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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haven't a clue about this so please dont take offence from my ignorance.

When a guy meets a m/f couple, I have been told by lots on here, that its the f half only who actually plays. So my question is, when a girl meets a m/f couple is it only the m half who plays???

Thanks for educating me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met couples, singles and groups of all combinations.

And apart from a couple of meets where the male half of the couple was a pure voyeur - everybody has played!

Down to the individuals concerned I guess but I'd be surprised in an FFM situation if all didn't get involved in some shape or form!

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On my old single profile, I met mostly couples, some liked to watch completely, some liked to join in a bit and others it was a threesome from start to finish.

Everyone has a different desire.

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By *inge61Couple
over a year ago

n/wales

If we both not involved we don't play none of this does your hubby watch or join in its a three some and all play or none

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By *4FantasyCouple
over a year ago

Spalding

We both play..we are in it together and if one didn't want to play we just wouldn't.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Both play, A is straight and the other guy normally is too so lucky me gets a lot of attention. Either guy might take a short break but even then there's normally contact of some sort.

How others play is entirely up to them though and there is no "normally" if you're going into an unfamiliar situation ask or set up ground rules.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haven't a clue about this so please dont take offence from my ignorance.

When a guy meets a m/f couple, I have been told by lots on here, that its the f half only who actually plays. So my question is, when a girl meets a m/f couple is it only the m half who plays???

Thanks for educating me "

When we have an extra guy join us, as I don't want to see guys with guys, the guy will only play with me, but both guys will play with me together...

If we play with a woman.. we both play but I do sometimes love to sit back and just watch..

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

we both play... Master is straight but for me would be a waste if he just watched

If it's a FMF then try keeping me away lol

Ruby x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

forgiven for the ignorance OP lol..it also depends on the sexuality of the participants, the female partner may want a bit of tasty fanny too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Every 'single, straight guy' I have chatted to about his meeting straight couples, which is quite a few as I'm curious as to the dynamics, have all said only they played with the female. The husband usually left them to it and watched telly! occasionally the hubby watched or took pictures but never got involved to make it a threesome. Most couples going by the replies say their meet with a single was a threesum. Not asking what might/ could happen in this scenario but what did happen on an actual meet you have had, just the dynamics. Thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every 'single, straight guy' I have chatted to about his meeting straight couples, which is quite a few as I'm curious as to the dynamics, have all said only they played with the female. The husband usually left them to it and watched telly! occasionally the hubby watched or took pictures but never got involved to make it a threesome. Most couples going by the replies say their meet with a single was a threesum. Not asking what might/ could happen in this scenario but what did happen on an actual meet you have had, just the dynamics. Thanks. "

its been rare for me to meet non playing male halves..and at least if they participate they can stop from being annoying directors lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we play as a couple and have a guy/woman round then its a 3sum and we all play, would t like anyone feeling left out.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Every 'single, straight guy' I have chatted to about his meeting straight couples, which is quite a few as I'm curious as to the dynamics, have all said only they played with the female. The husband usually left them to it and watched telly! occasionally the hubby watched or took pictures but never got involved to make it a threesome. Most couples going by the replies say their meet with a single was a threesum. Not asking what might/ could happen in this scenario but what did happen on an actual meet you have had, just the dynamics. Thanks. "

the two men pay all their attention to me its that simple. Going into detail or dynamics isn't something I am prepared to do but it honestly is as simple as that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To op just try it....and enjoy it...what happens with me, may not happen with you.. for me it's two guys and myself having lots of fun.. maybe dp, maybe spit roast.. maybe one licking me the other letting me suck his cock. Or both in my mouth. So many choices..

Cali

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"To op just try it....and enjoy it...what happens with me, may not happen with you.. for me it's two guys and myself having lots of fun.. maybe dp, maybe spit roast.. maybe one licking me the other letting me suck his cock. Or both in my mouth. So many choices..

Cali"

all of the above, some of the above or none of the above may apply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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all of the above, some of the above or none of the above may apply "

Or many things I haven't mentioned that's part of the fun... I personally have a scenario in my head that hasn't happened yet but mmm.. hopefully it will x

To be honest just let your imagination run wild.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"

all of the above, some of the above or none of the above may apply

Or many things I haven't mentioned that's part of the fun... I personally have a scenario in my head that hasn't happened yet but mmm.. hopefully it will x

To be honest just let your imagination run wild. "

I agree. What works for us might not work for you, discuss and agree beforehand and if you fancy changing something while you're playing or you don't like whats happening say so

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

I used to visit a couple many years ago (in my single days) and Me and Mrs used to be bang at it on the living room couch or floor while Mr just sat on a chair and watched TV. Only occasionally asking her (and sometimes me) if everything was OK.

He always got me a beer from the kitchen when we'd finished though

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

As a single I (Steve) have played with a couple where the guy just watched but more often all three of us played. As a couple we have played with couples where the guy just watched but again it's a rarity.

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

I like to watch and take photos or film wife with guys. I do get involved with wife while he is pleasuring her after he has ducked. Her oznce I normally have fun with wife while the guy takes a break then we play it by ear off what she would like after .the main thing is to make sure she thoroughly enjoys herself .luckily I have found 3 guys that we can call on if we don't find right guy at club

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By *inful_coupleCouple
over a year ago

Frimley

When we have a girl on the go, we both do everything we can with her Bothof us play. When we have a guy involved, Perrie gets two guys attending to her.

