FabSwingers.com forum: Now if a single man said that.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just read on a single woman's profile this "Here to please myself, no one else!"

I bet she gets loads of PMs as well but if a single guys said such he would have no chance and would get nothing but abuse. I do respect her thought right way and honesty however.

It just goes to show how easy it is for single women to pull and what they can get away with as opposed to single guys on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She's right though! Nothing wrong with thinking of number one

I however get great pleasure from giving and receiving x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The reason women get away with a lot more is because men that are desparate for a shag will let them get away with it......its that simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't see myself ever putting that in my profile or on my status .but....we're all here to please ourselves and meet people that appeal to us and our personal circumstances to some degree ..so I guess she's just making it very clear to potential meets what she's after. ..and she'll get it because she's a single woman x

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

You messaged her,, didn t ya,,

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Oh I don't mind a single lady or couple saying such things at least you know where you stand with them. They can say such things simply because they can and get away with it as we all know.

If they got no PMs at all they would probably have to be more like single guys to get meets.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You messaged her,, didn t ya,,

Nope and I didn't even check her profile out. That was the first line on her add in the new women forum.

Do you think I should.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've read some bio's and thought 'who the fuck messages her' some men need to get some self respect I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe she said it so she didn't get tons of mail

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've read some bio's and thought 'who the fuck messages her' some men need to get some self respect I think

As said above some guys are just so desperate to get a shag they will respond to almost anything written on a profile even profiles that state "NO SINGLE GUYS" it seems lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Maybe she said it so she didn't get tons of mail

I doubt it would make any difference at all. Here's an idea change your profile to say the same and see if it makes any difference to the multitude of PMs that you must get.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

"You messaged her,, didn t ya,,

Nope and I didn't even check her profile out. That was the first line on her add in the new women forum.

Do you think I should.

I d send her a " fancy a fuc# ,, " use hun, or babe, sweetness to really seal the deal,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe she said it so she didn't get tons of mail

I doubt it would make any difference at all. Here's an idea change your profile to say the same and see if it makes any difference to the multitude of PMs that you must get.

Mine says not meeting..cue mass delete daily

But maybe I should do as you suggest

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You messaged her,, didn t ya,,

Nope and I didn't even check her profile out. That was the first line on her add in the new women forum.

Do you think I should.

I d send her a " fancy a fuc# ,, " use hun, or babe, sweetness to really seal the deal,

Ya recon? WOW! Now that would be a new and completely different approach for me and maybe it would be the deciding factor..........................................................................To telling me to feck off in no uncertain terms of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a swinging site is firstly about self gratification and sex, nothing more, nothing less, by saying what she did, she is being honest.

If people wanted more than a knee trembler, they certainly wouldn't be swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure which posts on this thread are more unpleasant, those slagging off women for daring to state what they want, those showing the bitterness that women are in the position of power on here, or those slagging off other singlemen as desperate...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Maybe she said it so she didn't get tons of mail

I doubt it would make any difference at all. Here's an idea change your profile to say the same and see if it makes any difference to the multitude of PMs that you must get.

Mine says not meeting..cue mass delete daily

But maybe I should do as you suggest

Now come in you have been on here long enough to know that no amount of abuse or written statements will greatly reduce your unwanted PM's.

OK I will stop sending mine every day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Done it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own and I bet she's still getting satisfied

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Each to their own and I bet she's still getting satisfied

You can count on that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Each to their own and I bet she's still getting satisfied

Exactly ......hence my first post

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Done it

lol you have too lol. At least your not up your own arse and enjoy a bit of banter as most of us are on here. Good for you, you go girl.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Done it

lol you have too lol. At least your not up your own arse and enjoy a bit of banter as most of us are on here. Good for you, you go girl.

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I'm just me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Done it

lol you have too lol. At least your not up your own arse and enjoy a bit of banter as most of us are on here. Good for you, you go girl.

xxx

I'm just me

All hail the queen royal subjects.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Done it

lol you have too lol. At least your not up your own arse and enjoy a bit of banter as most of us are on here. Good for you, you go girl.

xxx

I'm just me

All hail the queen royal subjects.

Behave yourself

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Done it

lol you have too lol. At least your not up your own arse and enjoy a bit of banter as most of us are on here. Good for you, you go girl.

xxx

I'm just me

All hail the queen royal subjects.

Behave yourself

Na am far too old now to behave myself that's why I am on here. Am just a dirty old man .......

Fancy a fuck!

That's me being a smooth talking bastard.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Just read on a single woman's profile this "Here to please myself, no one else!"

I bet she gets loads of PMs as well but if a single guys said such he would have no chance and would get nothing but abuse. I do respect her thought right way and honesty however.

