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By *woBiTwo OP   Couple
over a year ago

north manchester

Not another moan about people not responding to unsolicited messages, we understand that, just puzzling over a couple of members who have messaged us, who we've liked the sound of, and replied, positively, to find that not only do they not respond again, they delete their accounts within hours!

Are they just dreamers who liked the thrill of pretending to be adventurous, and when it gets a bit more 'real', panic, and run for cover? ...or are we too keen, replying immediately?

Ah well, got a meet on Saturday with verified members, , so we'll play it cool and try not to frighten THEM off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we like the look of someone we reply straight away.

Seems that you guys have just had a bit of bad luck..

You got Saturday night to look forward to,so have fun and enjoy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not another moan about people not responding to unsolicited messages, we understand that, just puzzling over a couple of members who have messaged us, who we've liked the sound of, and replied, positively, to find that not only do they not respond again, they delete their accounts within hours!

Are they just dreamers who liked the thrill of pretending to be adventurous, and when it gets a bit more 'real', panic, and run for cover? ...or are we too keen, replying immediately?

Ah well, got a meet on Saturday with verified members, , so we'll play it cool and try not to frighten THEM off! "

We was just about to message you, then we saw this thread, not sure if we should now, scared we might get the urge to delete our account.

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By *woBiTwo OP   Couple
over a year ago

north manchester


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We was just about to message you, then we saw this thread, not sure if we should now, scared we might get the urge to delete our account. "

lol! That's us, regular Plague Annies, spreading gloom and despondency wherever we go!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe it's because you call yourselves a curious couple.

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

I don't think there's a definitive answer to that! We've had experience of people just stopping messaging - we assume they've changed their minds, not who they say they are or fantasists! Good luck for Saturday! Z

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"Are they just dreamers who liked the thrill of pretending to be adventurous, and when it gets a bit more 'real', panic, and run for cover? "

I think some members on here suffer with insecurity issues, in that, they want to feel “wanted” when someone show interest, it boosts their ego, and off they go to the next victim all rather sad as Zoe mentioned, good luck at the weekend

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