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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

God I love seeing my wife pleasured! Amazing. Anyone else find it a huge thrill?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"God I love seeing my wife pleasured! Amazing. Anyone else find it a huge thrill?"

Can't say. Never seen your wife being pleasured

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"God I love seeing my wife pleasured! Amazing. Anyone else find it a huge thrill?

Can't say. Never seen your wife being pleasured"

but your living in hope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

May sound like a naive remark, but some people say they love seeing their partner done a certain way and pleasured, etc. Can't these people do it themselves

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

I am dom but i love watching Ruby take any cock i tell her too in her mouth and/or pussy and begging me to let her cum as she is fucked!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Considering a relationship with a guy who is really into that. He likes the humiliation aspect of it...I like him but feel a lil anxious about it. does humiliation come into it for you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"God I love seeing my wife pleasured! Amazing. Anyone else find it a huge thrill?"

Yes I absolutely love it

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By *nly-AliceWoman
over a year ago

Chester / North Wales

"God I love seeing my wife pleasured! Amazing. Anyone else find it a huge thrill?"

Isn't that more like voyeurism though? Cuckolding doesn't always have to be about seeing the other person being pleasured. It also doesn't always have to be about humiliation either, but often is..

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By *exyLancs2Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

We love it. Sometimes Suzie has meets with me in another room or not there. The buzz is amazing. Go for it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"God I love seeing my wife pleasured! Amazing. Anyone else find it a huge thrill?

Isn't that more like voyeurism though? Cuckolding doesn't always have to be about seeing the other person being pleasured. It also doesn't always have to be about humiliation either, but often is.."

your right sometimes it involves humiliation and other things sometimes it doesnt, but yes it is still cuckolding but the light side of it, rather than the extreme.

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By *ecplgen2Couple
over a year ago

newcastle

Love to watch Wife with other guys great to see and hear what you don't normally plus love to see her happy excited and satisfied

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"God I love seeing my wife pleasured! Amazing. Anyone else find it a huge thrill?

Isn't that more like voyeurism though? Cuckolding doesn't always have to be about seeing the other person being pleasured. It also doesn't always have to be about humiliation either, but often is..

your right sometimes it involves humiliation and other things sometimes it doesnt, but yes it is still cuckolding but the light side of it, rather than the extreme."

A time and place for both sides of it. Rachel can often deny me sex prior to a meet to build up anticipation of her being with her bull but rebonding sex after is awesome.

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By *andWCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd

"May sound like a naive remark, but some people say they love seeing their partner done a certain way and pleasured, etc. Can't these people do it themselves

I could do it myself and very very often too but also love to watch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a fantasy involving a married couple seeing their wife being pleasured by a younger guy.

It is rather explicit in my head so i might write that in the fantasies part of the forum.

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By *ucy and CarlCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

Carl will say he loves seeing me with another guy. Even me playing alone. X

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By *arnaclebillMan
over a year ago

Robin Hood County

"God I love seeing my wife pleasured! Amazing. Anyone else find it a huge thrill?"

Yes I do like to see your wife being pleasured

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"May sound like a naive remark, but some people say they love seeing their partner done a certain way and pleasured, etc. Can't these people do it themselves

Yes you are quite right that does sound naive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"May sound like a naive remark, but some people say they love seeing their partner done a certain way and pleasured, etc. Can't these people do it themselves

Yes you are quite right that does sound naive. "
agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done this from both sides of the bed! I am on here a male Bull to meet cuckold couples. I get a great thrill from interacting with the husband, whether he be in the room or at home waiting. I have also with a previous GF been the cuck and loved knowing my GF was with her Ex while I had to wait at home. I also had the the thrill of being in the room.

He was giving her something I couldn't give her, as I dont have another mans cock lol and that was the difference. Some cuck couples do seek bigger guys who can arouse the lady a way the husband cant, some like me in this scenario just enjoy seeing my lady being fucked.