It just goes to show how easy it is for single women to pull and what they can get away with as opposed to single guys on here.

Bottom line: we're ALL here for our own hedonistic pleasure. Some however will compromise and do anything for a fuck, some will be open, some of us don't have to state it, it's obvious!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"The reason women get away with a lot more is because men that are desparate for a shag will let them get away with it......its that simple

This!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I can't see myself ever putting that in my profile or on my status .but....we're all here to please ourselves and meet people that appeal to us and our personal circumstances to some degree ..so I guess she's just making it very clear to potential meets what she's after. ..and she'll get it because she's a single woman x"

...and this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Done it

lol you have too lol. At least your not up your own arse and enjoy a bit of banter as most of us are on here. Good for you, you go girl.

xxx

I'm just me

All hail the queen royal subjects.

Behave yourself

Na am far too old now to behave myself that's why I am on here. Am just a dirty old man .......

Fancy a fuck!

That's me being a smooth talking bastard.

I'm not meeting

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Done it

lol you have too lol. At least your not up your own arse and enjoy a bit of banter as most of us are on here. Good for you, you go girl.

xxx

I'm just me

All hail the queen royal subjects.

Behave yourself

Na am far too old now to behave myself that's why I am on here. Am just a dirty old man .......

Fancy a fuck!

That's me being a smooth talking bastard.

I'm not meeting

Who said anything about meeting.

I'll get me coat.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"a swinging site is firstly about self gratification and sex, nothing more, nothing less, by saying what she did, she is being honest.

If people wanted more than a knee trembler, they certainly wouldn't be swinging.

...and this!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I'm not sure which posts on this thread are more unpleasant, those slagging off women for daring to state what they want, those showing the bitterness that women are in the position of power on here, or those slagging off other singlemen as desperate..."

All of the above!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think she is saying what people think but dont say, men as well.

its to put off men who are too pushy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"i think she is saying what people think but dont say, men as well.

its to put off men who are too pushy.

What SOME people think by all means not all. Also like I said I doubt it will have much affect on the amount PMs she will get. I am just one of many who actually enjoy giving as well as receiving pleasure.

However I must be one of the very few single guys that reads all the profile before PMing according to many of the posts I see on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've read the same and decided that the woman in question isn't my type...

Perhaps I'm being too picky lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've read the same and decided that the woman in question isn't my type...

Perhaps I'm being too picky lol"

I'm so not your type and I don't possess a ladder either

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've read the same and decided that the woman in question isn't my type...

Perhaps I'm being too picky lol

I'm so not your type and I don't possess a ladder either

What not even in your stocking?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've read the same and decided that the woman in question isn't my type...

Perhaps I'm being too picky lol

I'm so not your type and I don't possess a ladder either

What not even in your stocking?

Only when dressed as a whore. For fancy dress mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I admire the woman's honesty. It won't affect the number of messages she gets though, since the majority of single males don't read profiles

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

Hey, at least she is

upfront about what she wants

isn't being coy or beating about the bush

and sounds like she is getting some

Most of all, she probably isn't moaning in the forums about it. Sounds perfect if you ask me.

PS: Bemoaning the so called "power imbalance" on sites like these will do nothing for as long as there are men that will simp outrageously just to get their end away.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Few are moaning on here its a discussion and some are even having a little fun even if there are a few repetitive type posts.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've read the same and decided that the woman in question isn't my type...

Perhaps I'm being too picky lol

I'm so not your type and I don't possess a ladder either

What not even in your stocking?

Only when dressed as a whore. For fancy dress mind

I am shocked, you dressed as a whore and the queen at that. Most shocking and I have never heard the like from such Royalty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've read the same and decided that the woman in question isn't my type...

Perhaps I'm being too picky lol

I'm so not your type and I don't possess a ladder either

From memory your climbing skills were fine and didnt require a ladder.....needed a fire extinguisher maybe but not a ladder lol

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

"Few are moaning on here its a discussion and some are even having a little fun even if there are a few repetitive type posts.

My post wasn't a jab at you, don't worry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've read the same and decided that the woman in question isn't my type...

Perhaps I'm being too picky lol

I'm so not your type and I don't possess a ladder either

From memory your climbing skills were fine and didnt require a ladder.....needed a fire extinguisher maybe but not a ladder lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've read the same and decided that the woman in question isn't my type...

Perhaps I'm being too picky lol

I'm so not your type and I don't possess a ladder either

What not even in your stocking?

Only when dressed as a whore. For fancy dress mind

I am shocked, you dressed as a whore and the queen at that. Most shocking and I have never heard the like from such Royalty.

