FabSwingers.com forum: 1 nighters or fuck buddies

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

what do people prefer?

personally i prefer fuck buddies, but most guys i meet seem to prefer 1 nighters!!

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By *erkshireMan123Man
over a year ago

Devizes

if its good, a second meeting is always appreciated x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have an awesome fuck buddy / playmate

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

1 nighters and not even that: a good few hours and then home to their and my own bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've a great FB - we've explored and enjoyed each other in ways I couldn't imagine before I met her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like to find a buddy, but rarely seem to come across anyone local enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck buddies for me.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

fuck buddies for me

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By *iftygreyshadesMan
over a year ago

Aberaeron

"what do people prefer?

personally i prefer fuck buddies, but most guys i meet seem to prefer 1 nighters!!"

Prefer buddies every time. The more you meet the more you learn and the more enjoyment for both of you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'd like to find a buddy, but rarely seem to come across anyone local enough."

im near to you....pitty your out my age range :/

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

I have a few fuck buddies

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By *tashMan
over a year ago

near you

FB. Any time one nighters are ok but you can't beat getting to know some one in a sexual way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer FWB

The occasional one off meet is cool but nothing beats building a repoir with an indivisual or even a couple for that matter

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By *ibanditMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"if its good, a second meeting is always appreciated x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im still yet to find anyone local for a regular meet.

Wish there were those local to me, but no such luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex buddies are much better, the odd one nighter can be good but can be hit and miss

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By *U1966Man
over a year ago

Devon

Fuck buddies every time

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Buddies best but a one nighter now and again m Saying that if there good it never stays a one nighter!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my only fuck buddy is hubby.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"I have an awesome fuck buddy / playmate "
so do i

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love a regular buddy but just haven't found the right guy!

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Bed buddy for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck buddies, defo!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would love a regular buddy but just haven't found the right guy!

Same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer fuck buddy as better when been with person a few times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

don't do one nighters fuck buddies mmm they get to learn all about u

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"I'd like to find a buddy, but rarely seem to come across anyone local enough."

same here mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive had 20 one night stands with the same person

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

one nighters make me question why they didn't return

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I like to build up good friendships with some people so we become I suppose fuck buddies, however one nighters, (or 5 minuters) can be good fun too, and who knows where they'll lead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer 'Pleasure Partner'.

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By *RYBBWCouple
over a year ago

Leeds.

Would love a long term fb.

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By *ovely CummingsWoman
over a year ago

Peaky Nipples

I like making new friends i can play with, clubs are great for one offs fun but I've found i like having friends to have regular sexy fun with

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Enjoy one offs and repeat meets with those that we really got on with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Buddy for me. Ultimately I would love to find that special friend to have a "relationship" with is meals, cinema etc and of course lots of sex but without the hassle of a full on relationship. Doubt that though x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Buddies definitely. I don't like one offs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would love a regular buddy but just haven't found the right guy!

Not as easy as you may think is it !!!!

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By *illwill69uMan
over a year ago

moston

FBs long term swing partners are best but they all start with a one night stand!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bed buddy for me

"Bed Buddy" - that sounds so much better and so much less crude than "Fuck Buddy"..... !

Agree - I've done the quickie sex thing and worked it out of my needy system - it was fun, but not fulfilling.

Now I'm looking for nice, interesting Bed Buddies - no strings but some socialising and friendship.

I might even go so far as to remember their names!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think whether you are single or not will a bearing on the answer

We entered swinging to spice things up but our sex life was still good before we became swingers.

One off meets mean swinging can still be our escape and less chance of being a way of life. We have met many other couples who like befriending other couples but keeping singles for one offs.

Obviously there are other couples who think opposite. We're just sharing our experiences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

would rather get to know someone but i am crap in bed so it always ends up being a one night stand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not just about being local though, you need a good, strong sexual chemistry with a great fuck buddy, someone whose friendship you enjoy outside of the bedroom, but who really excites and turns you on between the sheets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its not just about being local though, you need a good, strong sexual chemistry with a great fuck buddy, someone whose friendship you enjoy outside of the bedroom, but who really excites and turns you on between the sheets."

Is that a girl friend or boy friend? Or have I missed something,

Sound like most of you want an open relastionship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck buddy is best. If you are compatible with someone then the sex will get better and better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer one offs, i will do re meets if we really get on but that's not often as not many men i meet are on the same wave length sexually as me, i wouldn't meet anyone to regular tho, i wouldn't meet anyone weekly id get bored of them after a few weeks

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By *HAEDRUS2013Man
over a year ago

LONDON

Prefer a fuck bubby, if I can get, or really regular-ish meets with friends. If the social and play is good on the first meet then I hope it would get better with practice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

fuck buddies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're socially meeting a potential fuckbuddy for Lynn today i hope as a cuckold hubby he's right for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fuck buddy is best. If you are compatible with someone then the sex will get better and better"

in many cases i have found the opposite. In the past when i have met guys regular i have found as time goes buy they get complacent in the bedroom and stop making an effort, i used to met a guy who in the beginning was great sexually but towards the end of our meeting he just wanted a blow job and a shag, it felt like because he had got comfy with me he didn't feel he needed to impress me anymore, so i stopped meeting him, that's why i prefer on offs as men are usually at their best on a first meet as they are hoping for a re meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Much prefer buddies than one off

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By *rrycatMan
over a year ago

Doncaster

Fuck buddies for me soo much better tho one nighters have their time and place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to have a regular fuck buddy would save a lot of time haha

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Bed buddy for me

Cute - gonna nick that...........

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By *ike74Man
over a year ago

newport

I find the more you meet the better the sex as you get to know what that person likes and enjoys.

So for me this is the point of a meet to please as I could get of with a wet rag I am a bloke.

But much more enjoyable to see, feel, hear a lady enjoying herself and I know you can and have done this on one nighters but it is so much better when you know what they like and this comes from experience.

Do fb for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One nighters.

I've had a couple of fuck buddies try to get more serious

I only want regular sex with my husband these days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is that a girl friend or boy friend? Or have I missed something? "

Clearly, given that there was no implication in that quote that I was looking for a male fuck buddy

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