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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have a friend who wants me to seduce his wife and tell him all that goes on.

I am meeting her today for the first time and we will be alone. The meeting is arranged at their house and is under a pretext of me fixing something in their house that will take some time.

If we get on, and she likes me, I am to flirt with her and try to get her going and also tell her that if anything that happens will be our secret

my friend told me that she loves male attention but his wife has never gone further that flirting, he thinks she would love to have a sexual encounter with another guy, and he would love her to have sexy fun without him (but he wants to know the details)

Eventually, if this works out and his wife and I get friendly, he will suggest a 3sum some night after we are at a pub and cant drive home because of drink driving.

My friend and I have discussed this at length and he and I are up for it.

his wife does not know that we are planning this. (We don't know what will happen , if anything)

What are your thoughts on the situation ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't see this ending well....

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

doomed to not end well........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds a bit like your friend is using you to test his wife. So if she happily let's you seduce her won't he be thinking "hmmmm I obviously can't trust my wife". Who's next? The plumber, postie etc..... Don't do it. You'll lose your buddy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think he's testing her fidelity and if she falls for it all hell will break loose.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No: He is not testing her to see if she will stray or not: He thinks she is a very sexy lady and they are happily married, but their sex life is crap. He has always wanted to see her with another man and have 3sums. They have chatted about it on occasions and he feels that this is the next step, because he thinks she will never have the confidence to make a move on it herself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Recipe for disaster. She will feel used, and you'll be lying to her ("Our little secret" - yea right). Your mate might think it's an exciting plan, but once the deed is done he might not like the thought at all.

Some fantasies should remain just that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not tell her beforehand?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No: He is not testing her to see if she will stray or not: He thinks she is a very sexy lady and they are happily married, but their sex life is crap. He has always wanted to see her with another man and have 3sums. They have chatted about it on occasions and he feels that this is the next step, because he thinks she will never have the confidence to make a move on it herself.

"

There is obviously no communication in this marriage, why doesn't he just talk to her rather than pimp her out without warning?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No: He is not testing her to see if she will stray or not: He thinks she is a very sexy lady and they are happily married, but their sex life is crap. He has always wanted to see her with another man and have 3sums. They have chatted about it on occasions and he feels that this is the next step, because he thinks she will never have the confidence to make a move on it herself.

"

Playing games won't solve anything. Give her time to decide for herself, she's not a toy, she has her own mind and should t be tricked into it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why not tell her beforehand?"

because: she may get cold feet and not try! I will not push the situation and if the flirting doesn't happen , then that will be it. But if the flirting starts, it could be interesting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She's a human with feelings not a blow up doll .if its been talked about in the past he should sit her down and ask her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why does the phrase ' There is one born every minute' instantly spring to mind

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By *uckyinlustMan
over a year ago

manchester

Hope she tells you to fuck right off .......

Swinging is for consenting adults ........

Deception is a completely different game

It may be fun for you and your mate but you are showing her no respect whatsoever............

This can only end up a disaster..............

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not going to end we'll and he has no respect for his wife

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why does the phrase ' There is one born every minute' instantly spring to mind "

Don't some people need gentle encouragement to gain the confidence to go to the next step....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope she sees right through it and tells you both to fuck off.

She hasn't got the confidence to have a 3sum?? She's going to have even less when she clicks on how much you have both disrespected her.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why does the phrase ' There is one born every minute' instantly spring to mind

Don't some people need gentle encouragement to gain the confidence to go to the next step....

"

If it happens it happens , if it don't it don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't see this ending well...."

Neither me it would have been far better and more repectful to discuss it with her. She may even see it as an attack if it goes badly and then who knows what.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hope she sees right through it and tells you both to fuck off.

She hasn't got the confidence to have a 3sum?? She's going to have even less when she clicks on how much you have both disrespected her.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why not tell her beforehand?

because: she may get cold feet and not try! I will not push the situation and if the flirting doesn't happen , then that will be it. But if the flirting starts, it could be interesting "

Oh it's gonna be interesting alright lol. If you try it on with her and she politely declines then she's probably not gonna want to be around you again as she won't be comfortable. If she accepts and you end up smashing her back doors in then what if she decides she liked it so much she wants more but behind hubbies back?