But I'm only the QueenOfTease now tell me you didn't imagine me dressed like a whore

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By *irtyAndCh33kyCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

As a couple we are here to meet our needs so don't think there is anything wrong with stating that! However that by no means makes us selfish when we play as we like to give as much as receive.....it's just that if a person or situation does not match what we're looking for then we're not interested.

Mrs Dirty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are all doing that in one fashion or another though, its the nature of the scene.

Since we are not engaging in sex for procreation, we must by definition be engaging for pleasure. If it wasnt pleasurable, we wouldnt do it.

There is a proverb that sums up nicely.

" women have sex when they want. Men have sex when they CAN!"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Few are moaning on here its a discussion and some are even having a little fun even if there are a few repetitive type posts.

My post wasn't a jab at you, don't worry

lol I don't worry about such things there are far more important things to worry about. I do enjoy a bit of banter its true but worry...narrr.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just read on a single woman's profile this "Here to please myself, no one else!"

I bet she gets loads of PMs as well but if a single guys said such he would have no chance and would get nothing but abuse. I do respect her thought right way and honesty however.

It just goes to show how easy it is for single women to pull and what they can get away with as opposed to single guys on here.

Its fair enough people know what to expect and can avoid and block if they don't like someone's profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've read the same and decided that the woman in question isn't my type...

Perhaps I'm being too picky lol

I'm so not your type and I don't possess a ladder either

What not even in your stocking?

Only when dressed as a whore. For fancy dress mind

I am shocked, you dressed as a whore and the queen at that. Most shocking and I have never heard the like from such Royalty.

But I'm only the QueenOfTease now tell me you didn't imagine me dressed like a whore

Well I do have a good imagination but a few pic's and a face to face meet would do just nicely lol.

Not that for one moment you would consider that so we are both on safe ground

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I see a line like that on a profile I don't read any further, I close it and move on...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn't that what EVERYONE on this site is doing? Trying to please themselves?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Isn't that what EVERYONE on this site is doing? Trying to please themselves? "

Actually some of us are wanting to do more than just please themselves and not be so selfish. Some of us actually enjoy pleasing others as well. Mutual fun and respect is what I crave.

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over a year ago

"Isn't that what EVERYONE on this site is doing? Trying to please themselves?

Actually some of us are wanting to do more than just please themselves and not be so selfish. Some of us actually enjoy pleasing others as well. Mutual fun and respect is what I crave.

So, in other words, you are pleasing yourself by pleasing others then!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Isn't that what EVERYONE on this site is doing? Trying to please themselves?

Actually some of us are wanting to do more than just please themselves and not be so selfish. Some of us actually enjoy pleasing others as well. Mutual fun and respect is what I crave.

So, in other words, you are pleasing yourself by pleasing others then! "

So am I not pleasing them/her. Like I said but you appear to have missed mutual fun. That involves pleasing others not just yourself

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

Never confuse what people say with what they do!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Never confuse what people say with what they do!"

How profound but very true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My profile specifically states I'm NOT interested in meeting people who think 'it's all about them '

For me it has to b a mutually pleasurable experience of give n take

Anything else it's please pass me by..... or should that be bi lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Isn't that what EVERYONE on this site is doing? Trying to please themselves?

Actually some of us are wanting to do more than just please themselves and not be so selfish. Some of us actually enjoy pleasing others as well. Mutual fun and respect is what I crave.

So, in other words, you are pleasing yourself by pleasing others then!

So am I not pleasing them/her. Like I said but you appear to have missed mutual fun. That involves pleasing others not just yourself

Nope. I didn't miss mutual fun. I always make sure the lass i'm with at any particular time also enjoys herself. But, be honest. When your looking for a meet on here do you think to yourself "i'm horny, i could do with a fuck" or "i wonder if any lass wants me to please her today"?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm here to please and be pleased. Isn't that the idea?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just read on a single woman's profile this "Here to please myself, no one else!"

I bet she gets loads of PMs as well but if a single guys said such he would have no chance and would get nothing but abuse. I do respect her thought right way and honesty however.

It just goes to show how easy it is for single women to pull and what they can get away with as opposed to single guys on here.

I'd have thought it was a given that that's what we're all here for-after all it isn't community service now is it? Surely anyone who believes otherwise is naive in the extreme...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm here to please and be pleased. Isn't that the idea?

For me and you...Yes for some others it appears not

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Isn't that what EVERYONE on this site is doing? Trying to please themselves?

Actually some of us are wanting to do more than just please themselves and not be so selfish. Some of us actually enjoy pleasing others as well. Mutual fun and respect is what I crave.

