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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Only a question I find hard to put an answer too, thought a discussion might help.

Why do some women not like bisexual men?

Jaz

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

Some of the reasons I've read on here previously:

Perception that bi males are more promiscuous and less safe, ie will dip their (seldom covered) wick anywhere

Just don't like the thought of man on man

Perception (for fem of some couples) that a bi man is only contacting them to get to hubby's arse

Belief that many bi men insist there's no such thing as a straight guy (again, seen this more from fems of couples)

I'm sure I've missed one or two, hopefully they'll get added on.

Disclaimer - these are not my views, I abso-fecking-lutely love bi guys

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Damn! I thought the thread was about an 80's pop group.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Damn! I thought the thread was about an 80's pop group. "

lol, me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Completely agree with what BlondeCaz states as some people's reasons, although they aren't my own views. Everyone is entitled to their opinions and like everything they are probably right about a section of the group in question.

I sometimes wonder if its because bisexuality is a difficult concept to get your head around for some? (although granted it does seem the same about bi women!) It's certainly taken us a while to get our heads around, but we couldn't be gladder we got them round it!

In my opinion tho it makes for a more versatile meet!

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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago

Rockford


"Damn! I thought the thread was about an 80's pop group. "

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"Only a question I find hard to put an answer too, thought a discussion might help.

Why do some women not like bisexual men?

Jaz"

I don't dislike any one purely based on their sexuality - however I don't feel sexually turned on by the thought of 2 men having sex together - gay or bi - I can't and don't see why - I'd need to explain that to any one. Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

women want to feel special, desired and needed, if a guy is Bi, she loses her uniqueness, all of a sudden instead of just women being competition, the whole race becomes competition,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only a question I find hard to put an answer too, thought a discussion might help.

Why do some women not like bisexual men?

Jaz"

Thanks for posting this thread - I was wondering about it and discussing it with Mr just the other day, after reading a thread hinting that it can be the case. I had never even thought it might be a problem for some, so its useful to hear some suggested reasons as I was foxed. Thanks x

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"women want to feel special, desired and needed, if a guy is Bi, she loses her uniqueness, all of a sudden instead of just women being competition, the whole race becomes competition,

"

Not for me, every person is unique. Even twins

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"women want to feel special, desired and needed, if a guy is Bi, she loses her uniqueness, all of a sudden instead of just women being competition, the whole race becomes competition,

"

I think this is total rubbish!!! lol - gave me a giggle tho - ta! Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not for me, every person is unique. Even twins "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bi is fine by us, no competitive races here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Caz - thank you it helps me understand.

Suffolk - likewise thank you.

Filth - great minds think alike

No worries guys having read those reasons I can see why some women do have a problem. But to me it's a more versatile environment with many more opportunities with in a fun night.

Just to let anyone know who may view our profile I will hold your wishes with respect and not stray from them. There is no fun when meeting rules aren't followed.

Once again thanks. Jaz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love bi guys, I find them more open minded, less judgemental and more fun in a 3 sum with me and hubby.

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"Caz - thank you it helps me understand.

Suffolk - likewise thank you.

Filth - great minds think alike

No worries guys having read those reasons I can see why some women do have a problem. But to me it's a more versatile environment with many more opportunities with in a fun night.

Just to let anyone know who may view our profile I will hold your wishes with respect and not stray from them. There is no fun when meeting rules aren't followed.

Once again thanks. Jaz "

I'm afraid that some of the words you're using are a little contentious - i haven't got a problem with bi guys - i simply don't find the sight of 2 men 'together' sexually arousing - in your op you used 'like' when i think you probably meant sexually attractive which is totally different! I love that we're all different and as i said before don't dislike any one because of their sexuality! Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Caz - thank you it helps me understand.

Suffolk - likewise thank you.

Filth - great minds think alike

No worries guys having read those reasons I can see why some women do have a problem. But to me it's a more versatile environment with many more opportunities with in a fun night.

Just to let anyone know who may view our profile I will hold your wishes with respect and not stray from them. There is no fun when meeting rules aren't followed.

Once again thanks. Jaz "

You're welcome, and massive I totally agree with everything you say.....damn the distance you are away!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think some women might not like bisexual men because they think deep down these are gay guys in denial who are settling for second best.

Ie, they are not brave enough to admit being gay and therefore are willing to fuck women as a means to an end (which is fucking guys).

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I love bi guys, I find them more open minded, less judgemental and more fun in a 3 sum with me and hubby.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does anyone actually have to NEED a reason not to like a certain sexuality now? If people just accepted the fact they won't be to everyones liking, then maybe they wouldn't get hung up wondering about it.

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"Does anyone actually have to NEED a reason not to like a certain sexuality now? If people just accepted the fact they won't be to everyones liking, then maybe they wouldn't get hung up wondering about it."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Damn! I thought the thread was about an 80's pop group. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cos it freaks some people.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's a case of each to their own. Not for me but doesn't mean I wouldn't talk to them, I talk to anyone. My friend's son is gay, don't have a problem with it. We are what we are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only a question I find hard to put an answer too, thought a discussion might help.

Why do some women not like bisexual men?

Jaz"
cos some women want 110% of the attention 200% of the time

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"Only a question I find hard to put an answer too, thought a discussion might help.

Why do some women not like bisexual men?

Jazcos some women want 110% of the attention 200% of the time "

Rubbish! I love fmf with Steve don't need 110% attention 200% of the time! Z

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