Doomed I say...you're all DOOMED!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ok : the general consensus is , not a good idea......

thank you all for your input.

will update this further if I go through with it.

I may just fix the appliance and leave.

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

Just be sure to post an update, OP

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What does OP mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

has it still not happened think you posted the same thing on the irish forum months back

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"has it still not happened think you posted the same thing on the irish forum months back "

no : that not me: I will look for it though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hope she tells you to fuck right off .......

Swinging is for consenting adults ........

Deception is a completely different game

It may be fun for you and your mate but you are showing her no respect whatsoever............

This can only end up a disaster.............."

Couldn't agree more x

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"What does OP mean?"

Original poster.

I've done some weird shit but this is all wrong, totally unfair on her. Hopefully she'll tell you to pis off, figure out what he's done and divorce him. If a couple are going to swing they should both know about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've read all this thread and feel that you and the husband have very little or no respect for this woman. If she doesn't have a lot of confidence now she will have none when she discovers what you two have been planning behind her back if you go through with this. Her husband should talk to her and if she is aware and happy to proceed then, and only then go ahead with things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see where your coming from mate. Good luck! Let me know how it goes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've read all this thread and feel that you and the husband have very little or no respect for this woman. If she doesn't have a lot of confidence now she will have none when she discovers what you two have been planning behind her back if you go through with this. Her husband should talk to her and if she is aware and happy to proceed then, and only then go ahead with things."

ok.. point well taken !!!

I will not be doing this so !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a friend who wants me to seduce his wife and tell him all that goes on.

I am meeting her today for the first time and we will be alone. The meeting is arranged at their house and is under a pretext of me fixing something in their house that will take some time.

If we get on, and she likes me, I am to flirt with her and try to get her going and also tell her that if anything that happens will be our secret

my friend told me that she loves male attention but his wife has never gone further that flirting, he thinks she would love to have a sexual encounter with another guy, and he would love her to have sexy fun without him (but he wants to know the details)

Eventually, if this works out and his wife and I get friendly, he will suggest a 3sum some night after we are at a pub and cant drive home because of drink driving.

My friend and I have discussed this at length and he and I are up for it.

his wife does not know that we are planning this. (We don't know what will happen , if anything)

What are your thoughts on the situation ?

"

you are being set up, he wants to leave his wife and is just looking for proof of her infidelity.

something I have seen several times.

Lets hope you are single or it may affect you as well.

be carefull.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No: He is not testing her to see if she will stray or not: He thinks she is a very sexy lady and they are happily married, but their sex life is crap. He has always wanted to see her with another man and have 3sums. They have chatted about it on occasions and he feels that this is the next step, because he thinks she will never have the confidence to make a move on it herself.

"

You only know what he has told you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is twisted

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

Op, its either a fantasy of yours or him or a set up..

the former that's fine, the latter is wrong..

'friends' eh..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've read all this thread and feel that you and the husband have very little or no respect for this woman. If she doesn't have a lot of confidence now she will have none when she discovers what you two have been planning behind her back if you go through with this. Her husband should talk to her and if she is aware and happy to proceed then, and only then go ahead with things."

ok.. point well taken !!!

I will not be doing this so !!!

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"doomed to not end well........ "

as per this guys quote and frazer from dads army "were all doomed"

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

My thoughts are....

It's not going to end well and if you value your friendship, stay well clear!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a foolish plan and no good will come of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

STEP AWAY - it will all end badly if she takes offence!!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I have a friend who wants me to seduce his wife and tell him all that goes on.

I am meeting her today for the first time and we will be alone. The meeting is arranged at their house and is under a pretext of me fixing something in their house that will take some time.

If we get on, and she likes me, I am to flirt with her and try to get her going and also tell her that if anything that happens will be our secret

my friend told me that she loves male attention but his wife has never gone further that flirting, he thinks she would love to have a sexual encounter with another guy, and he would love her to have sexy fun without him (but he wants to know the details)

Eventually, if this works out and his wife and I get friendly, he will suggest a 3sum some night after we are at a pub and cant drive home because of drink driving.

My friend and I have discussed this at length and he and I are up for it.

his wife does not know that we are planning this. (We don't know what will happen , if anything)

What are your thoughts on the situation ?