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

If we let a single man join in then wiggles gets alot of attention as she simply loves a good roast, if it's a single lady, then we both tend to play with her as wiggles is also bi, but if the girl isn't bi, then Grumpy gets alot of attention

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I used to visit a couple many years ago (in my single days) and Me and Mrs used to be bang at it on the living room couch or floor while Mr just sat on a chair and watched TV. Only occasionally asking her (and sometimes me) if everything was OK.

He always got me a beer from the kitchen when we'd finished though "

This is what I have been told by the single men meeting couples over and over again... none of the male partners got involved with the playing, at most some might take pictures!

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Of course, there is no guarantee that what these guys told you was actually really what happened...perhaps it was the lady who read the paper while the fellas had themselves a ball!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I used to visit a couple many years ago (in my single days) and Me and Mrs used to be bang at it on the living room couch or floor while Mr just sat on a chair and watched TV. Only occasionally asking her (and sometimes me) if everything was OK.

He always got me a beer from the kitchen when we'd finished though

This is what I have been told by the single men meeting couples over and over again... none of the male partners got involved with the playing, at most some might take pictures!

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Not something we do.. yes Lee likes to watch.. but loves to join in too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Every 'single, straight guy' I have chatted to about his meeting straight couples, which is quite a few as I'm curious as to the dynamics, have all said only they played with the female. The husband usually left them to it and watched telly! occasionally the hubby watched or took pictures but never got involved to make it a threesome. Most couples going by the replies say their meet with a single was a threesum. Not asking what might/ could happen in this scenario but what did happen on an actual meet you have had, just the dynamics. Thanks.

the two men pay all their attention to me its that simple. Going into detail or dynamics isn't something I am prepared to do but it honestly is as simple as that."

No details of the actual play was asked for or expected, I was asking about the dynamics as in did all 3 or just 2 take part when a single meets a couple and is it the same for f/m singles. that's all

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Of course, there is no guarantee that what these guys told you was actually really what happened...perhaps it was the lady who read the paper while the fellas had themselves a ball! "

Very good point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every 'single, straight guy' I have chatted to about his meeting straight couples, which is quite a few as I'm curious as to the dynamics, have all said only they played with the female. The husband usually left them to it and watched telly! occasionally the hubby watched or took pictures but never got involved to make it a threesome. Most couples going by the replies say their meet with a single was a threesum. Not asking what might/ could happen in this scenario but what did happen on an actual meet you have had, just the dynamics. Thanks.

its been rare for me to meet non playing male halves..and at least if they participate they can stop from being annoying directors lol"

Annoying directors NICE.

They have invited you into their bed, I'm sure that gives him a say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we play mmf I like to watch Ali have fun, saying that I am nearly always involved, normally a bit of spit roasting or even DP, but I do like to watch and video it for us to watch later, if it's mff I normally let them get on with it then join in later, not sure many men would be able to just sit and watch the whole thing, each to their own.

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By *irtyAndCh33kyCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

We are both bi so when meeting bi couples and bi fems everyone can join in and have fun

Mrs Dirty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every 'single, straight guy' I have chatted to about his meeting straight couples, which is quite a few as I'm curious as to the dynamics, have all said only they played with the female. The husband usually left them to it and watched telly! occasionally the hubby watched or took pictures but never got involved to make it a threesome. Most couples going by the replies say their meet with a single was a threesum. Not asking what might/ could happen in this scenario but what did happen on an actual meet you have had, just the dynamics. Thanks.

its been rare for me to meet non playing male halves..and at least if they participate they can stop from being annoying directors lol

Annoying directors NICE.

They have invited you into their bed, I'm sure that gives him a say."

invited me to their bed?-how do u know that?

Annoying? fucking YES, ask many of the women on the site who hate having to act like a performing seal..I think I'm in my right mind to be viewed as more than some plaything told what n when to do...even if Iam a single man!

thats how I work and its working for me, for those who either enjoy being told what to do,or those who jump through hoops just to get the shag...good on them...

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By *eonlylive1seCouple
over a year ago

Atherstone


"If we let a single man join in then wiggles gets alot of attention as she simply loves a good roast, if it's a single lady, then we both tend to play with her as wiggles is also bi, but if the girl isn't bi, then Grumpy gets alot of attention

"

Thats pretty much the same as us, we quite often invite single guys ( not found a single girl yet ) and all three of us play together Mrs W loves a good roast and DP . Thats what we'll be enjoying this Friday

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By *zanyCouple
over a year ago

truro

One extra guy is always usefull. I prefer three guys to two girls. All play together.

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By *ree8iveMan
over a year ago

CORNWALL

I have two cpls as good FWB and its different with each. One cpl, the guy mostly leaves me and his very good .lady to play, popping in occasionally for

a look or solo play and we will all chat together post play on the bed.

The lady of my other friends loves lots of attention, so its all hands on deck! I'm a straight guy, but at ease in close proximity to another naked guy (you have to be comfortable about this when trying a dp or dv!), so she gets lots of attention and us guys sort of work as a team! (hmmm, doesn't sound very erotic, but damn, its good fun!).

Like a visit to the sweetshop...sometimes you fancy toffee, sometimes chocolate, but always

delicious!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I think the point is that the only rules are the ones you agree between yourselves, what's good for other people might not be good for you. This is sex as long as its safe, legal and consensual there is no one correct way of doing it.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

As I'm bi, I usually play with the guy as well as the lady, although I've often played straight where I don't touch the guy at all and so the lady gets two guys to pleasure her. I've also been invited just to watch.

It's all variable and fun which is how recreational sex should be.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Sometimes Mr B will just watch when we have a single guy join us (but doesn't direct any of the action!) and not join in at all.

Sometimes he will watch for a while and then join in. Other times it will be a mmf from start to finish with both men pleasuring me.

We don't have any hard and set rules...

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