So, in other words, you are pleasing yourself by pleasing others then!

So am I not pleasing them/her. Like I said but you appear to have missed mutual fun. That involves pleasing others not just yourself

But that's not the point at all. I have stated my point and stand by it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Isn't that what EVERYONE on this site is doing? Trying to please themselves?

Actually some of us are wanting to do more than just please themselves and not be so selfish. Some of us actually enjoy pleasing others as well. Mutual fun and respect is what I crave.

So, in other words, you are pleasing yourself by pleasing others then!

So am I not pleasing them/her. Like I said but you appear to have missed mutual fun. That involves pleasing others not just yourself

But that's not the point at all. I have stated my point and stand by it."

Lol. Yeah, ok then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just read on a single woman's profile this "Here to please myself, no one else!"

I bet she gets loads of PMs as well but if a single guys said such he would have no chance and would get nothing but abuse. I do respect her thought right way and honesty however.

It just goes to show how easy it is for single women to pull and what they can get away with as opposed to single guys on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been getting loads of mail saying good on you for being honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been getting loads of mail saying good on you for being honest

I'm just wondering if you and the op would make a marvellous couple. After all, you just want to please yourself and he just wants to please others.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've been getting loads of mail saying good on you for being honest

Well there you go then. However if you only changed it earlier just how honest are you being

So there has been an increase rather than decrease in your PMs then lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been getting loads of mail saying good on you for being honest

Well there you go then. However if you only changed it earlier just how honest are you being

So there has been an increase rather than decrease in your PMs then lol.

I'm always honest and I mentioned earlier, I like to give as much as take. The rest of the time I'm here just for the forums x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Isn't that what EVERYONE on this site is doing? Trying to please themselves?

Actually some of us are wanting to do more than just please themselves and not be so selfish. Some of us actually enjoy pleasing others as well. Mutual fun and respect is what I crave.

So, in other words, you are pleasing yourself by pleasing others then!

So am I not pleasing them/her. Like I said but you appear to have missed mutual fun. That involves pleasing others not just yourself

but surely the way you conduct yourself when meeting and the reasons you came here in the first place are entirely separate? You didn't think-you know what? I'm a fabulous fuck and must share myself with the female population in order to ensure they are pleasured did you? You came here to meet your own needs and giving and receiving mutual pleasure is the fantastic outcome.,putting yourself on a sex site isn't an altruistic gesture now is it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Isn't that what EVERYONE on this site is doing? Trying to please themselves?

Actually some of us are wanting to do more than just please themselves and not be so selfish. Some of us actually enjoy pleasing others as well. Mutual fun and respect is what I crave.

So, in other words, you are pleasing yourself by pleasing others then!

So am I not pleasing them/her. Like I said but you appear to have missed mutual fun. That involves pleasing others not just yourself

Best ignore that me thinks apart from just say think what you wish and you can try and read my mind but doubt you will be able to or understand where I am coming from. Lets move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My thoughts exactly.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Although I think its up to the individual to write whatever the hell they want (we can't please everyone) I have to admit that part of my pleasure is seeing the pleasure I can give to others too. I myself go into meets hoping that we will both/all be equally grinning from ear to ear afterwards.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Although I think its up to the individual to write whatever the hell they want (we can't please everyone) I have to admit that part of my pleasure is seeing the pleasure I can give to others too. I myself go into meets hoping that we will both/all be equally grinning from ear to ear afterwards.

+1 and its so much more pleasing to achieve that together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just read on a single woman's profile this "Here to please myself, no one else!"

I bet she gets loads of PMs as well but if a single guys said such he would have no chance and would get nothing but abuse. I do respect her thought right way and honesty however.

It just goes to show how easy it is for single women to pull and what they can get away with as opposed to single guys on here.

I can inly imagine that such a comment would attract the attention of those who totally couldn't give a fuck about anybody else ... leave 'em to it I say

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By *ark Gr8 Teddy BearMan
over a year ago

Wigan

"Just read on a single woman's profile this "Here to please myself, no one else!"

I bet she gets loads of PMs as well but if a single guys said such he would have no chance and would get nothing but abuse. I do respect her thought right way and honesty however.

It just goes to show how easy it is for single women to pull and what they can get away with as opposed to single guys on here.

I'd rather have a wank than meet a woman with such an attitude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds good to me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not all men are desperate . I have a perfectly good hand and plenty of porn if needed. This would make me avoid her and her profile as she just sounds selfish !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread is absolutely hilarious. This woman is simply stating her hedonistic _iew outright. As for you lot who judge her harshly, go google the philosophies of hedonism. Yes that's right there are multiples. You should find yourself in one of the many philosophies, even someone who is altruistic.

