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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do any ladies like rough sex and if so what turns you on about it ?

I was recently asked if I was into it by a girl I know and although we haven't done anything yet I'm a little concerned by just how rough she's talking about.

Would love some input from ladies that enjoy it and any tips would be greatly appreciated.

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"Do any ladies like rough sex and if so what turns you on about it ?

I was recently asked if I was into it by a girl I know and although we haven't done anything yet I'm a little concerned by just how rough she's talking about.

Would love some input from ladies that enjoy it and any tips would be greatly appreciated. "

Just a suggestion - perhaps you should ask HER how rough she likes it????

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By *all-Eddies QosCouple
over a year ago

wirral

Within reason.....

Not something you could do on a first meet though...need to have some level of trust

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone has a different idea of rough, for some its pinned down n fucked hard, others its more extreme and can involve bruises. I suggest you talk to her to see what she wants

I adore rough sex, but how rough depends on who its with and what mood i'm in.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do any ladies like rough sex and if so what turns you on about it ?

I was recently asked if I was into it by a girl I know and although we haven't done anything yet I'm a little concerned by just how rough she's talking about.

Would love some input from ladies that enjoy it and any tips would be greatly appreciated.

Just a suggestion - perhaps you should ask HER how rough she likes it????"

Yes I know what you mean but I think trying to discuss it with this particular lady would ruin the whole illusion of submissiveness. I have asked her what her release word would be and she told me instantly so in pretty sure she's game.

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By *antoplay1976Couple
over a year ago

Chico

If she has a safe word , she's probably game to go pretty far. If she trust you to tell you this she wants it to go that far with you. You are right about asking too many questions ruining it, but I would ask something about her limits. Ask her what's a deal breaker.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love rough sex but with a build up, I don't want a guy to just face fuck me and bend me over and bang away till they cum, which is what most men's idea of rough sex is, I like it as the grand finale to a good session

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If she has a safe word , she's probably game to go pretty far. If she trust you to tell you this she wants it to go that far with you. You are right about asking too many questions ruining it, but I would ask something about her limits. Ask her what's a deal breaker."

Well that's the thing I don't know her, I'm a plumber and did her a big favour when a pipe burst (didn't charge her because she was a mates friend sort of sketch, plus I liked her etc) but I get what you mean about asking for a deal breaker, I'll keep you guys posted on this one.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I love rough sex but with a build up, I don't want a guy to just face fuck me and bend me over and bang away till they cum, which is what most men's idea of rough sex is, I like it as the grand finale to a good session "

I agree totally, I love the build up to a good hard finish, I don't want to come from there feeling like I've degraded or abused someone !

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By *ts artMan
over a year ago

Londonderry

If she has a safe word you need to discuss that with her. Does it mean shes had some experience or that shes read some things.

Any sort of play in this area needs to have both parties singing from the same hymn sheet. Each need to know levels and limits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is lots to be discussed. Communication is something I find really important. Especially her boundaries and what your comfortable with too. Good Luck

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By *antoplay1976Couple
over a year ago

Chico


"If she has a safe word , she's probably game to go pretty far. If she trust you to tell you this she wants it to go that far with you. You are right about asking too many questions ruining it, but I would ask something about her limits. Ask her what's a deal breaker.

Well that's the thing I don't know her, I'm a plumber and did her a big favour when a pipe burst (didn't charge her because she was a mates friend sort of sketch, plus I liked her etc) but I get what you mean about asking for a deal breaker, I'll keep you guys posted on this one. "

You know how you just "know" if someone is worth your trust?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If she has a safe word , she's probably game to go pretty far. If she trust you to tell you this she wants it to go that far with you. You are right about asking too many questions ruining it, but I would ask something about her limits. Ask her what's a deal breaker.

Well that's the thing I don't know her, I'm a plumber and did her a big favour when a pipe burst (didn't charge her because she was a mates friend sort of sketch, plus I liked her etc) but I get what you mean about asking for a deal breaker, I'll keep you guys posted on this one.

You know how you just "know" if someone is worth your trust?"

Yeah I get that a lot, apparently I've got one of those faces people trust. Not that I ever give people a reason not to ! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had an ex who loved rough sex.....and I mean rough...

She wanted me to play a 'kidnap' senareo...where she did not know when or where it would happen....but when I was grabbing her I used a 'codeword' so she knew it was me

It was suprisingly sexy....we ended up doing it several times....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't want to discuss my personal limits but.. please guys be careful playing this way...

It's not just about how much she trusts you... But do you trust her... It's not unheard of for a guy to find himself up on charges after rough play. Also even fully consenting, if someone reports it... Then the guy can be in trouble.

It's rare .. but needs mentioning. So stay safe.

Personally it's not something I'd recommend outside of a relationship.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't want to discuss my personal limits but.. please guys be careful playing this way...

It's not just about how much she trusts you... But do you trust her... It's not unheard of for a guy to find himself up on charges after rough play. Also even fully consenting, if someone reports it... Then the guy can be in trouble.

It's rare .. but needs mentioning. So stay safe.

Personally it's not something I'd recommend outside of a relationship.

"

Exactly the sort of response I was looking for. I hadn't even considered that to be honest and your totally right. I text her today asking for a bit of detail to what her deal breakers etc were and she's promised a reply tonight so we'll see what she says.

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By *irtyslutgirlWoman
over a year ago

Warwickshire


"I love rough sex but with a build up, I don't want a guy to just face fuck me and bend me over and bang away till they cum, which is what most men's idea of rough sex is, I like it as the grand finale to a good session "

yes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love rough sex but only with Ian.

I think all you can do is communicate with her and make sure you both set limits so to speak.

Above be all be safe , think first fuck later. Good luck and enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy it but within context. Don't like hammering from start to finish! Infact, that's the fastest way to turn me off. I like slow and sensual interspersed with some rough sex and then usually a bit of kinky fuckery and then maybe some more slow and sensual after

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By *otwifeguyMan
over a year ago

Exeter

I play with a married couple who love role play and video . They asked me to do a masked Burglar role play . she knew which day I was coming but not when . I overpowered her , tied her up and then rough fucked her . I made it as realistic as possible , but the key here is we all discussed the boundaries before the event . I knew exactly how far I could and couldn't go . It ended up being an incredibly horny experience for all and the video tape is awesome . Trust , respect and intelligence are all that is required for most fantasies

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