arrogant and up yourself.

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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago

Rockford

"I've been contacted by a few of what I class as good looking, unfortunately it was like pulling teeth trying to have a conversation with them, so for that reason I never met! "

oh hell yes... all the good looks in the world wont compensate for bad social skills or no personality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone's got different taste

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please describe "good looking" to see if compares with others opinions, OP.

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By *arma duoCouple
over a year ago

Hull

Easy....look at our profile,now there's confidence for ya!!!!....haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've said before that I certainly do value good looks, but without a good personality they're not worth a great deal, rather like a big budget Hollywood movie full of explosions and special FX, but with a crap script and flat characters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been contacted by a few of what I class as good looking, unfortunately it was like pulling teeth trying to have a conversation with them, so for that reason I never met! "

Me too, what's that all about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is your opinion of a man who knows he is good looking ?"

don't have one really so long as he accepts that all because he thinks he's good looking not everyone else will, confidence is good, arrogance isn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He might THINK he is, but all women are different. I don't go for conventionally attractive men, so a guy who 'knows' he is good looking might find me a bit hard work in the worship department."

ive never gone for conventionally good looking men either, I like the rough and ready, scruffy look, give me a guy like Zakk Wylde anyday yummmmmmy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to just think i look ok

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, what one person finds attractive, may be unattractive to another person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some women are actually put off by good looking men because they fear the competition of other females

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What one person considers to be good looking, another will not.

A man is attractive not through just looks alone, and it is a whole package. "

agreed

Chinese proverb states those who find me attractive are blind and those who find me ugly have found there glasses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beauty is in the eye of beholder if someone says your good looking the next person might not think so.

Luckily someone else always comes along

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Beauty is in the eye of beholder if someone says your good looking the next person might not think so.

Luckily someone else always comes along

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is your opinion of a man who knows he is good looking ?"

Depends on what you think is good looking, if they are good looking (to me) then why shouldn't they think they are good looking nothing wrong with a guy being proud of his looks long as he's not cocky with it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its the same with women. Some think they are the best thing since sliced bread. But their arrogance just makes them so unattractive.

But confidence in a lady! OMG!! Try and tie me down and keep me still from pouncing lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm quite the opposite I have it set in my mind that I am very ugly, not sure why but kinda feeling better about myself after been on here for a while. How you feel about yourself does have a big effect on how you behave and approach people, I have noticed in everyday life I become more confident as I become happier about myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its the same with women. Some think they are the best thing since sliced bread. But their arrogance just makes them so unattractive.

But confidence in a lady! OMG!! Try and tie me down and keep me still from pouncing lol

I am just your average fella. I know I'm not ugly but I also know I am not your typically good looker and I leave it up to others to make their own decision. I must admit that has come across as arrogant to some but why waste time trying to prove to someone you are what they think you are not if they are shallow enough to not see through to the person?

If there's attraction, then it's all good. If there's not then it's all good too.

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

I love a man who looks after his appearance but don't like men that vain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love a man who looks after his appearance but don't like men that vain "

u`ll find some vanity in most people that look after themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some women are actually put off by good looking men because they fear the competition of other females

I can understand that, not when you are just meeting for sex though.

i know a good looking man who is married to a plain looking older woman.

i think its because he is lacking in something.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some women are actually put off by good looking men because they fear the competition of other females

I can understand that, not when you are just meeting for sex though.

i know a good looking man who is married to a plain looking older woman.

i think its because he is lacking in something."

I know someone like that. He knows or feels he can trust her and knows she won't go off with anyone or cheat yet he does. Maybe it's his own insecurities

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"He might THINK he is, but all women are different. I don't go for conventionally attractive men, so a guy who 'knows' he is good looking might find me a bit hard work in the worship department."

This!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'am average

and I like it

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By *yLittleMushroomIndeedMan
over a year ago

Lowestoft

im definitely not attractive but ive known this since i was a boy/ teenager

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"im definitely not attractive but ive known this since i was a boy/ teenager"

We are all attractive to somebody!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It depends. If he has his head up his arse then I'm not keen at all. Also his idea of good looking might be different to mine."

