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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

are looks a big deal because I've find on here that looks are not important,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whats the difference between on here and real life?

My standards are the same regardless and I have to fancy who I play with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There has to be a physical attraction, although personality is more important to me, I can't fuck someone if I find them repulsive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whats the difference between on here and real life?

My standards are the same regardless and I have to fancy who I play with "

Agreed!

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By *hmed7894Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Whats the difference between on here and real life?

My standards are the same regardless and I have to fancy who I play with "

100% in agreement with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There has to be a physical attraction, although personality is more important to me, I can't fuck someone if I find them repulsive "

Completely agree! Whilst I need some form of physical attraction, it is amazing what affect a great personality can have xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

looks are the way in, personality seals the deal ...its the way of the world

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

It depends for me. If I'm going dogging and some chap who I wouldn't be massively turned on by asks if they can come, I would probably say yes. As it is dark and probably 10 minutes of sex, with no conversation before I find another person to play with.

However, if I'm going clubbing with someone, then there does definitely need to be an attraction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have to feel attracted to people we are going to meet... So yes looks are important. Upon saying that, what we find attractive can vary greatly to what others find attractive.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It doesn't mean because ur gd looking ur gonna get a shag on here lol

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By *ittlemisspinkWoman
over a year ago

manchester

Looks r a big deal 2 me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Everyone got there own taste,

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish


"are looks a big deal because I've find on here that looks are not important,"
Do hope the lady you met reads this

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I like a women to have a gd sense ov humour always works for me,with decent looks too,she doesn't have to look like a model lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"are looks a big deal because I've find on here that looks are not important, Do hope the lady you met reads this "
haha I'm just asking people wot they think,lol

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

There's got to be an attraction but looks and no personality don't cut it either!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but some have more beholders than others.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There's got to be an attraction but looks and no personality don't cut it either!!"
I agree,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but some have more beholders than others."

Beauty is in the eye of the beerholder too sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A great personality can make a person more attractive xx

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By *ittlemisspinkWoman
over a year ago

manchester

I couldn't get with some 1 I'm not attracted 2 if thay have a good personality it's the friend zone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attraction is so complex and individual I really don't think you can generalize...it's different every single time...somebody may be really good looking and have a great personality but if they had really bad teeth or body odour or something else that would mean I couldn't bring myself to actually do the dirty with, then I wouldn't...it really can be that shallow but it's important on some level...and i'm here ultimately for my own enjoyment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But seriously attraction is a combination of good looks, intelligence and personality, and ideally its best to have all three.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course it matters what people look like!

Just because it may be a swingers site doesn't mean people go around shagging anything with a cock / ass / fanny

Being on a website doesn't make people any easier / lower standards than in reality lol

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"A great personality can make a person more attractive xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

looks arent important to some people, or they maybe sometimes and not others.

being good looking isnt important to me because looks arent everything but i prefer to meet someone who i like the look of.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks are important to us ! We could never play with anyone we didn't fancy and find attractive !!

Not everyone's the same though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There has to be a physical attraction, although personality is more important to me, I can't fuck someone if I find them repulsive

Completely agree! Whilst I need some form of physical attraction, it is amazing what affect a great personality can have xx"
this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

important enough for me to lose a meet tonight cos the female of the couple decided last minute to cancel on me.

for me its more about the connection, not that the physical side is not nice to have too, lol.

but i am short and skinny and too many men on here with 6 packs, oh and a car, lol

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh


"There has to be a physical attraction, although personality is more important to me, I can't fuck someone if I find them repulsive

Completely agree! Whilst I need some form of physical attraction, it is amazing what affect a great personality can have xx this"

+1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"important enough for me to lose a meet tonight cos the female of the couple decided last minute to cancel on me.

for me its more about the connection, not that the physical side is not nice to have too, lol.

but i am short and skinny and too many men on here with 6 packs, oh and a car, lol"

Short and skinny do ok, and can catch a train.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"important enough for me to lose a meet tonight cos the female of the couple decided last minute to cancel on me.

for me its more about the connection, not that the physical side is not nice to have too, lol.

but i am short and skinny and too many men on here with 6 packs, oh and a car, lol

Short and skinny do ok, and can catch a train."

if i had the spare cash, going through a rough patch financially. so stuck in a dead end town with no sex, arrrrgh lol

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Yes, for me looks are very important, and I don't mind saying I am a fussy biatch, however, if the personality isn't there as well? Then I don't care how good looking you are, it just aint going to happen!

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Yes looks are important, while we don't expect supermodels there does need to be an attraction.

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