Horses for courses!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"May sound like a naive remark, but some people say they love seeing their partner done a certain way and pleasured, etc. Can't these people do it themselves

why are you on a swinging site lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs N is butter wouldn't melt in mouth MILF normally and very in control of herself. However I love it when she lets go. Get's all dirty and loses her inhibitions. This is why I agree with the OPs sentiments. Surely any meet with a single male is some form of cuckdom whether we like it or not we are sharing our partners with other men. It is outside the norm so that's why I find it such a thrill. the norm can be so boring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont have a wife so its a no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to be pleasuring someone's wife while they watched or were in the next room listening. The idea of making her enjoy me instead really turns me on.

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By *inups99Couple
over a year ago

manchester

"Mrs N is butter wouldn't melt in mouth MILF normally and very in control of herself. However I love it when she lets go. Get's all dirty and loses her inhibitions. This is why I agree with the OPs sentiments. Surely any meet with a single male is some form of cuckdom whether we like it or not we are sharing our partners with other men. It is outside the norm so that's why I find it such a thrill. the norm can be so boring"

Couldn't put it better myself!!

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By *c69funCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

It's fantastic when it's a good meet with a Bull who fully understands and is experienced . The hardest part is finding a suitable Bull who realises its not just about fucking the female.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love watching my husband being pleasured by another woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"May sound like a naive remark, but some people say they love seeing their partner done a certain way and pleasured, etc. Can't these people do it themselves

Yes you are quite right that does sound naive. agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been meeting cuckold couples for a number of years and every couple have different ideas and needs.

Some like to just watch, some like to be called at work and listen or have pics or video waiting when the get home.

You also have some couples who like to be dominated or have the cuck hubby humiliated and some couples like to be owned and have the bull come round to have the wife as and whenever he wants.

All are very exciting and I think it is the best sex.

A bulls job is to make sure the cuckold couple have exactely what they are looking for, everyone is happy and the wife is left happy and completely satisfied, afterall you are being inviting you into their home, bedroom to fulfill their desires.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been meeting cuckold couples for a number of years and every couple have different ideas and needs.

Some like to just watch, some like to be called at work and listen or have pics or video waiting when the get home.

You also have some couples who like to be dominated or have the cuck hubby humiliated and some couples like to be owned and have the bull come round to have the wife as and whenever he wants.

All are very exciting and I think it is the best sex.

Very well said! and a philosophy I adopt too. I like to treat the first meet, whether it be purely social or in a bar prior to going to a room as a Consultative discussion. It's very easy to get carried away on email with your desires. Face to face the couple can explain what they want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"God I love seeing my wife pleasured! Amazing. Anyone else find it a huge thrill?

Yes I absolutely love it"

I agree totally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been meeting cuckold couples for a number of years and every couple have different ideas and needs.

Some like to just watch, some like to be called at work and listen or have pics or video waiting when the get home.

You also have some couples who like to be dominated or have the cuck hubby humiliated and some couples like to be owned and have the bull come round to have the wife as and whenever he wants.

All are very exciting and I think it is the best sex.

Exremely well put guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love to watch Wife with other guys great to see and hear what you don't normally plus love to see her happy excited and satisfied"

Billy

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By *ancpl05Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend

We love it. Humiliation is part of it for us and like to push boundaries. She meets alone and loves the idea of being taken on date first. Problem is every single guy says they get it but don't really !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's fantastic when it's a good meet with a Bull who fully understands and is experienced . The hardest part is finding a suitable Bull who realises its not just about fucking the female. "

Yes also very well pointed out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Horses for courses!"

Did you ever feel anxious..? Like she might have a better time with somoeone else?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been meeting cuckold couples for a number of years and every couple have different ideas and needs.

Some like to just watch, some like to be called at work and listen or have pics or video waiting when the get home.

You also have some couples who like to be dominated or have the cuck hubby humiliated and some couples like to be owned and have the bull come round to have the wife as and whenever he wants.

All are very exciting and I think it is the best sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We love it. Sometimes Suzie has meets with me in another room or not there. The buzz is amazing. Go for it!"

I love it too!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never been with a couple but reading this makes me really want to try it. I feel turned on thinking about it.

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By *uckoldandWifeCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Good to see a discussion where people aren't arguing over definitions. We love cuckolding

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By *ustyBrunette35Couple
over a year ago

birmingham

"Good to see a discussion where people aren't arguing over definitions. We love cuckolding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love to see your wife being pleasured and than join inxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to see MrsManc with another man. It's so horny to see her get pleasure.