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over a year ago

"This thread is absolutely hilarious. This woman is simply stating her hedonistic _iew outright. As for you lot who judge her harshly, go google the philosophies of hedonism. Yes that's right there are multiples. You should find yourself in one of the many philosophies, even someone who is altruistic."

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By *hrisBlkGuyMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

To me it's a numbers game. If there were more single women on site to choose from she probably wouldn't get as many PMs as she does now.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with the thread at all only some of the replies. There is a difference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with the thread at all only some of the replies. There is a difference. "
Thanks for making this place a home from home, it's like dealing with my pedantic stroppy teen

Just for you:

Some of the content in this thread, namely the ridiculously harsh attitudes towards the said female member expressing her hedonistic _iew, causes hilarity in this poster (me), when I consider the various forms hedonism. Blah blah blah.

Better?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've read the woman's profile. To me she comes across as a confident person who will stand for neither bullshit nor manipulation. No wonder she has certain men in a tizzy.

I think she'll do well

. I certainly don't see a problem with her profile, nor do I see it as much different from hundreds+ of male NSA-seeking profiles. So on that note I dare to state OP is wrong as in the short time I've been in the forum, I cannot recall a male profile being thus slated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The sexual act is never altogether altruistic and one indulges for one's own pleasures. I would say,however, that no one wants to b seen just as a means to an end - n particularly no one wants to b _iewed as that right from the offset

If someone posts phrases like 'I'm only here to please myself ' THAT reveals an attitude of pure selfishness n an 'I'm only here for what's in it for me n you don't matter '. Some Men (on the basis they'll get a shag) may overlook those sort of comments, but I cannot imagine many women would b receptively warm to responding positively if they read that in a man's profile.

The ideal scenario is ALWAYS that there should b a pleasure n fulfilment to both parties n not a one sided ME ME ME adventure

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"I've read the woman's profile. To me she comes across as a confident person who will stand for neither bullshit nor manipulation. No wonder she has certain men in a tizzy.

I think she'll do well

....have you not seen the 'I'm a cheating husband' thread?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just read on a single woman's profile this "Here to please myself, no one else!"

I bet she gets loads of PMs as well but if a single guys said such he would have no chance and would get nothing but abuse. I do respect her thought right way and honesty however.

It just goes to show how easy it is for single women to pull and what they can get away with as opposed to single guys on here.

I'd rather have a wank than meet a woman with such an attitude. "

Try it with the other hand, it will feel like a stranger

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over a year ago

"I've read the woman's profile. To me she comes across as a confident person who will stand for neither bullshit nor manipulation. No wonder she has certain men in a tizzy.

I think she'll do well

....have you not seen the 'I'm a cheating husband' thread?"

And the relevance is?

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over a year ago

The ideal scenario is ALWAYS that there should b a pleasure n fulfilment to both parties n not a one sided ME ME ME adventure

I know what you're saying because my initial response to many messages I receive is: wtf is in it for me?

. The resulting response, however, is delete

What must be remembered though, is that many profiles/messages may promise the recipient, let's say, Heaven on earth. This doesn't mean the person writing them is not selfish. That person has just learned the art of not appearing to be

Bottom line: we use the tools of the site and info we glean from messages, pics and profiles, as to whether we would eventually like to meet that person. All the whining in the world, or in this forum

, is for the most part not going to change anything.

I think it's a good thing that we can filter potential meets on pure (IMO) "idiocy"

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is not one person on this site who isn't here to please themselves. Even you OP who won't admit it and will go out jf your way to avoid such a direct question when asked.

Yes most of it choose playmates who want a similar pleasure and when we get together we both achieve that 'mutual fun'. Many of us don't feel the need to state it on a profile as it's blatantly obvious.

I will never compromise what I want to please someone else. I am not a public service. I don't alter my _iews or profile to fit in with an image of what others find pleasing and there are countless people on this site that do just that - the White Knights Miss_Tress christened them, an apt name.

There are people who don't like the image and attitude I have and I suppose I have my fair share of blocks. I care little for this, why would it affect me?

I've heard countless statements of 'I bet he/she/they won't get many meets now they've posted that / put that in their profile'. Who cares how successful other people are on this site.

It is always just about you.

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over a year ago

"There is not one person on this site who isn't here to please themselves. Even you OP who won't admit it and will go out jf your way to avoid such a direct question when asked.

There are people who don't like the image and attitude I have and I suppose I have my fair share of blocks. I care little for this, why would it affect me?

I've heard countless statements of 'I bet he/she/they won't get many meets now they've posted that / put that in their profile'. Who cares how successful other people are on this site.