"

Are you serious?!!

If you think there's any part of the above scenario that will end well for YOU:...good...luck!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I can't see this ending well...."

You reckon?!!

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By *ichaelangelaCouple
over a year ago

notts

why not skip straight to the night out in a pub with too much drink to drive home yadda yadda bit and see how it goes

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By *rthur WrightusMan
over a year ago

Round the Bend

This project has obviously not been risk assessed for health and safety !

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"No: He is not testing her to see if she will stray or not: He thinks she is a very sexy lady and they are happily married, but their sex life is crap. He has always wanted to see her with another man and have 3sums. They have chatted about it on occasions and he feels that this is the next step, because he thinks she will never have the confidence to make a move on it herself.

"

It gets worst! Poor woman being pumped out by her creep of a husband and his sleazy mate!

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By *obbobeanMan
over a year ago

dagenham

Not a good idea I'm my opinion

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"No: He is not testing her to see if she will stray or not: He thinks she is a very sexy lady and they are happily married, but their sex life is crap. He has always wanted to see her with another man and have 3sums. They have chatted about it on occasions and he feels that this is the next step, because he thinks she will never have the confidence to make a move on it herself.

There is obviously no communication in this marriage, why doesn't he just talk to her rather than pimp her out without warning?"

Not just me then!

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"This project has obviously not been risk assessed for health and safety ! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This project has obviously not been risk assessed for health and safety !

"

Very funny x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hope she tells you to fuck right off .......

Swinging is for consenting adults ........

Deception is a completely different game

It may be fun for you and your mate but you are showing her no respect whatsoever............

This can only end up a disaster.............."

Have to agree with this

My opinion on these kind of things is usually to each their own but this can't possibly end well

Things like this should only happen when ALL the people involved are in agreement...

This might be fun for you and your buddy but c'mon she isn't a play thing to be used and abused... Unless of course she wants to be but in this case she clearly doesn't as she's totally in the dark about it all!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"No: He is not testing her to see if she will stray or not: He thinks she is a very sexy lady and they are happily married, but their sex life is crap. He has always wanted to see her with another man and have 3sums. They have chatted about it on occasions and he feels that this is the next step, because he thinks she will never have the confidence to make a move on it herself.

It gets worst! Poor woman being pumped* out by her creep of a husband and his sleazy mate! "

*pimped even

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By *D40Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Personally i think he should ask his wife if she's up for it and introduce her to the joys of swinging...

Ju x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally i think he should ask his wife if she's up for it and introduce her to the joys of swinging...

Ju x "

He did ask his wife and she said NO as she lacks confidence....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hopefully in time she will realise what a manipulative creep she is married to then she can leave him and stay away from him and his creepy mates

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

So you haven't managed to get your wife interested then as per a thread from a couple of weeks ago? Why not ask your friend to do what he's asked you to do with your wife! At least then both ladies will have a better understanding of what they're married to! Z

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Busted

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By *ayandess1Couple
over a year ago

bridgwater

Just tell her that you guys where having a man to man down the pub and he told you that he said the idea of his wife fucking another man turned him on.

You don't need to lie and you don't need to seduce her and loose a friend. If she's hot on the idea SHE will approach her husband. If there is any chemestry between you two you might even get an invite.

Don't be surprised though if she shave the guy next door instead though. Lol

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By *ayandess1Couple
over a year ago

bridgwater

Just tell her that you guys where having a man to man down the pub and he told you that he said the idea of his wife fucking another man turned him on.

You don't need to lie and you don't need to seduce her and loose a friend. If she's hot on the idea SHE will approach her husband. If there is any chemestry between you two you might even get an invite.

Don't be surprised though if she shave the guy next door instead though. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a friend who wants me to seduce his wife and tell him all that goes on.

I am meeting her today for the first time and we will be alone. The meeting is arranged at their house and is under a pretext of me fixing something in their house that will take some time.

If we get on, and she likes me, I am to flirt with her and try to get her going and also tell her that if anything that happens will be our secret

my friend told me that she loves male attention but his wife has never gone further that flirting, he thinks she would love to have a sexual encounter with another guy, and he would love her to have sexy fun without him (but he wants to know the details)

Eventually, if this works out and his wife and I get friendly, he will suggest a 3sum some night after we are at a pub and cant drive home because of drink driving.

