FabSwingers.com forum: chicken?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is there a certain person on fab that you would like to message in the hope that a meet was arranged and then you could do all manner of debauched things with but you are just too chicken to send them a message? There is for me but I just can't pluck up the courage.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

No but I think you should go ahead and send a message. What is the absolute worst that could happen? Its probably better to regret having done something than regret not having done it .....or some crap cliche but you know what I mean...... I really should take my own advice too lil

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

send the message!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Or even lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She who dares wins he might be feeling exactly the same way send the message.

Wayne

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure there are, but why not ? Isn't it better to select someone who fits your criteria and attracted to rather than maybe sending out lots of messages to people you may actually end up not meeting anyway ?

Message them then move off if nothing happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just send the message, I promise , I'll answer it

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Send the message...

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

There's plenty I would, but unfortunately, due to logistics, there's just no point

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By *lentyoffun40Couple
over a year ago

Lancashire

Send it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just bite the bullet and send the message

After all what have you got to loose !!

you never know you might get a reply

If you dont you will all ways think

WHAT IF

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

It's not what we do that we live to regret .........It's what we didn't do....

Do it.

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

"Is there a certain person on fab that you would like to message in the hope that a meet was arranged and then you could do all manner of debauched things with but you are just too chicken to send them a message? There is for me but I just can't pluck up the courage.

Just send me the message, Joanne

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You big bullies!! I want to but I just can't. Now I know how all the single men feel!

I am such a scaredy cat!xx

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

I very very rarely message anybody new initially. However, I wouldn't be chicken. Go for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i'm still waiting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. 2 one doesn't go online anymore and the other well we haven't met in that way yet so awkward

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You big bullies!! I want to but I just can't. Now I know how all the single men feel!

I am such a scaredy cat!xx"

I was part of a couple for five years until recently when I became single its hard to make the first move but what's the worst that can happen he says no you won't know unless you try x good luck xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You big bullies!! I want to but I just can't. Now I know how all the single men feel!

I am such a scaredy cat!xx"

It's only the first 500 rejections that hurt

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By *lentyoffun40Couple
over a year ago

Lancashire

"You big bullies!! I want to but I just can't. Now I know how all the single men feel!

I am such a scaredy cat!xx"

Meet a couple who like plenty of fun first and then email him !

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

There is one who took my fancy but she never read my message (which took me about 40 minutes to write) so I didn't bother again.

I find it very difficult to pluck up the courage to send messages to people I don't know, or even send a wink for that matter - especially since at least half of the messages I send don't even get read... which is pretty disheartening. I might take the plunge once or twice a month at the most.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Boom tiss

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Done it!!!!!

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

Already did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

WEll done

saves the kick up the bum that you needed xxx

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Now every man is refreshing fab to see if they have a message

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

"Now every man is refreshing fab to see if they have a message

Almost - I'm under no illusions.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Now every man is refreshing fab to see if they have a message

oh god to be soooo popular! If only that were TRUE!!x

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Now every man is refreshing fab to see if they have a message

Almost - I'm under no illusions.

Aww you have a great arty photo

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Done it!!!!!

Bloomin good on you! I really hope whatever happens is the best possible outcome

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Done it!!!!!

Bloomin good on you! I really hope whatever happens is the best possible outcome

Oh well, he can only say no can't he!x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Now every man is refreshing fab to see if they have a message

Nope not me i know its not me lol

But hay ho lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Already did."

Now we want to know if he replied, what happened, when is the wedding? Are we invited? Will there be cake???...

Oh...um...sorry...got a bit carried away there......came over all Cilla Black.....well I didn't LITERALLY come over Cilla! I mean...she isnt my type and anyway, I haven't seen her on FAB for ages!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I know. .I will shut up now

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

Oh well, he can only say no can't he!x"

yes..

as my Mum used to say 'if you don't ask..'

good luck with it..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Already did.

Now we want to know if he replied, what happened, when is the wedding? Are we invited? Will there be cake???...

Oh...um...sorry...got a bit carried away there......came over all Cilla Black.....well I didn't LITERALLY come over Cilla! I mean...she isnt my type and anyway, I haven't seen her on FAB for ages!!!

you forgot the new hat

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Already did.

Now we want to know if he replied, what happened, when is the wedding? Are we invited? Will there be cake???...

Oh...um...sorry...got a bit carried away there......came over all Cilla Black.....well I didn't LITERALLY come over Cilla! I mean...she isnt my type and anyway, I haven't seen her on FAB for ages!!!

you forgot the new hat

Oh please dont come over Cilla's hat, that would ruin the pics!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok ok...I promise not to come over Cillas hat!!!

But I still want to know if he replied dammit!!!!

I like a happy ending. ..ahem. ..cough, cough.....must get my chest looked at!

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Well

Did he answer?

Come on, don't leave us in suspense.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Well

Well

Did he answer?

Come on, don't leave us in suspense. "

Yes!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well

Well

Did he answer?