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

I've been reading this thread with interest. Happy to see that my thoughts and ideas regarding it have been pretty much on the money.

We are a Dom/sub couple never really mixed that with swinging though up to now. Lately I have been thinking about a cuckold type situation where, we as a couple are with the female partner of a cuckold man. So exactly the same as a 'normal' cuckold scenario but with an extra woman there.

Is this something that would apeal to a cuckold man? Or a 'hotwife'?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From what you have said, I would say that it would appeal to both of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"God I love seeing my wife pleasured! Amazing. Anyone else find it a huge thrill?"

On balance, I much prefer to be doing the pleasuring, than watching it being done. Never been into voyeurism

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By *ull-mkMan
over a year ago

milton keynes

cuckolding is such a varied topic and has all levels .you can enjoy a cuckold situation just doing what you are happy with. there is no need to do things that you don't want to. start off slow and add new bits until you reach your level. above all enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's certainly a very interesting and varied road to go down. The only real appeal for me is watching her play and joining in would not consider that being a Cuck.

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By *nly-AliceWoman
over a year ago

Chester / North Wales

Very interesting thread. Love reading other couples accounts and how they compare to how my own relationship has developed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's certainly a very interesting and varied road to go down. The only real appeal for me is watching her play and joining in would not consider that being a Cuck. "

thats a fair enough view, but cuckolding is such a wide and varied topic, much the same with the word swinging, that what 1 person classes as cuckold another wont, but the op isnt debating what is cuckold and what isnt, they are simply stating they enjoy what they are doing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's certainly a very interesting and varied road to go down. The only real appeal for me is watching her play and joining in would not consider that being a Cuck.

And so was I.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to watch Ali with another man, the fact that you are able to watch how she moves, the look on her face, things you don't see when your taking part, that's the thrill for me, until it gets too much and I have to join in lol, me being in a different room wouldn't do it for me I want to watch, and I hate the bull tag, the idea I'm coming round to give your wife what you can't, rubbish, us making love after the guy has left is far more than the sex he has provided. sorry if that upsets anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's certainly a very interesting and varied road to go down. The only real appeal for me is watching her play and joining in would not consider that being a Cuck.

And so was I.

apart from saying you wouldnt class it as been cuck.

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By *uckoldandWifeCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

"I love to watch Ali with another man, the fact that you are able to watch how she moves, the look on her face, things you don't see when your taking part, that's the thrill for me, until it gets too much and I have to join in lol, me being in a different room wouldn't do it for me I want to watch, and I hate the bull tag, the idea I'm coming round to give your wife what you can't, rubbish, us making love after the guy has left is far more than the sex he has provided. sorry if that upsets anyone."

Why would it upset anyone, it's your view about your life. If you are saying anyone who uses the Bull tag is talking rubbish then yeah that's maybe something to say sorry about.

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By *ust_for_laughsCouple
over a year ago

Hinckley

That's it in a nutshell for us. S is always in charge and it's being done for both our pleasures...in our relationship, it's where the line is drawn between recreational sex and making love.

The same principle applies in all our swinging activities, to be fair.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I would highky reccomend it. Only problem seems to be getting a regular bull, someone who could take my wife to a meal, return an take her to our bed to fuck while im told to sleep downstairs!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I think if I were in such a situation, I'd rather watch them having sex rather than a movie, though I guess it depends which one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well jan has just pointed out the pic on your profile and said how would you like to see me ride that and moan with pleasure. i am not cuckold but would get great enjoyment from watching,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A cuckold relationship differs between each cuckold couple and the guy/bull who joins into their relationship and has sex with the woman.

It can be very extreme where a bull takes over the majority of sexual gratification with the wife, leaving the cuckold to not have much sexual contact with his wife and who is constantly humiliated and told by his wife he is not worthy of pleasureing her, to the person who likes to just watch and be verbally humiliated and is in the room with them.

For someone to join in really doesn't make it a cuckold meet but a threesome with some sub/dom thrown in.