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I've been told I'm good looking by some but I know it's subjective. I prefer 'normal average' people with a bit of personality and spark but if a lady is good looking (IMO) then it's a welcome and gleefully accepted bonus.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"im definitely not attractive but ive known this since i was a boy/ teenager"

You're not unattractive to me, but your low self esteem and constant self deprecation is!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It depends. If he has his head up his arse then I'm not keen at all. Also his idea of good looking might be different to mine."

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"im definitely not attractive but ive known this since i was a boy/ teenager

You're not unattractive to me, but your low self esteem and constant self deprecation is!

Attractiveness is not just looks....

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By *yLittleMushroomIndeedMan
over a year ago

Lowestoft

"im definitely not attractive but ive known this since i was a boy/ teenager

You're not unattractive to me, but your low self esteem and constant self deprecation is!

thankyou for that reply on mine makes me feel wanted x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i much prefer a good looking guy that doesnt know he's good looking!!...theres something really sweet about that!...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some gals think i'm good looking, others don't. Thats life though. We can't be everybodys cup of tea after all.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Oh I'm a total sucker for the good-looking arrogant narcissist!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is your opinion of a man who knows he is good looking ?"

A man is entitled to think he's good looking but needs to accept that not everyone will agree with him.

A nice smile & sexy eyes is nice but also must have a personality & not arrogant. Huge difference in being confident. xx

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I don't know how anyone can know they are good looking. Surely wether someone is attractive is down to the person looking at them not what they think in their own head??

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"i much prefer a good looking guy that doesnt know he's good looking!!...theres something really sweet about that!...

Agreed. I have a very handsome friend that goes rhubarb pink when I tell him how good looking he is. He is totally oblivious to the stares from women so they think he's arrogant: so far from the truth.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I don't know how anyone can know they are good looking. Surely wether someone is attractive is down to the person looking at them not what they think in their own head?? "

Nah! Who cares what others think when your talking mirror confirms what you already know: you're the fairest in the land!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a guy who is handsome, rugged if he's older, or clean cut if he's younger. Nothing like a gorgeous piece of man in a towel showin me the junk in his trunk an all that.

But I dont like the vanity. If a guy comes to me with an attitude of "I'm soooo fantastic, ya gotta want me girl...."

I'll probably stay in and watch me box set of Downton Abbey instead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as has been said, V doesnt go for the 'usual' good looking type, have had dicussions in the past where i have commented on a good looking bloke, and she hasnt given him a second look.7

so blokes that believe they are good looking may well be in for a bit of a shock trying it on in this direction lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Too pretty like the male models does not do it for me..I like character in a face...though a killer smile does make me melt. Confidence is attractive but arrogance isn't "

What they said

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

A lot of really good looking, fit men are so full of themselves and have the personalities of a gnat. They seem to think we women should be grateful for their attention. Thankfully, not all are like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is your opinion of a man who knows he is good looking ?"

no opinion just join the queue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

every sentient being is good looking to someone, I just take people as I find them, sometimes an arrogant guy is a turn on, sometimes not, beauty radiates from within, by deeds and words,

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By *uteguy06Man
over a year ago

Swindon

I used to think I was good looking because I used to get a lot of attention from ladies but last few years think I may of been hit with the ugly spade in my sleep at some point ha ha,

No female attention at all nowadays lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer good looking men to ugly ones obviously. Need to be careful because it is a small distance that separates confidence from arrogance and arrogance is not attractive at all.

I have also found that successful men tend to have an "aura" about them which makes them more attractive even though their physical characteristics might be standard.

On the other hand someone who comes across as troubled and down trodden really does not excite me and becomes uglier in my eyes.

So all in all, in my opinion, there is more to beauty than meets the eye.

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas

Think a good smile is much more important than looks .

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