It is always just about you. "

Brilliant post.

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By *ornyHousewife 68Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

"Oh I don't mind a single lady or couple saying such things at least you know where you stand with them. They can say such things simply because they can and get away with it as we all know.

If they got no PMs at all they would probably have to be more like single guys to get meets.

My profile states something similar, but if I got no PMs why would I have to be more like single guys??? If I can't find guys I like who are happy to go at my pace, I don't meet - simple really

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over a year ago

Its really laughable the amount of guys on here that are claiming to be on the site "solely to give pleasure to others"! Did all these guys just suddenly decide one day to join up and see if anyone needed the benefit of their pleasure giving expertise? NO. They joined up because they wanted sex. Plain and simple. We are ALL ultimately on this site for OUR pleasure. Granted, when we are getting OUR pleasure, we are also giving pleasure at the same time. But, to claim that a person is out of order because she has the balls to state what she wants on her profile, is hypocracy of the worst order really.

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over a year ago

"I've read the woman's profile. To me she comes across as a confident person who will stand for neither bullshit nor manipulation. No wonder she has certain men in a tizzy.

I think she'll do well

Oh dear you really did out of the bed the wrong side today

Shame you think that way.

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over a year ago

"Just read on a single woman's profile this "Here to please myself, no one else!"

I bet she gets loads of PMs as well but if a single guys said such he would have no chance and would get nothing but abuse. I do respect her thought right way and honesty however.

It just goes to show how easy it is for single women to pull and what they can get away with as opposed to single guys on here.

I have, here to please myself as well as you. As sometimes it feels like men are just looking for a hole, and bang away oblivious

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You can carry on bitching I have a meet to go to. Enjoy your afternoon I know I will.

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over a year ago

The ideal scenario is ALWAYS that there should b a pleasure n fulfilment to both parties n not a one sided ME ME ME adventure

do you mean the ideal scenario for YOU? Because clearly we are all here for different things and I'm sure none of us would presume to tell others either how to conduct themselves or what THEY'RE looking for now would we?

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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago

Currently Faraway

"Its really laughable the amount of guys on here that are claiming to be on the site "solely to give pleasure to others"! Did all these guys just suddenly decide one day to join up and see if anyone needed the benefit of their pleasure giving expertise? NO. They joined up because they wanted sex. Plain and simple. We are ALL ultimately on this site for OUR pleasure. Granted, when we are getting OUR pleasure, we are also giving pleasure at the same time. But, to claim that a person is out of order because she has the balls to state what she wants on her profile, is hypocracy of the worst order really."

There are different ways to get "OUR" pleasure. Some of us get pleasure by knowing that we have satisfied someone sexually, some others get pleasure by the "fuck-and-go" approach. I belong to the first x

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over a year ago

The ideal scenario is ALWAYS that there should b a pleasure n fulfilment to both parties n not a one sided ME ME ME adventure

I know what you're saying because my initial response to many messages I receive is: wtf is in it for me?

. The resulting response, however, is delete

, is for the most part not going to change anything.

I think it's a good thing that we can filter potential meets on pure (IMO) "idiocy"

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over a year ago

"Just read on a single woman's profile this "Here to please myself, no one else!"

I bet she gets loads of PMs as well but if a single guys said such he would have no chance and would get nothing but abuse. I do respect her thought right way and honesty however.

It just goes to show how easy it is for single women to pull and what they can get away with as opposed to single guys on here.

Bottom line: we're ALL here for our own hedonistic pleasure. Some however will compromise and do anything for a fuck, some will be open, some of us don't have to state it, it's obvious!

I get immense pleasure from pleasuring other people. Their reactions turn me on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

exactly

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over a year ago

The ideal scenario is ALWAYS that there should b a pleasure n fulfilment to both parties n not a one sided ME ME ME adventure

NOOOOOOO I defo DON'T mean for me!

Surely EVERYONE whilst takin their OWN pleasure should endeavor to give pleasure in return. If you prefer your meets all one sided n purely about yourself that of course IS your prerogative

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over a year ago

The ideal scenario is ALWAYS that there should b a pleasure n fulfilment to both parties n not a one sided ME ME ME adventure

NOOOOOOO I defo DON'T mean for me!

Surely EVERYONE whilst takin their OWN pleasure should endeavor to give pleasure in return. If you prefer your meets all one sided n purely about yourself that of course IS your prerogative"

that isn't what I said-you've missed my point entirely

my point is that you can only speak for yourself regarding ideal scenarios surely...presuming to speak for everyone is exactly that...presumptuous...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think were all here to please our selfs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why are people so concerned what others have on their profiles? If you don't like it move on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why are people so concerned what others have on their profiles? If you don't like it move on! "

Thats what i was thinking, yesterday i had someone interorgating me because i have got no fucking on my profile, why should i have to explain myself, its up to me what i want to do when i meet someone.