Im glad the OP likes being a cuckold and enjoys his time, for those I have met the fantasy and mind play is what excites most cuckolds, not knowing exactly what is going to happen to his wife on and giving away control to the other guy/bull.

Do find that alot of cuckolds really trust their partners and are very open and honest people, and have in my opinion very strong trusting relationships.

I love myself meeting couples who like to be cuckold or dominated, and like to be watched or send back a report to the cuckold.

Whatever level you do this I hope it all goes well for you. x

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"well jan has just pointed out the pic on your profile and said how would you like to see me ride that and moan with pleasure. i am not cuckold but would get great enjoyment from watching,"

And I like being watched

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

yes absolutely. The humiliation heightens the experience to another level entirely. Amazing for my wife to look into my eyes as a guy enters her and say "OMG hes so much bigger and better than you ever are darling" and to be made to clean his cum from the hole he decides to deposit into is mind blowing!

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By *nly-AliceWoman
over a year ago

Chester / North Wales

Not sure if our relationship could be described as duck. Husband takes an active role in setting up meets sometimes, he enjoys hearing about others, and there is no humiliation. I've heard the term hot wife but how is that different?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not sure if our relationship could be described as duck. Husband takes an active role in setting up meets sometimes, he enjoys hearing about others, and there is no humiliation. I've heard the term hot wife but how is that different?"

yes it can be described as cuckold or not, that is upto you, if you think its cuckolding then for you its cuckolding.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ideally the bull should be a single guy that is unmarried. Ideally the cucktress should be a married lady and assertive to her spouse.

Ideally the bull should be experienced in cuckolding and take into consideration the cucks needs without appearing to provide for them. That is even though he in fact is providing for the cuck in a strange way to many who don't understand.

Confused... you soon will be esp if you know little about cuckolding.

Cuckolding for some is a lifestyle not just a sexual fantasy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That is 1 side of it, to some it is as simple as seeing your other half totally pleasured by a bull, to some it is all about the extreme humiliation and control side, the word cuckolding covers all of the spectrum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ideally the bull should be a single guy that is unmarried. Ideally the cucktress should be a married lady and assertive to her spouse.

Confused... you soon will be esp if you know little about cuckolding.

Cuckolding for some is a lifestyle not just a sexual fantasy. "

Personally we would prefer the bull to be married.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I don't do anal and my partner likes anal so when we meet couples and the lady does do anal I get so much pleasure seeing him enjoying it ...

To the point I actually thank the lady there and then for allowing this to happen .......

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"That is 1 side of it, to some it is as simple as seeing your other half totally pleasured by a bull, to some it is all about the extreme humiliation and control side, the word cuckolding covers all of the spectrum."

Yes but you can't just call anything you like cuckolding. Dictionaries were invented for a reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ideally the bull should be a single guy that is unmarried. Ideally the cucktress should be a married lady and assertive to her spouse.

Confused... you soon will be esp if you know little about cuckolding.

Cuckolding for some is a lifestyle not just a sexual fantasy.

Personally we would prefer the bull to be married."

Yes of course and its a personal thing and there is nothing cast in stone.

Most that want a married bull do so in the belief that it is in some way safer for them to have a bull who is married so as not the threaten the cuck and cucktresses relationship. However there may well be other reasons for wanting a married bull.

IMO a bull should not want to take the cucktress away from the cuck completely that would defeat the object of cuckolding. Cuckolding is a 3 way relationship or should be but again that is my opinion based both on my experience's and understanding.

Often with a married bull he is playing away from home hence why I say ideally a single bull but each to their own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes but you can't just call anything you like cuckolding. Dictionaries were invented for a reason."

yes and like i said the word cuckolding covers a whole spectrum, not just 1 side of it.

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By *ayandess1Couple
over a year ago

bridgwater

I have my own fantasy. Very similar but as a dom I would want to be in control. Very much like a sub on sub scenario.

I love watching my partner being fucked by another guy, but it has to be a sub guy. So in essance I direct what and where he pleasures her. If I want her to cum I will tell him, and if I want him to cum I will direct that also. Preferably with her tied up. (she loves it)

I'm yet to really try it out peoperly, but if anyone is willing? He he

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