Come on, don't leave us in suspense.

Yes!!!"

woo hoo!!!!!!!!!!! Well well??? Come on??? Are you meeting??? God you are a tease!!!! We want the next instalment!

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"Well

Well

Did he answer?

Come on, don't leave us in suspense.

Yes!!!"

Cool

try it again

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Great example to all the shy ladies. Get messaging

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Well

Well

Did he answer?

Come on, don't leave us in suspense.

Yes!!!

woo hoo!!!!!!!!!!! Well well??? Come on??? Are you meeting??? God you are a tease!!!! We want the next instalment! "

Blimey, I've not got round to suggesting a meet yet!!! You lot are fast workers aren't you!!

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

"Great example to all the shy ladies. Get messaging

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Well

Well

Did he answer?

Come on, don't leave us in suspense.

Yes!!!"

Good I'm glad. I suspect you will want to respect the privacy of the person you've messaged and leave it there so I'll wish you both well and hope you have a great deal of fun together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well

Well

Did he answer?

Come on, don't leave us in suspense.

Yes!!!

woo hoo!!!!!!!!!!! Well well??? Come on??? Are you meeting??? God you are a tease!!!! We want the next instalment!

Blimey, I've not got round to suggesting a meet yet!!! You lot are fast workers aren't you!!"

We are just excited!!!!! Ok well keep us updated!!!! But hey...it was worth taking the chance then????

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Well

Well

Did he answer?

Come on, don't leave us in suspense.

Yes!!!

Good I'm glad. I suspect you will want to respect the privacy of the person you've messaged and leave it there so I'll wish you both well and hope you have a great deal of fun together

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

"Great example to all the shy ladies. Get messaging

Off topic but love the new avatar Ryan, is it part of your challenge?

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"Great example to all the shy ladies. Get messaging

Off topic but love the new avatar Ryan, is it part of your challenge? "

Thanks. No it's not a challenge, I just had a thumb twiddling moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Great example to all the shy ladies. Get messaging

Off topic but love the new avatar Ryan, is it part of your challenge?

Thanks. No it's not a challenge, I just had a thumb twiddling moment. "

Someone's pinched his wellies!

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"Great example to all the shy ladies. Get messaging

Off topic but love the new avatar Ryan, is it part of your challenge?

Thanks. No it's not a challenge, I just had a thumb twiddling moment.

Someone's pinched his wellies!

Nah they've just been cropped

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

"Now every man is refreshing fab to see if they have a message

Almost - I'm under no illusions.

Aww you have a great arty photo

Thanks... I'm imitating life.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Now every man is refreshing fab to see if they have a message

Almost - I'm under no illusions.

Aww you have a great arty photo

Thanks... I'm imitating life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

send the message always

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the moment im very happy with who I know and who im talking too but if there was someone I had a bit of a crush on then id let them know if i thought I fitted their criteria,the worse they could do is say no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Great example to all the shy ladies. Get messaging

Off topic but love the new avatar Ryan, is it part of your challenge?

Thanks. No it's not a challenge, I just had a thumb twiddling moment. "

Love the avatar Ryan. Xx

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"Great example to all the shy ladies. Get messaging

Off topic but love the new avatar Ryan, is it part of your challenge?

Thanks. No it's not a challenge, I just had a thumb twiddling moment.

Love the avatar Ryan. Xx"

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Great example to all the shy ladies. Get messaging

Off topic but love the new avatar Ryan, is it part of your challenge?

Thanks. No it's not a challenge, I just had a thumb twiddling moment.

Love the avatar Ryan. Xx

Thanks

Very nice

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Who the hell is this Ryan guy who has hijacked my thread!get your own Ryan!!!x

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

"Who the hell is this Ryan guy who has hijacked my thread!get your own Ryan!!!x"

He's a fecking self-centred, attention seeking fud. Just ignore him and the hijacks (par for the course when starting a thread with these monkeys).

Well done on biting the bullet and hope you get the outcome and fuxking of a lifetime that you desire x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Joanne you wiltsiin learn about our Ryan lol

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"Who the hell is this Ryan guy who has hijacked my thread!get your own Ryan!!!x"

I never hijacked it. I'm only being polite and saying thanks lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Who the hell is this Ryan guy who has hijacked my thread!get your own Ryan!!!x

I never hijacked it. I'm only being polite and saying thanks lol"

I wasn't being serious x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

are you reading my mind x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Glad you bit the bullet Joanne

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send the message, nothing ventured nothing gained

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

"Who the hell is this Ryan guy who has hijacked my thread!get your own Ryan!!!x

I never hijacked it. I'm only being polite and saying thanks lol"

FROFF!!! xx

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"Who the hell is this Ryan guy who has hijacked my thread!get your own Ryan!!!x

I never hijacked it. I'm only being polite and saying thanks lol

FROFF!!! xx

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I don't have a crush on anyone at the moment...I wonder if anyone has one on me lol

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By *icolWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

sounds like a great idea xx

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