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By *ittlemisspink OP   Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Since bein on this site iv noticed that ppl will more or less sleep with any 1 even if there not attracted2 the m I find this all a bit strange surly ppl can't b this desperate!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since bein on this site iv noticed that ppl will more or less sleep with any 1 even if there not attracted2 the m I find this all a bit strange surly ppl can't b this desperate!!!!!"

I am tho

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

yeah, if I am horned up and I need sex...

and they are up for the same

it's cool and works for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't have sex with someone I wasn't attracted to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

also I cant help it if I'm a fanny magnet..u want me to upset people?..sakes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need to be attracted for them to make the right buttons work no matter how horny I maybe, it would go straight away if I don't like the person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you know they aren't attracted to them - do they tell you ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since bein on this site iv noticed that ppl will more or less sleep with any 1 even if there not attracted2 the m I find this all a bit strange surly ppl can't b this desperate!!!!!"

I think you are wrong, not many will sleep with someone, fuck, suck or lick maybe

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Since bein on this site iv noticed that ppl will more or less sleep with any 1 even if there not attracted2 the m I find this all a bit strange surly ppl can't b this desperate!!!!!"

Have you been following me??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have had sex with men im not attracted too, it wasnt always any less enjoyable, i try to only meet men i like the look of though, its not just about looks though, i get messages from not bad looking men, they just arent my type though, and i dont mean because of their looks its because they arent my type of person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since bein on this site iv noticed that ppl will more or less sleep with any 1 even if there not attracted2 the m I find this all a bit strange surly ppl can't b this desperate!!!!!"

I wouldn't sleep with anyone, there has to be an attraction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't sleep with anyone I wasn't physically attracted to. I'm always amazed at the messages I receive who tell me they want to fuck me sooooo bad yet they haven't even seen my face pic. I could look like John Merrick's uglier twin for all they know. But then maybe I'm just shallow?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not about being desperate in all cases. I used to do a lot of greedy girl stuff.. I actually rarely even looked up past the cock I was playing with... It worked for me at the time..

However now I find I play differently.. but still not always attracted to the guys I'm playing with.. funny thing though I can't do that when it comes to women.

For one on one play though I have to really be attracted.

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd just like to assure everyone that the women on this site definitely do not sleep with men they are not attracted too! If only they did I'd have a verification list eight miles long lol

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By *ark Gr8 Teddy BearMan
over a year ago

Wigan

I can't really choose to be picky but I still am. Just because its offered up freely and I'm male doesn't mean I'm going to take whats on offer.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"How do you know they aren't attracted to them - do they tell you ??"

that's what I thought..

no one is really going to put 'had sex with so and so who I had no attraction to' on their profile..

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

Love the hyperbole....

Ho hum!

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"Since bein on this site iv noticed that ppl will more or less sleep with any 1 even if there not attracted2 the m I find this all a bit strange surly ppl can't b this desperate!!!!!"

Fancy a shag?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since bein on this site iv noticed that ppl will more or less sleep with any 1 even if there not attracted2 the m I find this all a bit strange surly ppl can't b this desperate!!!!!"

Desperation has nothing to do with it. This is a sex site not a dating agency!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are very choosy, meet lots of people but don't often play.

Some call us time wasters but we won't lower our standards.

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"i have had sex with men im not attracted too, it wasnt always any less enjoyable, i try to only meet men i like the look of though, its not just about looks though, i get messages from not bad looking men, they just arent my type though, and i dont mean because of their looks its because they arent my type of person."

Lol someone appears a tad confused

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"Love the hyperbole....

Ho hum!"

Not heard of that one. Is it to replace the Sugar Bowl or the Rose Bowl? Fiesta Bowl maybe?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i have had sex with men im not attracted too, it wasnt always any less enjoyable, i try to only meet men i like the look of though, its not just about looks though, i get messages from not bad looking men, they just arent my type though, and i dont mean because of their looks its because they arent my type of person.

Lol someone appears a tad confused "

Glad it wasn't just me!!

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


"Love the hyperbole....

Ho hum!

Not heard of that one. Is it to replace the Sugar Bowl or the Rose Bowl? Fiesta Bowl maybe? "

Its all about the Gator Bowl

#BCS

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"Love the hyperbole....

Ho hum!

Not heard of that one. Is it to replace the Sugar Bowl or the Rose Bowl? Fiesta Bowl maybe?

Its all about the Gator Bowl

#BCS"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to fancy them I can't just sleep with anyone and I think that goes for most women on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

seems to be mostly the guys that take that attitude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gives you a clue as to where or what they are...

Many have a certain type they like... depending on the mood and type of play

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"seems to be mostly the guys that take that attitude"

the few that will admit it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't have sex with someone I wasn't attracted to - my cock wouldn't let me.

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

In a club, on a free for all then I often don't even see who's doing what to me so attraction sometimes doesn't come into it...for 1-1 meets (or 3sums) then I need to fancy them

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By *inful_coupleCouple
over a year ago

Frimley

We won't touch someone we're not into visually. There's no point. Why bother when we have no problems finding people we are attracted to who are up for it?

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire


"It's not about being desperate in all cases. I used to do a lot of greedy girl stuff.. I actually rarely even looked up past the cock I was playing with... It worked for me at the time..

However now I find I play differently.. but still not always attracted to the guys I'm playing with.. funny thing though I can't do that when it comes to women.

For one on one play though I have to really be attracted.

Cali"

i was exactly the same .. fucked anyone!!!! nowdays im a bit choosier

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London


"How do you know they aren't attracted to them - do they tell you ??"

It sounds like what the OP means is - that she wouldn't sleep with some of the people others have.

But everyone's different...

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

If there is no attraction, then I'm afraid it's a thanks but no thanks, plus I can be very fickle at times!

And I would expect the same back, if I wasn't their cup of tea, I would hate to think they would just go for it rather than say no!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you know they aren't attracted to them - do they tell you ??

It sounds like what the OP means is - that she wouldn't sleep with some of the people others have.

But everyone's different..."

I know, i have thought the same thing myself, and i know im nothing special.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not everyone is take me there as got to be a physical attraction aswel as a then wanting sex too

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

surely that's why we look at the pics first then if attracted we mail them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to be attracted to a person to meet them.

My hubby says I'm too fussy, especially when a couple with a hot lady and and a not so hot guy want to meet us on our joint profile.

I won't just take one for the team, I have to feel the attraction.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"How do you know they aren't attracted to them - do they tell you ??

that's what I thought..

no one is really going to put 'had sex with so and so who I had no attraction to' on their profile.."

I've read threads where people have stated that. There are also people on this thread who state they have done it.

Whilst Duracell and Ever Ready are still producing batteries I'll take my toys over a cock attached to a man I didn't find sexually attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes has to be an attraction facially for me plus sense of humour you gotta have a laugh

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By *1KandiCouple
over a year ago

Jacksonville

Attraction is a plus but not 100% required all the time, its not desperation... just sometimes its the number of cocks and personality that is just as important. On a greedy girls night there could be a guy or two that is going to get lucky for a night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont ! Im picky as fuck - more so on here because of the choice available ! X

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