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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sorry have to have a good old moan, not long deleted people off my friends list. Decided i did not want to meet and because i'm to bloody nice i gave them a reason.

If someone deletes me off their friends list i leave them alone. I am now friends with the block button but why the hell do people feel the need to email back and try to change your mind ?.

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By *limBobStretchedPantsMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Were most of them guys ???

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes all guys but i think i need to become more of a bitch as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They've lost some wank material , what do you expect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Were they all single guys, not given them a good bashing for ages in here....................

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By *limBobStretchedPantsMan
over a year ago

Newcastle


"They've lost some wank material , what do you expect "
that's exactly it. Because they can't look at your pictures anymore. Some guys might be genuine but most likely not.

And for when you turn to super bitch to clear out the ladies I offer a counselling service on how to deal with rejection lol send them my way ha ha xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Were they all single guys, not given them a good bashing for ages in here.................... "

All single but its about time we had a single guys bashing thread

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By *aveandkate35Couple
over a year ago

telford

Sometimes though I delete friends because we've not spoke in a while or I think they are not interested anymore. Some will mail back and ill happily readd the genuine ones, so I understand why they may mail you - harassing you is different and just shows you were right in the first place

You can then upgrade to defcon-block!

D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes all guys but i think i need to become more of a bitch as well."

you don't have to become a bitch to reject people just clear, assertive and don't enter into dialogue with them once you've made your point...that's the key-if you continue to exchange messages with them they think they're still in with a chance to convince you...if you really don't see it going any further just stop talking to them...if they continue after you've made it clear, they're harassing you

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By *allybooWoman
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

Ha thanks for this thread it's just reminded me that I've got to kick a few guys off my friends list!

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


"Were they all single guys, not given them a good bashing for ages in here....................

All single but its about time we had a single guys bashing thread "

Oh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry have to have a good old moan, not long deleted people off my friends list. Decided i did not want to meet and because i'm to bloody nice i gave them a reason.

If someone deletes me off their friends list i leave them alone. I am now friends with the block button but why the hell do people feel the need to email back and try to change your mind ?."

Isn't it just easier to just block if they pester than put a thread up about it or are you after something else?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Were they all single guys, not given them a good bashing for ages in here....................

All single but its about time we had a single guys bashing thread

Oh? "

Shall I get my baseball bat out, or would you prefer I use a rolling pin?!

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By *ark Gr8 Teddy BearMan
over a year ago

Wigan

I'd message back as I'd be interested in know what it was that had made you want to block or defriend me. After all the internet is full of wank material.

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By *cottishrichMan
over a year ago

Here and there

My friends list is incredibly short and consists of people I've already met or intend on meeting in the near future. As soon as messages dry up or it becomes clear that a meet is not going to happen then they are removed from my friends list, this isn't Facebook and I've got no desire to have loads of friends on here.

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


"Were they all single guys, not given them a good bashing for ages in here....................

All single but its about time we had a single guys bashing thread

Oh?

Shall I get my baseball bat out, or would you prefer I use a rolling pin?!"

Baseball bat please. The rolling pin brings back bad memories.....wait

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the chat has dried out and the interest seems to have gone then no point them being on there

I don't have a huge amount on mine, a lot of the time id use fhe hotlist instead of the friends list,people can see if you're online to chat and you don't get the offended attitudes if you take them off the list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Were they all single guys, not given them a good bashing for ages in here....................

All single but its about time we had a single guys bashing thread

Oh?

Shall I get my baseball bat out, or would you prefer I use a rolling pin?!

Baseball bat please. The rolling pin brings back bad memories.....wait "

......there is a third option....

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


"Were they all single guys, not given them a good bashing for ages in here....................

All single but its about time we had a single guys bashing thread

Oh?

Shall I get my baseball bat out, or would you prefer I use a rolling pin?!

Baseball bat please. The rolling pin brings back bad memories.....wait

......there is a third option.... "

I'll err....get my coat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think messaging someone to tell them you no longer want to be friends is nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think messaging someone to tell them you no longer want to be friends is nice "

Nicer than hitting them with a baseball bat....or a rolling pin though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd message back as I'd be interested in know what it was that had made you want to block or defriend me. After all the internet is full of wank material."

we delete someone if it's clear a meet is never going to happen...if you asked, that's all you would need to know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think messaging someone to tell them you no longer want to be friends is nice

Nicer than hitting them with a baseball bat....or a rolling pin though! "

I don't know what's happened to you two but it's scary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friends??? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My friends list is incredibly short and consists of people I've already met or intend on meeting in the near future. As soon as messages dry up or it becomes clear that a meet is not going to happen then they are removed from my friends list, this isn't Facebook and I've got no desire to have loads of friends on here. "

+1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

+1?