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over a year ago

"I've read the woman's profile. To me she comes across as a confident person who will stand for neither bullshit nor manipulation. No wonder she has certain men in a tizzy.

I think she'll do well

Oh dear you really did out of the bed the wrong side today

Shame you think that way."

I got out of the bed the wrong side because my point of _iew differs from yours? Laughable wee man you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've read the woman's profile. To me she comes across as a confident person who will stand for neither bullshit nor manipulation. No wonder she has certain men in a tizzy.

I think she'll do well

Oh dear you really did out of the bed the wrong side today

Shame you think that way.

I got out of the bed the wrong side because my point of _iew differs from yours? Laughable wee man you

Oh dear there she goes again. Nothing we about me in body or mind.

Maybe you should read the first post again and try and understand the simplicity of it.

Why all the bitterness and aggravation after all its a debate and that's what forums and topics are for. Some people don't happen to agree with you and some with me but that's life get over it I wont lower myself to call you names wee or anything else

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just read on a single woman's profile this "Here to please myself, no one else!"

I bet she gets loads of PMs as well but if a single guys said such he would have no chance and would get nothing but abuse. I do respect her thought right way and honesty however.

It just goes to show how easy it is for single women to pull and what they can get away with as opposed to single guys on here.

Bottom line: we're ALL here for our own hedonistic pleasure. Some however will compromise and do anything for a fuck, some will be open, some of us don't have to state it, it's obvious!

I get immense pleasure from pleasuring other people. Their reactions turn me on

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over a year ago

"I've read the woman's profile. To me she comes across as a confident person who will stand for neither bullshit nor manipulation. No wonder she has certain men in a tizzy.

I think she'll do well

Oh dear you really did out of the bed the wrong side today

Shame you think that way.

I got out of the bed the wrong side because my point of _iew differs from yours? Laughable wee man you

Oh dear there she goes again. Nothing we about me in body or mind.

Maybe you should read the first post again and try and understand the simplicity of it.

LMAO you compare the genders, you suggest abuse, you put sad emoticons. I have been grinning my head off... Who's bitter? Who's aggravated?

Bless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So, you satisfy someone sexually then leave without being satisfied yourself do you? Or do you ultimately get pleasured as well?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So, you satisfy someone sexually then leave without being satisfied yourself do you? Or do you ultimately get pleasured as well?"

Oral slave *swoon*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just read on a single woman's profile this "Here to please myself, no one else!"

I bet she gets loads of PMs as well but if a single guys said such he would have no chance and would get nothing but abuse. I do respect her thought right way and honesty however.

It just goes to show how easy it is for single women to pull and what they can get away with as opposed to single guys on here.

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over a year ago

"Just read on a single woman's profile this "Here to please myself, no one else!"

I bet she gets loads of PMs as well but if a single guys said such he would have no chance and would get nothing but abuse. I do respect her thought right way and honesty however.

It just goes to show how easy it is for single women to pull and what they can get away with as opposed to single guys on here.

Everyone's here to please themselves. I'm not here to please strangers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Isn't that what EVERYONE on this site is doing? Trying to please themselves?

Actually some of us are wanting to do more than just please themselves and not be so selfish. Some of us actually enjoy pleasing others as well. Mutual fun and respect is what I crave.

Good for you, I don't believe that most guys will just ruck for the sake of having a fuck. There has to be some connection for them too.

Sorry but single guys seem to get ripped a lot of the time so think its time a kind word was said for them. I've had some brilliant times. Not always playing but just a social, having a laugh over a few drinks as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just read on a single woman's profile this "Here to please myself, no one else!"

I bet she gets loads of PMs as well but if a single guys said such he would have no chance and would get nothing but abuse. I do respect her thought right way and honesty however.

It just goes to show how easy it is for single women to pull and what they can get away with as opposed to single guys on here.

that is precisely the answer I give (well there are two but that's the more polite one!!) when I am on cam in the chatroom and anyone asks to see more!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Before you judge read how your profile comes across. Does matter not do matter

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

The concept of supply and demand is still lost on the denizens of FAB I see.

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over a year ago

Before you judge read how your profile comes across. Does matter not do matter

Sorry but why are you critiquing my profile?

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over a year ago

"The concept of supply and demand is still lost on the denizens of FAB I see.

In what way?

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"The concept of supply and demand is still lost on the denizens of FAB I see.

In what way?"

There are very few real women who meet men (either single or couples) there are a lot of men maybe a 10-1 ratio.