My friend and I have discussed this at length and he and I are up for it.

his wife does not know that we are planning this. (We don't know what will happen , if anything)

What are your thoughts on the situation ?

"

And is your mate going to be down your house? Fucking your missus and setting her up for that mfm you so very much wanted a couple weeks ago? Maybe you should stick to fantasies section mate!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you haven't managed to get your wife interested then as per a thread from a couple of weeks ago? Why not ask your friend to do what he's asked you to do with your wife! At least then both ladies will have a better understanding of what they're married to! Z"

So busted what a creepy man

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By *inkershoes69Woman
over a year ago

maidstone


"I have a friend who wants me to seduce his wife and tell him all that goes on.

I am meeting her today for the first time and we will be alone. The meeting is arranged at their house and is under a pretext of me fixing something in their house that will take some time.

If we get on, and she likes me, I am to flirt with her and try to get her going and also tell her that if anything that happens will be our secret

my friend told me that she loves male attention but his wife has never gone further that flirting, he thinks she would love to have a sexual encounter with another guy, and he would love her to have sexy fun without him (but he wants to know the details)

Eventually, if this works out and his wife and I get friendly, he will suggest a 3sum some night after we are at a pub and cant drive home because of drink driving.

My friend and I have discussed this at length and he and I are up for it.

his wife does not know that we are planning this. (We don't know what will happen , if anything)

What are your thoughts on the situation ?

And is your mate going to be down your house? Fucking your missus and setting her up for that mfm you so very much wanted a couple weeks ago? Maybe you should stick to fantasies section mate! "
brilliant

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By *ichaelangelaCouple
over a year ago

notts


"So you haven't managed to get your wife interested then as per a thread from a couple of weeks ago? Why not ask your friend to do what he's asked you to do with your wife! At least then both ladies will have a better understanding of what they're married to! Z"

well spotted sherlock

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So you haven't managed to get your wife interested then as per a thread from a couple of weeks ago? Why not ask your friend to do what he's asked you to do with your wife! At least then both ladies will have a better understanding of what they're married to! Z

well spotted sherlock

that maybe a next step

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a friend who wants me to seduce his wife and tell him all that goes on.

I am meeting her today for the first time and we will be alone. The meeting is arranged at their house and is under a pretext of me fixing something in their house that will take some time.

If we get on, and she likes me, I am to flirt

with her and try to get her going and also tell her that if anything that happens will be our secret

my friend told me that she loves male attention but his wife has never gone further that flirting, he thinks she would love to have a sexual encounter with another guy, and he would love her to have sexy fun without him (but he wants to know the details)

Eventually, if this works out and his wife and I get friendly, he will suggest a 3sum some night after we are at a pub and cant drive home because of drink driving.

My friend and I have discussed this at length and he and I are up for it.

his wife does not know that we are planning this. (We don't know what will happen , if anything)

What are your thoughts on the situation ?

"

Stay well away it is bad news i hv bn there with awful results

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds odd. Walk away!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just fix whatever it was you where going to do, have a cup of tea be civil and leave. Then go tell your mate that he is a cock for not respecting his wife and charge him for the work you have done fixing whatever it was.

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By *unglerivermonkeyMan
over a year ago

Scarborough

Hmmmm not a bad idea that. Get a lady in the house and ask her to do a little flirting.

Then find some mug to come along and get all the diy jobs done for zilch.

Nice thinking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd get rid of your friend, straight away. He sounds like a thoroughly nasty piece of work. Don't let him drag you and his poor wife down to his scum level. I've come across this type of scenario before, and it always sucks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmmmm not a bad idea that. Get a lady in the house and ask her to do a little flirting.

Then find some mug to come along and get all the diy jobs done for zilch.

Nice thinking. "

I think you have hit on something there

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

not a good idea

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"not a good idea"

I took the advice from people here.

I did NOT go through with it

thanks again for all your input

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By *ucy and CarlCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

Wise decision not to go through with it. Outrageous that your friend would trick his wife like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not a good idea

I took the advice from people here.

I did NOT go through with it

thanks again for all your input

"

And tune in next week folks for the gripping last installment called "Why has my wife left me for my my mates wife???"

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