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By *ark Gr8 Teddy BearMan
over a year ago

Wigan


"I'd message back as I'd be interested in know what it was that had made you want to block or defriend me. After all the internet is full of wank material.

we delete someone if it's clear a meet is never going to happen...if you asked, that's all you would need to know"

well thats in your opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd message back as I'd be interested in know what it was that had made you want to block or defriend me. After all the internet is full of wank material.

we delete someone if it's clear a meet is never going to happen...if you asked, that's all you would need to know

well thats in your opinion. "

that's very true but in the end you're a stranger on an internet site looking for sex..,we're never going to meet therefore we owe you nothing other than a polite refusal...even if we have chatted for a length of time...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry have to have a good old moan, not long deleted people off my friends list. Decided i did not want to meet and because i'm to bloody nice i gave them a reason.

If someone deletes me off their friends list i leave them alone. I am now friends with the block button but why the hell do people feel the need to email back and try to change your mind ?.

Isn't it just easier to just block if they pester than put a thread up about it or are you after something else? "

This is the forums if i want to put a thread up its up to me. If you read my message it says i block now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ha thanks for this thread it's just reminded me that I've got to kick a few guys off my friends list! "
I keep meaning to but I've done it before and been asked why. I've said it's because I like to chat and exchange reg messages where possible, they have come back and it's deathly silence, not even looking

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Yes all guys but i think i need to become more of a bitch as well."

No you don't need to become a bitch, you need to get a grip. Is it really necessary to write and tell people you are no longer their friend? Haven't you got anything better to do? Haven't you learnt to let sleeping dogs lie?

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By *ark Gr8 Teddy BearMan
over a year ago

Wigan


"I'd message back as I'd be interested in know what it was that had made you want to block or defriend me. After all the internet is full of wank material.

we delete someone if it's clear a meet is never going to happen...if you asked, that's all you would need to know

well thats in your opinion.

that's very true but in the end you're a stranger on an internet site looking for sex..,we're never going to meet therefore we owe you nothing other than a polite refusal...even if we have chatted for a length of time..."

exactly a 'polite refusal' blocking someone or just ignoring them isn't polite.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I'd message back as I'd be interested in know what it was that had made you want to block or defriend me. After all the internet is full of wank material.

we delete someone if it's clear a meet is never going to happen...if you asked, that's all you would need to know

well thats in your opinion.

that's very true but in the end you're a stranger on an internet site looking for sex..,we're never going to meet therefore we owe you nothing other than a polite refusal...even if we have chatted for a length of time...

exactly a 'polite refusal' blocking someone or just ignoring them isn't polite."

If someone is not interested in you sexually how is going into detail going to help you?

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By *ark Gr8 Teddy BearMan
over a year ago

Wigan


"I'd message back as I'd be interested in know what it was that had made you want to block or defriend me. After all the internet is full of wank material.

we delete someone if it's clear a meet is never going to happen...if you asked, that's all you would need to know

well thats in your opinion.

that's very true but in the end you're a stranger on an internet site looking for sex..,we're never going to meet therefore we owe you nothing other than a polite refusal...even if we have chatted for a length of time...

exactly a 'polite refusal' blocking someone or just ignoring them isn't polite.

If someone is not interested in you sexually how is going into detail going to help you?"

who said detail. "Hi sorry but your not what I /we are looking for right now. Thanks though." Polite and to the point. Just because you can get away with being ignorant doesn't mean you should be.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

just delete, no need for explanation

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I'd message back as I'd be interested in know what it was that had made you want to block or defriend me. After all the internet is full of wank material.

we delete someone if it's clear a meet is never going to happen...if you asked, that's all you would need to know

well thats in your opinion.

that's very true but in the end you're a stranger on an internet site looking for sex..,we're never going to meet therefore we owe you nothing other than a polite refusal...even if we have chatted for a length of time...

exactly a 'polite refusal' blocking someone or just ignoring them isn't polite.

If someone is not interested in you sexually how is going into detail going to help you?

who said detail. "Hi sorry but your not what I /we are looking for right now. Thanks though." Polite and to the point. Just because you can get away with being ignorant doesn't mean you should be."

That's how I respond...then ignore and block because you always get the inevitable why?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes all guys but i think i need to become more of a bitch as well.

No you don't need to become a bitch, you need to get a grip. Is it really necessary to write and tell people you are no longer their friend? Haven't you got anything better to do? Haven't you learnt to let sleeping dogs lie? "

I just block people now but alot of guys pretended to be single and it does say on my profile not interested in people playing away.

I could say the same thing to you haven't you got anything better to do.

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