Thus women can by en large put whatever demands they wish because they will find it due to the aforementioned supply and demand issue.

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over a year ago

"The concept of supply and demand is still lost on the denizens of FAB I see.

In what way?

There are very few real women who meet men (either single or couples) there are a lot of men maybe a 10-1 ratio.

Thus women can by en large put whatever demands they wish because they will find it due to the aforementioned supply and demand issue.

Ah, got ya, cheers. And totally agree. I also think that everyone has the right to put whatever they want on their own profile without fearing it will get slated. Which is what this whole thread stemmed from!

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By *irtyAndCh33kyCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

I think the op has totally missed the point on the profile he read! being here to 'meet your own needs' doesn't make you a selfish lover....just means that you are here to fulfil your own fantasies and in the case of single females are not here to meet/do whatever guys feel they should do. The biggest example of this is the 'I am passing/working/staying in your area' messages that fems (& couples) get from guys assuming that because you are on a sex site that you will meet anyone and everyone!

Mrs Dirty

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over a year ago

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By *hrisBlkGuyMan
over a year ago

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"The concept of supply and demand is still lost on the denizens of FAB I see.

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over a year ago

"The concept of supply and demand is still lost on the denizens of FAB I see.

In what way?

There are very few real women who meet men (either single or couples) there are a lot of men maybe a 10-1 ratio.

Thus women can by en large put whatever demands they wish because they will find it due to the aforementioned supply and demand issue.

Which is against the rules unless a critique has been requested. Which the lady in question cannot do since she's new. So the poor lass cannot even pop in and speak her mind.

The wee man will probably accuse me of getting out the bed the wrong side again... But I'm still in it

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over a year ago

"The concept of supply and demand is still lost on the denizens of FAB I see.

In what way?

There are very few real women who meet men (either single or couples) there are a lot of men maybe a 10-1 ratio.

Thus women can by en large put whatever demands they wish because they will find it due to the aforementioned supply and demand issue.

Which is against the rules unless a critique has been requested. Which the lady in question cannot do since she's new. So the poor lass cannot even pop in and speak her mind.

The wee man will probably accuse me of getting out the bed the wrong side again... But I'm still in it

It's that little green pea under all those mattresses that are making you uncomfortable Hahahahahaha

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over a year ago

"I think the op has totally missed the point on the profile he read! being here to 'meet your own needs' doesn't make you a selfish lover....just means that you are here to fulfil your own fantasies and in the case of single females are not here to meet/do whatever guys feel they should do. The biggest example of this is the 'I am passing/working/staying in your area' messages that fems (& couples) get from guys assuming that because you are on a sex site that you will meet anyone and everyone!

Mrs Dirty "

Unfortunately it is you who has missed the point of the thread and some have seen to steer it way from the original point. The point for those that have forgot it was really very simple and simply put so read it again if you are confused by it. Others try to read into the point that is clearly not there.

BTW I use smilies to convey what the written word is unable to do that is to show light-heartedness and a sense of fun. Unfortunately often missing from some of the posts on here. I don't expect everybody to understand that however.

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over a year ago

"The concept of supply and demand is still lost on the denizens of FAB I see.

In what way?

There are very few real women who meet men (either single or couples) there are a lot of men maybe a 10-1 ratio.

Thus women can by en large put whatever demands they wish because they will find it due to the aforementioned supply and demand issue.

Which is against the rules unless a critique has been requested. Which the lady in question cannot do since she's new. So the poor lass cannot even pop in and speak her mind.

The wee man will probably accuse me of getting out the bed the wrong side again... But I'm still in it

Do you have a right side on your bed and there's a lot of wee coming from you

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over a year ago

"The concept of supply and demand is still lost on the denizens of FAB I see.

In what way?

There are very few real women who meet men (either single or couples) there are a lot of men maybe a 10-1 ratio.

Thus women can by en large put whatever demands they wish because they will find it due to the aforementioned supply and demand issue.

Which is against the rules unless a critique has been requested. Which the lady in question cannot do since she's new. So the poor lass cannot even pop in and speak her mind.

The wee man will probably accuse me of getting out the bed the wrong side again... But I'm still in it

Do you have a right side on your bed and there's a lot of wee coming from you

I'm a "oui" woman (the right man - roll on Saturday)

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over a year ago

"Maybe she said it so she didn't get tons of mail

I doubt it would make any difference at all. Here's an idea change your profile to say the same and see if it makes any difference to the multitude of PMs that you must get.

Mine says not meeting..cue mass delete daily

But maybe I should do as you suggest

Hell we would be more than happy for you to please yourself mwah!! Xx

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